TIRED of size queens

[bihairy]

On 11/22/2017 at 7:17 PM, constructionguy said:

Bottoms are constantly complaining they're not getting enough cock .... well, maybe if you dropped the size queen fetish you might.

I have a nice thick cock that fucks really good and never disappoints and big balls that shoot a real good load but a lot of bottoms say "sorry, I never connect with anyone less than 14 inches". or their ads say "HUGE cocks only'.

Listen boys, step outta the porn film and into real life and you might be laid more often.

End of rant.

I truly enjoy what I'm doing. Fucking deep and seeding. I'm 6c and cum several times. If I'm not good enough for a bottom, then on to the next one. There are plenty of warm holes to seed. 

[Guest Bearman]

I am not at all concerned about the size of the cock that fucks me.If the cock is hard and the top is going to slide it into my hole raw and deposit a load deep inside then I am over the moon.It is my duty to please the top no matter what the size of his dick.

[tallslenderguy]

I've definitely evolved sexually. I've never been a size queen, actually a really huge cock is more likely to give me pause than a smaller one (but just for a second). I used to care about looks, but that hasn't been a factor for me for many years now. Now, if i am looking, i'll take whoever wants to service. i look at it as a matter of maturity, but that is just my opinion.

The only guy that gives me pause is one who wants to be endlessly served with no intention of cuming. I'm divided on that, because obviously He is getting pleasure, but there seems to be an instinctual part of me that is frustrated if my top doesn't orgasm.  i feel like a failure if i do not bring my Top to orgasm.

Size is not even on my radar screen when it comes to sex. Cock, or body size for that matter. I used to have a fb (before moving) who cured me of body size bias. He was really large, likely over 300#, and he had a very small cock, prolly not bigger than 3 inches (no exaggeration on either of those).  But I really became fond of Him.  Most of my sex is anonymous, and it was with Him too. I am usually waiting face down and naked, my favorite position of vulnerable and available. He'd always straddle my thighs, my legs closed, and penetrate me while He was in sitting position. i was always surprised by His skill at being able to get in, fuck and breed. He always left my hole creamy and obviously enjoyed breeding me. That's enough to make me fall in love lol. 

 

[Guest bbbearlover1]

One of the fastest and easiest ways to get me to cut someone off is for the first question I get to be about my dick size.  I don't mind talking dick size, but I've gotten tons of messages with that being the only question asked.  Doms and tops are not just human phalli, so folks might want to try to wait at least until question three before demanding my dick size. 

[tallslenderguy]

9 minutes ago, bbbearlover1 said:

One of the fastest and easiest ways to get me to cut someone off is for the first question I get to be about my dick size.  I don't mind talking dick size, but I've gotten tons of messages with that being the only question asked.  Doms and tops are not just human phalli, so folks might want to try to wait at least until question three before demanding my dick size. 

i think this is such a great point.  Despite how we may sometimes feel, bottoms like they are "just a hole for breeding" or Tops who are 'a cock for breeding,' the truth is there is so much more to all of us. Even though we may think we have reduced our need/want to a thing, there's usually a lot more to it.  

Though it may be counter intuitive (or more likely, counter stereotype), i have been fucked by guys with big cocks who were really lousy at what they were doing, and i have been fucked by guys with tiny (and i do me "tiny") cocks who turned into fb's because the experience was awesome for both of us.

If the rationale behind wanting a huge cock is how it feels, the reverse is true as well (i.e., the bottoms whole is so open that the Top needs to have a huge cock to feel it). 

For me it is not the size of a Tops cock that matters, it's the size of His orgasm (and i am not referring to load size).  For me the best sex is a dance of yin/yang where each is responding to and fueled by the other. For me, the bigger a Tops pleasure, the bigger my pleasure. 

[Guest bbbearlover1]

25 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

For me it is not the size of a Tops cock that matters, it's the size of His orgasm (and i am not referring to load size).  For me the best sex is a dance of yin/yang where each is responding to and fueled by the other. For me, the bigger a Tops pleasure, the bigger my pleasure. 

And your point here is why this Dom NEEDS a real sub.  I also bet that the size queens might get a real surprise if they stopped being so dickmatized.  I mean I LOVE male pussy (tight or sloppy; big phat bubble ass, or lack-o-ass), but I need to get into the head of the guys with the pussies I love so much.

[tallslenderguy]

5 minutes ago, bbbearlover1 said:

And your point here is why this Dom NEEDS a real sub.... I need to get into the head of the guys with the pussies I love so much.

Oh hell yes! Once i discovered mind fuck, everything else was just mutual masturbation. Connecting bodies is hot, connecting mind and body is heaven. There's so much inaccurate connotation associated with D/s (i think), for me, it is attraction of opposites.  

i had a very experienced Dom tell me that i am one of the most sub guys He has ever met, which surprised me because i am not that experienced. i think a lot of self professed Dom guys would disagree with Him because they equate sub with "easy."  For me it is not easy at all, but magical when the chemistry is there and it happens.

[holesforYouSir]

6 hours ago, bbbearlover1 said:

And your point here is why this Dom NEEDS a real sub.  I also bet that the size queens might get a real surprise if they stopped being so dickmatized.  I mean I LOVE male pussy (tight or sloppy; big phat bubble ass, or lack-o-ass), but I need to get into the head of the guys with the pussies I love so much.

You had me at "real sub," Sir. In fact, i bet the ones who treat Doms as if it's all about the dick are actually doing Them a favor because they wouldn't be of much use to the Doms, anyway.

[RawLeather]

No size queen here.  Any cock will do as long as it's willing and able to breed my hOle. 

[badjamie]

It's all about the man attached to the cock! If what's between his ears doesn't do it for me, it doesn't matter what's he's packing between his legs.

[scott0882]

Size queens also care about height and weight of any guy that they meet. Chubs, bears and cubs usually get no action from queens either topping or bottoming. 

[Guest Upstateguy518]

Couldn’t agree more. Too many size whores out there. A cock is a fucking cock. Ride that shit until he cums in you then move that sloppy hole to the next one.

[scott0882]

23 hours ago, Upstateguy518 said:

Couldn’t agree more. Too many size whores out there. A cock is a fucking cock. Ride that shit until he cums in you then move that sloppy hole to the next one.

If you visit Ft. Lauderdale, you will find out for certain. Most of them are bbrt, including a few who I believe that are poz without indicating it in their profile. 

[Guest Upstateguy518]

7 hours ago, scott0882 said:

If you visit Ft. Lauderdale, you will find out for certain. Most of them are bbrt, including a few who I believe that are poz without indicating it in their profile. 

yeah in my area, BBRT is dead unless you travel 25 miles or more to meet someone. And I agree with your size queens post. I find a lot more guys in recent years are really specific about height and weight. You pretty much have to be a twink or muscular guy in order to see any action. I mean it's to the point where bigger guys won't even post a photo out of fear of outright rejection.

[barecubtop]

I think most of what needs to be said has already been said.

On a similar note, though...I think it's interesting how people look at pictures on the apps and sites.  I use the dick pic you see here (my profile pic) on the apps and websites.  There seems to be a 50/50 chance that I'll either get "that's too small for me" or "that's so thick!"  In addition, I'm not the most photogenic, so when anyone ever asks for a face pic, I often get turned down also.  It sucks, but then I'll go to a bathhouse or a bookstore or something, and I get all kinds of compliments about my looks and my dick.  Just last night at a bathhouse I had numerous people stop by the doorway of my room just to say "hey, that's a nice cock, do you want company?" 

Now, I'm not saying this to stroke my own ego or anything, I'm just pointing out that as the gay hookup culture moves more and more to online/apps we are relying more and more on the quality of our pictures to "sell" ourselves.  This is unfortunate, as there are people who look great in pics but horrible in person, and those that look not-so-great in pics and are gorgeous in person (I've met both kinds).  On this site, there tends to be a lot of acceptance of all different types - and people who say they will fuck anyone and everyone, no matter their looks.  The same attitude somewhat exists at a bathhouse...last night I played around with twinks, cubs, daddy bears, a bisexual muscle hunk, and a few "average Joes" and it was great.  I just wish we, as a community, could be a little more open-minded and accepting in general, without being too hung up on pics.