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PozBearWI

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  1. Indeed, it seems to be fashionable these days to jump to taking offense. I think it is a lot less dramatic and more productive to just answer the question.
  2. Yes, and can we get a law passed that this is he moniker going forward? We can of course simplify that to SHON And to my friends Shawn, Sean, Shyawn; sorry homonyms just are...
  3. The description of "the dementors" Rowling used in her Harry Potter series seems to be an apt description for Donnie.
  4. Certainly a more productive POV @hntnhole. And indeed those who believe offing those with whom they disagree are definitely THE killer's group. Sadly Liberals and MAGAs (formerly known as Republicans) each have some of the killer group in them. So far the scorecard favors MAGA for assassins. But if we wind up in a full on Civil war obviously that idea goes off the table. It has occurred to me that maybe that is Donnie's vision, to the degree it might be a vision, that is, getting the nobel peace prize for ending the war he started? The man is a sink hole of need.
  5. Who determines when one is ready for sex? I believe it is likely there are individuals younger than age of consent laws that are truly emotionally and physically available for sex. I also believe that for most who were were not ready. All sorts of beliefs and norms that one grows up with are composed of a broad range of factors. I've met some otherwise well adjusted individuals where sexual association by an older individual in their youth had no adverse impact on their lives. I think if initiated by the youth, they're likely ready. But when we're looking back in time, how can it be proven without a doubt who that person is. Thus we need the imperfect metric of age. Age of consent should be whenever the person is able to sign contracts.
  6. Can we suffice to say that the killer isn't "one of us" either?
  7. The mods here are first rate guys. They don't misbehave and frankly, I've seen them use restraint few others anywhere exhibit.
  8. Splendid so far. Man I hope they get pozzed before they get there, even if they're in their window period before getting to Nachladen.
  9. PozBearWI

    you like PAs?

    It's close to 20 years since I got my PA. But I don't wear the jewelry consistently for two reasons. First, the remaining bridge is thin and a strong tug on the jewelry is apt to result in a meatotomy; which would end my ability to continue. Second, as I've aged my jewelry gets tucked nicely in my foreskin and bacteria (I believe) irritates the hole. Taking it out and a few rinses all is comfy again.
  10. It makes sense though that we don't set age of consent at puberty. Hormones are raging then and while the pleasure could be exquisite, decisions made then more often than not find themselves in the "regrets" stack. I can see the argument for 16, and wouldn't be leading a campaign to change that. But I've read cogent articles suggesting why 21 might be a better age. It is good I think that across the globe different ages gain this; and we can observe the effects of that to the benefit of the rest of us.
  11. True @J-raw. But he knows he took the first steps risking it. And that'll play on his mind for a time. We'll see what he eventually does.
  12. Lovely. Seems like the beginnings of a group is forming.
  13. I would hope you would!
  14. Or it is quite possible Mr Martin is just untested poz. Reminder that when we test NonReactive, that is our serostatus as of about one month ago, not today. So it's entirely possible both dad and Alex are poz already.
  15. Thanks. Yes the last 40 years have been pretty fraught with loss. For the record, this IS the political section, hence my commentary. As far as your loss, man that had to be hard to endure. Glad you're still here. And I'm glad you made it through. If we can't agree to disagree then we didn't learn our lessons of the last half century very well did we?
  16. Most definitely.
  17. I think it is US guys.... Each of us grappling with our evolving social norms as our society adapts to the myriad subtle changes going on around us. Stupid stuff like having to get VPNs for example. Jury is still out on which seems most workable here in SE Wisconsin; but I am sure things are experienced differently in Chicago, which isn't all that far away.
  18. Good albeit brief start. I'm looking forward to reading more. Be careful though of your use of "your". When you mean "You Are" that would be "You're" not "your".
  19. Different hookup sites seem to work differently - influenced I suppose by local customs.
  20. I certainly see your points @onlyraw. Honestly why are we even fretting safe sex anymore?
  21. Indeed I am thinking maybe it's time to give Recon another shot.
  22. I ran into nearly exactly the same thing here in WI on Grindr early last week.
  23. The basis of u=u were the partner studies, done 15 to 20 years ago when we could only measure down to 200 copies. At that level of viral load there were no partner to partner infections for serodiscordant partners that weren't show to be from the positive partner. As long as you're below 200; even if you are above 20 please don't fret it. Viral blips while common still fall within the <200 metric. When they don't that indicates that the individual is in treatment failure and alternative ARV's will be tried.
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