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I figure that he's (L.G.) waiting until retirement (one way or the other) to do what he can to stem the tide of rampant homophobia that seems to be overtaking his political party. It wouldn't surprise me at all if some of the worst of the gay-haters in the R party are, in fact, gay as a gaggle of geese. (how was that for dose of alliteration?) Frankly, it's as much tragic as anything else, that a gay man hitched his financial / career wagon to such an odious entity as the R party. Just ask the diddler-of-the-wrestling-team a couple of states north of S.C. That one's emotional health has been completely corrupted, stunted, shut-down. Point: When some measure of personal freedom is denied, there's always a price to be paid - individually, as a member of some group, or some other construct. Living a lie always corrupts the soul.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ....... Madame Graham is thiiiiiiiis close to being officially outed. I have no idea about Scott, but just because he's not married doesn't mean he fucks /gets fucked. If Scott actually is gay, his mind has been royally fucked by the religious garbage we're all up-to-here with. Better, if he actually is gay, then he's at least cognizant of the kinds of issues we're facing. Not that he'd have the balls to resist very hard, but at least he might grasp the situation. I'm not sure I could get to the john fast enough to hurl my breakfast. I bet the escorts doubled - no- tripled their usual prices for that porky little queen.

Beautifully conceived, and composed with uttermost grace. I'm with you, 100%.

So I walked over to get a haircut yesterday, and while en route, some guy handed me a palm-card advertising a "New, Private Men's Club: Sauna". It's called WS, Wilton Social Club. The piss reference is a bit obvious, but I asked the googler and there it was. Looks a little bit on the chi-chi side to me, but then I tend to like the more run-down type of fuckjoints better anyway. Odd location of 1061 W Oakland Park Blvd - basically OPB and the 95. The photos of the insides (including some towel-clad-musclemen) were a bit of a tease, so while it's clearly gay-oriented, it might be a bit on the upscale side as well. The hours are very generous: M-Th, 8am to 2am, Fri, Sat, Sun, 24 hours. Also a couple of "pizza" nights. All the usual no-no's: "alcohol, drugs, weapons, illegal activities", but no mention of phones. When any of you go over there to take a sniff - or you hear about it from other guys - let us know. Always good to have resources, right?

Sorry ... RamRod. It's an infamous bar in Ft. L. that is undergoing a change in ownership, some renovations, and thus no sex in the bar until all of that is done. It's open for business, you can stop in for a beer and a blab with buddies, all of that - just no sex.

Welcome to all you new (official) members. We're looking forward to hearing a lot more from you !!

I'm sure there are plenty of guys on drugs taking loads at RR and Slammer - but they keep it away from prying eyes. If they're caught, they're tossed out. I guess I'd need a definition of "addicts" first though; "casual users" are different from "addicts", as far as I understand it. At the fuckjoints, I wouldn't know - or care, for that matter.

Watching the action for a bit - waiting my turn ... In a darkroom, feeling my way in, hands reaching out to fondle my Cock, balls .... returning the favor. That's about it for "foreplay". I do remember kissing a guy at some point who'd just sucked a Cock off ... that was fun .... but I guess I'm not much of a "foreplay" guy.

Neither do I - and that doesn't bother me one little bit. In the fuckjoints, it's the Hole that I'm interested in, not the name of the owner. If the guy tells me his name, ok - I'll tell him mine - but only for the sake of exhibiting decent manners. To the OP though, no, I don't. I give them - I don't take them.

^ There's your answer. Every guy is different in some way, and it's all good. Do whatever it is that brings you to the razor's edge, do it, and then do it all over again. Line 'em up and knock 'em down.

There are "really psycho" guys everywhere, and tragic results occur regularly. If you want to present as a fully-bound sub, you not only need a big, burly "doorman", you need to do a negotiation (explained previously) to protect yourself from some of these "psycho's". Most guys don't believe a great fuck is worth getting seriously injured or killed for. It happens. Protect yourself. And then, offer up your sweet young Hole to any/all B/d S/m Cocks you can find.

<<< ahem >>> Neither do I ..........

Thanks, ejaculaTe, for the post and the very interesting article. So, to the 9-point signs: I must fall into the "mixed bag" crowd; a couple applied, most didn't. So maybe there's such a thing as mostly one with some qualities of the other in that mixed bag. That said, it was a most interesting discussion by the author. Thanks for posting it.

This is an interesting issue that I don't really understand. I've been told since adolescence that I possess some kind of - oh - aloofness? - that others may find off-putting. That's the very last thing I think that I display, or try to display. I'm not insecure in who I am, and while everyone can always improve themselves in some ways, I'm not ashamed of who I am, I actively try to be the best human being I can be. Does that make me an introvert? An extrovert? To the OP's original points, I have friends that answer my call, or call back. That doesn't mean they do or don't want my Cock - it's just what friends do, right? I have friends who come over when they feel like it, or want some 'alone' time with me. That doesn't mean they need to get fucked. It means they want to spend some time with a friend, doesn't it? Yesterday I went over to a local sportsbar to watch games with a friend. We ate there (locals: Gym has great bar-food, and it always comes exactly as ordered), we talked about all kinds of things (Bears lost, of course). I have friends I can call on for help if I need it, and they know they can and do call me if they need something. But none of them (all but one knows what a sexual pig I am) seem to be looking for anything more than that. I really hope this thread takes off, because I'd love to know more about this particular issue.

In a word, yes. At Folsom, all you need is getting your mind in the right space, and the rest will follow. If you're nervous/concerned/worried about it, ditch all of that baggage asap, and jump into the pile. If your moniker is anywhere near reflective of your actual mindset, simply assume that you're Hole is just as hot as every other Hole in town, and the Cocks will sense your Lust. Get your mind focused, and the rest will follow suit. Berlin is fantastic !!!

Which is one of the most thrilling parts of practicing wanton sex: It's never enough. The more men we "connect" with, the more we need to connect with. No names needed, no faces needed, but the sexual connection damn sure is needed.

I'd love to be included in one of Jake Nicola's vids - and being the last guy to get his Hole, after all the other Cocks had pumped loads up his gut. I know, I know - he's not chicken anymore - which is a good thing in my book. The entire package - head-to-toe, and that beautiful Hole in particular - would make the very rocks in the ground shed crocodile tears of joyful Lust ....

Welcome, negboyslut & ditchguytop. Thanks for going "official" - we're looking forward to hearing more from you. And, A'Dam is fan-fukkin-tastic !!!

How about central/southern Illinois? There are counties with every shade of red in that area, and Louisville (which apparently has some availability of bathhouses, etc) isn't that far away. Plus, Springfield enjoys a reputation for a lot of comings and goings on, so there'd be a steady supply of fresh meat around. It's a bit further West than your intended area, but .... might be worth a sniff-test. While there have been Republican Governors, the Statehouse has been mostly Democratic (and thus a better protection against reactionary forces) for a long time.

At Inn Leather, you can fuck anywhere on the premises. By the pool, in the outside passageways between various buildings, or in your room with the blinds wide open, and the door to your room standing open, while you're taking loads, so more Cock can just walk in. Obviously, secure your belongings, if you choose the latter. If you meant public parks, I don't know anything about that action, but I'll bet my last buck there are other Ft. L. guys that do. The only public place I know of is the parking lot on the corner of NE 4th Ave & 15th St. There's a used furniture store on the NE corner, and when it closes for the day RamRod guys park there/fuck there in between the parked cars, a smallish area on the E side of the store, and sometimes in a kinda-sorta fenced area between the furniture store (named Decades) and RR. I think the owner of the furniture store had a wooden gate installed to keep guys out of that rear area of his store, which lasted about one night before it was kicked in. Ever since the change in ownership drama began at Ramrod, (no sex inside the bar while they do repairs to the building), guys just walk over to the corner and fuck by the used furniture store all night. The action only fades when the sun comes up in the morning. I would imagine that there are still some of the orgies taking place over towards the beach in those old hotels - Worthington? - comes to mind. That one was fun, since the hotel was surrounded by residential high-rises along the beaches, and the people in the high-rises could watch all the guys fucking each other around a large pool area. I would always try to catch some folks staring down at everyone, and wave to them. But other BZ guys would know more about it than I would these days. Not sure what you mean by "supplies", but if you mean lube, that kind of thing, there's a gay accoutrement supply store 2 doors N of Ramrod (that would be the 1500 block of NE 4th Ave, E side of the street) with every kind of sex-toy, lube, poppers, associated gear you can imagine. There's also a small "store" area just inside the front door of RamRod, same mdse. Hope you enjoy the fuck outta your visit to Ft. Breedingdale !!!

I'll be interested to hear you guy's review. I can't imagine there will be much Full Dress, if any during this exceptionally hot summer. But, one never knows until one goes ...

Thus the raison d'etre for the existence of the fuck-joints, gh joints, baths, etc. Some guys just don't like having to toss a trick to the curb when the fuck took place in their own home. Or they're married, or they're sneaking in some extra without their boyfriend knowing, or simply not inclined to allow more than a fuck at the time. In the fuckjoints, guys can Breed and go, or hang around for more, or whatever they like without the need to explain anything to anyone. Example: a couple of years ago a guy cruising around RR in the early morning, followed me home. Soldier, just out of the army. Nice looking, hot ass, all of that - but high as a kite. I told him to wait in the driveway while I went in, walked out the back door and unlocked the side-gate to the back yard. Fucked him in the back-yard sling (that butterball of a guy living next door peeked over the fence and watched). He asked for a shower, and I let him use the outside shower (I did get him a bar of soap & towel), and that was it. He turned a bit sour about not being invited into my home, but my instincts turned out to be correct: When he walked down the driveway to the street, he spotted a bicycle leaning against the house across the street from mine, stole it and rode away. To the OP though, I think most guys experience a reduction in their Lust for more sex immediately after pumping their load up a Hole or down a throat. That is particularly true of the more "experienced" guys that have left adolescence in the rear view mirror decades ago. It's merely a function of biology, in that the body needs to re-charge after a fuck. It can be half an hour, it can be an hour, but the better the fuck, the longer it might take for round two. It's not that the Top loses interest - it's more that his body needs a little time to re-charge the equipment.

Haven't been to GC in years - loved it there.

So last night the first Republican "debate" was held in Milwaukee, WI., and broadcast on Fox News Channel. Being politically interested, but more because the Netflix series I was watching finished about 10 minutes before the "debate" was to begin, I decided to check in on it. Disclaimer: I've never voted for a Republican, and even when I had to travel for business quite a bit, I've never missed an election. So I had to check the station-guide to even find Fox News, since I never watch it. Of course, now that Pre-Season is here, I will watch a game on Fox Sports, but that's it. This event - while billed as a debate - was hardly that. It was far more a screaming match between the candidates themselves, the candidates and the audience of constantly screaming, hollering, fools, to the extent that what Fox calls "moderators" having to attempt to quiet the audience down a few decibels. Each of the candidates sought to out-shout each other, and all at once almost constantly. The result was nothing less than televised grade-school-playground-level mayhem. The entire auditorium-full of candidates / audience disgraced themselves over and over and over. Of particular disgust was Mr. Ramaswamy, with his claim that the increasing climate-change was, in fact, a complete hoax (he actually used that word), and that the US should pump more fossil fuels, refine them, and pollute even more. Mr. Christy got quite a few zingers in on his fellow candidates, Mr. DullSantis was his usual dull self to a T. These people are collectively and individually an enormous threat to stability, fairness, attempting to right the wrongs of our social construct, and deserve nothing less than the dust-bin of history. No wonder the only apparent advertiser left on Fox News is that pillow-pimp from MN, or so the rumors go. Every one of us who can, simply must exercise our right to vote, both up and down-ballot. These people must be soundly rejected.

Thanks, RawTOP I had to "move" to Berlin, but it seems to be working again.