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PozBearWI

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  1. Truly? Is your day to day life out of control? Or do you enjoy an enviable supply of dick and the other parts of your life are working out OK?
  2. Commedians: David Nihill Chad Daniels Mark Normand Sam Morril
  3. I don't think me always saying "you know I'm poz right?" makes any good sense. Especially being poz and on meds. TasP was proof enough that we do not pose the risk in the raw sex time, at least regarding HIV. Before I started meds; yes that made some sense to tell them they're taking a risk. But I question anymore whether we really have an obligation to say that. If we care enough about it we should bring it up. If we don't care; it isn't like infection is likely. When we kiss, do we make sure we say "you know it is flu season right?". I understand why back in the 80's that made sense to put an onus on the poz guys to inform. There wasn't a good "poz and on meds" going on back then. But HIV manifests in society now in massively different ways than then. And certainly the onus should no longer be on the poz guy.
  4. I got my PA now about 15 years ago. Pretty much reflects my own experience although back then they just would not start me at a 6; so that's pretty cool to just start out there. But indeed a lot more damage in the bigger hole; so it makes sense you bled for a couple of days; obviously less over time. Starting at a 12, the bleeding was very little and just for a couple of hours. Upsizing of course takes time. I probably pushed that envelope a bit too aggressively, and don't recommend anyone else do that. Jewelry though didn't start to get comfortable until I got into 8g. Over time I got to 0, and then eventually settled on 6 as comfortable all the time. Each cock will find it's most comfortable size.
  5. If we ever meetup there, I'll make it a point to keep you warm... ☺️
  6. True @Pozguyinchi, my most piggy fun was at the Island House "video" room with the convenient big bed, sling. There is only one way to warm up at Kenosha; room temps aren't going to do it... Skin on skin a survival requirement there! 😀
  7. Before it was named Steamworks, it was known as The Unicorn (club). I never heard the word "club" when we talked about it, but I'm sure it registered as a business as The Unicorn Club.
  8. From our POV @bikerarmpits; as we aren't privy to the actual conversation or gestures between the to guys; we really can only conjecture. Further, even if the poz guy is viral and the neg guy is not on PrEP; the one who wants to know has an obligation to ask. If neither asks then they've consented by default. To your fine what-if question, infection from that bottom is pretty slim. But risk I don't thing comes into play. So one tried to increase his pleasure by coaxing the tops load, so what? Except to them, it doesn't matter; and if our sex mate doesn't ask; it isn't our job to change the conversation from a hot sexual encounter to one having to educate the other on HIV risk is it?
  9. Yes, I do see that uptick. The whole focus on BBC, or Hispanic cock, etc. I've enjoyed men of all stripes and honestly, it's the man not his race that make a difference.
  10. Indeed, while not the best place, it was pretty good and I always had a good time at Midtowne in Milwaukee.
  11. My last load was mine, into the palm of my left hand which I licked clean.
  12. I love steamworks, but it wasn't the first bathhouse I went to. That dubious honor goes to the very grungy Kenosha Baths.
  13. @RandyCubby much the same Randy, and indeed craps count as bugs. The one I hate the most....
  14. Adams apple, beard shadow
  15. Indeed @norefusal; the backroom isn't granted to newbies. One gains some experience on the site; and the site with the new member before backroom is granted. Unless something has changed... I'll grant it's been awhile for me so perhaps entry is a little different? Mods?
  16. Roger, you are finding us; just relax and continue to explore BZ and you'll continue to meet the rest of us poz guys.
  17. True @poztalkauthor many have done a horrible job at implementation. But that doesn't mean DEI is bad. Across humanity we fuck up a lot of implementations. Better we keep trying to do better. Why is it important to find something positive in Trump? The man is a mob boss at least. He is most definitely a hypocrite. Plus he is a compulsive liar. His interest are money and territory for himself, only. You're not alone in being one of us tech folk. But we need other non tech skills too.
  18. And of course the intention of DEI was never to hire because they were minority, but rather to correct for decisions to not hire often better qualified candidates because they were minority or "those people". Over my career as a manager; I've hired people of pretty much every stripe; and I've not hired people of pretty much every stripe. Because it wasn't the stripes, it was their matching what I needed to get the job done.
  19. Sounds interesting. But I may wait and see. We need to view sudden deletion of our discussion groups and/or websites as warning shots. That suggests that we are being monitored by someone, and are subject to being deleted without our input or consent. As much as we want to say what we want; and potentially explore every weird thought we might have and see where that goes; society is a collection of others who are at different points in experiencing every weird thought. And thus some when observing us will respond poorly. What troubles me about Telegram, as a platform, is that when I've read of arrests (which are, please understand, accusations, not convictions) often the government source cited leading to that arrest is Telegram. So I'm not so keen on using that platform for the sort of things we might choose to discuss. Also, "no limits" is fine in as an idea; but it doesn't work out so well in practice. Maybe we're discovering our limits about one or another thing; but such a declaration doesn't seem to work for very long. I for one find undirected boring over time. Even if our next step isn't predefined, looking back reflects the path we're on, and it seems to progress better if we recognize that and make adjustments. All this said, I hope your group unfolds well @SuburbanSeed666.
  20. And even then, if the poz guy wants to risk his own health, he will have to take a med holiday for several weeks to build up a viral load.
  21. And adding to the whole "stump the chump" reasoning; poz guy on meds is least likely to infect someone with HIV. Those rejecting us are increasing their overall risk of infection.
  22. I used to not care so much whose hole. But an old friend I hadn't seen in a few years, since before Covid; stopped over in September to play. And as much as I enjoyed eating him out and massaging his prostate while I sucked him, I am not entirely certain whether I got cryptosporidium on my brief Michigan trip over Labor Day or with Wes. I do know I'll do my level best to avoid cryptosporidium again. In some ways my body is still recovering from that; it definitely sapped a lot of life out of me. So, hmmm, fuck I do love rimming a guy and if there is a fresh load to felch out, all the better. But will I again? IDK sitting here this afternoon thinking about that.
  23. Honest whether furry or shorn, as long as the guy I am rimming is comfortable, I'll be good.
  24. Not exactly a POLL, but I'm fine with putting out my own thoughts; understanding that this is a discussion and not THE conclusive moral direction. I think society benefits if boys and girls growing up play sports together. For many who live in small towns/rural locations gender isn't a viable choice to make. If we have six friends, some boys, some girls we have to play together to have a game. When we get into income producing sports; this topic might be more relevant. Then too let's consider Billy Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Bobby claimed all along he was the obvious winner due to his penis and masculine genetics. And yet...
  25. Indeed @Willing I believe a number of us are
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