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PozBearWI

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  1. Suf might be waiting to see if he hears from you.
  2. @MascTop no need for you to freak out.
  3. Indeed, there is no requirement that even though we try new things, we aren't required to stick with that.
  4. I don't think so. Some celebrate being poz, and some are intentionally trying to get there. But while there are some here who seem to get off mostly on stealthing, I think that is a minority opinion.
  5. It is of course, those words "in the legal sense".... And while legally I have no disagreement, we become aware of ourselves as humans at least a decade before we are legally an adult. If that teen has the ability to say yes or no to start or stop the activity, then legal be damned, they consented. Your own experience has to show you that...
  6. First, sucks you were raped. No one deserves that. Rape though while it involves sex parts typically, isn't what I was suggesting. Rape is by definition non consensual. If coach had talked with me and we agreed we were both interested, I don't think that would have been traumatic even if, for example, I was in my earlier teens. If I had been raped? Man I don't know. I am grateful I wasn't. How are you @blackrobe?
  7. Indeed, for a long time I've struggled to understand how sex with an adult would have damaged me. One of the coaches in high school was a stud I craved, even when I didn't really understand why. I find it hard to believe that if he had made a first move; or if I had (obviously I wasn't ready, brave enough, or such); that would have somehow damaged me. Sex at its core is something we discover. It seems to me by design to be a trial and error, trial and succeed sort of human experience. No one taught me how to masturbate. I figured it out unaided; and while once I started and would read "Ann Landers" teen advice; the antijack movement then didn't deter me. And somehow I had a productive career, and solid relationship and a comfortable enough retirement. Have I made plenty of missteps (eg: mistakes)? Oh hell yes. And learned from them.
  8. Welcome to BreedingZone @VirginEuroLatin.
  9. I doubt this will be the last time the three of them play
  10. The question is silly. The safest fuck you'll get is by poz guys who are on meds and undetectable. Everyone else presents a higher risk. There is no HIV test for "neg" because of the window period.
  11. I tend to interpret "side" as "not necessarily top or bottom". How one sets those parameters in a profile does not, for me, replace a conversation. They are a rough guide to discuss what we might do.
  12. I certainly do. Maybe with a bit of felching mixed in.
  13. Thanks for introducing yourself @Str8BottomFaggot. Actually even "faggots" are real men. I don't know where this delusional stuff comes from that a man being fucked makes him less of a man. I would argue it makes him more of a man - if it is relevant to manhood at all. Obviously you are in fact attracted to men physically or you wouldn't still be thinking about your college experiences and wishing that were your life now. To your point of "no going back", if you've achieved a point where life is pleasurable, what on earth are you wanting to go back to???
  14. My goodness what a beautiful dick!!!!!
  15. Whenever I read a story like this, I wonder what happens after. So time passes, the twink gets used a few more times; is finally poz and faced with man after man begging for his charged load.... How does that play out???
  16. The risk is less than most seem to know. I rawfucked for decades, caught a few other STI's but by fucking, HIV eluded me.
  17. I kind of struggle with the idea of influence... Best I can come up with is that my dick has been my most influential dick. Following the "little head" into pleasure. Too many dicks experienced to confine myself to one. I know there are many dozens I've forgotten. Perhaps if the question were "memorable dicks". But even then many would be "favorites".
  18. I'm with you on that score @RandyCubby. I'll still play with the guy, but there is still a bit of disappointment at the trimming.
  19. I suspect it is more than many wish their dicks were bigger than it is; more than the other guys dick is bigger. There is a power implication of course. The belief that the larger the dick the stronger the guy. Sort of like Samson but with dicks instead of hair (or were the biblical writers just using "hair" to protect the overly sensitive?). 🙂
  20. Indeed we sometimes toss around the wrong word in so many context. And one risks being considered sort of a Karen if one says something. BUT, words do have meanings. When they don't, communication is flawed. I say one thing and your brain picks up on a whole different set of experiences in understanding that. I think when we talk about "education" we get stuck in the details of, let's say, physics rather than an understanding of what actually was in the mind of the speaker when we communicate. The political discourse has made this worse. When bald faced lies become truth we take misunderstanding to a whole new level. And so; I agree, it is time to get back to a common understanding the meaning of words.
  21. Perhaps it was more than luck though... Looking for someone who doesn't require their mate to "be" a certain person; but rather to be curious enough to see how the whole life plays out brings this sort of mate to us.
  22. I enjoyed reading this story. Well done, flowed naturally to the end. I'm glad the coming out experience wasn't stumbling and awkward cast in a 1960's mindset, Society has evolved quite a bit. So well done! I do wonder why condoms still seem to dominate the whole concept of safe? Between PrEP and doxyPEP the whole point of condoms seems stupid. But more, at least here on BZ, bareback is what we're about. "Robin" did exactly as I did at first fuck, take it raw. I don't think us humans are wired to put a barrier between us and whomever we with sexually. Maybe that's all the slut within me, but not taking or giving our loads into each other seems to miss the point. To the idea of Beth, it does seem common that our friends will see things in us that we don't see in ourselves.
  23. I think this is the pivotal difference between those who pozzed 25 and more years ago to those who poz today. It isn't a death sentence anymore.
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