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It is of course, those words "in the legal sense".... And while legally I have no disagreement, we become aware of ourselves as humans at least a decade before we are legally an adult. If that teen has the ability to say yes or no to start or stop the activity, then legal be damned, they consented. Your own experience has to show you that...
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First, sucks you were raped. No one deserves that. Rape though while it involves sex parts typically, isn't what I was suggesting. Rape is by definition non consensual. If coach had talked with me and we agreed we were both interested, I don't think that would have been traumatic even if, for example, I was in my earlier teens. If I had been raped? Man I don't know. I am grateful I wasn't. How are you @blackrobe?
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Indeed, for a long time I've struggled to understand how sex with an adult would have damaged me. One of the coaches in high school was a stud I craved, even when I didn't really understand why. I find it hard to believe that if he had made a first move; or if I had (obviously I wasn't ready, brave enough, or such); that would have somehow damaged me. Sex at its core is something we discover. It seems to me by design to be a trial and error, trial and succeed sort of human experience. No one taught me how to masturbate. I figured it out unaided; and while once I started and would read "Ann Landers" teen advice; the antijack movement then didn't deter me. And somehow I had a productive career, and solid relationship and a comfortable enough retirement. Have I made plenty of missteps (eg: mistakes)? Oh hell yes. And learned from them.
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Do you really want to stop?
PozBearWI replied to aguyinthedesert's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
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Welcome to BreedingZone @VirginEuroLatin.
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Do you really want to stop?
PozBearWI replied to aguyinthedesert's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
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How would you describe the real male taste of semen?
PozBearWI replied to a topic in General Discussion
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I tend to interpret "side" as "not necessarily top or bottom". How one sets those parameters in a profile does not, for me, replace a conversation. They are a rough guide to discuss what we might do.
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I certainly do. Maybe with a bit of felching mixed in.
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Thanks for introducing yourself @Str8BottomFaggot. Actually even "faggots" are real men. I don't know where this delusional stuff comes from that a man being fucked makes him less of a man. I would argue it makes him more of a man - if it is relevant to manhood at all. Obviously you are in fact attracted to men physically or you wouldn't still be thinking about your college experiences and wishing that were your life now. To your point of "no going back", if you've achieved a point where life is pleasurable, what on earth are you wanting to go back to???
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The boy who craved destruction
PozBearWI replied to PleaseDestroyMe's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Whenever I read a story like this, I wonder what happens after. So time passes, the twink gets used a few more times; is finally poz and faced with man after man begging for his charged load.... How does that play out??? -
The risk is less than most seem to know. I rawfucked for decades, caught a few other STI's but by fucking, HIV eluded me.
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Who was your most influential dick?
PozBearWI replied to cumfillthishole's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
I kind of struggle with the idea of influence... Best I can come up with is that my dick has been my most influential dick. Following the "little head" into pleasure. Too many dicks experienced to confine myself to one. I know there are many dozens I've forgotten. Perhaps if the question were "memorable dicks". But even then many would be "favorites". -
I'm with you on that score @RandyCubby. I'll still play with the guy, but there is still a bit of disappointment at the trimming.
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I suspect it is more than many wish their dicks were bigger than it is; more than the other guys dick is bigger. There is a power implication of course. The belief that the larger the dick the stronger the guy. Sort of like Samson but with dicks instead of hair (or were the biblical writers just using "hair" to protect the overly sensitive?). 🙂
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Indeed we sometimes toss around the wrong word in so many context. And one risks being considered sort of a Karen if one says something. BUT, words do have meanings. When they don't, communication is flawed. I say one thing and your brain picks up on a whole different set of experiences in understanding that. I think when we talk about "education" we get stuck in the details of, let's say, physics rather than an understanding of what actually was in the mind of the speaker when we communicate. The political discourse has made this worse. When bald faced lies become truth we take misunderstanding to a whole new level. And so; I agree, it is time to get back to a common understanding the meaning of words.
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Halloween Party: The Week That Changed My Life
PozBearWI replied to Scout's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Perhaps it was more than luck though... Looking for someone who doesn't require their mate to "be" a certain person; but rather to be curious enough to see how the whole life plays out brings this sort of mate to us.- 21 replies
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Halloween Party: The Week That Changed My Life
PozBearWI replied to Scout's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
I enjoyed reading this story. Well done, flowed naturally to the end. I'm glad the coming out experience wasn't stumbling and awkward cast in a 1960's mindset, Society has evolved quite a bit. So well done! I do wonder why condoms still seem to dominate the whole concept of safe? Between PrEP and doxyPEP the whole point of condoms seems stupid. But more, at least here on BZ, bareback is what we're about. "Robin" did exactly as I did at first fuck, take it raw. I don't think us humans are wired to put a barrier between us and whomever we with sexually. Maybe that's all the slut within me, but not taking or giving our loads into each other seems to miss the point. To the idea of Beth, it does seem common that our friends will see things in us that we don't see in ourselves.- 21 replies
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I think this is the pivotal difference between those who pozzed 25 and more years ago to those who poz today. It isn't a death sentence anymore.
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Politics Discussion spun off from First real poz scare
PozBearWI replied to PozBearWI's topic in LGBT Politics
I'm not sure how strong any of our communities are. This is a "not in the flesh" community". But humans are tactile critters; so that proximity and touch of others is important to the experience of being human.- 10 replies
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Bareback: Fetish or sexual practice?
PozBearWI replied to favorite's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
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Politics Discussion spun off from First real poz scare
PozBearWI replied to PozBearWI's topic in LGBT Politics
@verbalBTTM If you think what I wrote is "blaming the President", then perhaps a new POV is in order. I think stating the facts that Donny spews out vile shit about anyone he is angry with is hardly "blame". Describing what we can hear and see on a daily basis wouldn't be blame. It is just accurately describing what is, much like the sun is either shining on our side or the other side of our planet. That others are replicating his behavior is also an observable fact, not an opinion. What makes you think I live in a community of like minded people. I am the non maga guy in magaland. Most who choose to be in municipal government here are aware of facts. We have to be. My peers in local government are non partisan. Again, we simply can't afford to be. As far as the guy who went off on me, my response was direct. His premise that my sucking him off would certainly infect him and that I should be arrested just for bringing that up obviously reflects what's going on in DC. But it isn't like our society in my lifetime hasn't been here before. We'll get through it. I am disappointed though to see the increase in stigma once again based upon fear rather than facts.- 10 replies
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Bareback: Fetish or sexual practice?
PozBearWI replied to favorite's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
You didn't offend me @onlyraw. But thanks for your direct response. I think one of the common challenges going on in our society, no matter the subject, is the tendency to state or imply "all". All Republicans are xxx, all democrats are yyy. All of a specific generation are ZZZ. The reality is not that. Indeed some fetishize all sorts of things. I for one purposely and intentionally fuck raw, not because it is a fetish, but because I find it much more pleasurable.
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