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  1. PozBearWI
    As a veteran of the 80s and 90s I am calling bullshit that our bareback is a fetish. Maybe it is for @onlyraw, but as much as you try, you don't speak for me.
  2. PozBearWI
    Bareback is the most natural way for humans to have sex. It is what we have always done for millennia. Lots of sexual things get fetishized, but that doesn't make the them a fetish, it is that fetishist's individual action that makes it a fetish for themselves.. For the rest of us it is just natural human sex.
  3. PozBearWI
    More specifically, if your vial load is under 200 you are "undetectable". The reality is that while testing can see finer numbers, "undetectable" was established when we could only see above 200.
  4. PozBearWI
    Yes, to be poz is to be untouchable, no matter the u=u ads on TV. I'm certain if I erased my status on my online profiles I would be back to hookups once or twice a week. Poz seems to have made me automagically off limits for just about all of my former fuck buds. Other STI's have always been on the "what's out there" list. In the 20 years since TasP (now u=u) started the risk of HIV is consistently thought to be hugely higher than it is. Read the fantasy stories and you would think one hot fuck is gonna do it. It rarely does. And we seem to have forgotten how to talk with each other. Sex is hopefully not one specific act done one specific way or we just aren't happy.... Yeah for some, but I think for most it are the variations in sexual pleasure that is a turn on. Cripes if conversation is difficult sex must be impossible! 🙂
  5. PozBearWI
    @Bokkierob we should be in the same city.... 😉
  6. PozBearWI
    Oh lord I sure hope so. I would never pass up an opportunity for a recharge.
  7. PozBearWI
    Damn, I hate that all the "sauna's" have closed in Wisconsin. Maybe things will change given President slut and they'll reopen?
  8. PozBearWI
    I tend to trip on words like "true" cumdump. There isn't just one definition. One becomes a cumdump when he recognizes that in himself. Everything else is time/place/chance.
  9. PozBearWI
    I've enjoyed play with men of all races. Race isn't a qualifier for play buds.
  10. PozBearWI
    No, the undetectable guy is protected by the ARVs he is taking, as well as the antibodies and antigens he has developed.
  11. PozBearWI
    Indeed, and in ways I didn't expect. Especially living in a culture where most stay home and zoom into meetings when we have a new cold. No one ever reached out with messages in that case saying "Fuck that is hot, let me come over and get your cold....".
  12. PozBearWI
    One would have thought that would have been a snap. It wasn't.
  13. PozBearWI
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    Michigan is just across the puddle... And woof I would love some naked time with you.
  14. PozBearWI
    These days if there is something we want to find we pretty much have to create it.
  15. PozBearWI
    Man @J-raw I can't speak for Atlanta, but poz fuck groups, or TBH just bareback only groups are rare. I am intending to start bareback only stuff here in Wisconsin.
  16. PozBearWI
    YES! I could feel this story. While ultimately and after lots of poz loads I chose a bit of a variation on cause of my infection; bottom line once I chose that it was quite like signing this contract. Infection wasn't just the 2% chance from raw sex with poz loads, but quite certain. But it did take me experiencing dozens of poz loads before I concluded that as much as I enjoyed them, they weren't making me a poz guy as well. But it's interesting, I made an informed decision, I am delighted to be experiencing HIV infection. I am not recommending this though. I truly do not think HIV makes us horny. But our horniness that was part of our willingness to risk raw loads; now casts us as the "desired one" once we seroconvert. It is weird and delightful to have the ability to be a gifter; and definitely something that took me awhile to get my brain converted.
  17. PozBearWI
    I don't know for certain the motivation. But I know that were I on meds I present less a risk than purportedly "neg" guys who often just don't know. So why not put 'neg' on PrEP and get hit up more?
  18. PozBearWI
    Indeed nearly all the guys I fuck with are cheating on their wives.
  19. PozBearWI
    It is impossible for me to have "cheating sex" as my quarter century relationship has always been sexually open. I don't make the moral choices for my sex partners. If they want to lie to their mate - it tells me a lot about who they are. Happy to have sex with them; but unlikely they will become trusted associates. And of course, that really isn't the point of our tryst anyway right?
  20. PozBearWI
    There really isn't a single good one. I used to like Scruff but they booted me. I never found out why; but it wasn't too long after I seroconverted. I guess I was to keep that a secret??? Grindr hit or miss. BBRT sadly almost always a miss. NKP almost always a miss. BZ isn't a hookup site so I never approach it that way. But there isn't anyone I chat with here who I wouldn't gladly enjoy a naked romp with... I see some of my fellow poz guys are just outright putting neg. And honestly I don't see that changes the risk significantly if at all. PrEP is clearly an option for those who want to avoid HIV, so why is this even a question. HPV, HSV were never even mentioned. They were just widely accepted, at least in my circles.
  21. PozBearWI
    Yes we put out condoms, but only some used them. My thinking going forward though is that if a guy wants condoms he'll need to bring his own. I want my events to be thought of as bareback events, even if that means fewer guys show up.
  22. PozBearWI
    Thanks @rawTOP and safe travels to you.
  23. PozBearWI
    Yes our VL and CD4 vary over time. I'm approaching the two year point and there have been pretty wide swings although my number overall have been pretty tame compared to most fellow poz guys I know.
  24. PozBearWI
    Thanks my friend. Let's see how this post works.... Then I'll go from there...
  25. PozBearWI
    I used to belong to a club, now defunct, called Wisconsin Bares. They've been gone for years. But started in 89 as a BB Nude play group. It evolved to be tame and social, and eventually disbanded. Being poz and coming to understand that I am just a ton more comfortable with fellow poz guys (or guys who truly don't fret it). I would be the host in the greater Milwaukee metropolitan area. I have always been a barebacker, and I don't really want to host sex parties where we all enjoy bareback fun with each other, taking responsibility for our own sexual health as we see fit. As I would be the host, guys coming would have to be comfortable with me being poz not undetectable as I plan to be an active participant. Which isn't to confuse my purpose as a host, which is man to man sexual pleasure open to all the others there. Not sure how/where I'll make it known. I suppose in these weird times maybe I should just suggest guys contact me about my events via email? I'm looking for some feedback. Am I probably barking up a tree that won't go anywhere?

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