Nclchub
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I understand the hatred for condoms and personally haven't used them in years. Despite that I still keep some handy, partially out of habit. Maybe I'm in the minority but I like having them as an option that's never used. I find it hot when a guy ignores/refuses a condom. My last long term ex used to always have a drawer full of them by the bed and would take one out before sex. Not once did we end up using them but it was always hot to go through the motions of going from "we should use a condom" to "take my load". -
I've never turned someone down based on their appearance. If it's an anon/cruising situation then as long as I'm bred I'm happy. More often than not the less attractive tops have given me the most intense and satisfying fucks so there is no reason to be picky. Honestly the most attractive guy I had sex with was the worst fuck. He was completely silent the whole time and didn't even cum inside me. I ran into him again several months later and while he was flirty I had to turn him down
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It can be nice with the right person. Had an ex who liked to slap me whenever I stopped sucking him to take a breath. That said it was part of a negotiated scene I had consented to beforehand. If I don't know a slap could be coming I'm less of a fan. The pain isn't the issue but it really messes with my rhythm to be slapped across the face while a cock is in my mouth.
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cages/chastity device, Opinions and recommendations
Nclchub replied to Man4manplay's topic in General Discussion
A cock cage consists of 2 parts. The ring (which you push the testicles through) and the tube (which your cock goes in). Before you buy any chastity device make sure to measure your bits to see what sizes you need (too small can damage your genitals, too big makes the device useless). I used this guide and it worked fine: [think before following links] https://lockthecock.co.uk/blogs/chastity-fun/putting-on-and-wearing-cock-cage. In terms of material I find metal is the most secure/tight fit but is also the most expensive. Plastic/resin cages are good as they're not too uncomfortable and usually come with multiple rings so you can test different sizes and see what works best. Silicone cages also an option but i don't like them as i found the cage shifted a lot if worn for more than a couple hours. Of course, your mileage may vary If you've never done chastity play before don't rush to doing it full time. Start with wearing it for a few hours, then overnight, then 24 hours. As others have said it can feel uncomfortable at first when your dick tries to harden only to be stopped by the cage. Since most cocks get hard several times during the average sleep cycle you're going to have a rough couple nights sleep to start with. Even if you go into chastity long term be sure to take the cage off now and then for cleaning. If there's itching, swelling, pain, cuts or bruising stop using the cage. Good luck -
Lube up your cock before you put the condom on. That can help ease the sensation of the condom on your dick. It's also possible that he'll be more willing to go bare if you lose your erection while fucking him. Having a good fuck abruptly stop can be the push that convinces people to just ditch the condom (it's what got me to ditch condoms). Don't stealth him. As hot as that is in porn in practice it can get you in a lot of trouble and isn't worth the risk. Good luck
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For a long time i was of the opinion that any cock is fine as long as i get fucked. Over time I've grown to love the sensation of raw cock too much to give it up. It's not enough to fuck raw, i need cum dumped inside me. Hypothetically if someone tried to insist on condoms i wouldn't let them fuck me. Fortunately it hasn't been an issue so far as most guys either say nothing or insist on going raw.
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Hard to describe it as a lot depends on the skill of the guy doing the fucking. Some things are universal though. I love the feeling once the cock is all the way in and you feel your muscles struggling to adjust to the new fullness inside you. As he picks up speed, the sensation of your prostate being massaged is incredible. The best fucks i had i swear my whole body became hyper sensitive. Each thrust almost feels too much as the more he thrusts the more sensitive you become. Also love it if the top has me pinned down or restrained in some way. The restricted movement really forces you to pay attention to the moment. In an anon/group setting one of the advantages is once a top finishes and pulls out you become acutely aware of how empty your hole feels. If another top enters you immediately after the first one you get to experience your ass almost pulling the new cock inside you, eager for more. With bareback, you also have the advantage of feeling the cum inside you. You don't always feel them ejaculate (depends on if their cum drizzles out or shoots out) but you do feel the cum inside you. When a guy cums inside you it is warm and almost impossible to ignore. Ideally i like to plug my hole after sex and enjoy the sensation but it can also be hot to let it dribble down your leg.
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Very nice pics. I can't comment on the PA but nipple piercings are painful when they're done, though it's a quick procedure. I have sensitive nipples and they were mildly sore the day i got them done but that passed relatively quickly. Bear in mind that your piercer will tell you how to care for your piercings and you should follow their instructions. With that said, here's some thoughts that come to mind Maintenance while they are healing is pretty simple. I just shower as normal, maybe give them a salt water soak and/or spray them with saline if they're irritated (only once every few days). As long as you follow your piercers advice and dont touch them you should be fine. One thing to be aware of is nipple piercings can be easy to snag on things. I had a brief adjustment period for the first couple weeks as my earbud cables kept catching on my piercings. If you don't notice and pull the piercing too hard you're gonna feel a little pain and/or trigger some very light bleeding. Finally nipple piercings take a while to heal (several months). With lockdown ongoing now is probably a good time to get them done. My only regret with regards to nipple piercings is i wish i had got them done sooner. I hemmed and hawed for ages before i finally got them done. Good luck.
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Spot on. You're both young and even if he is open to a threeway/open relationship it can take a while to feel comfortable with exploring your sexual kinks and desires. For all i was curious it took me a little while to be comfortable exploring my own kinks. For now, it sounds like you're doing good. Keep having open conversations, remind him to speak up if he thinks you're moving too fast and focus on exploring kinks you're both comfortable with. Ask him if there's anything he wants to try. If he does agree to a threesome, make it clear to all parties that either of you can change your mind and call it off for whatever reason (maybe even agree on a safeword). Just knowing that is an option is often enough to ease any initial nervousness. Good luck.
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Any Hazards to mixing Poppers Together?
Nclchub replied to a topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Terrible plan. Did stupid shit as a teen and can promise you this will not go well. If you're that desperate just buy online. So many things can go wrong mixing poppers. Even if you stick with one brand any 2 bottles can have different ratios of their active ingredients. So what are the risks? For starters poppers are an irritant that cause burns if they stay on the skin too long so you run a serious risk of spilling them onto your skin and not noticing until you've given yourself a chemical peel. Worse, get some on your fingers, don't notice, rub your eyes and you're all set for an emergency visit to the ER. But let's assume you somehow transfer them without a hitch. Even in a best case scenario they'll have been exposed to open air for long enough that you're only gonna get a minor high followed by more intense versions of the most common side effects(Headache, nausea, blurred vision, arrhythmia etc.). However keep in mind there's no way of knowing how potent your new mixture is. So in addition to the above you also open yourself to a much higher risk of: -vomiting (personally had this one and it was the worst I have ever felt. Utterly ruined my mattress) -vertigo -temporary - permanent eye damage -a fucking heart attack -
Good start. Looking forward to seeing how this one develops!
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Holy shit that was good. Thanks for sharing this!
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Personally i would love to be videoed taking a poz load and totally understand where the bottom is coming from. However, as others have said, it's just too risky. Even if he consents, even If you have texts of him consenting, even if you never share the video online the reality of becoming poz could change everything for him and he could react vindictively. Pains me to say it but it just isn't worth the risk.
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Why have I become a cumdump?
Nclchub replied to Dumbsadcumholeuk's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
A lot of people have a sexual awakening where they embrace becoming more slutty. That said, this stood out to me: You clearly feel guilty for indulging this side of yourself and see it as an addiction (or that at the very least it could become one). Few things you should ask yourself: -is having safe sex one of the conditions of being in this open relationship? If so you need to consider whether it's a price your willing to pay to stay with this guy -Are you on Prep? If not seriously consider it. That alone could make you feel less guilty about taking raw loads -consider talking to a therapist. Just talking to a quallified third party can really help your head sort itself out (though make sure the therapist is lgbt friendly if you go this route) Good luck -
Question for people who've been to Cumunion
Nclchub replied to Nclchub's topic in General Discussion
Yeah that's understandable. Personally I've always wanted to go to a Cumunion event so I figured it was worth the risk. -
Question for people who've been to Cumunion
Nclchub replied to Nclchub's topic in General Discussion
So i just got back from Cumunion. Things started of pretty slow (i arrived early so my fault there). At first i was just getting comfortable, scouting the venue, making sure i knew where everything was and so on. Ended up chatting with someone at the hot tub. He was cool but had just came so no load at first. Since the few people I'd seen other than this guy were quiet i decided to just bend over a fuckbench and see what happened.within 30 seconds i had a cock in my hole and was bred. Because it was dark I have no idea who it was. Good start. From there the event was stop and start. However my patience paid of as i ended up getting loaded by a bunch of guys I'd seen in the porn cinema. The most notable were a hot tattooed guy and a guy I'd pegged as a sub who upon seeing my cummy hole added his load. I got so turned on I did something I haven't done in over a decade; I topped. I didn't last long at all and i need to work on my technique but it was fun. Hopefully more people will start attending these events as this was much quieter than expected (though that might be due to all the competing events going on for pride). Still, this one was fun and i'll definitely go again. -
Question for people who've been to Cumunion
Nclchub replied to Nclchub's topic in General Discussion
I'm going to the Newcastle Cumunion. First one they're doing in Newcastle so not sure how it's going to go. That said I plan on wearing a jockstrap and taking as many loads as possible. Gonna have my ass lubed so anyone can just add theirs to my collection. Seems like i should just embrace being a cumslut. Thanks! -
So I'm about to go to my first Cumunion and am looking forward to it. However, while I'm horny as fuck I'mnot sure what to expect. Should I just treat it like any other sauna visit and just go with the flow or is there something I should know beforehand? Related question, if any of you have been to Cumunion what did you think of it? Better or worse than a standard sauna visit?
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Mine knows I fuck other guys bare. Hell our first conversation was basically him telling me how good bareback feels and how he needed to put a load in my hole. We don't see each other as often as we'd like due to life schedules not aligning. That said, he encourages me to be a slut. As long as I don't share any pics of me being fucked that show my face he's happy.
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I must be doing something wrong...Need your help!
Nclchub replied to TxCowboyCub's topic in General Discussion
Quickly checked your a4a profile and that looks fine. Good photos, clear statement re: what your after. I'm a bottom but if you were in my area and approached me I'd be tempted to try breeding you. Only possible negative is some people will be put off by you saying you like pnp. That said if pnp is essential for you keep it in there. You mentioned posting ads. In my experience these can be a crapshoot. Many times I'll spend days posting ads trying to set something up only to get nothing. As intimidating as it can be I find being proactive is key. Do a search for profiles and send a message (not an oink/wave, lots of guys ignore those) to a bunch you like saying you're interested. Don't just focus on one guy. If they don't respond, move on. Most important is to try not to take rejection personally. Taking myself as an example last month i was in a hotel and messaged tens of guys to set up a quick session. Most never responded, 1 gave a hard no, a few talked a good game and flaked. All that said I did get 2 to come over and breed me propper and am hopefully doing more with them in future. Point is even though most of my attempts failed, by casting a wide net I eventually caught a few loads. All that said remember that online dating is hard. 90% of the time you're going to be dealing with rejection. Since it's not face to face people are more likely to overlook you, make snap judgements or be an asshole. For every party add that got 10 or more responses in an hour I guarantee there were dozens more that either had no responses, a bunch of flakes or were canceled last minute. It can be demoralising. If it's giving you nothing but grief step away from online and try other things (bars, saunas, lgbt events). It might be what you need. Good luck -
Not sure if you already went but here goes: Sauna is generally busiest Friday-Sunday or whenever they have an event on. Crowd varies but generally skew older. Before you do anything sexy i suggest having a quick wander to see where everything is. If you're just looking to be a cumdump and can't stand talking to people one option is to just pick a room, leave the door open and lie down until you get some interest. Alternatively you can lie down in the playroom (big dark room good for group sex) and wait for the dicks to come to you. This isn't always reliable if the place isn't busy though. However, i have more success if I just ask someone I'm into if they wanna grab a room. Everyone is there for sex so there's no shame in being forward with what you want. If you're approached by someone you're not into, just say you're not interested. Don't be rude, a simple no thanks is enough. Good luck!
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Oh god I can relate to this. Had a few situations where there wasn't enough light and a guy tried to enthusiastically fuck my tailbone. If that happens I tend to become more dominent as i found out the hard way that some guys will just keep trying to drill through you if you let them. ? Back on topic, if your hole feels sore after a long sesssion give it plenty of rest until it calms down. Don't just try to force more cocks/toys/whatever in there in an attempt to power through it. It can also help to have a sitz bath (basically bathing your perineum in 3-4 inches of warm water mixed with salt or baking soda for 15 minutes).
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Sluts: How long does it take for you to recuperate?
Nclchub replied to flacogedor's topic in General Discussion
There's no single answer since It really depends on the activity. Honestly size is much less a factor than how fast/rough a guy is fucking. The biggest I took was about 8 inches and that went really well because we took our time, used a good lube and didn't rush. By contrast once I dealt with a guy who was under 5 inches and immediately went to full speed fucking as soon as his cock head was in my ass. It wasn't bad during the fuck but a few minutes after he'd come my hole felt exhausted. My ass was off limits for a few days after that. -
Without knowing your specific health stats this would be my guess. Poppers cause your blood pressure to drop which can cause headaches. The fact that your finger tips went blue is a sign that it went pretty low. Can't say why it happened this time and not others (possible you had too much too quickly during this session?) In any event please get your blood pressure checked. If it turns out you have low bp I'd avoid poppers altogether as they could cause your bp to drop to dangerously low levels. If your bp is fine I'd still consider giving the poppers a break. In my personal experience I've found you can lose sensitivity if you overuse them and will need to huff more to get the same effect. If thats the case with you, a couple weeks break should reset your sensitivity. Good luck.
