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still one of the best. Hope it gets finished.
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You shouldn't have to justify why you are offended. You are living the reality and have lived it your whole life. I don't understand the need most of us white people feel to go beyond acknowledgement. Its seems like some of us take it personally even when it's not our job. Collective shame? "I am sorry that you were offended. Thank you for explaining specifically what offended you. Please know we will take into consider your comments as we continue to learn how language impacts different populations in our Breeding Zone Community" Seems fair. White people - You are going to make decisions and mistakes that you willl get called out for. Just take the note. Stop equating I made an error in judgement with "I am embarrassed and feel shame, so I must double down and gravitate to the always embarrassing white splaining. The man was offended. He is the subject expert. Its no one's job to try and control his feelings. Trying to take control over a person's autonomy is abuse and it's what got us here in the first place. The moderator stated his discomfort. I would invite him to trust his instincts. I think race play is contentious at best. It makes me feel unfortable . I also see the damage done with a label like BBC. It commodifies black tops and strips them of their humanity, their name, and turns the individual into a function for white desires and demands. Its rude to say the least and a tool of White Supremacy. And how many attractive black men with much to offer but happen to be bottoms or regularly endowed get devalued right out of the gate. Rejected out of hand. it happens all the time. My friends tell me about it. It hurts. And despite what the white cis male dominated porn industry sells us as the default black male there are more than enough guys who like black bottoms to justify their inclusion. And Asians. And Native Americans. So many beautiful men to choose from. Do these white gaze objectification stories need to be to told? Is there a better less destructive way to tell them? What are the differences in white led race play or people of color led raceplay? Are there similarities? The decision makers have their work cut out for them. Opt outs or special sections maybe? Please give each other grace and quality discourse around this topic .
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This is one of my all time faves. Elijah's rape is the best.
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I had something similar happen to me. During my last week in Chicago before I moved out to rural Oregon, I took as much cock as I could get. I knew my new home was not going to be the cornucopia of cock that I had grown accustomed to. My last top was my favorite dom daddy that I used to like to rut with. I told him I had a couple of tender spots from marathon fucking I had been enjoying. Big mistake. He got off on seeing me wince and moan. So he just really reamed me viciously and deliciously. That night big hemorrhoid. By the time I got on an airplane and flew out to Oregon it had become a fissure. I didn't need surgery thank God. But for the next month every time I took a shit it was like I was passing the Sun out of my butthole. All I could do to handle pain was either scream or laugh, and often both. It took over a month to heal. That said I have had some thrombosed hemorrhoids that have gone away on their own. I know this sounds counterintuitive but the more regularly I stretch my hole the more infrequent are hemorhoid occurrences. I concur with Dr. Scorpio that most occurrences are caused by straining to shit. But people also sometimes strain badly when they have not cleaned out correctly. After long bouts with the hose guys will also strain and the muscles can cramp or involuntarily push out so hard that cause hemorrhoids, fissures, and even in extreme cases prolapse. Also if you're taking an extremely long time to clean out it causes irritation and swelling in the sensitive area around your butthole. The extreme clean out also drys out that tissue quite a bit. If you're doing a deep deep booty clean I recommend using a combination of Imodium t stop your stomach muscles from contracting and also milk of magnesia, which removes air pockets as well as absorb mucus. I usually start doing that the night before at bedtime in order in order keep everything nice and dry and stable in my alimentary canal. And then when you use the hose only put in a half cup of water approximately, room temperature hold it for 15-20 seconds and gentle release. Next time use a cup of water and repeat, and then a cup-and-a-half, and each time just a half cup added. This way you incrementally release smaller gentler amounts of poo. Many use too much water initially and that just jams an inner tsunami of brown water and floaters up above the first and second bends in the colon and intestines. Just when you think you're done and you have celebrated a couple of clear water false readings, boom goes the dynamite and you are back to square one if you are lucky. If you are unlucky, it can come back at some soul crushing time; like on the bus, in a church pew, Act II of Hamlet, when trying on jogging pants, or even more likely when your top pushes just a little past that first bend with his dick and releases the Kracken! You just shit dicked your top, somebodies bed/sling/church pew, yourself and probably blew out a couple candles and flattened some tires. Hard to exit that scene with your dignity. If you regularly take pscyleum husk supplements, and use the gradual gradient cleanout technique, you should cut the length of your cleaning sessions drastically.
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Bottoms - Do You Like To Get Double Fucked?
Shotsfired replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
My first time being dp'd was at Bears Baths and Beyond at the Chicago Steamworks with two daddies from my old leather/fisting club. They got set me up in the upstairs fuck bench and spit roasted me, then started in with fists and toys. I didn't know it but I was set-up for quite the gang bang. I took at least 7 fists and even more dick. I was being fisted by a smaller hand that I found out later was my ex Gabe, when FriendlyWasp, one of my chaperone daddies, climbs up my backside and slams his 8 inch cock in with Gabe's hand. And to top it off Gage managed to slip his his dick in besides my ass's other occupants. It was a hot damned experience. -
There is an app called crusher that reduces images for you.
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The skin inside my guy...
Shotsfired replied to Ldnpozhunter's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Loved the structure and execution of this chapter. -
This is why all your tube videos were deleted
Shotsfired replied to rawTOP's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I have been using cash app to buy stock and crypto. Their is no safety net on purchases you make with it. I see this as a bigger picture than just porn. Amazon is in court trying to say the movie you buy online from them on Prime are not really yours? The Golden Age of the internet went out the door with net neutrality thanks to Trump. Are real civil liberties aren't being taken away by masks, but buy financial hamstringing and censorship. Remember the 80s and 90s porn. Bland overracted garbage. I hate the rim scenes from these movies. Mom and Pop Studios are basically being screwed by corporate America. Instead of Direct Porn Democracy we have censorship. A very underhanded blow to working class people, all porn and even normie apps are requiring monthly fees. I know I have hard choices ahead, and I am already registered officially with Xtube, Tik Tok, and Only Fans. It's not that hard. -
so hot. thank you
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I love stories like this. Thank you!
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Trust: The Hand Book plus Helpful Reads
Shotsfired replied to Shotsfired's topic in Fisting Discussion
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When I was first learning how to fist or the art of handballing, I was in good hands and regularly playing with some legendary Fist Fuckers: Guyanasa, Brerbear, Galen, Friendlywasp among others in the scene in Chicago during Fistings resurgence period. I owe them a lot. I also owe a great debt to my brothers in MAFIA. I also got great tips and advice from several online and written sources. I figured we could use this thread for recommendations for material that is instructional. My favorite book on fisting is "Trust: The Handbook - A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing" by Bert Herrnann. It gives advice on how to take a fist, give a fist, and some history. Did you know fisting was a part or early yoga practice? I would go to class every day if my yoga instructor included this practice. This book was really instrumental on getting me into the appropriate head space for fisting. What reading or forums do you recommend?
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I find that communication is key when promoting safety while fisting. You should have at least a mental inventory of your injuries and sore spots. Playing sober, especially when playing with someone new and untested, is essential to your safety. Check cleanliness of hands, fingernail length and sharpness, and keep a small nail kit in your fisting gear. Also callouses can really scrape as bad as knuckles. DO NOT USE numbing agents or ointments like lidocaine. DO bring Vitamin A+D Ointment for aftercare. I recommend fists first then toy play as toys can make you sore. Large toys are way more dangerous to use with other people than fists. Toys can not tell you how tight things are, how deep in your hole the toy is, or if things are tearing. Another good rule of thumb while fisting is to not let a top bind your feet or legs. I had a top try to shove up into me while I was bound. He wanted to get in me past the elbow. Luckily I was able to outmaneuved him and unbind myself. I have only been injured by being rough fucked without lube by a large top. It caused a deep fissure and once while cleaning out. Proper fisting practice actually reduces the likelyhood of fissures and hemorrhoids. AND gives you better muscle control. Tops shouldn't shove their fists in you. They should push only until the point of tension. The bottom should then accept/allow the fist into his hole. ⁸
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There is a very good forum on fisting on the asspig.com website, plus the profiles have a certification system of peer review. Helps you avoid bad experiences.
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Good answers so far. Some things to remember is that you are reversing what normally happens down there. So its natural for your muscles to try and push out whatever is up there. The body is just following training it has followed. Part of the fisting experience is reinterpreting those muscles, feelings and sensations differently. FF bottoms have amazing mastery of their anatomy with experience. One thing that a lot of bottoms have to overcome is the fight or flight response. The mind lets fear in, and that triggers shallow breathing, muscle clenching, and discomfort. Here are some things to help overcome fight or flight. 1. Practice steady and deep breaths. Don't stop breathing. Believe it or not, many bottoms forget to breath right at that critical point where the fist is going in, which triggers fight or flight. 2. Poppers help, but remember the more artificially relaxed you, the less likely you are to notice any damage happening in your butt. 3 Train your mind to reinterpret sensations from discomfort or fear to "that's an interesting sensation and allow yourself to explore those sensations instead of react to them. 4. Avoid rough toy play before a fisting session. And make sure you aren't spending too much time on clean out. Make sure the steam of water coming from your shower shot is gentle and not harsh. Also not too hot. If you're too harsh in your clean out, you won't be able to take a fist comfortably, because you already sore down there and that's going to trigger that fight or flight response causing your hole to close up or push out. You won't be able to take your a fist because you already sore down there. 5. Trust between a top and a bottom in is of utmost importance. What helps build that trust is good communication between each other. At the top of your session it's always a good idea to communicate what you need to hear from your top. As a top I will always ask the bottom what they prefer ... twist motions or straight in and out? What kind of fisting do they want punch fisting or shallow play. It's important to know those things. Also as a top communicate how you're going to work. I always say that if you say "stop" I'm just going to hold my hand still in place instead of pull out. If you want me to pull out, say "pull out." Another part of trust building is to communicate to your bottom what you're doing. Remember the bottom can't always see. Even if they can see, the bottom can't tell what you're going to do before you do it. So I like to tell the bottom I'm just going to put one finger in right now or I'm putting four fingers in. Also give advance notice of big stretches. Whatever the combination you doing at the moment. Ofcourse after you build trust with a partner and have played with them several times you don't have to do that as much. 6. Tops don't necessarily know what you're going through as a bottom. A lot of tops have never bottomed and taken a fist. Bottoms need to know their own hole. You need to be able to communicate whether you need more lubrication used. You need to tell them whether you want more J-Lube or more Crisco. Tell them that their fingernails need to be buffed down more. You also need to communicate whether you have an injury in your hole or not. Is it the first time back to fisting after you healing from an injury. A top often can work around an injury if it's not severe. Of course it's important to give yourself time to heal and not play when you're injured. 7. Another thing you can do to relax during session is to follow meditation type principles. Pick an object in the room to focus on or a mantra to say when you need to re-center. If you've never fisted before, I recommend the website asspig.com. The reason I recommend it is that they have certifications lot of times on the profiles that tell you how good of a top or a bottom other people think they are. You get certified by peer review. If someone has no certifications proceed with caution. Also, also its good to be a little nervous. If you're too relaxed than you might miss out on a full body orgasm that you'll hear peop lo e talk about.
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I was a member of MAFIA (Middle American Fists In Action) for years in Chicago. This is when the parties happened underneath Leather6410 and Jackhammer. The club rules required gloves, but it was about 50/50 on usage at the parties. If John or Jose were on Sentry Duty, you gloved up. I am 100% 50/50 on gloves. With an experienced versatile fisters or incredible tops of course I want bare hands. There are exceptions. Total tops who have never bottomed usually, but not always, lack finesse and their technique and nails can be rough. And at a MAFIA party I would on average take 6 fists. A rough, inexperienced or the rare "nails are iffy, but he's so hot guy I will accept a gloved hand. When topping a new fister that "thinks" he did a deep clean, but has trapped water past his second bend, or just doesn't know, I will opt for a glove. Unless you are Scatman Carruthers, I am not into it. If you FF long enough, you or one of your Fisting Posse is going to get hurt, have something come up like diverticulitis, or any combination of the above. Sometimes gloves give them their FF life back. One guy while partying and fisting jokingly told his top that "if you can reach my heart. I am yours forever.' The guy took him literally and busted through his intestinal wall why trying to get his heart. So when I fisted this guy after he recovered enough to try FF again, I definitely wore gloves. Here is a pro tip if you have to wear nitrile gloves. Turn them inside out before you put them on. The inside of the glove is smoother and less powdery. I got that tip from Friendlywasp in Chicago. Chicago is a great town to play in with some legendary FF's. Another tip: If you are smart, you will invest some of your FF playtime with the older guard. You will learn so much from them. I learned technique, proper lube usage, slow play, punch fisting technique, how to minimize nail contact by hand position, how to breathe, how to interpret the hole. and when to push/not push. If you are ever in Ontario, Oregon or Boise come shove your hand up my ass or a couple loads or piss. I am a sub with a PlaySpace. Few limits.
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love the sexagon. gangfisted on the fuck bench I miss Nirmy and SW
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Hands down Rocco Steele. ¹I want him to knock me up and stretch me out . I want rape fucked by Kieran, Peto Coast, Mister Marky, and Jiggy Man. Rough fucked by Igor, Jon Vincent, Jerry Stearns
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[think before following links] https://m.fistingcentral.com has some hot stuff if you don't mind gloves Fisting vsbfeal
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
Shotsfired replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
Shotsfired replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
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What was the significance of the bag that Javi snuck into Matt's hands before he left?
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
Shotsfired replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Your first name (or a name you'll respond to): Paul Your cell number (for texts and voice calls): 541-709-1443 A location (be at least as specific as a zip code): Two doors down from the Ontario, Oregon State Park. 97914 Times you're generally not available: Almost always available Age: 44 Height: 6, 2" Weight: 267 Ethnicity: white -
The first part is great.
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