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    @JustAFrecklyWriter this particular story seems to have the potential to be it's own book; more around Will's sexual awakening and discovery of what gay life CAN be like. Certainly exposes the reader to what it was like at one time - and there is so much Jay could choose to do. And it is a book I think I would happily buy; especially when it contains @Jaygusher artwork to put a picture to his words.
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    Also, inflatables are essentially a balloon. The more air the more it resembles a ball. Still, as a stretch trainer? Inflatable let's you feel the stretch as it occurs. You set the pace with the pump and those are typically easy to control, increments pretty small. It was that ball effect where I learned it was best when I figured at what depth that occurred. Ultimately it seemed to want to "slip off center" of the tendon we're trying to relax. An inflatable also has the benefit of being able to do this alone; increase one's "capacity" (as it were) before it is needed....
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    Sadly, not everyone is comfortable being explicit about their what I'll call "operating parameters". Reluctant or embarrassed to discuss that level of detail. I think in our present social media hook up tools; there is an assumption that we adequately express our limits off an option chart; as if that explains why, how, when, where, how? Honestly it was truly easier when there was more an active bar scene. When we caught someone's eye we didn't have this incomplete and imperfect dossier pop up over their head...
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    On Everything Part 2

    PozBearWI commented on Philip's blog entry in Who am I?

    You already knew about adapting to the ebb and flow. At least for me, because I am liking what you've been writing here for awhile, I would be delighted with you being you, no need for an editor to make your words more perfect. Multiway sex is to me more an exchange of energy as so many senses are simultaneously engaged.
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    On Everything Part 2

    PozBearWI commented on Philip's blog entry in Who am I?

    Without an answer to her about "why do we have to..."; AI question can't be answered. I think, although Philip you know better as you're training for this, but what massage is doing is directly affecting the muscles, tendons, ligaments, bones below. If you don't understand that, the hands on part is just sex play.
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    On Everything Part 2

    PozBearWI commented on Philip's blog entry in Who am I?

    I'm not following the "tangle" here. Sounds like no tangle here at all...
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    Further, HIV develops differently in each of us. I have friends who progressed to AIDS within their first year poz. And others who didn't have a CD4 drop off for more than 20 years. My consistent answer to anyone asking "should I get infected with HIV?". NO. You have to figure this out on your own. We have a choice to prevent HIV infection (and some others if you're young enough when you read this). There will be fewer challenges if you don't get infected. There is still some AIDS hysteria around and that is growing in surprising areas. When I write that, the misinformation and folk lore about HIV that tends to separate Neg and Poz people. So u=u be damned they are still not willing to engage. At least here in rural US Midwest. Until you can have a face to face conversation with yourself, and can explain for yourself why you need to live with an HIV factory inside you, you have your own doubt. And only you can resolve your own doubt. If you choose to let Joe down the street decide everything, well then you're living Joe's life, not your own.
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    You can google VPN services which apply to your "home" network, whether that is on a modem/router you own, your mobile phone. Each provider will have info on where and how to install. Or, if necessary, ask one of your geekier friends. 🙂 VPN is a Virtual Private Network. Because the network you buy isn't your actual location; it is the VPN provider's location that is used.
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    @fluffybutt I am looking forward to whatever @Jaygusher writes. While in my take on this story so far I think Chester has likely already infected Will, there is enough reason to be 'unsure'. But it is clear Chester's cock finds Will's ass a familiar place, perhaps because Will's dad's ass was such a familiar place. So that's my take, but whatever Jay chooses to do with this story I know I am going to like. So I'll simply try to be patient... 🙂
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    On Teachers

    PozBearWI commented on Philip's blog entry in Who am I?

    Philip I am happy for you. You're not stuck in mourning the loss of K but are embracing living. My thinking is that this would be a good time to meet people, but not go so far as to enter a new relationship. Instead take time to rediscover yourself. But in five years? I think you'll find yourself in a happy place.
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    Indeed, and we're all on this unknown roller coaster ride. It's going to be whatever it turns out to be. My hope is that my worst fears won't manifest.
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    Indeed it is lowest pricing tier in my plan.
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    Indeed and mancount? Honestly I don't know. At least a few hundred.
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    Easily exceed 1,000 here with 50+ years of fucking/getting fucked.
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    Sure Erik, Same handle as here on there.
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    You're not alone @Erik62, I was banned from Twitter as well. And it was never clear why. I kind of viewed it as a badge of honor though, Twitter becoming the cesspool known as X. I'm finding Bluesky pretty good although I am only a month or two into use of it.
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    Indeed @hntnhole. It isn't the number but how much we mix it up with each other; all taking turns as fucker/fuckee so we all enjoy each other directly at some point.
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    I'm not visually challenged as my friend @BlindRawFucker1. My at a time of life where my vision is deteriorating. If I have the opportunity to see the guy who is fucking me, I want to enjoy seeing him while I can. That doesn't mean I don't also listen to the sounds we create, or tune into the energy we exchange, be aware of our touch. Besides if I want to focus on not seeing I can just close my eyes. Blindfold seems like unnecessary baggage.
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    Or BoyButter
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    Chester is going to be the one I think...
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    Somehow I think this guy is going to join the rest of us poz guys.,...
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    @rublthlad Certainly my experience being unmedicated poz.
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    Reading Part 7 it seems very clear that Will was seeded by the guy in the steam room. He fell that cock pulsing deep in his ass. But honestly I think it wasn't Will's first actual poz load. He didn't get off Chester in time either, despite his valiant attempt. As I read it, Will has already been bred with poz cum. But that doesn't mean he will definitely seroconvert. That's one interesting thing about HIV, it rarely infects quickly. Glad to see Will recognizing some of his own kinks. It would be nice to see him begin to relax into it rather than fight it all the time.
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    @jagmanaz for me is that while I think I should find it disturbing, I don't. And of course that is disturbing in and of itself. 🙂
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    What a great memory. Over the years it became clear to me that people enter and leave our lives all the time. It has characterized our years. A few endure many years. And it is memories like this which gives me comfort and pleasure. January 13, 2025 today. Each day is a start for us to make it what we will. Sometimes what is best is to lay low and keep it gentle and soft. Other days we're best served by going after whatever tasks lie ahead with energy and mindfulness. There isn't a right way; or one that is better than the other. One thing that I learned at my life's midpoint (yes, perhaps later than necessary) is that each day is better when I actively focus and each small thing I am grateful for. Be it a tiny blue flower in an otherwise dry ditch; or that exciting new job, or sex mate, or book.... That we have today is a reason unto itself.

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