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This could be the answer mankind has been searching for since we crawled out of the caves. Armies of men that would march into battle, swinging their hard Cocks instead of swords. Breeding at the Battalion-level, whole Divisions having orgies with the "enemy" soldiers. Rivers of Sperm overflowing the banks of the trenches. The only gear soldiers would wear would be Cockrings and a belt for accoutrements-de-Breeding, Instead of war planners building bombs that can kill a Continent, they'd be creating popper-bombs to be dropped on both sides of the "conflict". A whole 'nother kind of joystick in the planes too. Now. Who's gonna re-design the uniforms ???

Very sorrowful (yet interesting) post. Much of the suggestions boil down to: 1. Get him outta there. Milwaukee is the largest city in WI, and a major metro area. If nothing else, send him a bus ticket and have lunch at Mader's when he arrives. He's going to have to deal with starting over, and if you can offer him shelter in that storm, kudos !! He's also going to need a productive use of his time. 2.. Ditch the truck, no matter who's name it's in, He can't afford it, and it'll be a life-lesson in financial self-reliance. Until he gets on a firm footing, a used VW will do. 3. Your brother will no doubt cut ties with you too. If that's a tear-dropper, go ahead, and then move on. Bad, negative people aren't a positive influence, and best to be done with them. I've had to cut some extended family loose, and they're the only ones who lost out. 4. I'm not familiar with Southern tradition, but helping out a 19 year old nephew when he's in a tough spot doesn't mean "taking him to raise" to non-Southerners. That implies him being a minor, which he isn't. It's entirely reasonable that a colloquialism might mean different things in different parts of the country, but he's reached his majority now, and needs a helping hand, not a place to "grow up" in. Offer him the first, but not the second. 5. Skip the frills. A phone is completely reasonable, but an ipad? Is that necessary? The essentials are what your nephew needs right now - a place to stay, food to eat, and a non-judgemental, supportive environment. He needs a rock to lean on, as he learns to navigate in the real world. All of this said, he's an adult now, and depending on how he responds to the help offered will determine what kind of man he becomes in a short while. Unless he makes bad or silly choices, he should definitely be offered "shelter in the storm". It's wonderful that you and your other half are in a position to help, and we're all sending you our very best wishes. Good luck !!

Did he ask for your kitchen sink too? And how much dough did he ask for ???

Well, my apologies for responding to you via JimInWisc (and apologies to JIW too). I'm sorry to know that you've been in a sexual desert for so long, but - after reading your profile - I'm impressed with the reasons. You're a real Mensch.

100%. While it's usually fun to rut in fresh Hole, it's always fun to rut in known, reliably hot cumdumps. I usually hit my favorite joints about the same time, same nights. Fairly often I see a guy I "know", and generally we trade knowing glances, a bit of a smile, sometimes even a bit of a chat. Once in a while, I'll re-Breed, which only turns the heat up for all the fresh meat. Every guy loves fresh meat, since if we haven't had it before, there's always a chance it'll turn out to be great. In any case, a clump of men rawfucking each other is always fun.

I still do .... but not many smokers there these days. Who knows - maybe we're "acquainted" !!!!

Maybe I'm wrong ..... maybe it's all true ...... has the Second Coming already happened ??????

Well, once the Cock has pumped it's load up your gut, it belongs to you !!! You simply don't have to allow any guy to do stuff to you that you don't want done. Hopefully the first (politely delivered) "get lost" will be enough, but the fact remains that you earned those loads, and what happens to them is 100% your decision. And you're correct - I can definitely confirm that a wet Hole full of Sperm is absolutely the hottest fuck in the backroom. Hopefully, you wouldn't resent a Top taking a little taste before adding his ...... it's the pleasure of tasting the loads in the Hole - not vacuuming it all out that's so "crazy-making" ....

If I may ...... Actually, there is. Around here there are plenty of guys that regularly (I mean weekly) whore out either their favorite cumdump, or one of their fuckbud's in a joint-venture. Often these small groups are sort of "in a network", if that makes sense? Several guys who admire cumdumps, and networking with each other to share the talented ones. A reputation (for the better or for the worse) can be built fairly quickly, and when a fb texts with "you guys have to come over - I found a hotttt one", we tend to do it. One of my fb's (name is Chris - the guy I got through covid with) and he often texts me to come over and share a talented cumdump, or show up at X place where he'll be whoring the cumdump. Every single guy may not agree with the host's estimation, but that's ok. The point is, word gets around amongst the men who need to know. btw - Rocket Central is about 200 miles - at least 3 hours or worse on I-95 - away from Ft.L. And, perhaps you will. There are so many gay men, a huge percentage of which are raw men, in this area that I cannot possibly imagine that any guy could meet/share sex with even half the gay population. Even at a multi-day event like next month's Pig Week, which consists mostly of orgies at various locations around town, it would take years to run across close to every potential fuck in town. One issue though, is so many of the cumdumps in the fuckjoints are high as kites on christ alone knows what kind of drugs. One of the reasons I hit the backrooms / fuckjoints, instead of hosting group breedings in my home, is that in the public places, I'm not responsible for any crazy crap that could easily happen. The fuckjoint is; I'm just another patron in the crowd. That cumdump I kept for a few years was (and is) a powerfully-built guy, which I am not, so I at least had an "enforcer" around when needed if guys started to get out of line here in my home. Of course, I don't know how widely traveled you are, but I did attend trade shows annually in Louisville for a number of years. These were multi-day events, and of course I slipped away at night when I could avoid the advertisers. I can only say as gracefully as possible, that city is not at all comparable to Ft. L. in this context. There is virtually no chance that every BreedCock in Ft.L. could experience the pleasure of your dedication to your craft. but you're discounting something that you possess, and very few bottoms even understand or comprehend, let alone accomplish: I've gone into that before and it didn't seem like you cared to read it, but that doesn't make your dedication to your calling, answering that call to Service despite the difficulties, any less remarkable and valued. Even the kids on this site are getting older every day, and neither you nor I are kids anymore (thank Whatever). That's why I try to encourage the younger guys to do what they need to do, take all the precautions available to protect their health, and to learn their craft. Get as much pleasure as they can, because all of a damn sudden, we wake up one day and wonder what the hell happened? I don't feel old, I know I don't act old, and in a little while I'll be getting ready to head out for the night. I'm doing it - as much of it as I want to - because one day maybe I won't be able, and the day after that I may get to ditch. In the meantime though, I still love cumdumps; to me they're the special ones, and I want to give them what they need, and take from them what they offer - as many as I can. I hope with all my heart that you can continue do the same.

I suppose some of the bugs, infections, maybe even hiv he places himself at risk of will "agree" with him then ........

Hmmmmm ..... Thanks satyricon1 ...... I'll see if I can figure it out.

Thanks for the offer !! This time though, SE Florida got very little of the hurricane, virtually no damage at all.

re: consuming Sperm: Is there much of a difference between sucking off a Cock and swallowing the load, and eating a freshly-Bred Hole? If a guy will suck off a Cock, (and assuming of course the bottom has properly prepared) but won't lick, suck, tongue a well-fucked Hole, I don't quite get what that might be. To each his own, obviously, but .....

Of course you weren't lazy - you were a direct participant, and generous to a fault. I'd like to think I'd have done the same thing.

Well, there may be an extraneous factor or three behind that questioning. I know you're constrained in a sexually inconvenient location. If you retired and moved to one of the sex-dens-of-iniquity, I'm certain it would be a different story for a man of your dedication to your calling. There would be lines around the block to participate in your magnificent contributions to our kind. And, the "O-ring" allusion made me laugh ... well done !!

I agree. Most men aren't, and we raw pigs have even fewer than "most" in our ranks that the rest of the unhappy world. I still believe, however, that actual monogamy (no outside sex ever) can be modified into what I'll call Polyamorous Monogamy, which may be an oxymoron to a dictionary, but relevant to us. I mean, within the confines of a loving, caring, giving relationship, there can be a wide-open, shared thirst for pigsex with as many other men as needed. We can truly Love only one man, and share outside (the relationship) pigsex together, which only deepens and enriches the Loving quotient between the two lovers. That construct can also be enlarged to each guy having separate outside sex with complete acceptance by the other. If the relationship is sound, each lover will know that's it's the freedom to fuck whenever we want, without bothering the foundational Love that the relationship expresses. Freedom to fuck anytime, anywhere and a Loving relationship are not mutually exclusive. Unless someone has experienced a relationship like this, they probably are not equipped to criticize one either. I know, because I had a relationship like this for just over 30 years.

Sure, but how do we get it on here? One fellow BZ'er wanted some info about saving Sperm for future use (this via private messages), and I happen to have a couple of home made'ers demonstrating some - oh - "questionable behavior" - but I couldn't even email them. Apparently they're too long, or too "dense" - whatever that means (the computer said they're too big to send, so it must be Gawd's Own Truth) and I have no idea how to divide a home-made video in half, and thus (maybe?) reducing the size? If that even makes sense?

That's the same as here in FL. One poll worker has to go outside exactly at 7:pm, look to see if anyone within sight is running to get in line, and stand guard at the end of the line (after any visible last-seconder's are actually in line), so that no one later can get in line. I think the idea of dividing the election-day workers into 2 shifts is a great idea, but the problem around here is, a high percentage of the workers are old Af/Am ladies, and lately they're quitting in droves, afraid to be there if troublemakers show up. So, we have a dearth of pollworkers to handle every polling place. An aside: I got an email yesterday notifying me that my ballot was in the mail. For the past couple of years - since covid, I guess - I've brought my ballot downtown to the Registrar's office, to witness it going into the safe. The USPS is still suffering from that idiot Orange Jesus put in charge - his name is something like DeMisery - can't quite recall it though - and ever since, the USPS has only been hiring dyslexics as mail carriers. In the early evening, most of the neighbors meet out on the street to give each other all the mis-delivered mail. But, Biden's got a lot more important things than the USPS to clean up.

Here, we (poll workers) have to be at the assigned polling place at 5:am, stay through not only the polls closing 7:pm, but through the process of putting all the documentation generated throughout the day into the properly marked bags, officially sealed, and on and on and on. It's exhausting, but if that what it takes, so be it.

I agree with ^ this. As barebackers, it's up to us to learn our craft, and give every Hole our best efforts every time. It's a matter of taking pride in the skills we've built through the years. Just because a guy's innate inclination is to Top doesn't mean the knowledge of how to perform materializes out of the ether. Just because a guy's innate inclination to bottom doesn't mean he's learned the necessary skills. It takes no small amount of effort to learn to consistently be the best fuck we can possibly be - we owe that to our sex-partners. I take some measure of pride in hearing a bottom grunt and groan when I'm rutting in his Hole. It means I'm doing my job.

Well, I'm sorry you feel sorry for needing a lot of anonymous sex with as many men as possible. I believe that the urge, need, requirement for a lot of sex with whoever you run into in the darkrooms/fuckjoints is a perfectly natural requirement for some of us, regardless of cultural strictures. We're just born differently. Monogamy is as much a state of mind as an actual practice. Maybe you'll be lucky, and become close to a mirror image of your own Lusts. It could be the best of both worlds !!

The worst case being, when that "should be" is proscribed by other, ill-intentioned people interested only in preserving their own selfish position.

Interesting discussion. I'm gratified that so many respondents know and share how dangerous this particular type of SM play can be, particularly when administered by inexperienced men who think it's some simple, easily acquired skill. I agree with onlyraw, in that a guy who's interested in exploring this level of submission should absolutely give serious consideration to limiting his quest to known, talented Leathermen who are active in their area as SM Masters. As mentioned above, IML is a good resource, as is Chicago Hellfire Club, which has (or perhaps had?)* their own excellent facility over on Leavitt. I did hear that they moved a few blocks away, and am not familiar with the new venue (if there is one), so I can't comment. Even today though, there is some of the OG network still active, and new guys interested in "the life" should absolutely seek guidance within that community. Once, years ago at IML, some beginner went down to the Leather Mart, bought a 10-fall rubber flogger, came to my room and haughtily said "use this on me". I already knew he had just stepped out of a restrictive "relationship", wanted nothing more than to open a very sweet Hole to every raw Cock available, and had no idea of what that flogger could do to him. Of course I didn't. More, I know better than to even entertain the subject of singletailing, because I don't have the experience to deliver it responsibly. I own some lovely floggers, various fall numbers, hide-types, lengths, etc, and I know how to use them. But I also know and respect my limits, as any serious Leatherman would. If a guy is interested in exploring this area of sexuality, then go to your nearest Leatherbar (I mean a real one), and ask the bartenders who they might recommend. Pick up the local gay press and look for organizations focused on this corner of our universe, and contact them. If a guy decides to apply to attend an SM function and is accepted, follow the instructions of the Red Vests, and do so instantly. They are there to insure that no guy gets in over his head, injured, or seriously harmed. And, obviously, arrange the required negotiation in advance of any planned Scene. Finally, if a novice sub (or even a more advanced SM sub, for that matter) enters into an agreement to meet a new SM Top for a scene, during the required negotiation the Top must be respectfully informed that some third party (acting as advocate for the sub) will call the Top's phone at a pre-specified time, and be allowed to speak to the sub. Any experienced, self-respecting SM Master will gladly offer the required information, knowing that he's negotiating serious play with a serious sub. This is for the sub's protection as well as the Top's. Sadly, men die fairly regularly because they neglect to see to their safety in advance. There are sick sadist's out there that don't have a clue how to conduct a serious SM Scene. When I lived in Chicago, there were 2 or 3 men found dead in their homes annually because they limited their plans to thinking with the little head, and not with the bigger one. Play joyfully and responsibly, so you can do it all over and over and over again !! A well-planned SM Scene can leave each man in a sweat-soaked state of Nirvana, each grinning at the other completely sated and spent. To those who hear the call, by all means answer it, submerse yourselves in it, and come out the other side a better man. Just take the necessary precautions before you no longer can. Finally, if any of you are contemplating this kind of interaction, and have questions about any of the above, please contact any of us here on BZ that can help you with any of the above suggestions, either via the threads or private messages. *I heard some time ago that they moved over to Sheffield at some point?

While it doesn't surprise me, I think you're taking it too close to your very large heart. The up/down/frown/pig, etc doo-dads are only there to merely offer a tacit support of the stated position or lack of it. The downvote function seems to come in handy mostly for those who cannot (for one reason or another) manage to compose a literate, written sentence. As you, I use the upvote to agree with a response without feeling a written reply in order, and the "like" similarly. I very seldom use the downvote, mostly because if I get started, I'm concerned what might come out of my fingers. I take delight in offering the piggy image, when it's obviously deserved. That said, when an intellectual Prince finds himself amongst paupers, he only needs to graciously excuse himself - he doesn't need to take the reasons for others pauperhood upon himself. 😉

We have much in common, FelchingPisser. I met mine a bit later, but the rest is pretty much in tandem. At this point in my life, I can't imagine a monogamous relationship at all. I can imagine a T/b situation with a cumdump, and based on sexual Lusts, but more than that seems well out of the question at this point. Lightening like him simply doesn't strike twice.