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Yes of course, and we've done that.
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Somebody to be mine forever.
PozBearWI replied to Scanbu's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
What a great start @Scanbu. I got quite a chuckle out of "Here comes the sex" opening. -
If I don't tip, it is for a reason. But for me it applies to the whole place, not just the server. Traditionally restaurants locally pay minimum wage; or worse, wait staff works for tips. So if I am satisfied; reasonably friendly and no fuck ups; I tip 20%. Easy math in my head; and many restaurants have a tip chart on their receipt. If it was more of a Just OK, did the job but a pedestrian overall experience; we tip 15. If the server was an utter asshole; food sucked; we got shot; (pick your bad experience);, we tip a penny. Our favorite place has consistently excellent food; pays their staff well, and the service is excellent all the time, and patrons like us still tip 20%. The server is the front man but all the elements of the establishment count. Oh, um; yeah I guess that is front person.... ugh... 🙂
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24 years now in our open relationship. We had been the monogamous one of a partner who strayed. And we had similar reactions to that. We weren't put off by the sex, but rather the over lying about it. Honest that lying crap is tiring. Once we know someone is lying about at least some things; we really don't know when they are lying. And so our relationships had been built on sand. We are open, sometimes together, more often these days separately. But not secretive. It fun to watch each other enjoying sex with others and from time to time we get to enjoy that. We are lifemates. The sucky part of that of course is that one of us is going to experience the loss of the other. We'll probably never "be ready for that" and yet we accept the inevitability of it. We've lost siblings, close friends, parents many years ago. ( aside: for years it always amused me when I heard peers utter words "If I die....". )
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So glad to have come back to this. While this story was being written, I was finally seroconverting myself. So it has a special significance. But it is also a classic story. I would love to see this and others assembled into a book.
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You know a bunch of these stories should be published into a book....
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We generally get our STI's as a result of bareback. That said, condoms aren't foolproof.
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drinking the whole bowl definitely appealing and hard for me to resist. But some would definitely wind up in my hole...
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UT,LA,VA,MS,MT,AR,TX,NC are now ALL blocked! (IN & ID 7/1)
PozBearWI replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
@rawTOP did those jurisdictions block you or did you somehow control access yourself? I own what I believe to be a complimentary website (Curious Chaser) and I would appreciate benefit of your experience. -
ABS glory holes.
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Yes indeed, I miss the public gloryholes.
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What's the weirdest fetish you formed over time?
PozBearWI replied to a topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
My weird one is having a guy drool his spit into my open mouth. -
Wisconsin here and you surely won't hear it from me,, ya'all. 🙂 Growing up in a very unique small town in Illilnois; most in my young adult life took me as slightly British. At least I was often asked that. It didn't get better as my closer USAF friends were British - Cockney. Honest, I have developed a bit of the Sheboygan County accent with adopted family all Sheboygan Count based.
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Thanks @BootmanLA. Exactly the thought!!!!
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I agree @BootmanLA. I might start referring to 45 as "the Orange Jeezus"
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Exactly on the go get tested. I always set my timing depending upon a sort of mental slut index. If I've taken unknown loads weekly I'll get tested every month. If I get unknown loads monthly then every 3 I get tested. And so on; and my minimum was always still annually for those very dry times....
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If you have a regular STI clinic it might be a good time to make an appointment.
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Thanks @NWUSHorny; a flaw in my left/right thinking. Truly better to refer to parties by name, D vs R as left/right is contextual. What frustrates me most about Republicans these days is that they think they are very clever when they assert that border issues are the fault of the Democrats. The fault IMO lays at whomever is blocking presently; which is the Republicans. It exposes the worst elements of "politics" when viewed in derisive terms. We collectively hired these people to craft and pass legislation, and to ensure a smooth running nation. Rather than do that our politicians fuck us; the people who elected them. This feels very much like what I felt in the 1960's as a coming of age young man. It felt as though our society was breaking apart. We had growing frustration about the ill advised Viet Nam conflict; Significant scientific breakthroughs starting (organ replacement, Polio finally contained; The Bomb....; atrocities of our military against citizens aka Kent State. In short order in the 70's us queers asserting ourselves, Nixon debacle, And now we have large numbers of our fellow citizens believing utter falsehoods by one historically corrupt politician. And that boggles my mind. The man would never pay us if he hired any of us to get something done for him. And yet one supports that? Wants that behavior in our chief executive?
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I affectionately refer to our president as "Grandpa Joe". I am glad he leaned into his age last night. It isn't his youth; there are plenty of staff to manage the heavy lifting. Political finesse is still relevant and Grandpa Joe has that in spades. The "worst case scenario" isn't so bad either; that being that if our president dies Veep Harris takes over. Not my first choice but I am confident she will do a good enough job at least, and we might be pleasantly surprised and reelect her. WRT the SOTU; he did quite well. Stumbled over some words; but honestly how many of us would stand there and never stumble over words. If that is the metric we're using the Orange dictator gives master class lessons on stumbling over words; malapropisms. The Republican response only needed rain, sad music and puppies added. I listened to the whole thing; but man it is frustrating when they are actively blocking a solution to the problem they are trying to lay at Grandpa Joe's feet. Obvious bullshit like that is simply offensive.
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Future of porn (and this site) is really uncertain right now…
PozBearWI replied to rawTOP's topic in LGBT Politics
Honestly I don't think publicly Christian Nationals support porn, they just want to limit it to "their porn". Privately I think more porn is funded by Christian Nationals than anyone is going to admit. -
Anybody into having sex in the nature?
PozBearWI replied to Asianbottomfor's topic in General Discussion
It has been while, and to be honest, I am not sure I would notice them all that well; but are trail cams used by the park service very much? Are we really not being watched in our park system? It's been a few years now since I've had sex along the trail. Trails these days are no longer the rarely used resource I could enjoy and never see anyone else all day. When I started trail sex back in the 1960's our population was notably smaller. When I was in middle/high school we lived adjacent to a huge county forest preserve and outside of doing chores, I enjoyed my hikes and my pleasurable outdoor jackoff. In my later twenties once I got more established as an adult with my own home and job humming along well I really enjoyed trail sex with buddies (along with the occasional blowjob while driving on the freeway). Nowadays; cameras have become ubiquitous and thus any notion there aren't eyes on me goes away once I head out my door. When I walked my nomination papers around last December more than half the houses now have doorbell cameras. I have neighbors who put up trail cams to see what's going on around their property. Our mobile phone photos are geolocated and are likely in the public cloud. -
Years later, but Bentley's story is a fantastic read! Kudos to him! And RIP.
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Damn, that is Sad. We used to chat quite often here; but never were able to piece together common time to play even though we were just a couple hours apart.
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Neg not on Prep but considering playing with U+
PozBearWI replied to a topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Technically yes as "undetectable" doesn't mean our jizz is free of any virus. Detectable as a metric has changed over the years as the sensitivity of tests has improved. So now it means <20 copies per ml. Could it be zero copies in our semen? Maybe. Bottom line in now several repeat studies there have been no transmissions within serodiscordant couples even when "undetectable" was <200 copies per ml. Nothing is without risk. Even the guy neg on PrEP; especially with the rather sloppy way PrEP is being dispensed these days. There are way too many fellows on PrEP who haven't tested in years; and whose compliance is spotty. -
Reconnecting with my gay uncle
PozBearWI replied to Jaygusher's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
While I will sometimes ask when there seems to be an extended break, @Jaygusher is a reliable and talented author. As @kspozcum pointed out, none of our authors here are paid to write. Us readers who appreciate these great stories I hope keep the authors well aware we appreciate their talent and time.
