Why Did You Start Barebacking?

[Guest]

I started barebacking shortly after I got into escorting. In the early 90's a fair bit of my regular clients wanted to fuck without a condom so one day I tripled the price and advertised 'condom-optional'. The day the local gay newspaper (Vancouver WestEnder) came out, I got 47 phone calls asking if they can schedule a date with me. 47 calls on May 20, 1993. I was in shock. A community that on the outside was so scared of AIDS and HIV, and who would advocate condom and abstinence at every corner, would produce 47 calls to an escort advertising raw fucks. I couldn't process that thought for a few weeks. I was confused. I was outraged. I was excited. I declined all calls at that time and said that I am fully booked and that I will be out of province for a family emergency for a while. 

For a couple of weeks, a lot of thoughts were going on through my mind. From fear of dying in a few days after I fuck raw (yep, I was that naive !) to how I would look at myself afterwards. Anyway, long story short, the July rent was due in a few days so I placed the ad again in the newspaper. Lo and behold, a lot of calls that day. I went to the church (yes, dear reader, you read it correct: the church) and prayed for some time. It felt like the right thing to do. And once that was over, went home, did my usual prep and was ready for the first ever raw fuck. 

When I opened the door to the first guy who enlisted my services, my jaw just dropped. A beautiful yong man, in his early 30's, built like a tank, with a mischievous smile and sandy blond hair. Dave was his name. How could I possibly forget! Anyway, we ended up both fucking each other. Cum in ass included. The day was July 1, 1993.  And I haven't used a condom ever since. 

So to answer the OP question: Why did I start bb... Because I was making $5,000 a month (30 yrs ago). And that put me through university, bought the house for my parents, and met tens of celebrities from all corners of the world.  

However, the most intriguing element of my experience is how many men were, gay or straight, were fucking raw at the height of the AIDS epidemic.  

As a funny thing, later that year, the newspaper refused to publish my advert with condom-optional wording. So I changed to "clothing-optional" . By then though, everyone knew what that meant!

 

[Guest]

I started getting fucked by men before anyone in the midwest knew what AIDS was. So the question isn't why did I start, but why did we have to re-start. I went years being captain condom. Always careful to play safe. Then one night, a very hot sexy and very persuasive man talked me into going bare. I was scared, I had just met him that night, and didn't know him at all. But he made me feel safe, and I ended up spending all night in his hotel room. Took 3 loads that night. He kept telling me 'you know now this is always how you'll want it'. He was right. 

[NicNorth]

When I started AIDS was not known about so the first few years I was giving and taking loads.  I’m a bit more bottom and loved that moment when a guy would shoot his load deep inside my guts.  The frustration then was that some guys didn’t give any indication when were cumming - you only knew when they pulled out. Still I had got their load.

When we all got to know about AIDS it was condoms all (nearly all) the way.  I would fantasise about raw but cautious.  
 

Once prep became a thing I have been making up for lost time.  Not worrying about rubbers has made me more sexually confident and I love feeling a raw cock deep inside me ready to shoot the contents of his balls inside me. 
 

My favourite is giving and taking in the same session with a guy who has a cock that is not so large that makes things uncomfortable.  Lots of precum and mansweat a bonus. 

[NicNorth]

On 1/13/2023 at 3:19 PM, RawFunNow said:

Condoms make me lose my hardon. It's psychological, because I will be rock hard and if I start rolling one on, I'll go limp. When I bottom, I want to feel the cock and cum, not latex. I do occasionally use them though for a secondary purpose.  I precum like a goddamn leaky faucet.  Hard or not, I precum at the drop of a hat.  So occasionally I'll slip one on to catch the precum to use for lube. With all modesty, I'll say my precum tastes better than Astroglide, which is good since I'm a hardcore felch pig. 🐖 

I precum a lot and that caused problems when i fucked with a rubber the rubber would quickly get really wet and slide off 

[rawfuckr]

I came out in the early 00's and I was pretty much a condom Nazi. No one would fuck me without one although I'd breed here and there because that was less risk. 

I got fucked multiple times with rubbers during the decade but never really enjoyed it. Didn't know why. Then one day around 09 in the sauna with this super hot stached daddy, after some rubber fucking, had me on my fours and handed me the poppers. Pulled the condom out and stuck it in ...

OMG 

What a difference. That fat uncut cock going in raw was so much better. Could feel the foreskin docking in my ass, the head expanding... And then he bred me the load and I experienced a rush I had never. 

That started my decline as I'd be looking for raw cock in every situation even knowing I was at risk. I could not avoid getting raw cock even with the risks... Every HIV test was extremely tense. Luckily for me PrEP came around 2012 and I was the first one to be on it. Fairly sure I'd had been pozzed if it wasn't for PrEP. 

These days I'm on the camp that bare is the only way. I'm never allowing wrapped cock in my ass. 

Edited November 11, 2023 by rawfuckr

[nate88]

My teenage hormones got in the way. I was horny, he didn't have a rubber, but neither of us let that stop us.

[IllinoisCumdump]

I was so excited leading up to my first time getting fucked. The top was hung and hot and I was horny and craving dick. We were both young and inexperienced and he used a rubber. It was pretty great but wasn’t as great as I’d hoped. A couple weeks later i hooked up with a guy and he ‘forgot’ the condoms. I was horny so we fucked anyway and if was amazing; it was the fuck I’d been dreaming about. Haven’t used them since. 

[NicNorth]

On 11/26/2022 at 2:47 AM, tepegodf said:

No one wants shit on their dick.  Ruins the mood and everything.

It happens if you raw fuck - not a big issue for me tbh

[BootmanLA]

15 hours ago, NicNorth said:

It happens if you raw fuck - not a big issue for me tbh

It can happen even if the top is wearing a condom. They often "ride up" a bit, so part of the shaft is exposed, and depending on the texture of the fecal material, it could easily end up on the top's skin.

[Guest]

The first few times I was fucked was with a condom. Hooked up with one guy shortly after the last condom guy. He only fucked raw. I still am, but at that time I was getting my first craving for raw cock. The first breeding I received felt incredible. I could feel his cock pulsate and feel the cum paint the inside of my hole. I came so hard that night when I went home and played in my cummy cunt and jerked off.

[sammotogrindr]

When I was first fucked by my cousin, he fucked me raw and just just spit .. and left his cum in my ass .... Then never thought about condoms... Another cousin did the same.. well never thought of using condom afterwards as it seemed its a biggest turn on for me... My first (now ex) bf when we met through Grindr even fucked me raw ...

[Pnp-pig]

I cannot remember a time when a condom was in my hole, I have alway fuck raw.

[breedingstall]

it wasnt my choice,  my first time, he told me he was going to cum in me

[versasslover]

My first fuck was bare. Then was a strict condoms only guy, but when I started visiting saunas, usually slightly intoxicated and still closeted, I went bare again as it made me feel good, slutty and sleazy. But still condoms when doing a ‘proper’ hookup. But started dating an older man/daddy who convinced me to go bare with him, he was undetectable. He showed me it was what I really wanted and he helped me get to be my real sleazy self. 

[subiboy]

10 hours ago, breedingstall said:

it wasnt my choice,  my first time, he told me he was going to cum in me

It was the same with me