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  1. PozBearWI
    The risk is less than most seem to know. I rawfucked for decades, caught a few other STI's but by fucking, HIV eluded me.
  2. PozBearWI
    I kind of struggle with the idea of influence... Best I can come up with is that my dick has been my most influential dick. Following the "little head" into pleasure. Too many dicks experienced to confine myself to one. I know there are many dozens I've forgotten. Perhaps if the question were "memorable dicks". But even then many would be "favorites".
  3. PozBearWI
    I'm with you on that score @RandyCubby. I'll still play with the guy, but there is still a bit of disappointment at the trimming.
  4. PozBearWI
    I suspect it is more than many wish their dicks were bigger than it is; more than the other guys dick is bigger. There is a power implication of course. The belief that the larger the dick the stronger the guy. Sort of like Samson but with dicks instead of hair (or were the biblical writers just using "hair" to protect the overly sensitive?). 🙂
  5. PozBearWI
    Indeed we sometimes toss around the wrong word in so many context. And one risks being considered sort of a Karen if one says something. BUT, words do have meanings. When they don't, communication is flawed. I say one thing and your brain picks up on a whole different set of experiences in understanding that. I think when we talk about "education" we get stuck in the details of, let's say, physics rather than an understanding of what actually was in the mind of the speaker when we communicate. The political discourse has made this worse. When bald faced lies become truth we take misunderstanding to a whole new level. And so; I agree, it is time to get back to a common understanding the meaning of words.
  6. PozBearWI
    Perhaps it was more than luck though... Looking for someone who doesn't require their mate to "be" a certain person; but rather to be curious enough to see how the whole life plays out brings this sort of mate to us.
  7. PozBearWI
    I enjoyed reading this story. Well done, flowed naturally to the end. I'm glad the coming out experience wasn't stumbling and awkward cast in a 1960's mindset, Society has evolved quite a bit. So well done! I do wonder why condoms still seem to dominate the whole concept of safe? Between PrEP and doxyPEP the whole point of condoms seems stupid. But more, at least here on BZ, bareback is what we're about. "Robin" did exactly as I did at first fuck, take it raw. I don't think us humans are wired to put a barrier between us and whomever we with sexually. Maybe that's all the slut within me, but not taking or giving our loads into each other seems to miss the point. To the idea of Beth, it does seem common that our friends will see things in us that we don't see in ourselves.
  8. PozBearWI
    I think this is the pivotal difference between those who pozzed 25 and more years ago to those who poz today. It isn't a death sentence anymore.
  9. PozBearWI
    I'm not sure how strong any of our communities are. This is a "not in the flesh" community". But humans are tactile critters; so that proximity and touch of others is important to the experience of being human.
  10. PozBearWI
    I'm seeing about 50/50 for the condom crowd.
  11. PozBearWI
    @verbalBTTM If you think what I wrote is "blaming the President", then perhaps a new POV is in order. I think stating the facts that Donny spews out vile shit about anyone he is angry with is hardly "blame". Describing what we can hear and see on a daily basis wouldn't be blame. It is just accurately describing what is, much like the sun is either shining on our side or the other side of our planet. That others are replicating his behavior is also an observable fact, not an opinion. What makes you think I live in a community of like minded people. I am the non maga guy in magaland. Most who choose to be in municipal government here are aware of facts. We have to be. My peers in local government are non partisan. Again, we simply can't afford to be. As far as the guy who went off on me, my response was direct. His premise that my sucking him off would certainly infect him and that I should be arrested just for bringing that up obviously reflects what's going on in DC. But it isn't like our society in my lifetime hasn't been here before. We'll get through it. I am disappointed though to see the increase in stigma once again based upon fear rather than facts.
  12. PozBearWI
    You didn't offend me @onlyraw. But thanks for your direct response. I think one of the common challenges going on in our society, no matter the subject, is the tendency to state or imply "all". All Republicans are xxx, all democrats are yyy. All of a specific generation are ZZZ. The reality is not that. Indeed some fetishize all sorts of things. I for one purposely and intentionally fuck raw, not because it is a fetish, but because I find it much more pleasurable.
  13. PozBearWI
    But we live in a time when POTUS spits out vile statements about others. So why would we expect ordinary citizens to not do similar? Seriously, if you're going to risk getting poz develop a thick skin first. But nearly all of us have and will experience hateful comments. It is part of the human experience. Indeed those spewing the hate almost always have issues themselves. Moderator's Note: This thread may be a little disjointed. This is a political discussion spun off from a Backroom thread. If people want to continue this discussion, they are welcome to do so. Please note this thread is now in General not the Backroom.
  14. PozBearWI
    As a veteran of the 80s and 90s I am calling bullshit that our bareback is a fetish. Maybe it is for @onlyraw, but as much as you try, you don't speak for me.
  15. PozBearWI
    Bareback is the most natural way for humans to have sex. It is what we have always done for millennia. Lots of sexual things get fetishized, but that doesn't make the them a fetish, it is that fetishist's individual action that makes it a fetish for themselves.. For the rest of us it is just natural human sex.
  16. PozBearWI
    More specifically, if your vial load is under 200 you are "undetectable". The reality is that while testing can see finer numbers, "undetectable" was established when we could only see above 200.
  17. PozBearWI
    Yes, to be poz is to be untouchable, no matter the u=u ads on TV. I'm certain if I erased my status on my online profiles I would be back to hookups once or twice a week. Poz seems to have made me automagically off limits for just about all of my former fuck buds. Other STI's have always been on the "what's out there" list. In the 20 years since TasP (now u=u) started the risk of HIV is consistently thought to be hugely higher than it is. Read the fantasy stories and you would think one hot fuck is gonna do it. It rarely does. And we seem to have forgotten how to talk with each other. Sex is hopefully not one specific act done one specific way or we just aren't happy.... Yeah for some, but I think for most it are the variations in sexual pleasure that is a turn on. Cripes if conversation is difficult sex must be impossible! 🙂
  18. PozBearWI
    @Bokkierob we should be in the same city.... 😉
  19. PozBearWI
    Oh lord I sure hope so. I would never pass up an opportunity for a recharge.
  20. PozBearWI
    Damn, I hate that all the "sauna's" have closed in Wisconsin. Maybe things will change given President slut and they'll reopen?
  21. PozBearWI
    I tend to trip on words like "true" cumdump. There isn't just one definition. One becomes a cumdump when he recognizes that in himself. Everything else is time/place/chance.
  22. PozBearWI
    I've enjoyed play with men of all races. Race isn't a qualifier for play buds.
  23. PozBearWI
    No, the undetectable guy is protected by the ARVs he is taking, as well as the antibodies and antigens he has developed.
  24. PozBearWI
    Indeed, and in ways I didn't expect. Especially living in a culture where most stay home and zoom into meetings when we have a new cold. No one ever reached out with messages in that case saying "Fuck that is hot, let me come over and get your cold....".
  25. PozBearWI
    One would have thought that would have been a snap. It wasn't.

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