BlackDude
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For those who came up in the 80s, 90s and 00s, if you would have told the contraction of HIV could be prevented with the use of a SINGLE daily pill, we would have thought you insane, even 10 years ago. You still have folks from that era who still won’t take prep, despite the research. That’s how much fear was/is out there. For the rest, we may not even believe in prep fully. We just have hope it MAY work as much as they say, and if all it takes is a daily pill, we are going for it.
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While I agree there is a standard of beauty set up by society, you can look good and not be hot or sexually attractive. For example, I think Adam Lavine is very attractive, but does nothing for me sexually. Christiano Ronoldo as well. You can keep Ryan Reynolds, but I’d fuck Jeremy Renner in a heartbeat. Don’t sell yourself short. All they can say is no. You’re in SF, there are a million dudes in the bay.
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I take it daily, no exceptions. I really don’t get what’s so hard about taking a pill everyday.
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I am not really seeing that in my city or surrounding areas. I see gay guys hooking up or rooming up and still living in the same areas which are now gentrified. A lot of them have good jobs, good salaries and have plenty of free time on their hands. I live near four metropolitan areas, and the mid town areas are filled with gay men. I think a lot of this has to do with the main streaming of gay culture. The “Queer Eye” effect. A lot of younger guys are just more focused on appearance than anything else. With more options for gay friends, they would rather just sit it out and wait for someone who looks like a good friend (“hot”) and someone who is actually a good friend. To me, it use to be a lot of gay guys had to stick together and be a family because the outside world in a lot of cases did not except them. Now that is not the case. Plus there are just a lot less gay only spaces now. You can’t go out to a gay bar or club now where I am at without seeing at least 40% women.
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What are you plans with the Onlyfans news?
BlackDude replied to blkoraltm's topic in General Discussion
Most OnlyFans guys are destined to fail. Sure they’ll make some money, but no more than the average porn “star”. Too many of these guys get on Twitter or Instagram and break the “fourth wall.” Once they start expressing their political views, showing how they really are socially, gripping about who they will/won’t film with, having dozens of videos with the same types of guys and content, etc it takes the porn fantasy away. That was the great thing about treasure island, you never knew the guys backgrounds and you always felt like you could be there (whether true or not). -
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I’ve always had a terrible time making friends, even as a child. I’ve always fell into this weird grey area as too gay for straight guys (I love 80’s pop music and design) but to straight for gays (I love sports and old school hip-hop). Add to that I’m not of the the extreme stereotypes people expect of black men (2pac vs. Carlton Banks). I’ve always been a loner and anti-social, and have kind of accepted it. I think too often, gay people make friends based on looks not compatibility.
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What's the Matter with (18+) Kids These Days
BlackDude replied to PhoenixGeoff's topic in General Discussion
Man you took words right out my head 100%. I thought was delusional with these Mini Cooper dudes. The ones who you describe are hilarious. But it’s no point, they’ll die waiting on that young jock to show up. Even worse and the guys cruising who aren’t fucking anymore so they stop you from fucking out of spite . They will sit in their box cars and play music And do other annoying activities to draw attention to the place. Or even worse, they will get out of the car find a cute guy, and literally run their mouth and try to talk him to death so no one else can hook up with them. -
I prefer older tops. As I said in another post, I agree it gets harder for sex as you age, but there are still plenty of guys out here willing to fuck. I think the question is what do you prefer, because if your looking for a unicorn (the straight, married white jock with a 9 inch dick) your more than likely not going to find it often.
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No I think he likes the attention. To some guys, that’s better than cumming
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Not to derail the topic, but last three times I was at SD CumUnion and there is this guy there who will stay hour grunting and hollering like he’s about to cum, never does, and ends up leaving. Hilarious but annoying.
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No diss to the OP or any comments on here, just my observations: I contact a lot of 50 year old guys online, with 50/50 response rate. As much as I see complaining, you are STILL holding out for those unicorns. Let’s just just keep it real. Alot of gays are still stuck up and snobby, but as 50+ comes, less and less care. As age goes up, others tolerance for your attitude and games goes down. That semi cute guy who was 20 when you were 40 and you thought you were too hot for is no longer interested, and your mad about it. Do you want to fuck him now? No, but you just want the psychological benefit of knowing you can still get attention.
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What's the Matter with (18+) Kids These Days
BlackDude replied to PhoenixGeoff's topic in General Discussion
I actually see the opposite at times. A lot young people want to fuck, they just aren’t into the group thing as much. It’s the “older” (35+) are the ones who are acting uptight about sex. They are the ones still thinking they are 20, sitting around waiting for another 20 year old. I can’t count how many times at the local cruising spot or sauna I seen middle age guys sitting around holding out for that perfect 25 year old jock, when it’s dozens of regular guys ready and willing to fuck. Or show up at a local motel for a Cumdump only to say “sorry I’m saving it for later.” Then they’ll scurry off in their little mini coopers, mad, bitter but pretending like they have action somewhere else. When u had all the chance to fuck right there. I mean if you want to hold out for a specific type of guy fine, but that’s basically the same thing guys are accusing younger folks of doing. They are just choosing to move into together and buy a dog and have a relationship in between sexual exploits. -
I really was trying to be PC, and I’ve never been to those cities, but the fact I think those can be viable alternatives to San Francisco is sad. The last cumunion party I went to was before covid and was 80% vouyers and 10% guys saving it for later (I mean ur at freaking CumUnion!!). Gultch was even sadder. And the bars were half women. Best luck like someone said is a private party like BBRT.
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What are you plans with the Onlyfans news?
BlackDude replied to blkoraltm's topic in General Discussion
Yup. Maybe guys will get offline and start fucking again without a million questions. -
I was at this house “sex party” that was turning out to be a bust, but there was this hot middle eastern man there with a bit of a pot belly (which I don’t mind). He was in the corner by himself, I guess the other guys were intimidated, uninterested or waiting for their perfect 10. He kept staring at me jacking off until he asked me in very broken English “you like to fuck me?” After this last 18 months of covid, it was a no brainer. We went to another room, no talk of condoms. I fucked him bareback doggy about 5-10 minutes until he asked me to stop. When I did, I noticed this dude shot hands free one of the largest, biggest loads I’ve ever seen. The hosts bedspread was def done for the night. He never made a sound. He thanked me and left. I don’t know how a guys could dim so much without jacking off. I like to think he was the stereotypical, under appreciated, sexually repressed middle eastern husband. His wife’s loss was my gain.
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I agree with this. But what do you think if it’s recorded in a public place?
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What's the worse sexual encounter you've ever had?
BlackDude replied to ScaredAndShy's topic in General Discussion
Damn that’s wild. I know cruising is illegal, but we are basically wasting money on busting gays in restroom? And then to go to a trial…ridiculous…. -
Women use sex as a weapon. Since many men are no longer interested in marriage, some women think limiting access to sexual outlets will force men to conform to their ridiculous idea of a “modern marriage” we’re women control everything, and men just settle for any monthly pussy the woman is willing to give out until she decides it’s time to cash out. Like someone said, it’s wack-a-mole, but they will keep trying.
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What's the worse sexual encounter you've ever had?
BlackDude replied to ScaredAndShy's topic in General Discussion
1. A guy leaving shit on my sheets, and my dick, then sending me a snarky message later about not performing. 2. Driving 30 miles to hook up with a supposedly hairy otter only to find out he shaved his ass only, but everything else was hairy. It was distracting and confusing. He eventually ushered me out due to a lack of chemistry lol Long Story Alert: 3. We have a guy our city let’s just call him “Dru.” Let’s just say Dru is a rather hefty man, which I have no problem with, but he is pushy, and has an overinflated opinion of himself (that is only allowed in a city like mine). First real anon hotel “party” I attended was this Cumdump with a hot ass hosting at a hotel. I went, and Dru was there. No problem, fooled around a bit, hoping Dru would nut and bounce since he was there first. Of course he didn’t, so told the Cumdump I’d be back later and he obliged. When I cam back four hours later, Dru was still there, only now he had ordered McDonalds, was spread out on the bed, and the room smelled of feet and other smells (not the hot ones). The Cumdump gave me this “help me” look. I was Disgusted, but too intrigued at where this was going. Turns out Dru had taken over room and invited this hot guy over (to someone else’s hotel room) for a little worship role play. I had to see this. The hot guy showed up, the look on his face was same as the Cumdump, tho he politely played with Dru for about five minutes. I decided I couldn’t take it anymore, and with Dru’s hostile takeover of this poor cumdumps event, I knew I wasnt going to enjoy breeding any ass that night. Apparently, few else had either. I left same time as hottie, and politely declined his invite to hook up. No lie took me a month to get over that trauma. A few more, but I honestly have to say for the most part, they’ve been good (at least for me!!) -
I would agree with you, but I’ve seen so many of these Dudes clutching their pearls online or in bars only to see them late nights, in the shadows waiting to get their turn at the latest seedy motel Cumdump, not a condom to be found.
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Great point here. A lot of folks 30-35 plus seen guys, even close family and friends literally die in weeks from something we couldn’t wrap our heads around fast enough. It was drilled in our heads for decades “use a condom or die.” For many, There is no amount of reading, knowledge, experience, or education that is going to undo that trauma and hardwiring. However, I think for younger folks, they are just being stereotypical (excuse my language) snooty fags. Sorry….
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I know people that are on Prep and use condoms. I started prep with the full intent on using condoms until I was ready. I don’t think their is anything wrong with taking an extra precaution. Not everyone takes Prep to start BB. And I also know some guys are full of BS. They’ll put that on a profile to “safe face” for friends, their open relationships and other fuck buddies, but will BB if they deem you worthy.
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I believe so yes. Just my opinion, gay society has become a lot less piggy and moving to align itself more with straight society and it’s values. This is the compromise of seeking acceptance. This includes many men being less educated, willfully ignorant and more judgmental of activities or situations straight society may not understand or approve off. As if they are separating themselves for other gay men to appear more civilized to straight society. “Yes I’m gay but I would never…..” Straight society still connects disease with gay bb sex, and many gays will to just to go along with it. This is all a fruitless attempt to get society to “accept” them, when truth is most either accept it or wont no matter civilized they deem behavior is. No judgment here because I do the same at times. Just giving you an explanation.
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Yeah, I had quite a few videos I purchased from there before the NBA fan days. Shame they will disappear in the night
