Is Being Used By A Straight Guy Hotter Than Being Used By A Gay Guy?

[hungry_hole]

I'm against this straight-gay dichotomy. Having sex with women and having sex with men are two different experiences. It's like playing baseball or playing softball. You wanna play rough, play hard, show-off your body power and masculine traits, you play baseball with the guys. You wanna have a relaxed time with both men and women, play softball. You wanna have children, follow the social standards, marry a woman.

 

Self identity is personal and what works for one man may not work for another. An example is "being gay" which doesn't work for every man who has sex with men. Many gay-identified men insist that men who have sex with men is a proof that the man is gay. No, because "being gay" is an identity and identities are very personal. 

[SugarWalls]

to answer the OPs question--being used by anyone--straight, gay, bi, trans, questioning, or any other identity--is not a turn on for me at all. To be used up by someone for their own selfish aims isn't appealing to me in many capacities, and to be used sexually without getting any pleasure from it, well, y'all can keep that whether the dick is straight or gay, I'm not interested.

[chargedodger]

I very much enjoy encounters with straight men.I may be the first man they have had any sexual contact with.That bones me up BIG time!

[Ddawg]

I like being the receptive conduit for the sexual release of a heteronormative cis-male individual. Their approach is a little different, I like it..

Guys, relax: it's just sex.

[tradiemason]

I dont care how they identify just that they fuck n load me hole ! I know a lot of me fuckers are married n they just want to dump a load n go which is just fine for me I dont want to marry them I just want there cocks n loads for me its just sex (_0_)

[calgary84]

I find straight/bi men fuck more.... unapologetic than men who identify as gay, but that's just my observation.  They fuck my ass like its a pussy and was meant to be beat up and is self lubricating.  It can be very hot when done right.

[Guest btchbyl]

who gives a fuck? he has a dick and can fuck. a load is a load.

[KindaBasic]

I think "straight" guys are fun, especially the married ones. Maybe it's the taboo aspect, but it turns me on when one chooses my ass hole over his wife's pussy.

[fieldpussy]

I had sex with a lot of guys who live a straight sex life most of the time. And I asked a lot of them why they fuck me.

The single guys often said that they like the fact that, instead of taking me out to dinner and dating me three times, they can drop a load in my ass in no time after we hook up.

The guys with girlfriends or wifes often like it rough, but their girls don't. Or they want it raw, but their girls don't.

It's always a turn on for me that they chose me to serve them with stuff they don't find with girls. I like this kind of humiliation.

[Maikol]

I was first fucked by a straight boy schoolmat. He wa was very hot and handsome, had a stable of girls he dated and am sure fucked and then he added me. I was thrilled to be his new "girl"! It was fantastic, he loved my reaction, I was so willing to please him, he  called me Candy. And after that he fucked me regularly, even before going out on a date. Ever since I really go wild with a straight guy and try for repeats! 

[Guest Memphian]

On 12/31/2015 at 3:52 AM, snaketat said:

Just like the old joke when......you can fuck a 1000 women but you blow one guy and forever you are considered a cocksucker.  

 

I am really of the belief that all people are bi-sexual at their core.  Not everyone acts on that, but I think the potential attraction exists in all of us.   

 

Getting past the gay-straight-bi-questioning-queer labels and just simply enjoying good sex seems, to me at least, more healthy.

 

No if you enjoy the thought of you bud being straight...enjoy the experience.  We all have our own likes and dislikes.   

 

In my own case, I prefer guys who are honest with themselves and understand that fucking men is ok.....and there is nothin wrong with letting that be known.  I have found the sex can be better when there is no gay/straight bullshit....but then that is just my view.

This is the correct answer.  Kinsey showed most people were somewhere on the spectrum and very few are actually 100% homosexual or heterosexual.  For a long time I've thought the need to put labels on this or force people to declare a choice (like they are voting in a presidential primary) is just silly.  

I love pussy and women.  I've never had a romantic attraction to men but on the other hand a hard cock in my mouth or ass sure gets me off.  But I really don't see the need to figure out a label for that.  It's just what works for me.  Much like you go to a banquet and some people pick chicken and some pick fish.  I don't go around telling them to make their mind up and pick a side.

[ChainedBoy]

Interesting question. I’ve fucked and been fucked by several men who have been married to women and/or otherwise self-identified as straight (or mostly straight).

Is the sex with them hotter? Not per se. At some level, the fact that a straight identifying dude is fucking my hole or taking my cock plays into the whole “forbidden fruit” taboo...but if the guy is boring, or sucks at it: that ONE aspect (“straight guy sex”) fails to overcome the negatives in my book.

However, I can see a person developing a fetish for such encounters...in which case every other consideration tends to go out the window. And that is just as valid, in my book, as any other fetish out there.

[Phallarchist]

I want a man to exploit my cunt with a total focus on his own pleasure. He uses me as a vagina substitute when he doesn’t have easy access to an adequate female, or for variety if he doesn’t get to fuck her throat and rectum or get nasty with her. I much prefer that his seed has been proven potent by successful impregnatiions (though I don’t care if they’re children; studs get credit for abortions, too).

Whether he thinks of himself as normal or admits to a little bisexuality, he should be pumping his loads into fertile wombs regularly. Raw vaginal access is a fundamental measure of male power.

[hungry_hole]

On 12/31/2015 at 12:31 PM, bbzh said:

I am not sure I care who my sex partners fuck when they are not fucking me. And it surely doesn't matter to me how he self-identifies.

Same here. I find that when I'm getting fucked I really can't tell whether the guy fucking me is straight or gay, or even top or bottom. All I know is that the guy is horny and that he's turned-on by the idea of fucking and breeding my hole. I've been fucked by feminine guys but I never noticed it until they either talked to me or noticed their mannerisms; while being horny and fucking me they looked as masculine as the most macho-looking guy. That's why I never describe any guy who has fucked me as a top or straight, etc. To me they he's just a horny guy who at that precise moment wants to fuck my hole and breed it. That's all I care.

I was on a sex-holiday in South America and an apartment that included a sling. A guy in his 30's wanted to anonymously breed me on the sling but after my hole was loaded with cum from and older guy, not just any cum. It had to be from and older guy, so one day when I knew a young guy wanted to try fucking me on the sling I coordinated with him, and told him that the cum was from a guy in his 60's. What difference would it make?

[CumBustion]

In my opinion and experience, depending on their circumstance, "straight guys" will get sucked and fuck another dude. I know tons of str8 guys, many that are married or in a LTR with a female, that willcross the line from time to time. Some are sex starved. Others just love the way they get sucked off by another guy (which many will say is way better than a girl", There are a few that love the way a tight ass feels on their dick and but their girl doesn't do anal.  

One married guy I know, hot older Black guy with a magnificent piece of meat between his legs. He's a father of three. His wife is less than emthusiastic about sex, never gives him oral, and makes him use rubbers because she doesn't want another kid. He has a side piece butt gives him drama. He'll hit me up every so often so he can unload his bloated balls. When we fuck, he turns into a beast, making me gag as he fucks my throat and ass-rapes me for hours. He can nutt several times in one night, usually fucking me until he can't cum anymore. And even at that, because he takes Viagra and wears a cock ring, he stays very hard long after he's done. We alwas fucks me raw and never pulls out unless he wants me to drink his cum. 

It goes to prove male urges aren't tied to a specific sexual preference.