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  1. I've never lived in a place (after leaving the town I grew up in) where there was a dearth of men who fucked each other. I did use the apps for a while, but it was always easier to just get in the car, drive a little, and hit the fuckjoints. And, I met a handful of guys on the apps that became good buddies, both fuckbuds and guys who I became actual friends with as well as fuckbuds. I guess I've always liked living close to the action - and was able to do that to this day. Reading about all the disappointments that seem to go hand-in-glove with using the apps is a sorrow - and I wish all of us could live in places where we could fuck each other without any hindrances. I suppose that would also be called Heaven.
  2. This is an interesting (potentially) issue. It's nothing I'd known of prior, and I'm not sure I buy into very much of this thought-train. While it's entirely possible that in truly ancient times, males felt some kind of competition (between themselves) to supplant other males sperm with their own, and thus propagate their own individual characteristics via this "replacement" theory, it's hard to imagine that mind-set lingering on for very long. The notion that (every? almost every?) male wants his own dna propagated, to the exclusion of other males I hadn't heard of until reading that reference material. I rather doubt that any man's individual urge to procreate goes much farther than his lusts do. Of course, making "love" to his "loved one" is fully sanctioned by society, and for good reason. Once that goal is accomplished, why would that "instinct" carry on much farther? I wonder if there's much "instinct" at all involved in the "displacement theory" material. Men have the instinct to procreate, of course, but to the extent that men instinctually want 'their" own dna to continue, as opposed to procreation as a by-product of their instinctual pressure to fuck is where I'm missing the premise. I think "the penis" is - for the vast majority of males - an instrument of pleasure, and making love to a loved one, which also doubles as handy piss-tool. More, I don't think most men give a hoot who else has fucked the woman (as long as it's not their own property ... er.... I mean "wife" other men have fucked).
  3. Amen to that !!! Three for starters, anyway ...
  4. 👅 nuff said
  5. And, I'm sure he's grateful for YOU, whether he verbalizes it or not. I'm guessing that your kindness, your support, your lack of any hint of judgementalism has allowed him to delve more deeply into his own psyche, and discover more about himself that he ever dared prior to meeting you. For some guys, their true sexual identity has been buried so deep for so long, they're unable to consciously face facts about themselves - and I know you know what I mean. It's entirely possible you "saved" a good man from emotional oblivion, based on the cultural hatreds we all experience. Some of us find it easier to reject , some of us don't. There's a phrase from an old camp song entitled "Let the Lower Lights be Burning", winding up with the phrase "you may rescue, you may save". I don't buy any of the metaphysical bullshit at all - but I do buy the notion that we can help other folks, and not even know we're doing it.
  6. I have a "cardinal" rule .... I always take a 'sniff-test' first - before anything else. A poorly/un-prepped Hole turns me off instantly. To the OP though, if all I smell is Sperm off previous Cocks, I start feasting before anything else. These are the unseen men I have the opportunity to "connect" with - and that's a huge turn-on for me.
  7. There's some kind of issue afoot, and you don't seem to know what it is. What that issue happens to be is ancillary to the problem however. 1. It's unfair of your other half to simply halt sex - whether alone together or with other guys included. 2. Since you and he used to have sex with each other and other guys, I doubt the problem lies with merely having 'outside' sex. There's something else afoot in the relationship, and he can't (or won't) share whatever it is with you. That's a deeper problem, and we have no idea what that might be, but you definitely need to get him to confide in you. I doubt it's a "sex" thing - sounds more like withholding sex is a punishment for something else. From what you've offered, it does seem unfair to be treated like this. 3. If you're absolutely certain he's not having sex / had sex for around 6 months, I'd suggest a counselor of some sort, that's trained to sniff out the root cause of issues like this. It's something that needs to be dealt with, and I'm sending you my best wishes to get it figured out - one way or another.
  8. We had a "playroom-cum-dungeon" in the basement back in Chicago .... there were baseboard heaters to keep warm in the winter, a sling, all the toys on one wall, hung on an aluminum "grid"-type doo-dad. I took most of it with me to FL when I moved - and that's all in one of the bedrooms now. There's a deadbolt lock on that door though, just in case a nosy "wannabe" starts wandering around ..... Normally, the door just stands wide open.
  9. Congrats, bud .... you've "made it".
  10. As far as I know, there are precious few *real* Leatherbars left. There's only one that I know of here in Ft. L., that being the local Eagle. Ramrod was a great Leatherbar at one time, but those days are long gone. I wonder what I'm going to do with all that gear .......
  11. I've mentioned any number of times that Broward County (FL) is the most reliably Democratic county in a very red State. Just got back from another demonstration (the second at this location) at a Tesla dealership on Federal Highway (US 1), which is a 4-lane racetrack of busy commercial "big-box" stores, retail spaces. Local Liberals started meeting on one of the busier streets here in Ft. Lauderdale just last Saturday for a "demonstration"-type event. Last time, there were around 100 (some folks walked along counting). This afternoon, (the second Saturday of the event) there were over 300, and the television cameras were there. Most had simple, hand-made signs, with varying degrees of. A steady stream of cars slowed down, drivers honking their horns in support, the cops were there to make sure no one went in the street (and thus staring death in the face). It took so little - I made a couple of insulting signs denigrating those who so richly deserve it. A buddy and I spent a couple of hours over there, much camaraderie in the crowd, everyone having a great time of it. Everyone had some kind of sign (there were a handful with Ukrainian flags), and everyone had a great time of it. Point: This is fucking FLORIDA - ruby red as can be - with precious little Liberal percentage of the population. And there were 300-some folks who made little signs, stood for a couple of hours, geniality all around, offering compliments to others, booing drivers of the Musk-mobiles, enjoying the hell out of it. So, by all means continue to complain, offer thoughts, analysis, all of that here on BZ and every other venue you can think of. But just that won't be enough. In short, DO SOMETHING.
  12. Well, thanks for that possibility, Thoron. You mean processed sugar, right? Natural sugars (fruits, etc) would also apply?
  13. Really .... I hadn't heard that. Is there some website or study you can recommend? As far as I've always thought, Land 'O Lakes UNsalted was the perfect compliment to previous loads.
  14. Well, they've had a sip of the cool-aid, and not much more can be expected of them. On the other hand, President of Ukraine, Mr. Zelenskyy, sat down with His Faded Orangeness, and that other bearded blunder, for a discussion about their valuable dirt and our guarantees of assistance as the little-boy-to-the-north's war drags (literally) on and on and on. We, the citizens of the US, were completely disgraced by the performance of our elected leadership - both President and Vice President, as both of them insulted the President of Ukraine over and over and over again. This time, Macron wasn't there to gently touch Orangie's arm (to get him to shut his hole) and explain quietly what the actual situation was. It was a truly embarrassing demonstration of grade-school-class bullying put on by our President & Veep.
  15. For me it was November, and pretty much the same story, Pharmacist where I go asks regularly about a number of boosters, and I always get them. They've never bothered me at all, so why not take a professional's advice?
  16. Same here - but I just consider it a complement, and thank them ....
  17. Let us know how it works out for you. I would think it works better with a longer-legged bottom, so the back wouldn't get stressed by being bent for so long, but - it's worth a try !!!
  18. To the OP though, I don't think that the crux of the draw is "fascination". It's a deeper, more pressing need - one that may not even be apparent to the more dedicated. Similar, maybe, to the instinctual realization that we need food to eat, air to breathe, a roof over our heads, the basic necessities of being alive.
  19. Agreed, as well they should be. The R's in Congress have exponentially exceeded even my expectations of spinelessness, vacillation, weakness and disingenuousness. They numbly confirmed truly talentless men and women, having absolutely no experience in the area of expertise they're now expected to lead. Healthcare, Defense, all of the portfolios are in the hands of talentless fools who only know how to stick their collective tongues up a foolish failure's hole. And, only now are their constituents smelling the coffee - deriding them publicly and viciously at their "town hall" meetings. And why? What used to be a respected political party, with a clear agenda, has become nothing but a completely self-centered collection of wilted, pussified cowards, caring for not one shred of anything other then their own worthless behinds. I've never been one, but I wouldn't blame a republikan for denying their affiliation. Might as well add outright lying to the rest of their filth. They've sold what passes for their souls already, and it didn't even fetch that much of a price.
  20. Agreed. Whether they're rich or not is immaterial to me - it happens that this particular nutjob inherited plenty of dough, so all he's ever had to do with his life is spout crazy bs about whatever notion crosses his feeble mind. And some other nutjob put him in the Cabinet. How crazy does it have to get before some folks start to wake the hell up?
  21. Neither do we .......
  22. Here's something to be optimistic about: There are crowds - sometimes hundreds at a time - showing up at their legislators offices, demonstrating, shouting down the lame banalities of their R representatives/Congresspersons. There are large-scale demonstrations against the Administration breaking out all over the nation lately. I have another one coming up on the weekend .... at a Tesla dealership !!! Yeeeeesssss .... I definitely hope none of those big, plate-glass windows get broken .... Do something. Write letters to your Congresspersons. Attend a demonstration. Join a political organization. Become active. DO SOMETHING.
  23. One great way to avoid the issues mentioned above is to fuck in a sling. The bottom will have leg-straps to hold his legs in whatever position the Top wants, and there will be no tiring of the bottom's leg-muscles. The straps are completely adjustable, and moving them a bit during extended play will be appreciated by the bottom. Sometimes (depending on how tall the bottom is), I'll clip the leg-straps to the 2 chains adjacent to the bottom's head - that really exposes the Hole to proper use ..... but the bottom needs to still be comfortable.
  24. Creating a "full" condom would be difficult, in that even a huge load would only fill it partially, and the load has to be preserved (usually via freezing it). Taking it out, shooting another batch in, re-freezing, all of that would become really cumbersome. Easier to make new ones, and then thaw out the ones you need for a scene, and keep the rest waiting their turn. Of course, keeping the "production line" moving will prove the most productive, if you really love this kind of play.
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