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There’s a Sex Tracking App for Gay Men fyi!
BlackDude replied to Sharpshooter13's topic in General Discussion
I do admit I kind of have a foot fetish. But it’s more of a curiosity thing than sexual. -
What if it’s just a matter of preference and older guys don’t turn them on?
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Okay, I know stealing is wrong, but hey we got a lot of different types conversations on this forum. I was wondering if anyone had ever stolen a guys underwear before? I only have once. I justified it because a guy at a local sauna just happened to forget to put them in his locker and he walked off. He never came back, so I picked them up and put them in mine. Stealing? Yes, but I tell myself he forgot them. Another time, this beautiful sweaty bear at my gym was wearing tightly whities. He left them when he went to the shower. I think he knew I was watching. They were almost saying “take me” but I couldn’t do it. I’ve always kind of had an underwear fetish. When I see a guy, I always wonder “what kind of underwear does he wear?” I have to catch myself sometimes watching guys stretching their arms up cause I get curious.
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While I agree with a lot of what you said, sexual objectification was just ONE of the many tools used justify the structure of who benefits from this societies resources and who doesn’t. Black men weren’t enslaved or discriminated against just cause folks thought they had large genitalia. Unpopular Opinion Coming: The term BBC doesn’t really bother me because whether we use it or not, it’s not going to change people’s minds. Me personally, I’d rather know what it is and take it from there. Am I mildly offended?I always try to determine a persons intent first and if I sense true racism, I check them on it and keep it moving. Let’s be real, BBC offends some black people not because of the racist connotations but because it reminds them that they are just a mere sexual object to some of these men. Yes, they may have sexual access, but it is a reminder that they will never have the social access they so desperately crave from these men, white men in particular. You will be asked to fuck and go home. Not trying to shame the OP because I don’t know him. But I can count the number of Asian/black couples I’ve seen in my life on one hand without using my thumb, so I almost expect it to be some sexual BBC fantasy. I’m on my phone, so I apologize for any grammatical errors!
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I agree honesty is the best policy. Why should someone alter their behavior when you haven’t committed to them or made it clear a change in behavior would result in a commitment? To get fair, I would also ask, if you’re into him, would you still be posting here on Breeding Zone?
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If you’re speaking of dating, I would tend to think that equates to either lifestyle or money. If your are a high earner, achiever, etc. he may feel like being with you be additional pressure, insecurities or stress he’s not ready to tackle. For example, if your a 32 with a six pack, and he has an extra few pounds, there would be some internal pressure for him to work out and eat right. Or if he’s comfortable being a fry cook, and you’re a CEO, they power dynamic is too imbalanced. More likely than not, he’s either going to have step his game up with you, or come to the realization he is going to have no control in the relationship as far as finances.
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Too many 5’s and 6’s thinking they are 7’s and 8’s chasing 9’s and 10’s. This is why it’s so hard to hook up online….
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If we’re going NFL, definitely Travis Kelce. I can’t think of anyone hotter. I don’t bottom but….. And his chest is a rug, which I love.
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Great questions. I’ve dated other men who weren’t “out” before and it turned out fine. It’s all about honest communication with each other. If that person wanted to come out, then we would decide the next steps, but there was no pressure. I don’t “de-gay” my house. It’s just a regular house with decor. I don’t have pictures of naked people hanging up no more so than any other person lol. I’m not a big photo person. As far as resources, for me personally, a legacy is something you build for your offspring. I don’t have any children right now, so it would go to my family by default which I’m fine with. If I had a partner, and needed resources to go to them, I would act accordingly. That would include possible marriage. “Coming out” doesn’t change life insurance policies or deeds to property. I think people falsely equate “coming out” with happiness. If they think coming out somehow makes they the superior gay, and everyone else is just miserable that’s fine. I know plenty of guess who are out and just as lonely and depressed as those who aren’t. I view myself as black first and foremost, so I guess I just have a different perspective. I love men but I will never buy 100% into the “gay community” but that’s a post for another time!
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Damn that’s bad news. I always had fun the few times I went.
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Has anybody been to Sac Buddies in Sacramento?
BlackDude replied to a topic in San Francisco / Oakland / San Jose
The one time I went it was typical Sacramento: dudes standing around waiting on the perfect 10. I never understood why it’s so hard too hook up there in a city with two million people. (Actually I do but that’s another post). Dude working in the front would occasionally inspect the play area, and say out loud “damn where’s all the hotties!?” (Real professional but I digress). One dude came in, and the guy working at the front left the counter to try hook up with the guy. I really miss the old spa they use to have there years ago. -
The “thrill” of Hard to Get - Turn On or No?
BlackDude replied to NorfolkUK's topic in General Discussion
There is really no such thing as “hard to get.” What that really means is they are deciding if they want to fuck you while waiting for a better option. -
I’m out to a few friends, no family. I have no regrets. I don’t feel like I’ve missed out on anything at all by not “coming out.” We don’t ask straight people to proclaim their sexuality, why should I? I don’t have any wife or children, I pay my own bills. I feel I only need to be honest with myself. If I chose to share I like men, that’s my choice.
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I didn’t mean to disrespect or ignore that situations like yours happen. My point, which I probably did not articulate well enough, are guys trying deflect and confuse the conversation to say what happened to you is the same as not telling guys their status.
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Let’s just keep it real here. There isn’t that much “stealthing” going on. It’s really just folks wanting to lie about their HIV status so they can have sex and the want the rest of us to go along with it.
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If something is illegal, argue it’s morality. If something is immoral, argue it’s legality. Notice a pattern?
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How often do you change your Underwear?
BlackDude replied to DarkroomTaker's topic in General Discussion
Fortunately I get to work from home so I see no need to wear them around the house. I throw some on if I need to go somewhere, but seeing as how I only wear them a hour or two at a time, I switch them out every couple of days unless they are too ripe. BTW I was looking forward to reading the responses on this thread. Surprised how tame a lot of responses are. -
I’ve always had this problem with lube and it killing my boner. Anyone else have this problem and what do you suggest? I never bought lube or even use it to jackoff. Even when I fuck, more that one squirt, and it gets all wet, messy and just kills my hard-on. I can’t get any friction. Funny cause I’ve ducked dudes with Cum in their ass before and it was fine.
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why married/straight men hook up with fags
BlackDude replied to constructionguy's topic in General Discussion
Because they are gay….. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
BlackDude replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Local arcade which is just a little to hit or miss for me considering it’s the only game in town. But I was so horny, I chanced it and glad I did. I got there and was immediately disappointed by the same old dudes walking around clutching their pearls, then out of a booth comes this super hot trashy straight looking white guy, late 20s, early 30s. Not dirty, but you could tell he’s has his share of “fun” (and trouble) in his life. He walks immediately over and started rubbing my dick. I started getting hard, he dropped to his knees right in front of everyone and started giving me amazing head. Guess he wasn’t straight. While he was blowing me, I leaned over to lift his shirt up to see his ass. He asked “you want it?” I said hell yeah! No lie, he took his shorts off right in front of everyone and got on his knees right there in the arcade floor. I slid behind him and started fucking him in front everyone. He was moaning like a bitch, cursing like a sailor. He must have felt me getting harder cause he turned his head and asked “you want to cum in my mouth?” I said, no in your ass, so he tuned around and I kept fucking til I nutted in him, no pullout right there on the floor in front of everyone. I felt myself squirt at least 3 times. I’m another time in my life I would have asked for his number. It was fucking filthy, trashy straight out the gutter. I couldn’t believe my luck Pure lust and it was hot! -
I’ll usually only downvote if it’s blatant foolishness (not in context of the topic), lies or desperate cries for attention. Like guys attaching 5 pics to every response.
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Yup same here where I’m at in the US
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True, but 90% of the time those crimes have some type of motive I would think. Revenge, something. When there is no motive, we basically deem those folks as sociopaths and unacceptable in society or mentally unfit. I don’t get what guys get out of stealthing other than being spiteful, mean and vindictive.
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I agree. I can’t even get past why you would want to stealth someone.
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I was already dying. $10 for one video vs. $10 for a month access to multiple videos. Easy math.
