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blackrobe

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  1. In Seattle there are good days and bad when it comes to fucking, but spring and summer are the best seasons for it. In general there's a fair number of bottoms and tops seeking some ideal. That in itself leads people to limit how much fucking ultimately gets done. Still, getting an ass-full is usually easier than during this pandemic.
  2. For some of us, our bond with the breeding top is such that wherever he wants to drive us for his pleasure is a place we want to go for him.
  3. 100% this.
  4. You deserve to retain it all, brother.
  5. Envious, not envious. A dom breeder friend used me yesterday and planted at least five loads of his cum in me. He really carved in deep and was fucking past the sigmoid each time he came. I never get to see or smell his seed again. So, I'm both envious of you, and not envious.
  6. The only person you should trust with your sexual health is *you*.
  7. Did you sniff it? How does it smell?
  8. Some men certainly have an obsession with dick size, but I would assert that saying it has "nothing to do with ethnicity" doesn't pass the red face test. If that were so, there would be no dividing large dicks by their skin color and assigning them distinct abbreviations in the first place. By comparison, BBW for big breasted woman doesn't bake skin color in. It's worth considering why the two arguably similar shorthands are so different in their ethnic and racial scope.
  9. Setting aside the casual misogyny of your question, the point here is that men of color have a specific experience of objectification in our community that doesn't acknowledge their full humanity. That distinct experience isn't invalidated by the assertion that "we all objectify each other". There is plenty of research and scholarship in this area... I find this paper's abstract quite incisive (all emphasis is mine): Listening to men of color about their lived experience and resisting any urge to minimize or negate it is a small thing, and quite literally the very least an "inclusive" gay community could be doing.
  10. Amplifying this voice.
  11. I find asking them about what unit they are in derails them pretty quickly.
  12. I'd lay under Anthony Oluwafemi Olaseni Joshua as long as he needed.
  13. This is why I keep talking about how we fuck the whole man. The man uses his dick and his body and his mind to fuck and breed and own another man.
  14. I wish I'd gone to a school that thought a simple paragraph or two was an essay. I'd have had an easier time at school. 😏
  15. I don't know how, but you always seem to know exactly what to say to affect me. Perhaps I'm a predictable submissive archetype.

    P.s. You can't receive messages right now.

    1. find91

      find91

      Not predictable note like complementary. You are like the bottoms that arouse me.

  16. I can role play something that connects in me, where it resonates naturally. For that reason dad/son, incest, another submission-based role plays are those that have the most resonance. I think that role play can be a fig leaf for touching something fundamental, vulnerable, and powerful inside ourselves. @tallslenderguy alluded to this. One observation I'd make is that role play can give us permission to let parts of us out and experience them when we might not otherwise be able to. We're dealing with deep parts of our psyches and it can require aftercare as @find91 quite rightly points out. It's like going on a hike into beautiful natural country. One couple might use a map (role play) to get where they are going, while another might just read the terrain and see where it takes them naturally. A man who embeds his cock in my mind as well as my cunt can get everything I have to surrender.
  17. Reading that, something just clicked inside me.
  18. I don't think I have a loose cunt, but my regular breeders seem to like that it yields well to them despite their dimensions. I start off snug, but once I'm breached and feel the full length of a man inside me, It seems like something happens where my cunt gets a kind of juicy suppleness that adapts. A few thick and/or long fuckers have told me I'll need poppers to take them and their rough fuck. And while it's true that it's a challenge to take a long, very thick guy cunting you hard and long, that doesn't mean you need poppers to do it. I just use the mantra my dom taught me - "Take dick". I'd love to get fucked long enough, hard enough, and deep enough to really present new sensation to the men using me. The closest I've come was a four way where I took 14 loads and the last load I took was standing up and I felt like I could take another ten men inside me I was so relaxed and ready.
  19. Thanks, I'd really like to get to 300 loads by next April, but the local Seattle breeders are not as free in rutting as I might hope.
  20. This year I've taken 62 loads from 10 breeders. I took my 100th load from my dom breeder friend a few weeks ago, and my 200th lifetime load (well, starting in April 2019 really) a week ago. I don't count loads in my mouth, only those pumped into my fertile cunt for impregnation and absorption.
  21. I did that survey and was a little concerned by how the questions were framed. It makes me think they have a design proposal and are looking for data to validate it, rather than seeking data to drive the design. I've done research for software products and services for a few years and I'm really interested in how users will react to having all these search filter options taken away. I'd be concerned about it driving down subscriptions if the perceived utility and value of the app/site is reduced by the change. Unless all the apps/sites make the same changes in a similar timeframe, keeping the search filters could become a competitive differentiator. Alternately, a lone holdout might end up getting some negative PR for not doing the right thing like all the other apps/sites.
  22. I'd have worn them backwards so my ass spoor would be on his cock and balls. 😉 Not so bad, no...
  23. Can you point me to the research you're referring to here? I can't find anything in my searches so far...
  24. Agreed. My friend and I have talked about how inured we all are in a web of interlocking biases and how impossible it is to make a claim that you're free of them. Being aware and applying "The Golden Rule" is a good start. I also believe in "The Campfire Rule" being broadly applied.
  25. My regular dom breeder likes to share me with other tops. He likes to watch, control, and enjoy my sexuality even when it's not his cock fucking and breeding me. He has given me an open-ended instruction to find tops to breed me (with him) at his place. On one occasion, I found a straight guy looking to fuck that seemed an ideal fit, as he liked to share a hole with another top too. He asked for some pics of my dom breeder and, when I shared them, he said it was all off because he doesn't play with black guys. He went on to list the color/races of the guys he would play with - white, Russian, and a few other pale races. I was quite startled. My dom breeder is black, the straight guy looking to fuck my ass was black, and I'm of pale Irish stock. When I told my dom breeder that he'd bailed and gave the reason as "not playing with black guys" he was annoyed but completely unsurprised. It's not at all uncommon, he said, to find straight black men like that. Some are on the DL and will only fuck white guys well removed from their community and therefore "safe". I'm told that here are also some things about black masculinity at play here, but I understand it imperfectly. The idea that a black man wouldn't fuck me because he'd be sharing me with another black man gobsmacked me. Talk about getting discriminated against coming and going...
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