KylerIsTrash

I usually need about 20 seconds with the first one. After that the top can go as hard and fast as he wants. If I’ve had a chance to stretch my hole or spin up the top can go as hard and deep as he wants from the first thrust.

I was living near Chicago when I turned 18. Met a guy my age on MySpace from Ohio and we chatted for about six months. After I graduated, I drove out to meet him. We had talked about everything at that point so I knew I was going to BTM. It was a hot summer day in June or July. We talked on his bed maybe 10 min. Then made out for about 5 before he fucked me with some lotion on the side of his bed. It was a short fuck. He fucked me 4 more times in the next couple hours. It was magical. I’ve forgotten many of the thousand loads I’ve taken since then but that one will stick with me to the end.

100% raw annal btm. Cock only gets in my mouth to get wet for my ass. I don’t hook up If I can’t get cleaned up to btm.

I always regret not planning to be at the bathhouse on Nov 30/Dec 1. I always think of it too late. I want my ass to get flooded with NNN loads.

Introvert. I love when guys talk with me but rarely do I initiate conversations.

Territorial tops bother me too. I am an equal opportunity cumdump and want everyone to get in as often as they like. I try to make this clear by saying I only fuck at bathhouses, I’m not into 1:1, I only fuck in common spaces. Given I only fuck in bathhouses, I don’t usually have an issue but there have been times a guy will stand around in the dark room and try to gatekeep other guys from fucking me or the dude will be insistent about taking me back to his room. There’s been a couple times I’ve had to pull off the blindfold and level with the guy in a much more serious tone. It’s not how I roll and he can either fuck the way I do or find another BTM. I appreciate the other guys who have been around in these instances to step in and help keep the vibe rolling. (If this has ever been you; thank you. I owe you.). I also don’t like territorial bottoms. I’d rather sideline and watch another dude take a cock than attempt to sabotage his good time. I appreciate the tops that unload in me but I don’t resent them for pulling out and trying another hole.

I think I posted most of this in other threads but I’ll repost here. For anon: blindfold, runner arm band to keep phone close while blindfolded, stash wrist band to keep poppers accessible while blindfolded. For appearance: harness, jockstrap, socks, shoes (sometimes), dog tags. For logistics: poppers, T, bottle of lube (preference for a 9x6 squeeze bottle), towel, hydration (water or Gatorade). Options: ball gag (I like the fort troff one), cock ring I like the idea of handcuffs but since I fuck in a public bathhouse sling I’d be concerned about safety if something went wrong or losing the key. I expect the bathhouse would tell me I couldn’t use them or kick me out if I tried. Idk, maybe I’m being paranoid. If anyone’s tried it lmk.

I was curious but cripplingly nervous the first time I went to Club Indy. I didn’t make eye contact or touch anyone. The advice I give everyone about a first bathhouse experience is to try it once. If you’re nervous, go in with no expectations of sex. It can be intimidating thinking you’ll be expected to perform a certain way. Pay the extra $10 for a room. Go in with the goal of having 2 hours to yourself scrolling on grindr with your door closed. Take in the environment; the smells, the sounds. Great if you find somebody to fuck with. Better if you fuck with me. You’re allowed to jack off alone to the sounds of guys fucking on the other side of the wall. In the end, you will have had an experience and know more about the world. You’ll be better prepared to make a decision about whether the environment works for you. Bathhouses are my safe space to fuck.

This is an old post so not relevant but the principle is worth revisiting. Keep in mind that it’s harder to ghost a neighbor than it is online. Whatever decision you make you need to be prepared to own it. You might have to face it every day.

I know there were other times I was teased or bullied but I don’t recall those instances as vividly. This guy was curious. The physical contact was pleasurable. As an introvert having other guys watch was, to some degree, traumatic. I think I can say with confidence that I’m not the only guy that had locker room fantasies. To some degree we’re all the culmination of our experiences; however, i can’t attribute this event leading me to become the anon bugchasing cumdump tweaker I am now. This was more like a spark. One that would have occurred at some other point eventually. I expect I would have ended up where I’m at now if I missed this experience.

I was always hella shy and kept to myself. One time after swimming in gym class this other guy walked up to me and was like “you looking at me?” (I probably wasn’t) “You think I’m hot?” (I didn’t know what to think; mumbled). I got hard (or was already hard; idk). Pointing at my cock he was like “why’s it like that?” I didn’t know and shrugged. He asked if he could touch it. I said sure and gently kicked my shaft a couple times with his foot. There were 10-20 guys from our class in the locker room watching all this. By this point they were all looking at us. Some were laughing and others cheering him on. I was the youngest in my class and I imagine several understood why I was hard but I was oblivious. From then on, I started fantasizing about meeting guys in locker rooms all the time. Fast forward 6 years and we’re both seniors taking our last gym class together. Neither of us had said a word to each other since 6th grade. I walk up to a urinal to pee and this guy is about 6 feet away adjusting his hair. He starts backing toward me slowly and bumps into me when I have my dick out. He acts like it was an accident then turns to check out my cock and is like “dayumm”. I’d fantasized about this guy so many times over the years but in that moment I was frozen. I zipped up my jeans and left the locker room. Never talked to the dude again. Later that year I started hooking up with guys. I’ve always wished I had a chance with this dude. I don’t know if he awakened my sexuality all those years ago (pretty sure I was jacking off before that) but nothing was the same from then on. It’s my first memory of sexual attraction. I knew I was into guys.

@rock-cock-jock and @ErosWired are spot on. I independently converged on many of these recommendations. The last thing you want during a ganbang is a logistical failure interrupting the train. I also started with a see-through blindfold but quickly switched to the bandanna to completely black out my vision. No regrets. Having forgotten chargers many times it’s important. I have a runners arm band made to hold phones that I wear so my phone is always on me and doesn’t get stolen. I would steer away from playing porn on a laptop personally. I had a laptop stolen from my place with one face down ass up encounter. For lube I recommend 9x6 (a blue bottle). It’s expensive but great quality lube. Always keeps my hole ready. The bottle design is amazing with a twist squirt top. If you want to continue using cheaper lube I would recommend getting one bottle of 9x6 and then refilling it. The bottle easy for me to handle blindfolded, spun, and covered in lube. The squirt top makes it real easy to get in my ass without making a mess. Usually my hole is so loose and wet tops don’t need more lube but I keep it in the band of my jockstrap or next to me in the sling for easy access.

I don’t fake it. I don’t really get into sober sex anymore but when I’m sober I don’t make much sound. When I’m in an enhanced state there’s nothing for me to hide. I enjoy having dudes watch me fuck but I’m not putting on a show.

Laying blindfolded at the bathhouse with my gaping hole there’s not much in the way of foreplay. Reflecting on the things that build the most sexual tension for me, it’s when guys talk about me with other dudes. “look at that dude in the sling”, “Wanna fuck him?”, “I just watched him get fucked by some other dude”, “I’m gonna fuck him raw”, “This slut needs some dick”. “That hole feels amazing. I fucked it earlier. When you’re done I’m gonna put another load in.”

I love when bigger guys walk up to me in the sling. The contrast between their big bodies and my tiny frame turns me on. They also usually sweat more which makes me horny as all hell.

100% in my ass. Cock in my ass and cum in my ass. I usually get restless when I been sucking more than about 30 seconds . The only time I’ll suck for an extended period is when I’m getting spit roasted in the sling. Even then, if the guy in my mouth seems close I try to get them to tag out so I can take both loads deep in my ass. I take it as a personal failure when cum ends up anywhere else.

I hate this question. I remember hearing it more back in the Craigslist days before PrEP. It’s a huge turn off and not just because I’m a bug chaser. I’m making the decision to fuck with you regardless of your status. If you care about the STDs of the other person then you shouldn’t be fucking raw. These days you’re wrong if the HIV status of your partner is a consideration. Asking in someone is “clean” is an unattractive personal insecurity. On a side note, I’ll ride you so hard if you tell me you’re pumping a dirty load in me. 😜

I don’t think there’s much for me to add to this thread. I’m a bottom and I make an effort to get along with other BTMs. I’d rather cheer on another dude taking dick rather than sabotage. I get a general sense that the distribution of younger guys (18-24) tends to be more BTM with a shift to a more even mix of TOP and BTM as we age up. Maybe I’m wrong and BTMs just spend more time online (for the many other reasons that have been addressed in this thread). Granted I live in a bigger city but I’m nothing special and when I’m looking I don’t usually have much trouble finding a top to link with.

I’m not into pain. I wanna feel good when I’m getting used. When I party it takes a lot to hurt. When I’m spinning and it starts to hurt, I know I am getting stretched by a massive fist or cock. When I PNP, I haven’t found any dick too big or fuck too deep.

I love trading jocks/underwear with other dudes. Great when I get them and they’re cumstained. Hard to find dudes in my size (s) who want to trade tho. Underwear laying on the ground make my dick twitch but I’ve never picked up a pair. I probably would if I found them at a bathhouse knowing they’re from another gay dude.

No, I left when he got violent. Bf didn’t find out from that guy but he did find out about others. They always find out. That’s why it’s just better to go into it with an open relationship. I don’t enjoy cheating but I need anon dick.

I’m willing to be the amateur BTM in the sling.

Yea, once. Back in college (I was probably 21) I was in a long relationship, but I was hooking up on the side with guys from A4A. This one dude HMU with a big dick (no other pics). We were talkin and he wanted me to come over and get blindfolded in his doorway. This was way before I had ever considered fucking blindfolded. We kept talking and I was asking for pics. I wanted the dick but I wasn’t about to get fucked by somebody I’d never seen. Eventually he revealed that he knew my bf and would tell him I was cheating if I didn’t come over and get fucked. I drove over to this dudes apartment. He lived in one of those motel type complexes where all the doors open to the outside. I walked up to the second floor and he had the door unlatched. I walked in and heard him wrangling the dog in the back. He had a winter scarf by the door that I was instructed put over my head. I tied it and got undressed. He came up to me and touched me. I flinched from the surprise and his cold hands. He led me back to his bedroom and told me to get on my knees. He bent me over the bed and began rubbing my hole with his cock. I was pissed he was using me like this but obedient. He started fucking me. At first it hurt but eventually I relaxed and started to enjoy it. He may have been the biggest I’d had in me at the time. I reached around and could feel his massive balls. His hair was shaved short and prickly. His balls were pulled in tight at the base of his cock. He fucked me hard and deep and then blew his load in me. He passed out on top of me sweaty. He seemed heavier than what I imagined from his pics. He stood up and gently grabbed my hand and led me to the door. He watched me get dressed touching me while I was pulling on my clothes. Then he stepped around the corner while I removed the blindfold and left. We kept messaging and I still couldn’t get him to share a pic. We ended up hooking up one more time several months later. Never found out who he was. I figure he was some dude that saw me at a bar at some point with my dude. Occasionally I think back and wish the guy could bump in to me now taking loads blindfolded in a sling.

BBRT is great. As a chaser I’ve been a fan of the site for years. I live in SEA and there’s a decent number of local guys on BBRT. IDK if I’ve ever met up with a dude through BBRT; however, I’ve found guys I’ve fucked with or been talkin to on another app. BBRT chat seems clunkier than Grindr or sniff but BBRT is a better indicator of whether I can be open about chasing and partying. HMU if you’re a top that found me on BBRT and fucked me blindfolded at steam or z. Def down to connect and get u nuttin in me again.

I don’t plan to ever go on a gay cruise but think it would be an experience to do my blindfolded sling setup on one.