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On 12/2/2018 at 8:43 PM, BBBoyfromTN said:

To me it's never been the death sentence it was for guys who came up in the 80's and 90's. I can't even pretend to know what that was like.

Here's an example of what life was like then:

In the mid-90s, my supervisor, R, had progressed from being HIV+ to having full-blown AIDS. At some point in 1994 or '95, his t-cell count went to zero. You didn't have to be a rocket scientist to know that his time was running out. The Monday after Thanksgiving 1995, his mother called me, asking if I had seen R or heard from him that day. When I  said I hadn't, she asked me to go to R's apartment and check on him. A co-worker and I went to his apartment; the maintenance man let us in. R was on the bathroom floor, having died sometime Thanksgiving weekend. Every Thanksgiving I say a prayer and a toast in his memory.

“Because if people are given too many variables, it becomes too difficult to make a decision.

“Guys who stare at porn and apps constantly, flicking from image to image and profile to profile are deluged with options, and can't possibly reflect on what they really find attractive, let alone what they really want in a partner.”

It’s called the “paradox of choice.” https://www.businessinsider.com/how-the-paradox-of-choice-could-explain-why-youre-still-single-2018-2 There’s a bit of academic controversy over the theory (no surprise there), but the concept describes what we encounter all too frequently.

Has anyone noticed that the OP hasn’t been online here (at least under that screen name) since 2014....?

On 11/1/2014 at 11:09 AM, scotsfan71 said:

I wish just ONCE that one of my cable men had done this to me.

The cable companies should include this as a promotional offer, considering the prices they charge.

14 hours ago, FFun2BB said:

 

#fuckboy20 .... this remark is so typical ffor the younger guys, who think all fun and all rights belong to the younger and not to the older ... 

BUT age has many advantages ... it brings the experience and knowledge... you will learn that people will talk about you for many reasons - jealousy, spite or hatred ... whatever it is - IGNORE ... and be yourself!!!

ask yourself why you enjoy so many more mature Tops/Doms THEY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT AND THEY GO FOR IT ... no messing about THEY TAKE WHAT THEY WANT and THEY DONT CARE! 

...

ENJOY LIFE & SEX .... don't allow others to tell you what you should and shouldn't do ... 

 

Age, assuming one was alert and smart enough to pay attention, does bring experience and knowledge. It often falls in the category of "if I knew then what I know now...." [By the way, Fuckboy20, according to his profile, hasn't been online for over 2 years. But your advice and observations are wise and well put.] 

17 hours ago, rawloadstaken said:

But I cannot understand why someone would say "I want to be whored out" without understanding what it means and making sure they're up to it.

I often think of it in terms of one's eyes being bigger than one's ass. It's the same impulse (definitely not a rational thought process) that would lead one to post Craigslist ads in search of 8 inches or more, despite never having taken a dick of any size in his ass. Captured by the fantasy of taking 8 inches, one can forget that the paper in the printer sitting near him is 8½ inches wide by 11 inches long, a rather foolish oversight. Einstein's theories of relativity didn't set out special rules for penis size.

15 hours ago, Read1 said:

Guys have told me some other advice too - "Don't mix smelling poppers and Cialis/Viagra!".

There's a thread in the "Sex with 'Enhancements'" section that talks about this: "Coke + poppers + 1/4 Viagra = bad combo?" (started June 7) (there might be others, but this is the one that I recalled). The general idea is that Viagra/Cialis and poppers can cause a sudden drop in blood pressure, causing the user to pass out. 

On 9/5/2018 at 4:24 PM, bbcunthole said:

what are the side effects if i get them ? if it just means it hurts more when im being fucked i think id kinda like that . lol

Speaking from all too recent experience, the pain associated with hemorrhoids is more than just a little discomfort. During the last bout, it felt as if someone was trying to insert a very hot piece of metal in me. Only after 10 days of prescription strength steroid suppositories (an experience in torture all by itself) did the inflammation go down enough for me to have the things banded. (My gastroenterologist is my favorite doctor.) If you think you can handle the pain, you are a far better man than I, and I wish you all the best. 

This story, for me, is about far more than a series of sexual encounters. Certainly, the sex is hot, and better yet, those scenes are really well written (narrating sexual action is not an easy task). But there's a sensuality and tenderness between Ken and the narrator that takes the story beyond mere bug-chasing porn. Instead of being a total pariah, Ken is humanized by the narrator's curiosity about Ken's sexual exploits -- that the narrator has his own purpose in eliciting details of Ken's sex life doesn't make his interest less genuine or impair our ability to see Ken as a man, more than a public health statistic or stack of medical records. In turn, the narrator's actions regarding his own health, likely incomprehensible to many, become at least somewhat easier for an onlooker to accept because the narrator has shown, through his acceptance of Ken, that he himself need not become a complete outcast. And Spermpig reminds us that though the ICD code of everyone who's HIV+ is the same, we each reached that point by our own separate and distinct paths.

it makes you well read. Punishment? You find an otherwise hoT-to-troT Top, but he doesn't do any of the scenes that you've read about.

1 hour ago, PhoenixGeoff said:

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My way of resolving the dilemma would be to tell your friend a very hot story about him loading up your ass with an emphasis on the stealth nature and how much you got off on it.  Make sure you include the part about pretending to use a condom and all that.  That ought to give him sufficient warning.  Meanwhile, all you're doing is telling a very hot story about what an awesome fuck the top guy is.

Better yet perhaps is to say you had been reading the stories on this site. There are plenty of stealth breeding stories here; browse and pick 2 or 3 that really get you hot. That will add an air of verisimilitude to your own words. 

And for whatever it's worth, I see no reason to advise friend B of friend A's penchant for stealth activity -- as long as to the best of your knowledge, Friend A has no STIs.

16 hours ago, ErosWired said:

With a freezer and a bit of determination, you can make it yourself, you know...

It would hardly send a frisson of excitement through one's friends if one said he made it himself. Besides, one gets to sample the artisanal efforts of others. 

6 hours ago, rawloadstaken said:

So I'm sitting here, cum leaking out of my ass, the taste of cock on my lips, and anticipating the next time my top and I can connect.

Because that man can throw a pretty good fuck.

Some days, life just turns out to be absolutely grand, doesn't it...?

Have you looked at the company's web site? Another idea is to look around at health food stores for a similar item or just the basic ingredients which don't appear to be esoteric or complicated.

On 7/13/2018 at 2:11 AM, nycnastyboy said:

Lucky boy.  I had teachers that I was horny for.  Wish one of them had broken me in,  poz or not. 

I had the worst crushes on my 9th grade math teacher and, two years later, on my 11th grade math teacher. Algebraic functions, indeed....!

60.... 

10 hours ago, Charlie31167 said:

Although I had completed my assignment beforehand I felt that like all good academics I had thoroughly checked all the information it contained. Like all good researchers I am aiming to continue my research next week at Joe's when he said we can start lesson two.

It's a very good thing that when I attended college, quill pens were still the rage and tincture of strychnine, tiresome to make, was the methamphetamine of the day.

On 5/26/2018 at 2:35 AM, rawloadstaken said:

I stuck my dick through and found out he was a world-class cocksucker

This is just about the moment you believe in God [or similar deity].

I was at both Hillside and The Woods about 9 to 10 years ago. Back then, it was as if Steamworks had been transplanted to northeast Pennsylvania. A practical note: wear comfortable hiking boots and bring the Deep Woods Off or Cutter BackwoodsInsect Repellent.

On 5/14/2018 at 3:01 PM, jayBB92 said:

In about a month, a friend is hosting a gangbang with me as the bottom. So incredibly excited to get loaded up at an event where my hole is the main attraction but still thought it'd be worth asking the question on here: does anybody have any tips I should bear in mind for before or during the event??

Look in the "Sex with 'Enhancements'" forum at the topic "Anon cum dumps and security" (started Dec. 16, 2017). There are lots of tips, suggestions, ideas, etc. in that topic that seem applicable to what you have in mind. Good luck and have fun...

Every time I think that the art of fiction writing is nearly dead, along comes an author giving us a top-notch story. A huge thanks for the time and effort you’ve already put into this.

I'll mention this because it seems to get little attention -- there is a risk of kidney damage, including kidney failure, from tenofovir, one of the constituent drugs of Truvada. My other half went on Truvada in early August 2012; he went into the hospital in mid-September 2012 with kidney failure and was in the hospital for 3 weeks. I agree that Truvada is useful for lots of guys, but learn the signs of kidney failure.

As if parts 1-4 weren't hot enough, part 5 just about melted the computer monitor. This story is just really fine writing -- a huge thanks for putting in the time and effort.

19 hours ago, drscorpio said:

Sounds like he earned his gas money. 

Hell, he might have earned a car ride to California... talk about a road trip. 

2 hours ago, PartyFFPig said:

I love the suggestions about trying it out at the baths first. 

If you're nervous about personal safety and making sure you're unharmed at the end of the night, having a buddy along can put  you at ease.  If you're at home, he could be in the living room while you're being fucked in the bedroom.  He could be in an adjoining hotel room with the communicating doors open between the two spaces.  Near enough to help if there's trouble, but out of the way and giving you and your anon top privacy to have a good time.  Especially if you're doing this in your own home, having someone else there is good to make sure your guests don't walk away with your stuff...

Whatever way you wind up doing it, I hope you have an awesome time!

There's a pretty good discussion of safety and security issues in the "Sex with "Enhancements'" forum; the topic is "Anon cum dumps and security," started on Dec. 16, 2017.