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PozBearWI

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  1. True @J-raw. But he knows he took the first steps risking it. And that'll play on his mind for a time. We'll see what he eventually does.
  2. Lovely. Seems like the beginnings of a group is forming.
  3. I would hope you would!
  4. Or it is quite possible Mr Martin is just untested poz. Reminder that when we test NonReactive, that is our serostatus as of about one month ago, not today. So it's entirely possible both dad and Alex are poz already.
  5. Thanks. Yes the last 40 years have been pretty fraught with loss. For the record, this IS the political section, hence my commentary. As far as your loss, man that had to be hard to endure. Glad you're still here. And I'm glad you made it through. If we can't agree to disagree then we didn't learn our lessons of the last half century very well did we?
  6. Most definitely.
  7. I think it is US guys.... Each of us grappling with our evolving social norms as our society adapts to the myriad subtle changes going on around us. Stupid stuff like having to get VPNs for example. Jury is still out on which seems most workable here in SE Wisconsin; but I am sure things are experienced differently in Chicago, which isn't all that far away.
  8. Good albeit brief start. I'm looking forward to reading more. Be careful though of your use of "your". When you mean "You Are" that would be "You're" not "your".
  9. Different hookup sites seem to work differently - influenced I suppose by local customs.
  10. I certainly see your points @onlyraw. Honestly why are we even fretting safe sex anymore?
  11. Indeed I am thinking maybe it's time to give Recon another shot.
  12. I ran into nearly exactly the same thing here in WI on Grindr early last week.
  13. The basis of u=u were the partner studies, done 15 to 20 years ago when we could only measure down to 200 copies. At that level of viral load there were no partner to partner infections for serodiscordant partners that weren't show to be from the positive partner. As long as you're below 200; even if you are above 20 please don't fret it. Viral blips while common still fall within the <200 metric. When they don't that indicates that the individual is in treatment failure and alternative ARV's will be tried.
  14. Suf might be waiting to see if he hears from you.
  15. @MascTop no need for you to freak out.
  16. Indeed, there is no requirement that even though we try new things, we aren't required to stick with that.
  17. I don't think so. Some celebrate being poz, and some are intentionally trying to get there. But while there are some here who seem to get off mostly on stealthing, I think that is a minority opinion.
  18. It is of course, those words "in the legal sense".... And while legally I have no disagreement, we become aware of ourselves as humans at least a decade before we are legally an adult. If that teen has the ability to say yes or no to start or stop the activity, then legal be damned, they consented. Your own experience has to show you that...
  19. First, sucks you were raped. No one deserves that. Rape though while it involves sex parts typically, isn't what I was suggesting. Rape is by definition non consensual. If coach had talked with me and we agreed we were both interested, I don't think that would have been traumatic even if, for example, I was in my earlier teens. If I had been raped? Man I don't know. I am grateful I wasn't. How are you @blackrobe?
  20. Indeed, for a long time I've struggled to understand how sex with an adult would have damaged me. One of the coaches in high school was a stud I craved, even when I didn't really understand why. I find it hard to believe that if he had made a first move; or if I had (obviously I wasn't ready, brave enough, or such); that would have somehow damaged me. Sex at its core is something we discover. It seems to me by design to be a trial and error, trial and succeed sort of human experience. No one taught me how to masturbate. I figured it out unaided; and while once I started and would read "Ann Landers" teen advice; the antijack movement then didn't deter me. And somehow I had a productive career, and solid relationship and a comfortable enough retirement. Have I made plenty of missteps (eg: mistakes)? Oh hell yes. And learned from them.
  21. Welcome to BreedingZone @VirginEuroLatin.
  22. I doubt this will be the last time the three of them play
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