Little dick bottoms

[coastalbender]

On 2/16/2018 at 4:44 PM, 4666 said:

 

So to answer the question , YES A BOTTOM'S SIZE MATTERS TO SOME TOPS.  Small and soft is sexy as hell and what I seek out exclusively in guys. 

 

Thank you SO MUCH. I am exactly what you describe. When I am fucked, my little nothing is no more than  an inch, totally soft, totally nothing. I get satisfaction through my asshole.

[liger]

When I was younger, I’d fret about my penis size. I was, and still am, quite thin, so it was a length and girth problem. I’ve always been small when flaccid, but years of jerking off too aggressively means that my dick is a horribly misshapen embarrassment when “erect”. No longer a pencil dick, but something worse.

 I’m attracted to women for the most part and currently have a female partner. We’ve been together for a few years and she always makes comments about my “little” penis and about how some sexual positions “don’t really suit you”.  She’s not trying to be mean and she doesn’t think it turns me on. For her, that’s just how it is. She also shares everything with two of her best friends (a guy and girl), so I know that would have been a topic of conversation.

The latest occasion, we were looking at sex toys online and she said I should get a strap-on. I’ve never had her fuck me, so I thought that was interesting, but before I could say anything, she said, “...To wear over your penis” ... Utterly humiliating, but another stark reminder that my true calling is as a bottom. Surrendering my hole to a well-endowed guy (or woman wielding a sizeable strap-on) and not worrying about my pathetic dick is such a release. That is my place.

I’ve been jamming objects up my ass since shortly post-puberty. I’d watch porn of women being buttfucked and having their asses filled with cum while dildoing myself. I was attracted to the women, but it took me a long time to realize that I was actually jealous of what those cocks were doing to their asses. So now, I live the life of a supposedly straight guy who ticks the boxes by bringing my cock out every so often, while seeking cock and cum to be thrust inside me any chance I get.

 

[viking8x6]

2 hours ago, liger said:

I’m attracted to women for the most part and currently have a female partner. We’ve been together for a few years and she always makes comments about my “little” penis and about how some sexual positions “don’t really suit you”.  She’s not trying to be mean and she doesn’t think it turns me on...

...she said, “...To wear over your penis” ... Utterly humiliating...

That is certainly cruel and IMO over the line into abusive. You may think (with your rational mind) that she is "not trying to be mean," but you obviously feel abused by it ("utterly humiliating"), and (alas) some part of her probably is trying to be mean. You might want to consider getting some counseling to dig a little deeper and explore your inner feelings about it. In my experience, that's something you can't easily do in the direct presence of an abusive partner.

[Hungryhole903]

1 hour ago, viking8x6 said:

That is certainly cruel and IMO over the line into abusive. You may think (with your rational mind) that she is "not trying to be mean," but you obviously feel abused by it ("utterly humiliating"), and (alas) some part of her probably is trying to be mean. You might want to consider getting some counseling to dig a little deeper and explore your inner feelings about it. In my experience, that's something you can't easily do in the direct presence of an abusive partner.

@viking8x6 You my good sir are truly correct in my opinion. My ex-bitch of a wife constantly would belittle me about how I can only please her in certain ways. A woman that says thing's such as @ligerhas experienced is being abusive mentally and emotionally. That's partly why I consider myself to be mostly straight but I'm curious. I've only been with women and I tend to ruin the relationships because of the abuse that I once had with my ex-wife subliminally care to the next and I purposely ruin the relationship without realizing it. A really good friend of mine, who is also gay, is a psychologist/psychiatrist talked about everything and he made me realize that I  need to expand my life and people/genders that I hook up with. I just haven't had the opportunity and person to share the experience with. Sorry for the rant, I just felt I needed to share.

[find91]

4 hours ago, liger said:

When I was younger, I’d fret about my penis size. I was, and still am, quite thin, so it was a length and girth problem. I’ve always been small when flaccid, but years of jerking off too aggressively means that my dick is a horribly misshapen embarrassment when “erect”. No longer a pencil dick, but something worse.

 I’m attracted to women for the most part and currently have a female partner. We’ve been together for a few years and she always makes comments about my “little” penis and about how some sexual positions “don’t really suit you”.  She’s not trying to be mean and she doesn’t think it turns me on. For her, that’s just how it is. She also shares everything with two of her best friends (a guy and girl), so I know that would have been a topic of conversation.

The latest occasion, we were looking at sex toys online and she said I should get a strap-on. I’ve never had her fuck me, so I thought that was interesting, but before I could say anything, she said, “...To wear over your penis” ... Utterly humiliating, but another stark reminder that my true calling is as a bottom. Surrendering my hole to a well-endowed guy (or woman wielding a sizeable strap-on) and not worrying about my pathetic dick is such a release. That is my place.

I’ve been jamming objects up my ass since shortly post-puberty. I’d watch porn of women being buttfucked and having their asses filled with cum while dildoing myself. I was attracted to the women, but it took me a long time to realize that I was actually jealous of what those cocks were doing to their asses. So now, I live the life of a supposedly straight guy who ticks the boxes by bringing my cock out every so often, while seeking cock and cum to be thrust inside me any chance I get.

 

Pegging is become a lot more common and less fringe. You can definitely find a Domme that would be willing to peg your hole and humiliate your clit.

[smallcocksissyboi]

19 hours ago, liger said:

When I was younger, I’d fret about my penis size. I was, and still am, quite thin, so it was a length and girth problem. I’ve always been small when flaccid, but years of jerking off too aggressively means that my dick is a horribly misshapen embarrassment when “erect”. No longer a pencil dick, but something worse.

 I’m attracted to women for the most part and currently have a female partner. We’ve been together for a few years and she always makes comments about my “little” penis and about how some sexual positions “don’t really suit you”.  She’s not trying to be mean and she doesn’t think it turns me on. For her, that’s just how it is. She also shares everything with two of her best friends (a guy and girl), so I know that would have been a topic of conversation.

The latest occasion, we were looking at sex toys online and she said I should get a strap-on. I’ve never had her fuck me, so I thought that was interesting, but before I could say anything, she said, “...To wear over your penis” ... Utterly humiliating, but another stark reminder that my true calling is as a bottom. Surrendering my hole to a well-endowed guy (or woman wielding a sizeable strap-on) and not worrying about my pathetic dick is such a release. That is my place.

I’ve been jamming objects up my ass since shortly post-puberty. I’d watch porn of women being buttfucked and having their asses filled with cum while dildoing myself. I was attracted to the women, but it took me a long time to realize that I was actually jealous of what those cocks were doing to their asses. So now, I live the life of a supposedly straight guy who ticks the boxes by bringing my cock out every so often, while seeking cock and cum to be thrust inside me any chance I get.

 

I am in a similar position to liger only I enjoy the small penis humiliation (and premature ejaculation humiliation) my wife lays down on me. It’s led to her cuckolding me, pegging me, and generally relegating me to a pathetic small cocked submissive who rarely ever gets to penetrate her. She has asked over time whether I want to be fucked by men like I’m a girl and will often use that line of verbal as I’m allowed to ejaculate but I’ve yet to commit to admitting that I really do want it as in the post orgasm come down she tells me she wouldn’t like it if I did actually get fucked by men and it’s really disappointing that I can’t satisfy her.

 

so for now it’s still a case of being used like a sissy faggot on the side

[Guest Somebody]

I do not find what is being said here to be true at all.  I am very masculine and very, very tall with at best an average dick.  I could not get a Top to fuck me if I was the last bottom on earth.  Frankly, I gave up even trying years ago.  Tops only want twinks with big dicks.  If one is over the age of 30, you might as well be dead as far as all Tops are concerned.

[Fuzzypup]

I love making my dick as small and unassuming as possible when I bottom, to the point that I lock it in the tiniest chastity cage I can fit it into. I've gone to bath houses like that, but all I ever end up getting is grumpy bottoms because they can't "convince" some switch to top them. It's a kink, but I love seeing small dick guys getting railed, and being verbally abused for the shortcomings 

Edited September 23, 2020 by Fuzzypup
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[Kaleebottom85]

I've been blessed to be a grower and not a shower, and over the last 12 years since I started bottoming, I'm glad to say that I don't even get hard anymore. All my sensations and pleasure come my pussy and from the size of my tops cock. I've had numerous tops comment on how they love I have a clit dick and no my place. my balls are also very compact and don't hang very low either. I can hold both in one hand and it makes them both look even smaller. I love the excitement on the tops face when i lay back and spread my legs and they see that they are the obvious man in the fuck we're about to have. They've told me if I had a nice pair of breasts I would be the perfect bottom.

[liger]

On 9/23/2020 at 5:49 AM, Hungryhole903 said:

@viking8x6 You my good sir are truly correct in my opinion. My ex-bitch of a wife constantly would belittle me about how I can only please her in certain ways. A woman that says thing's such as @ligerhas experienced is being abusive mentally and emotionally.

It’s true that she shouldn’t say those things, but basically at all other times she’s a selfless, loving person. It’s something I can let slide because, a) What she’s saying is ultimately true and, b) It does turn me on to be humiliated by a woman like that. Even more so precisely because she doesn’t know I like it, so it’s not an act or sex game. It’s also further confirmation that I’m build to be penetrated, not to penetrate.

I keep my desire for cock secret from her, but I don’t feel any guilt for doing so.

 

[Pozguyinchi]

On 7/4/2020 at 7:08 AM, Pozguyinchi said:

I wish I had a small clit. Mine is about 7.5. It’s embarrassing sometimes.

I recently bought a cage and started locking in the hope to shrink my clit. My mistake was being to aggressive with the  Size and it causes a lot the pain when my clit swells during breeding. My ultimate goal would be to not have any change in clit size during breeding. For now I will continue to keep it covered with a jock as a sign of respect.

[crawford912]

On 9/23/2020 at 8:47 PM, Fuzzypup said:

I love making my dick as small and unassuming as possible when I bottom, to the point that I lock it in the tiniest chastity cage I can fit it into. I've gone to bath houses like that, but all I ever end up getting is grumpy bottoms because they can't "convince" some switch to top them. It's a kink, but I love seeing small dick guys getting railed, and being verbally abused for the shortcomings 

FUUUUCK yes. I finally found a cage small enough for my tiny clit of a cock. guys used to be able to slide it out of the one i had, which was fucking annoying. i tend not to wear it with my regulars, but throw it on before i go cruising so that guys i haven't met before get the fucking hint.

On 9/24/2020 at 1:50 AM, Kaleebottom85 said:

I've been blessed to be a grower and not a shower, and over the last 12 years since I started bottoming, I'm glad to say that I don't even get hard anymore. All my sensations and pleasure come my pussy and from the size of my tops cock. I've had numerous tops comment on how they love I have a clit dick and no my place. my balls are also very compact and don't hang very low either. I can hold both in one hand and it makes them both look even smaller. I love the excitement on the tops face when i lay back and spread my legs and they see that they are the obvious man in the fuck we're about to have. They've told me if I had a nice pair of breasts I would be the perfect bottom.

Blessed indeeeeed. So glad I'm not a big-dicked bottom. I'm a grower, but I'm still on the small side when I get hard, and the only things that get me hard are not things that bottoms trying to get me hard would ever think to do, thank god. Flatter me? Submit to this faggot? Yeah, that's not gonna do the trick. force me to drink your piss, work me over with a whip, or degrade me in front of an audience, yup, you might just get me hard. Might. It's rare. And anytime in the last 4 years that I've tried getting it anywhere near a hole, it goes soft right away... I used to kind of enjoy giving my poz load to the right bottom, but pleasure really only comes from my hole, my nips, and submitting to a piggy dom. 

[find91]

On 9/26/2020 at 1:54 AM, liger said:

It’s true that she shouldn’t say those things, but basically at all other times she’s a selfless, loving person. It’s something I can let slide because, a) What she’s saying is ultimately true and, b) It does turn me on to be humiliated by a woman like that. Even more so precisely because she doesn’t know I like it, so it’s not an act or sex game. It’s also further confirmation that I’m build to be penetrated, not to penetrate.

I keep my desire for cock secret from her, but I don’t feel any guilt for doing so.

 

Are you sure she doesn't know? I find most guy into sph give off small hints (a lot of times subconsciously) and if your clever or experienced enough you can pick it up. If your fine with it that's all that matters.

[tallslenderguy]

2 hours ago, find91 said:

Are you sure she doesn't know? I find most guy into sph give off small hints (a lot of times subconsciously) and if your clever or experienced enough you can pick it up. If your fine with it that's all that matters.

i think you are dead on about guys giving off vibes or hints. When i was married and whoring and cheating on the DL, i had a huge amount of guilt and self hatred for cheating and lying. i felt like i was pretty obvious in so many ways. Not only that, but my former wife knew i was gay before we married, and i told her again after we were married. We were religious, so we had stupid and wrong ideas about what it meant to be "gay." She told me before we divorced that she had considered getting an annulment when i told here about still liking guys a few weeks after we were married. i naively thought she would be my helper in my fight to de-gay myself.  So, even armed with that knowledge, and a few STD's along the way, she still did not connect that i was on the DL.  i think she knew, but was in denial.

[blackrobe]

On 9/26/2020 at 4:04 AM, Pozguyinchi said:

I recently bought a cage and started locking in the hope to shrink my clit. My mistake was being to aggressive with the  Size and it causes a lot the pain when my clit swells during breeding. My ultimate goal would be to not have any change in clit size during breeding. For now I will continue to keep it covered with a jock as a sign of respect.

Your instincts do you credit. The cage needs to be snug and have no gap at the end, but for a new locked nub its not a good idea to compress the clit. You need to be conditioned to sleeping in it to tame and blunt your clit's regular nightly swelling first, as well as wearing it through the day. Some discomfort is expected.

If your goal is respectful limpness while being used, I really think you should also consider adding hypnosis to your arsenal. I thought I had a small dick, but keep getting feedback that it was both not small and a "very pretty dick" as well. I didn't want that distraction from serving men with my cunt, so I used hypnosis to focus my arousal and attention on my cunt as well as getting a cage as a visible symbol of restraint.

My dom top friend and other tops that use my cunt enjoy how my limp dick and balls look as they penetrate me and how, as they fuck me, it emits ropes and ropes of precum clearly illustrating my arousal and engagement in their use of me. 

I recommend you take it one step at a time in your journey towards a limp nub.