PozBearWI
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Oh lord indeed. TV media especially has become a master of unnecessary overkill. Who gives a crap what the polls say 12 months out? In recent years they seem to be wrong more than they're right and thus what is the point? And can we stop with the over emphasis on "breaking news" which more often than not are simply updates (and minor ones at that) for yesterday's news. It was so much better when news was a service to the public rather than the advertising investment for big pharma. And really, I am supposed to tell my doctor what to prescribe? Ask your doctor about "doigivafuk"! Cripes it has lead me to record ANY TV I watch so I can skip ahead over the 75% utter bullcrap they claim to be news. Newspapers not so much better which is disappointing as I rather like them over TV. We've a pretty decent local paper here and yet the two hired reporters lack talent. Thankfully the editor is quite good, but he can't do it all and run once of the few remaining local newspapers.
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Breaking “Straight” Guys’ Resolve of Condom Only
PozBearWI replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
Indeed we should each respect our own limits as we see fit. If the guy is asking after we fucked; really what's the point? I would probably first respond with "I didn't crap on your dick did I". If he says, no, i meant do you have A$^DS? I would reply I am poz with a well controlled but detectable viral load, no other STI's. Hopefully this would lead to a mutually productive conversation. But if not.... -
Breaking “Straight” Guys’ Resolve of Condom Only
PozBearWI replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
Indeed we could choose to make this a teaching moment but I doubt it would be effective. But, perhaps the most productive thing to do would be to say much of what's been said in the preceding posts. First, while it is good he eventually asked, asking after the fact is going to amend what I might have said had we begun with that question. I don't take offense to "clean". Ignorance abounds these days so why should we be surprised? I would explain what I do for sexual health concluding with my numbers (as I am not literally U=U; but a VL of 680 is a massively lower risk than an average unmedicated guy.). But I would want to have explains doxyPEP, what and HIV test does and does not show (specifically that it is a test to see if one is positive for HIV. It does not test to see if you're NEG. For most of us here we know of the window period. I suspect I would not get far before he would bail; but honestly, would that really be a loss? 🙂 -
Seems like a fuck flu should be setting in soon.....
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Rich Bitch Stealth Pozzed by Escort
PozBearWI replied to orlandoneg's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Sadly that is unlikely as @orlandoneg hasn't been on here in nearly 10 years... But indeed I liked this story. -
Truly I don't know. I've been fucking and getting fucked for 50 years though. In hindsight it would have been cool to keep a diary.
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We'll see how all this plays out. I'm not predicting... Back in February when the IDF head was interviewed on TV he predicted an end in four weeks (eg: March). My thinking when I listened to him was "I hope you're right because things are going to get uglier if it isn't ended by March. Now it's June. When it came to finding Bin Laden the US didn't go bombing the fuck out of civilian targets. And while it is true that Hamas Scum use civilians as shields, IMO IDF could start a more targeted campaign. Less bombs and more infiltration and finding HAMAS within the civilians and taking the actual enemy out. I don't know how much choice the civilians have about being used as shields. I like to think they would be rebelling at that; but most likely they would be killed for their rebellion. Globally we really need to get our shit together. By this I mean to expand beyond just Israel and Hamas to the strife in various forms going on all over the planet. A very few power hungry assholes are making life miserable to most. I think it may be time for the majority to prevail if we're to get back to a more peaceful coexistence.
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Definitely YES
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@BlindRawFucker1 honest I would be frustrated. But as the years go by my vision is beginning to fail me; at least in one eye. Of course right now I have a choice, but I've often shut my eyes during sex play as it helped me focus on other sensations. And yet there are so many things I see and appreciate; and it's gonna suck as my vision deteriorates. When I am ultra sensitive; and I believe it happens to most of us at least from time to time; it never helps me. Not to say I haven't had my times behaving as an utter ass hat. But I only wind up making myself feel crappier. Hearing is my weakest sense and unaided I often can't hear what a guy I am fucking with is saying. I might as well have "WHAT?" stamped on my forehead! 🙂 Bottom line as I see it; is to find everything, not just one thing, but all of it that we have reason for gratitude. And keep appreciating all that we can. And when my inner asshat does come out (and that fucker does sadly) I am quick to apologize.
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And indeed we can google and find some of his stuff. I know there is still plenty of blogspot content out there.
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@justsexnowatl man and account of my personal experience fifteen years ago. I've never ever regretted getting a PA and most of the time I wear it; although there are days (or two) that I'll take it out.
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Because we are letting them. We can't afford not to push back hard in our right to think for ourselves on things pertaining to our life and bodies; to the extent we don't intrude on anyone else'.
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What is your favorite type of gay orgy?
PozBearWI replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
Orgy per Mr Google: 1. a wild party characterized by excessive drinking and indiscriminate sexual activity. "he had a reputation for drunken orgies" 2. an instance of excessive indulgence in a specified activity. "an orgy of buying" Whatever qualifies within that for you is up to you. -
Perhaps said differently; 40 and 50 years ago we didn't have the web. Hell most didn't even have computers.... We had bars where people like us tended to meet. For me the main one was local in my small town; and every few weeks I would meet a trick for more fun at my house. I had to drive an hour to the city to find gay bars. And it was in gay bars then we could talk about stuff we do now here on BZ. For me this is the best replacement for that. Bigger world, and unfortunately we don't get to hear each other, or see the expression on each others faces (much less lust over that bulge in your pants). But BZ is pretty good nonetheless.
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Hmmm. Yeah I learned about god and jesus while I was learning about santa, the easter bunny, the tooth fairy.... All came from the same source. I am fine with anyone believing whatever they want. Even santa if you want. But for myself, it's all fiction; made up stories for when we didn't have better information.
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Hunter is an adult and fucked up. Publicly. I am hopeful the judge will be reasonable in sentencing as the maximum would be unjust when that crime is compared to; for example; Jan 6 crimes.
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I can definitely recognize barebackerman's voice on this vid
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@kspozcum Hopefully the turmoil that consumed much of your life has resolved. How are you doing?
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The very first thing I thought when I read this was; "is this the authors seroconversion symptoms?"
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There are soft trainer dildoes available online. The ones I bought has one thinner one which is a great starter. The thicker one has a hole in the center so one can work on relaxing their breathing with a throat full. The first one just gets past the depth fears. One learns nothing bad is going to happen; just relax into it. Once you can reliably swallow that one and not panic; move to the thicker one. Practice breathing with that thickness in your throat; and then relax so you don't need to breathe with it in your throat. That'll get you a sense of your natural breathing rhythm.
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Where I to get a tattoo; it would be the now classic Intel Inside logo but words would be "HIV Inside". I agree with everyone else; any symbol, once it becomes "a symbol" is never secret; at least not for long. And tattoo's are forever (for the most part). Honestly a bit of extended eye contact is still the best way.
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Right wing authortarian social bent is clearly on the uspwing world wide.
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Yes I think there is a distinctive difference between confirmed barebacker (perhaps most of us here) and a chaser.
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OY!!!! Maybe done in shorthand one line story "It's been done" @Scanbu none of us really need to direct you. You've plenty of authoring moxxie going on. However you take your stories, I'll read them and enjoy them.
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Cripes. Taking offense because a person chose one word or another to describe me is just a waste of my time. The 1970's were, I believe, only survivable if we developed a thick skin over names and words, epithets. Which isn't to say words don't have meaning. But meaning changes quite a bit when context changes; so quick to anger isn't usually helpful. A rose, by any other name....
