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I'd tend to agree with this since I see the men as a fuck team that all need to be serviced. FYI, the beardy guy passed away at the end of 2018, and the long-haired guy is married to the woman and they have a child.

This is the kind of relationship I'm seeking, where we understand each others natures, and support each others growth.

There is no show or bluster. He knows what you are, and what he is. Everyone can relax and be what they are.

Please let me eat your precum ropes? I want to gorge on your liquor...

I love this. A few things might have been happening here. First, your bottom pride might have kicked in. Second, your submissiveness asserted itself and chose surrender. Third, the suggestion by the top might have slide inside you and unlocked your cunt because you were already in a receptive head space.

Lucky cunt.

I've taken 26 loads in my cunt, and given zero loads. Totally corona-ed.

Don't tease us, @breedmypiggycunt...

If you enjoy it and it puts you in a good place @Tommy Tank, do it. I'd love to read them. Besides, one of my regulars fucked and bred me so hard and so deep that he lit a cunt-fire in me that's still burning. I could use the distraction.

When my cunt is being fucked the way I'm built to be fucked, hard, deep, and hurting me a little, my dick sprays long ropes of precum until there is a trace work pattern like a Jackson Pollock painting.

I'm confused. The question posed by the OP was asking bottoms how *they* felt about sustained fucking. It did not ask only cumdumps or faggots how *they* felt about it. Even if it had been framed that way, those men have feelings and thoughts regardless of whether tops care about them or heed them. And, as I understand it, neither self-described cumdumps nor faggots as a group surrender either their gender, or their personhood. Are you asserting that all bottoms are cumdumps and/or faggots, and therefore their feelings are immaterial and should be ignored?

I'm in the same boat as @find91, I understand the psychology, don't share it myself, and struggle with the ethics of it. It must be discussed. Selfishly, I'd like everyone to be safe and well and survive this pandemic. If you do, there is a much better chance I'll have the pleasure of feeling you release your seed deep in my cunt, or get to see you service cock by my side. 😏

Word.

This is perfect. My cunt is just about to become a yearling and, in that time, it's taken over 160 loads from 20 men. It doesn't sound like much in the grand slut-cycle of life, but in many ways I've been fortunate. The men I've connected with most strongly are all long-fucking multi-cummers, and within that group the most strongly with the most hung. It's not just for the reasons you might think though. I started to hear and learn two things from multiple men. After men came once inside me, they were still rock hard but pulled out of me. When I asked them why they did that, they told me that most bottoms can only take one fuck and one load from them. This really bewildered and surprised me. I told them that one of my favorite things is to be cum fucked and that I'd really like them to stay inside me as long as they'd like and cum as much as they'd like. They seemed surprised but very pleased and all mounted up for a longer cunting. I also had several men "warn" me about the size of their dick, and not in a humble-brag you're-gonna-love-this way, but in a it-won't-fit-you'll-be-hurt-and-I'll-be-disappointed way. Fortunately, my novice cunt had encountered a man who didn't warn me, but just expected me to surrender my hole and take his dick. So, I did. Only afterwards did I realize how much dick I took. I think this taught me to focus on the man fucking me, and not so much on the dick or mechanics of fucking. When a great man and I started considering getting together, he circumspectly implied he was big. When I said it would be okay, he told me about the last three guys who couldn't even get him half inside them. Again, I said it would be okay and, when we got together, it was. With my submissive and service oriented nature, I've naturally gravitated to the least well served breeders based on my own experience. Pleasing them when they have been disappointed before makes me feel like a good (cunt) boy. I've even started to think about my cunt as a utility that men need to be able to expect to be there for them when they need it. For example, over a whole day or night... All this to frame how and why taking dick and seed in my cunt for as long as a man needs has become a calling.

I know it well... What appeals to me I fave on my bdsmlr blog.

Good boy. Keep giving that cunt away.

I'm #7, #1, and #6 because it's how breeders want to use my cunt most often, I think because it makes me most vulnerable to their dick, controllable, and submissive to their will.

<snork>

Right. Fucking. On.

I proud to know such a dedicated service cunt.

I don't accept the premise of this statement. The implication that white bottoms are *settling* for (hung) black tops because they can't get hung white tops really bothers me. If you just look at the pool of tops, some are available and some are already engaged. Bottoms without any bullshit racial preference who are looking for tops get to consider the whole pool. What is true, I think, is that black men face rejection based on race all the time. Framing white bottoms as lowering their sights from white tops to black tops reeks of unconscious racism to me.

This nails it for me, too. Being folded in half, manhandled, and cunted.

You lucky bastard. Those three fairies only gave me those gifts in March 2019...

I'm 56, so in general I fall into the definition of older guys you're using. I don't have any specific hardcore preference for younger guys, so I may not be the right demographic to address your questions, but I'll take a swing at it just the same. For context, I'm interested in guys I connect with regardless of their age, I don't seek a specific age group. I've been fucked and bred by men from 20-something year olds to 70-something year olds and have found good sexual chemistry, friendship, and the potential of a larger relationship in men from early 30s to early 60s. I'm going to address each of your scenarios in turn... Scenario 1 - "False Sexual Desire" I can understand older men whose sexual appetites might be writing checks their libido's and bodies can't cash. As we age, we all want to hold on to who we've been and what we've been able to do. That said, I've learned from multi-cumming tops who have fucked my cunt that many bottoms of *all ages* either overestimate their skills or don't disclose their are only able to take dick in their cunts a short time, or until they cum. This results in a pool of long-fucking, multi-cumming tops who are dissatisfied at not having their needs met to fuck a long time and breed until they are sated. I've discovered this through comments from men who've fucked my cunt and reacted with surprise and pleasure that I'm encouraging them to keep fucking and breeding as long as they want. That's when these stories of bottoms of *all ages* who are "one and done" started to surface. I'm not sure why these older bottoms are overpromising and underdelivering, or why they are setting themselves up for failure in the eyes of these younger virile tops. Regarding the older man you went on vacation with, I can think of several situations to explain his sex-avoiding behavior. Stress in his work, feeling tired from travel, etc. but it's also true that sex is a stress reliever so it cuts both ways. His seeking connection from other men near his age during the trip could be fear of not measuring up for you, or a way of unconsciously lowering expectations of himself sexually in being with men closer to his own age. I can't imagine not at least laying down and making out to relax and see what develops. It's difficult to know for sure what was in his mind. What I do know is that there are older bottoms out there who genuinely want young virile dick and seed in their cunts and who will enthusiastically encourage them to continue after they've fucked in the first few of their loads. Chemistry can be tricky. I've been with tops who didn't connect with me and it's hard to be responsive when you don't feel it. I've also been with tops who delighted in finding out that pinching my nipples, whispering filth, and manhandling me made me growl and buck into them unconsciously demanding a more intense fuck. Focus on getting a read on the sexual chemistry up front. Kissing and making out is your chance to see how responsive they can be to your sexual ques and needs. Scenario 2 "Dependence on emotional validity" Ageism in the gay community is brutal. Agism alone isn't that hard to handle. I look at it as a self-winnowing - the men incompatible with you are just removing themselves from the breeding pool. What makes it rough to deal with is the lack of courtesy and rudeness that so often comes with it. Being told "Hey, I don't think we're a match. Good hunting to you." by a younger guy after sharing stats and face pics is just polite garden-variety rejection. It's being ghosted, ignored, or worse, insulted for being older, that can make it soul-wearying and set up the need for validation that you're talking about. Its especially bad if the young guy was very hot and heavy and demanding access to your cunt. That said, the men you're describing don't seem very centered or accepting of themselves as they are. I may be wrong, but my sense is the more narcissistic a person is, the more traumatic they find aging and losing their youth and appeal. We all have ideas about where we should be and how we should feel at certain times in our lives. I can understand the desire to have the relationship box checked. People can also use relationships as a shield or distraction from dealing with their own issues. Ignoring you when you are with them, and pining for you when you are absent don't make sense to me, but I can see how it might be another of these checkboxes that stave off judging their lives somehow wanting. My sense is that these men are not mentally healthy or well adjusted, and I don't see that as your problem to deal with. You want someone comfortable with who they are, and with only twinges in reaction to the inevitable agism in our community. Those men are out there. Scenario 3 "You fix yourself to meet my standards." What you are describing is a dynamic I've seen regardless of the ages of the men involved. It fairly common for people to hold something inside until it builds up pressure and explodes into a likely irrational outburst. The fixer-upper dynamic isn't limited in ages or in gender, either. The rejoinder from these older men saying you are too naive and such, is just a handy trope for someone to latch onto when there is any form of disagreement. I suspect in every relationship something similar happens falling back onto the most obvious fault-line when there is disagreement. While it might be true that more life experience dramatically changes how you react to situations, there are many cases where that isn't so. What is true, is that many older men at this time in our history are dealing with survivors guilt and a sense that younger gay men today don't viscerally understand what they went through watching friends die. Many of these older men watched friends, lovers, and acquaintances cut down all around them in the flower of their youth. You can understand why they might have some strong feelings about younger generations. That doesn't mean their value judgements are valid or correct, just that they experienced a form of mass trauma and some compassion for the lingering effects on them is called for. When it comes down to it, we need to meet each other where we are. Younger men are different to older men, and relationships across generations need those in them to accept and enjoy the differences in age, perspective, and experience and look to learn from each other. The same is true of relationships between men of different races, and doubtless many other human divides. Research has shown that as we age, our tastes can become fixed. We're all still engaged in the music that was around us as we grew from kids into adulthood. The same is true of other forms of entertainment. I think what you might be looking for is someone with what's called a "growth mindset". They tend to be curious, eager to learn, and experimental in how they approach the world. They are still going to like what they liked, but they'll be open to learning and experiencing what you like, and get to know how you see the world. TL;DR - Much of what you've observed is more universal than specific to older men, and there are lots of very horny, fairly well-adjusted older men out there looking for a young guy like you. Don't despair.