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Went last night to monthly orgy night at Centurian sauna Auckland. Wow! When I arrived about 830pm the lockers had already all gone and my clothes were stored in a bag behind desk. More than 130 guys I heard. Mostly upstairs where the lights are off, doors locked open. Guys naked as only tiny towels issued. I’m not usually a fan of Centurian as it’s expensive and many of the young guys are stand-offish but last night’s event was pretty hot and sweaty. I didn’t get fucked as much as I wanted, two or three times and no loads, but I did fuck other guys 6 or 7 times and let a big load in the last one. All my sex was bareback and I only saw one guy making a point of using a condom amongst the dozens of fucking guys I saw. The orgy night is held on the first Thursday of each month from 7 pm. The big crowd may have been because it is the first since lockdown (or maybe the second as the sauna has been open since late May). I hope to be back next month.

Joined a recently formed local BB party network and last night had first chance to attend one of their events. Rather than the usual orgy (which I’m looking forward to) it was a was for tops only as a cute Asian guy had hired a hotel room and was blindfolded with his ass in the air ready to be bred by all comers. I was first there and so stripped down and was rimming and fucking the guy doggy when the next two guys arrived. I carried on for 10 minutes or so but it felt rude to leave the others standing around twiddling their thumbs so I rolled off to let another guy have a go. The next guy was really tall and had a beautiful long and thick uncut cock. I enjoyed watching him fuck and rim but he was at it for a very long time which is a bit of a problem when there’s only one bottom (he insisted there be no other bottoms) and a train line. It was a shame that we couldn’t make much noise as we could hear children screaming and other guests in the corridors. He paused for a while and let two other guys fuck and they were both pretty quick. Then it was my turn again and I found it hot that the hole now had some loads in it, and despite the pounding of the second guy’s big tool his ass was still pretty tight. I enjoyed the other guys watching and soon I pushed a load in him. About 10 guys registered but only 4 tops showed which was a shame but it’s a fairly new group and I suppose it takes a while for word to get around.

I had my first hookup after lockdown a few days ago connecting on twitter. Later the same day I went to a bathhouse shortly after 7pm when it opened. I was vacationing out of town and this was a gay sauna I’d not been to before in a small rural city. Although relatively small it had all the facilities: sauna, steam room, maze, cubicles, rooms, gloryholes, video room and sling. After showering I headed for the dark room and before long was being groped. I moved a little to a side room in the dark area and found a sling which I climbed into. However, some guys can’t take a hint and more groping and no fucking ensued. So I headed out to one of the rooms and laid on my back with the door open. Before long a gorgeous young Indian guy came past, paused and headed off but ducked into the room on his next circuit. He had a lovely large but soft cock which I started sucking and got semi-hard before he made it clear he wanted me to fuck him which I duly did. Regrettably he had me wear a rubber and couldn’t be persuaded otherwise. A bit more cruising and I found a guy face down on a bed so I started fucking him bareback.We moved into the next room after a while to use the sling and I ended up giving him an anal orgasm. After that was a standing fuck in a corridor, raw. Highlight of the evening was back in the room when a guy started expertly fondling my cock, once that progressed to my asshole and some lube was added, I switched off my back and knelt on the bed ass arched to leave no doubt what I wanted. He turned out to have a large cock and was an expert in using it, adopting some unusual but stimulating rhythms. He came in me but unfortunately had used a condom, as seemed fairly typical in this rural area. Finally back in the sling, this time with me getting pounded, albeit by a fairly short cock. A lot of effort put in by the guy but he didn’t Cunard I didn’t get much from it either.

@traveller_gay had my first twitter hookup a few days back. In the last few weeks I had made an effort to try to follow on twitter some of the more explicit gay guys’ accounts in my home town. Then one morning saw a post from a guy saying he was hosting all that day and night and was calling for bottoms to hit him up. I responded, a few DMs and pic exchange later, and that same morning I was at his 10th floor apartment being pounded and we both have videos on our twitter accounts to immortalise the event.

Got bred for the first time since 14 March (yes, I remember the date) on Tuesday, so about 3 months without feeling a cock in me. Covid-19 has been eliminated where I live and the final restrictions were lifted that day and the hookup was in celebration. I had been planning for this day and so had gotten a home HIV test the previous week and had been taking daily PrEP again for over 7 days. I hooked up on Twitter for the first time so I didn’t have the usual profile details you get on Grindr and so had limited data to go on but had seen several videos the guy had posted and he was keen to bareback me. As I was away from the city I had to drive 60 km for the hook up which is much further than I’d normally go but since my cock was driving me I had no choice. When I got to his apartment I was a little disappointed that his cock wasn’t bigger but I was just happy to be enthusiastically fucked by an enthusiastic young guy. He was keen on making videos so was happy to take a few for me on my phone. Gave me a good load. Later that day I headed off to the bathhouse, bathhouses generally having reopened at least a week earlier.

Visiting outdoor sex places particularly Gran Canaria Fickstutenmarkt both top and bottom (two on my list) Bottoming in DP topping a guy in blindfolded anonymous hotel hookup and hosting such a scene with multiple guys coming and going (two on my list) Going on a gay cruise ship Taking a tour of many cities pride festivals (with sex at each, of course)

Visited the website - great job! how did the party on 28 May go? Good I hope, love to hear some details.

After exactly two months off PrEP, and celibate the whole time, I’ve restarted taking the daily pill. The local Aids Foundation kindly couriered me a free home HIV test kit so I could follow the proper protocol and unsurprisingly I was negative. Community transmission of Covid-19 has been eliminated where I live and both local gay saunas and my favourite cruise club have reopened although I haven’t yet been partly because I need to take PrEP for 7 days to get back to full protective strength. My partner wants me to wait until the final relaxation of controls before fucking around, which is probably less than 2 weeks away, so I can wait to preserve domestic harmony. Then I have some catching up to do ...

Good on yer. Unfortunately my partner won’t let me fuck around until Alert Level 1 and he can sniff sex on me from 100 m. So I hope you’ll have a repeat later!

So sad to see it close. Only discovered it for myself late last year and cursed all my prior wasted visits to Melbourne which hadn’t included Club 80. Visited Nud night - wow what a place, up there with Berlin’s Lab.oratory in my book. Also visited on a regular night, and while not as good as Nud night, took enough loads to make it a memorable night.

I should be in a pretty good position to fuck around, since I live the virus has been well controlled and all but eliminated, and yet I’m not yet getting any. The reasons are primarily ethical so I appreciate this thread. While the local cruise club where I usually give and take most loads hasn’t yet reopened (It couldn’t ever meet distancing requirements so will need to wait for those to be lifted) I could easily hook up on BBRTS or Grindr for while they were quiet on lockdown they’re busy again now - and I grew a beard on lockdown, my main accomplishment, so can try Scruff. My problem is my partner and this raises ethical as well as practical issues. He’s much older than me, not in good health and smoked most of his life so he’s one of the vulnerable groups. He’s said he’s scared of dying of this thing. He’s also become an armchair expert highlighting every risk - he’s pointedly mentioned risk of transmission in semen to me and my counter about the study being based on small samples and possibly non-infective remnants is met by his unearthing of additional studies. His latest casual comment to me is that it can be transmitted in sweat. I’m sceptical of the significance of a lot of this in the context of a country where the virus is under control and nearly eliminated in contrast to a place with rampant community transmission. So my first ethical issue is that I have to take into account his heath. The second relates to reconciling our vastly divergent perceptions of risk. Ethically it is problematic to simply disregard his opinions and sneak out and fuck around. That would be disrespectful and remove agency from him since I return to the house and in his mind put him at mortal danger. But if I simply accept his world view it removes agency from me. The only way I can see of seeking to resolve the issue is to talk the matter through and to seek agreement on when and how I get back to fucking around. Unfortunately as something of an introvert I am doubtful of my skills to navigate this successfully. I also fear he will want me to stay celibate until a vaccine appears! The next set of ethical issues are connected to my partner. He won’t let me host guys at home. That’s reasonable but it does mean that hygiene is not entirely in my hands but is dependent on a third party (e.g. showering, disinfecting surfaces or things). There’s also the other sex partner. I don’t have any stable fuck buddies (well I have one in another country, but that doesn’t help here). If I agree some boundaries with my partner (eg to shower, or use a mask, or select someone who is careful) I have to involve a third party in this. I suspect some guys will see my partner’s worries over risks as over the top and reject my hook up requests. That’s probably more a practical rather than an ethical issue but the ethical approach I think will be to be open at the outset and set some ground rules. I’m not actually a paragon of virtue. Sneaking around and fucking in what I consider a responsible and safe way is an option (eg no oral, doggy style, hand washing, masked). Unfortunately my partner has a keen sense of smell since he stopped smoking. In January he was away for the weekend and for the first and only time I picked up a hookup in my car, let him fuck me at home and drove him back to the train station. The following day my partner returned and confronted me about bringing someone home saying he could smell that I’d had someone there (it was hot and the young guy was in a tank top and a bit sweaty). He even shampooed the car seats, which may be down to the load starting to leak from me as I drove the guy back! my final ethical decision, if you can call it that, concerns condoms. In deference to my partner I think I might consider asking guys to use them if I’m bottoming. Probably won’t bother if I’m topping. I’m not sure on this one and will wait for what the best medical advice is.

A few cosmopolitan encounters I remember. With an airline gate staffer at Lima airport in the handicapped toilet. in some bushes at Berlin’s Tiergarten. Dunes at Lisbon’s beach 19. Took a hookup back to fuck in a Japanese-style capsule hotel in Sydney with people in pods a few feet below and beside us.

I’ve not had much luck with wearing a jockstrap in cruise clubs or saunas and have usually removed it after a while. So my experience seems different from everyone else who has replied. Possibly I’m not doing it right. It might also be because I’m versatile and find guys grabbing my cock and I feel obliged to fuck them (it’s only polite to do so).

It can be slightly distracting, in a charming way, when a dog or cat jumps up on the bed or wanders around in the background.

I have no preference, either is good. Where I am most guys are uncut so I do especially enjoy the variety when an occasional circumcised guy happens along or when I’m travelling.

Where I am it’s too early to tell if particular venues will close permanently but I share your concern. The saunas and cruise clubs were already in a bit of a downward spiral of lower turnout due to apps resulting in price rises which made it harder for many of us to afford going so often. Ten years ago my city of over 1 million had 5 saunas but now there are only two. I worry that soon there may be none.

That’s good to hear - make it affordable for more guys. When I was first on PrEP about 5 years ago I ordered supplies online and it was always generic (sourced from India I think). I can’t remember exact price but it was affordable, I think it was probably about US$100 for 3 months. Later I got onto a drugs trial which ran for 2 years and used Truvada, that was free. When the trial ended I filled the prescription locally as PrEP has been approved for the public health system in my country by then. As I fulfilled certain criteria as high risk (barebacker, bottom, previous STIs) the drug is supplied to me free. For a while I was prescribed Truvada but that changed after a couple of months to generic, which it has been for last 2 years or so. So other than the first year when I paid to buy generic PrEP online I’ve not paid anything for it for 4 years, sometimes Truvada and sometimes generic. I’ve never noticed any difference and haven’t altered my barebacking due to cost or drug type- I’ve tried to take as many loads in all permutations.

I’ve stopped hooking up or 6 weeks now and come off PrEP. I live with my partner (though we’ve not had sex for over 10 years) and he followed all the news sites and well before the lockdown he knew it was going to be bad. He picked a big argument with me when the first social distancing measures started saying I’d have to stop fucking around as I was putting him at risk. He reckoned that at his age (older than me) and having smoked most his life he was at high risk. So I stopped. Before the argument I had vague ideas of my own to go cruising one last time before lockdown and then sneak out for some one-on-ones I deemed safe (I even bought a box of condoms for first time in years as I imagined guys would ask for them) but didn’t do any of that after the argument and my partner’s pleas. I’m not sure how I’d have acted if we hadn’t had the argument or I lived alone but the social pressure made me a good boy anyway. Now I’m faced with a dilemma as we start to move out of lockdown. I haven’t sought my partner’s “permission” to fuck around before and we are probably going to have an awkward conversation some time, I can wait till it’s safer but am reluctant to leave it until a vaccine appears as lack of sex for a year or two will leave a big void in my life.

Nice idea. One problem where I live is that the Sexual health clinics are closed in lockdown and, while you can get tested at your your doctor or a lab, routine testing for some STIs is not available only testing when you’re symptomatic. I think that is because the authorities are keeping Lab capacity for Covid-19 testing and repurposing the throat swab test kits. As an aside it means that the requirements for getting PrEP prescriptions refilled have been relaxed requiring only blood tests for HIV and syphillis and not gonorrhoea and chlamydia. So on balance because of the need for reprioritising Lab resources it may not be quite as positive for reducing STIs as it might have been although the reduced amount of fucking around will have slowed transmission for the time being.

My foreskin fully retracts when I get hard so I don’t need to specifically pull it back to fuck. In the rare case that I’m only partly retracted (e.g. part way through sex I stopped to do something and went partly soft) the foreskin would be pushed back as soon as I entered an asshole. I have noticed a few guys I’ve sucked whose foreskins haven’t retracted, or haven’t retracted fully, when they’re hard - I’ve usually rolled the skin back as I prefer the feel of an exposed head while I’m sucking and if I can’t get the skin back (if it’s too tight) I usually stop sucking, not sure why but am a bit squeamish. In terms of being fucked I wouldn’t know what happens to the other guy’s foreskin.

I find taking lots of pictures helps since once you get a chance to check you may find many are out of focus due to movement, shaking hands or trying to hold the phone at weird angles.

I use an app called ‘Kountr’ which allows both to create categories of your own choosing (e.g. how often you top/bottom/breed etc.) and also what they call ‘dailies’ where you can mark days that meet some criteria (e.g. fucked). I paid a couple of extra bucks to have unlimited categories and password protection (against all prying eyes - including my partner’s!)

Over the last year I’ve tried expanding my sexual experiences with fisting someone and also having an anonymous hotel hookup blindfolded. My fantasy is next to try double-penetration. I don’t get a lot of opportunities for threesomes and was disappointed about 6 months ago when I ended up in a threesome but the host turned down the idea of DP as he didn’t thing the other guy would go for it. I’ve looked at videos and think I understand the basics: one top lies on his back and the bottom (me, hopefully) sits on his cock facing him (I think that’s called cowboy). Probably on the edge of a low bed or something similar. The other guy enters from behind and with some effort and lube pushes in above the cock already in the ass. In porn this is often achieved with little fuss in about 30 seconds but I suspect it could be technically quite trick. I’d be interested to hear how hard it is from guys who have done it top or bottom. Are there any tips? Do the tops need extra long cocks to be successful? Does the first top need to stay still or do both thrust? Can any experienced bottom do it or only, say, those used to fisting? I’d also like to hear what it’s like as either of the tops or the bottom. It looks really hot, does it feel extra good? Or is its main attraction the sense of technical accomplishment rather than feeling great?

Maybe the code needs to be brought into the 21st Century. Instead of hankies, phone covers perhaps? Or to be completely up to date, face masks.

Well my total hasn’t moved in 5 weeks and I can’t see any prospect of moment for a while. My total in early March wasn’t very impressive anyway. My ass is going to be pretty tight for the next guy to top me.