PozBearWI
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Indeed, if I had to wait for others to have sexual pleasure I would be truly frustrated. At 74 my option pool has changed, but still plenty of opportunities. Even with my short term medical break (a series of things perhaps resulting from my recent conversion to HIV); I was at 80 playdates, plus hosted a dozen more group events. ED shows up more often than I would like. PT141 (Bremelanotide) truly amps up my feeling of horns and ED resolves for a time; but I get a nasty backache to use it infrequently. TriMix was stupidly expensive and I had to use too big a dose to get a satisfactory response. Maybe the needle poke in my dick pissed him off... I typically cum only once or twice a week - when I truly engage my body and mind towards those happy feelings. That tends to suggest to me that I might consider more planned pleasure time each day...
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Indeed @BootmanLA ARV's may pose side effects I don't know of yet.
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Both my husband and I have previous experience being in purportedly monogamous relationships. We created our own "rules" for the two of us. And mostly it is quite simple; we each want to see how each other winds up; until one of us dies. We have few if any "expectations". We have developed patterns with each other. We enjoy each others "sexploits". We are each others immediate family. We co own everything we have in every country where we have stuff. We have our contracts which we put in place when we weren't allowed to marry. As we don't view our right to be married as a state we can rely upon, we keep our contracts current. I don't need him to "make me happy". He doesn't need me to "make him happy". We are happy with each other. Perhaps most significant' we don't worship imaginary beings we think provide us with magical outcomes. So there is no entity above or below we fret about displeasing; that which is the foundation of "social norms".
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Being an admin on another bugchaser site, I definitely will put it as a message on our site. There are already many similar. I think it is fine to chase, everyone can make up their own mind. This is one of the things that occurs with HIV. It can still surprise us. Thankfully not often. So if one chases and expects any sort of guarantee this sort of thing can't happen to them, I encourage them to think again. If on the other hand your characterization of bug chasing and our sites as "damned"; I'll say the same thing I say to "right to lifers", my body my choice. Information great; castigation not so much...
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Indeed @tallslenderguy It is easy to conflate the idea of an open respectful relationship with 'cheating'. They are very different things.
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Similar to @atlfukbud @Konrad @MuscledHorse. I've been in my open, respectful and loving relationship for 23 years. We encourage each other to enjoy sexual pleasure however we find it. We had both experienced mates who insisted on absolute monogamy; we eventually discovered were anything but.
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Thanks @viking8x6. As an admin on another similar site I want to toss in that a lot of the reasons we put in such initial restrictions is to help the longer term survivability of our websites. There are no shortages of people who disagree with any of us discussing what we discuss here. So before we open up the floodgates to unrestricted posts we want to give time for people to reveal who they are (might be an over simplification but somewhat our "why").
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Do You Ever Slut Shame Yourself?
PozBearWI replied to VersatileBreeder's topic in General Discussion
Nicely said @ErosWired It wasn't a bathhouse encounter; it was a hotel room; so there was only the one other "customer" there. I think what would potentially bother me is less that I fucked the guy; but that there is a path to me per our pre meeting conversation that might leave me open to legal exposure (did I play with one guy who later accuses me of passing on an STI?). -
How do you convince guys to bareback you?
PozBearWI replied to bbttmm77's topic in General Discussion
The handful of condom guys are few and far between for me. -
Do we need a secret signal for breeding?
PozBearWI replied to rock-cock-jock's topic in General Discussion
I don't see the problem.... I just ask or tell guys I only do raw and want my load in them or theirs in me. Some demure but most are in the "bring it on" camp... -
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All true @BootmanLA I definitely discourage people from heading to Wisconsin. We've nearly limitless fresh water and clean air and open space. Who in their right mind would want that???? 🙂
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Pretty true @BootmanLA although I observe advantage plans providing a max out of pocket.
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Age 11
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Score 1 for Team Whore-of-Babylon. LOL
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HIV is rather difficult to contract in recent years. It has always been a pretty whimpy virus out of the body. PrEP and ARV's have reduced the pool of individuals who "could" infect that one's odds are remarkably good they can rawfuck with comparative impunity. Knowledge... Indeed we've long relied upon a model that what a fellow tells us is truthful. If you absolutely, positively do not want HIV; the best way is to get on PrEP. The odds are remarkably low. None of us live forever so if not this it'll be something else... I don't think PrEP has ever actually been studied up to "the whore of Babylon" standards (makes ones home in a slutty bathhouse, never leaves.). But it is quite effective.
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Bravo! So well done!!!!
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PrEP vs medication resistant aids
PozBearWI replied to fillforfun's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Thanks @BootmanLA. It is also relevant that HIV isn't quite as easy to contract as other STI's. Clearly individual results will vary; but CDC risk of unprotected bottoming with a viral top is still less than 2%. Add PrEP to this and risk drops considerably. -
While certainly a matter of degree Dems have their own brand of crazies. Not many, but to think there are non is delusional. That said, R has gone over the edge. A broken party.
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@DallasPozzible I didn't say "on a par". That is your interpretation.
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FWIW there isn't a shortage of D crazies....
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Indeed. For the Wisconsin Primary I have to pull a party ballot. This time I am likely to pull and R if Christie is still in the race. I want us to get back to classic R ; but maybe both parties can learn something and stop the partisan bullfeathers. What's going on now in DC is just disruption. A different form of Jan 6. Enough already.
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Indeed we're following more of the old bulletin board model here; but enhanced with links and images.
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Damn @viking8x6 those guys should be selling "massage" vs massage.
