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For a late birthday present, my boyfriend took me to Florida and we had an amazing time. We drove overnight on the way down to Jacksonville and we were on grindr the whole way there and back. We created a new profile to find guys to help me suck my boyfriend's dick, then to fuck me and watch him fuck me. We stopped at an adult store near South of the Border in North Carolina/South Carolina and I sucked three dicks in the car before he took me to the hotel. We met a guy we'd been talking to and he did an amazing job eating my ass, then he deep throated my bf's dick by himself before they both fucked me. We drove to Hardeeville, SC and stayed in one of the trashiest motels I've ever been in for a few hours while guys came through and used my ass with my bf. He held off from cumming until the last guy bred me, then he deep dicked me and came so hard I thought he hurt himself because of the noises he was making. When we got to Jacksonville we went and saw some of his boys, then we checked into the hotel and I slept like a rock for the first night. The next day, two of his boys came through and piped me down while he watched, then he took me out for dinner at a Greek restaurant near Daytona Beach. Our server was so damn cute but we figured he was straight because he kept talking to another table about his girlfriend in Gainesville. When we got back to Jacksonville we scored a couple hookups but there were a ton of flakes, so we checked out early this morning and hit the road at 4am. Someone hosted us in this town called Eutawville, SC and I got piped down again, then we drove up to South of the Border and looked for some dicks to suck but didn't get any action. We found someone in North Carolina to help me blow him one more time, then we drove all the way home. Now he's sleeping and I'm feeling really contented but I'm also jittery and excited because I've never done anything like that before and can't wait to do it again.
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It's almost magical, especially when the the asshole starts to give off a metallic smell and flavor. I just love it.
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Earlier in the thread I said my fetishes were watersports and eating ripe buttholes, and that's still true. But a couple months ago I was accidentally feminized in front of my mom and grandparents because I came out of my bedroom wearing panties and a nighty when I didn't realize they were there. My room opens right up to the living room so when I walked out, they were sitting on the sectional and got the full view. For some reason it felt like that was the most exciting thing that ever happened to me and now being feminized is all I can think about. So yeah, I can add that to my list of fetishes.
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I don't ask for face pics when I hookup with someone on grindr but I expect them to at least be what they represent themselves as in their profile. If you have 5 inches or less, just be honest. I promise I won't dip out on you over it. I've had a few people turn out to be way different than their profiles stated. One guy even lied about his penis size by saying it was smaller than it actually was! He said most people would ghost him over it, which was crazy because it was a nice dick and not even 8 inches long. I was happy to ride it for the 45 seconds it took him to shoot his load. The worst time I was catfished (at least I think I was catfished) was when I drove all the way to Norfolk, VA from my house to suck a dick. As soon as I pulled into the parking lot of the Lowes, his profile disappeared and I was pissed. I mean, why even bother setting up a hookup and then ghosting? My guess was that he wasn't what he said he was and got nervous so he ghosted me last minute.
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Rough Sex - Dry, Spit or Lube, which do you prefer?
backdoorjimmy replied to a topic in General Discussion
It depends on how horny I am. I think my hole feels way more moist when I'm aching for a cock to slide in than when I've been getting laid enough to keep me satisfied. I love a cock ride with no lube and would prefer that over the other options, but it's not always possible for me. I'm not too proud to admit that too much of a lightweight to let my pussy tear from a dry fuck that I'm not into. -
There's nothing weird about it and if you walked away from it feeling fulfilled and turned on after the fact, then that's even better. There are a lot of things we call [banned word], but in my opinion there's nothing more [banned word] than crossing my own boundaries. Everytime I do it, it feels incredible and freeing. There's a sinful pleasure in it. The first time I hooked up with a poz top I felt my body exploding from the moment he put his dick up to my hole until the moment he came inside me. It was my ultimate boundary at the time and when I gave in and did it, I got pleasures that I never knew I could have. It sounds like you experienced the same thing.
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I have a theory that my ass gets wet when I'm horny but people tell me it's impossible. My experience is that it feels more moist when I need to take it in the ass, or when I'm just in a really sensual mood in general. I've been fucked with no lube and it feels amazing. Almost like my ass is getting wetter and wetter the longer I'm fucked. I've heard of guys who get wet enough to take a cock with no lube anytime, but I'd be lying if I said I was one of those guys.
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bareback What do you do when the top wants to use condoms?
backdoorjimmy replied to a topic in General Discussion
If a top wants to use a condom, I open my legs for him and let him fuck me with a condom. I'll always prefer to go bareback, but at the end of the day if I'm choosing to hookup with someone, it's for the cock. It's always his choice to bareback or not, but the pleasure is mine no matter what. Besides, if he doesn't want to creampie my ass he can still shoot all over my face, stomach or in my mouth. -
How to Accommodate a REALLY Big Cock
backdoorjimmy replied to downtownswallow's topic in General Discussion
Like others have said, practice and dildos are important. So is your mood. Spend some time sucking it and grinding your hole against it so you can enjoy it and get used to his size. While you're doing that try to imagine yourself riding his dick and how good it's going to feel. I don't use poppers but you might want to. Make sure you use as much lube as you need. Don't worry about making a mess with lube. It's better than making a mess with blood from not using enough lube. It doesn't have to be painful, but if it's uncomfortable at first that's normal. Just take your time and have him rest inside you while your muscles calm down and your ass relaxes. When you're ready for him to thrust, you'll know. It should be incredible and you should both enjoy yourselves. -
When I get horny my ass starts to give off a certain smell. It's not poop, but it's definitely a butt smell. It's kinda salty and sweaty, but there's a whiff of butthole in it too. I call it my anal desire scent but I've heard others call it pheromones. Either way it's one of my favorite smells in the world and it drives my bf crazy. He always wants to eat me out when he smells it, which makes me even hornier than I already was so the smell gets stronger. My question for other bottoms is, do you get the same smell from your ass when you're horny for a lay? And for tops, how does your dick respond to it if/when you smell it? Does it turn you on? Does it repulse you? Does it make you want to eat ass and fuck when you smell it?
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There's a lot to unpack here. If you think they'll be fine with you being gay, it might be a good idea to come out to them. Then let them know you're dating someone who's special to you and casually mention that he's older. My bf is almost 50 and older than my mom, but she's fine with him and she knows I love him. They don't really interact but he does little, thoughtful things to impress her and show her that he treats me like his prince. Maybe your new bf can do the same thing to make a good impression on your parents.
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Why do you want to stop? Is there a specific reason like a partner you want to be faithful to? Are you worried about STD's? Is it distracting you from work or other things in your life that are important? As other people in this thread have said, unless it's affecting your life in a negative way, you should do what feels right. Your body is craving loads and it's always a good thing when we listen to our bodies.
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My current boyfriend is black and he passes me around to all his boys. Most of them are black too. But to say he's a better top because of his race, or that anyone is a better or worse top because of their race, is problematic. I've been dicked down by some amazing men of white, Asian and Latino decent. It's not about the race, it's about the passion they have and their ability to make my boypussy shiver and climax.
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I’ve only been in two real relationships and they both started off with the understanding that it was open. My first bf and I met at a party where I was the only bottom. He asked me to spend time at his place the next day and things developed from there. We were both bottoms but he was a top for me, so it was natural that he’d want to find a top to satisfy him. Me and my current bf started as FWBs. I’d been getting fucked by him and his roommates for a few months when I realized that I wanted him to own me. He passes me around to his boys and I’m happy with that. He also throws dick to his youngest roommate and I’m okay with that too. At the end of the night, I curl up at his side and he holds me while we sleep, and that’s what matters to me.
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I went to the salon to get my hair cut today and one of the stylists was so hot it made my ass tremble. It's a sure sign that I need to get laid as soon as my bf gets home from work. 🏳️🌈
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New Meaning of “No Load Refused Cumdump?”
backdoorjimmy replied to BlackDude's topic in General Discussion
I think it boils down to two things: Guys who are cruising for dick pics, or Guys who think they want something and dared themselves to go on grindr, only to face the moment of truth and realize that they're not ready for what they say they want. It happens with tops too. They say they want to dig out a bottom's ass, but then you send them pics and they disappear. When I'm on grindr, which admittedly isn't very often anymore, I try to make it as hassle free to fuck my ass as I can. So when a top blocks me or arranges a time and place, then doesn't show up, I just assume they were out for ass pics or freaked out at the last minute because it was real. -
Do your family and friends know you're a bottom?
backdoorjimmy replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
That's hot. Have you ever thought about chasing cock with your mom? I've never done it but I've considered it and if the conditions were right I'd do it. My mom has about 4 or 5 different guys that come through and they're all hot af so I'd definitely be down to suck some cock or get laid by one of them even if she was watching. -
I wasn't blackmailed but for about three years there was a clip of me sucking dick on Pornhub. I couldn't do anything about it because there was no profile associated with it, but I knew who uploaded it and wasn't happy. But it was just a single clip in a sea of millions of other clips of guys doing the same, and it only had about 15,000 views. My face was fully visible and I talked in it so my voice was clear. I didn't know about it for over a year and once I found it there were about 60 comments mainly saying how lucky I was to hook up with someone with a nice dick. When Pornhub did its purge I checked my bookmark and it was removed so unless it's on another site I'm guessing it's gone for good.
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The pandemic screwed my plans up but it also was a gift, at least in a way. In late 2019 I decided to become a no loads refused bottom. I wanted to try to hook up with at least 10 different guys a week for all of 2020. The pandemic put a stop to that. But before the lockdown I'd started hooking up with my now bf and his two roommates. So when everything stopped, I limited myself to sex with them and it turned out to be the best sex of my life. Now I'm 100% owned by my boyfriend and he passes me around to his roommates. When things were easing up for a while he started having some of his boys come through and stroke my ass out for me in addition to his roommates. But that stopped when the numbers started spiking again. Once we all get vaccinated though, he's assured me that he'll start passing me around to his boys again.
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Are you going to spend the entire time doing anal or will you spend some of the time sucking cock and doing other kinds of foreplay? Does the top eat ass? I like longer sessions of anal but two hours is a long time for a top to keep going. If it's really going to be two hours of anal he'll probably want to stop and rest. If you're lucky he'll stay inside you and rest and you can kiss while you flex your ass muscles around him.
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Bottoms, do you like your tops to tell you they are cumming?
backdoorjimmy replied to baldwin's topic in General Discussion
I can take it or leave it. My favorite part of a top's orgasm is when he buries his dick and I can feel it jerking and throbbing against the lining of my boy pussy. The verbal part is a bonus but for me the real reward is the connection our bodies have while he's breeding me. -
Read This! Significant Change In Rules Effective 3/1
backdoorjimmy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
What about profiles that mention STI's aside from HIV. I have something on my profile that I think would violate the new rules and obviously I don't want to do that. Should my profile be edited to remove that content or is the new rule just in regards to posts? Edit - I went ahead and removed it just to be on the safe side. @rawTOP thank you for all that you do to keep this site safe and running. -
There's a definite power imbalance in our relationship, but I like it that way. I love it when he comes over to my place and see's me doing yard work and takes over. And I love it when he sits down for a meal I've cooked and eats with a big smile because he likes it. I'm the handyman in our relationship but he's still the alpha.
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I enjoy things like cooking and tidying up. If I didn't do it, it would never get done. The first time I cleaned the kitchen there were more dishes on the counter and in the sink than I've ever seen in my life. Also fast food wrappers behind the toilet and a random crock pot with food in it that had molded that I had to toss. So it makes me happy to clean the place and it makes him happy when it's clean and there's food. I guess it's kind of a love language for me but I also get a thrill knowing that I'm filling a traditional submissive role for him that isn't directly related to sex.
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I admit that I enjoying doing to "fem" things but I also do other stuff. When the fan over their stove went out I took it apart and discovered that the wiring was melted so I replaced the motor and reinstalled it. I've also gone under the house to unclog a pipe, so I do some basic handyman stuff. I don't live with him but I might as well since I sleep there 4-5 nights out of the week. As for chastity, I can take it or leave it since I don't care about my dick either way. I never touch it and neither does anyone else, so a cage wouldn't change anything.
