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Not necessarily .... but it depends on how horny the two are, I suppose.
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Also interesting, and thanks for the reply. What I'm trying to understand is how merely kissing a guy can lead to something so substantial as an "attachment". I would define that (attachment) as a caring, perhaps loving, perhaps on the way to loving, but at least some interest in exploring an attachment between two guys (or people, for that matter). Unless I'm mistaking the intent of using that word, the mere act of kissing a trick or some guy in a fuckjoint could no more lead to an "attachment" than clipping toenails together. Far more likely would be a really hot fuck leaving both guys panting for breath.
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Very interesting, and thanks for the reply. I'm wondering how the impulse to kiss is generated: In the conscious mind? In the anticipation of sexual release about to occur? In the chemicals that we emanate, as you describe? And, how would the inclination not to kiss be a reflection of the above, or would it be merely a reaction to the would-be kisser? To me, kissing is a statement of intimacy, made when some level of caring is achieved. That would preclude kissing in a backroom or a fuckjoint*, and I don't particularly like kissing a cumdump that I've never met, and probably won't again (excluding the starred below). Kissing can be thiiiiiis close to making love with one's partner (meaning, lover, bf, life-partner, etc), but without that prerequisite level of caring or loving the guy, it means nothing - at least to me. If I ever "fell in love" with a cumdump, of course I'd kiss him deeply, whether he'd just sucked off a Cock or not, but only with a pre-existing caring for him. *excluding the presence of Sperm already in the mouth, making the kiss an extension of the sex, not a statement of affection (or more).
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Is anal orgasm a realistic goal for the top?
hntnhole replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
To the original question, though .... I don't think there are all that many Tops with enough experience in achieving orgasm by the bottom, other than the bottom jacking himself while getting fucked. In the backrooms or fuckjoints, that's almost certainly the case. It's more of a "if you do, fine - if you don't, fine" thing for most Tops. When a T and a b get together with the intentional purpose of sharing the experience of giving/receiving that which they both need, as opposed to one using the other for his own satisfaction, I would guess that both men would want the other to shoot his load. That kind of exchange is different from the backroom/fuckjoint action. -
Is anal orgasm a realistic goal for the top?
hntnhole replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
In the context of a "hookup", I can almost guarantee that it won't piss off the Top. I would take it as a compliment, for that matter. Can't speak for every other Top, of course, but - just sayin ...... In the context of a Bd/Sm scene, there's a chance, however small, that the Top could react negatively, but I'd put that down to incomplete instructions given prior to the scene, and the resulting embarrassment. In either case, you couldn't be assigned any "fault" at all. Focusing on pleasing your Top could easily make you feel so wonderful that you'd shoot your load. -
Glad to know the good old Heart is still going full steam !!! If I had a nickel for every time, I could fly every damn one of you there ...
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or ......... phonies he doesn't want to come loose in another guy's mouth !!!
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Well, MDNA4u - if I hear of something specific I'll let you know. Looks like we're in for a rough time of it next week though - the first hurricane is off to bother our Canadian bros - but the next one has a decent chance of coming ashore in Florida. I'm assuming, of course, that it's the weather gods trying to blow DeathSantis off the earth, but - the last time one came ashore from the West and then drove straight north up the middle of the peninsula (hurricane Irma), we took one fuckuva beating here. No power in certain areas for a week, lots of trees blown down, no cable (tv or internet) for a number of days. The latest predictions are for this next one (not yet a hurricane, and thus un-named) is right up the same path that Irma took. So far, only predictions of 40 - 60 mph winds, but that can change in a matter of hours. I've been doing the regular "storm-season" stuff, trimming trees, securing outdoor furniture, blah blah blah, but there's more to do if this one's coming for us here. As long as Slammer doesn't get blown down, I'll be ok .... (well, my house too). Good luck, all you guys on the West Coast !!! 😣
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When I was using the hookup sites, bbrt and recon worked the best - but I haven't seen any guys mention either of the others I remember: Manhunt & Adam4Adam. Are those still around? These others - sniffies, grinder - must have started after I quit using the hookup sites.
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Be sure to attend the events, and save room for Slammer too.
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What annoys you most about gay porn.
hntnhole replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Tops that don't use their whole Cock. Every millimeter should be buried in the Hole with each thrust. Sure, pull all the way out if the Top wants to, so the viewers can appreciate the length, breadth, etc, and then shove it back in, balls-to-cheeks. Also, I get that porn is a business, and the viewers want to see the Sperm when a guy cums. Fine. So the Top can pump the first jet of Sperm onto the Hole - thus proving that yes, he actually did come - and the rest of the load goes in the Hole, not splashed all over the bottom's cheeks, thighs, back, or worse. -
No. Not even a little bit. But I love giving them !!!
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Another possibility for a new guy wanting a gangbang, is to get a more experienced buddy to "conduct" the event. That guy would be watching out for your limitations, acts you may want to avoid, taking care that you get the best possible experience out of the gangbang. Usually, when there's clearly some guy that's attending as the advocate for the bottom, all the other guys will almost automatically accept any "suggestions", or even just a glance of disapproval from the In Charge guy. When I was still using apps, I'd identify as the sponsor when whoring out my boy's Hole. That automatically placed me "in charge", and I don't recall having any problems. Merely the presence of a sponsor was enough.
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Neither do I, but I try to avoid descriptive terms that may carry negative connotations, for instance "slutty". To some folks, that's a terrible insult, but to us, it's actually a badge of accomplishment. All the "sticks and stones" stuff aside, the wanton behavior is nothing more, nothing less that what it is: a wonderful, lovely, magnificent part of what our wholeness actually is.
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My internist (fairly substantial gay clientele) told me the same thing: wait a month for the covid booster after receiving the 2nd mpx shot. I'm not completely confident he keeps current on all the new information, but I'll still take his advice and wait a couple more weeks for the next covid booster. So far, they've been working great - at least for me.
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As long as it's not some clunky, clumsy contrivance that gets in the way, sure. I understand that the device is there for the stimulation of the bottom's Lusts, and if it makes the bottom all the more craven to take loads, why not?
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I agree with onlyraw: kissing is, for me, something that expresses love on every level. Kissing/sucking a Hole only expresses Lust, or at least, admiration for the owner's devotion to exercising his Lusts. I would put snowballing right next to eating a wet Hole in depth of expression, since to me, it's a purely sexual act with no implications of love.
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Nonsense .... guys like you and I were born this way - we'll always be pigs, and that's very cool with me.
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You're a First Class Pig, my friend ..... if you can't find it (I think we can search what other guys have posted somehow?) let me know and I'll re-create for you.
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To me, the key phrase in this thread is "with age". That implies being old enough to remember the terror as hiv carved it's hellish path through our community. For a while, it seemed to be everywhere. Guys we'd fucked were dying in droves. It was simply crushing. The joyful practice of everybody fucking everybody suddenly became - quite literally - a death sentence. And no one knew anything about avoiding it other than to simply stop any/all sexual activity with our brothers. Then: Finally, along came azt, which at least offered some hope for living through the crises. Now, we have PReP, and the terrors we lived through decades ago can finally be shoved into the back of our memories. So why have some of us become sluttier with age? Because we can, and with a reasonable expectation we can live to do it all over and over and over again, and die of something other than our completely natural, inborn, wonderful, beautiful, thrilling Lusts. I don't think guys that weren't born, or at least of age in those dark days will ever understand, and that's miraculous. Maybe they won't have to live through what we "mature" pigs had to.
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I'm guessing that the guy has some weasels in his woodwork. Some guys love kissing, some guys don't. Some guys love snowballing, some guys don't. I like kissing sometimes, when other criteria have been met. But in the places I go, I'd much rather kiss their Holes than their mouths (unless, said snowballing has just occurred, of course).
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I'm of the same mind re: poppers. A very slight whiff (meaning, the actual bottle is several feet away from me) can give me a shiver, but I only keep them around for other guys who might want them. To the guys that bring poppers in the darkrooms/fuckjoints: ASK before you shove the bottle under some guy's nose.
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ohferWhatever'ssake ......... I didn't believe it, and then I checked that link ....... As far as I know, I only have taste-buds in my mouth, and that's pretty much all I ask re: the lovely taste of coffee. When I eat Holes, the last thing I want to taste is coffee !!!
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At some point in the last months there was a thread about how to collect, keep frozen sperm, what to keep it in, how to re-use, etc etc. I recall reading how some other guys developed their methods, and sharing some of mine. It's a first-rate fetish !!
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Yeah .... the coffee too .....
