bihairy Posted June 23, 2020 Report Posted June 23, 2020 Hey guys: Has anyone else encountered this issue? I am a barebacker. I say I fuck bb on my profiles for bbrts, squirt, grdr, and other sites. If you want to hook up with me I want you to know I intend to breed and seed your hole. Otherwise, don't bother me. Other than BBRTS (of course) I sometimes get nasty messages from guys that are angry at me because I want bb. Today I got a response from something I had put online that I was an "idiot" "moron" etc. Why do these assholes find it necessary to make nasty comments regarding my preference for bare sex? I wanted to tell this asshole to fuck off, but the message was sent anonymously. To afraid to send it with his email. I happen to be on PrEP and old enough to know what I want. I wish I could block these idiots to be honest. BH 4 4 Quote
backdoorjimmy Posted June 24, 2020 Report Posted June 24, 2020 I've had the same thing happen to me before. I spent a lot of time going back and forth with this one guy and I'd honestly given up when he agreed to let me suck his dick as long as he wore a condom. I told him no thank you and he went on a rant about cumsluts and some other crap that I didn't care about. I blocked him and he made a new grindr profile just to keep going off on me. Ugh, it's exhausting. The ratio of bottoms to tops on grindr is like 8:1 - just move on if you don't want to bb and leave the rest of us alone. 1 2 Quote
Guest Posted June 24, 2020 Report Posted June 24, 2020 6 minutes ago, backdoorjimmy said: I've had the same thing happen to me before. I spent a lot of time going back and forth with this one guy and I'd honestly given up when he agreed to let me suck his dick as long as he wore a condom. I told him no thank you and he went on a rant about cumsluts and some other crap that I didn't care about. I blocked him and he made a new grindr profile just to keep going off on me. Ugh, it's exhausting. The ratio of bottoms to tops on grindr is like 8:1 - just move on if you don't want to bb and leave the rest of us alone. I echo that Grindr statistic; same in my area. When I hit up a guy I want to meet or he hits me up, I let everyone know upfront I only bareback and its non-negotiable. Sometimes I get a no, most times there is no problem and only occasionally I get a block. So be it. Quote
Truversebb Posted June 24, 2020 Report Posted June 24, 2020 Bareback is becoming the new norm. The tables are turning on the safe sex crowd. They are in the minority, have lost the battle and are resentful over it so the pass judgment as they fade away into irrelevance! 2 4 Quote
BREEDmeRAW Posted June 24, 2020 Report Posted June 24, 2020 This happens ALL the time. READ my profile I am a Proud POZ Cumdump and don't have time to waste on Stupid fools. I make it Clear and Direct about my status, Bottom Cum pig. I Love the Skin-2-Skin action and enjoy getting Fucked Bareback and I EXPECT my ass to be filled with Cum. My screen name is BREED me Raw yet many bottoms want my load. Where do you post? BBRT, A4A, Manhunt, Squirt or Grindr then be Specific and Direct. Why waste time? If you are on a general dating site or social media then you may be more reserved. If I am on a sex site I am horny and good chance I have already cleaned and prepped and ready to play. As to specific assholes that blame, shame and harass = IGNORE. If you Must respond as I told the county health director years ago -- I am going to play either way so would she like me to remain responsible and seek testing or let it be spread around? 2 1 Quote
GarrettParker Posted June 24, 2020 Report Posted June 24, 2020 Perhaps the haters are envious, or fearful--like homophobes. Frankly, I appreciate an honest profile (raw only, condoms only, just browsing, whatever)--truth in advertising. I'm not afraid of raw dick, ass, or mouth, but I am afraid of becoming such an addict that I won't do anything else but fuck and get fucked! (Would be a great job, but haven't had offers to do that --yet anyway! 😉 Quote
akula Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 I agree that most are probably to scared to let themselves bareback and enjoy it. i feel pity for them. 3 Quote
shinelover Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 After I started taking raw loads a few years back I began to notice that so many of the men near me are closeted bi-guys who are all too terrified of 'catching something' (and bringing it home to the wife) to even consider barebacking. I have had a couple of them go off on me, too, about it. I couldn't understand the reaction. If you're not into me or into barebacking, just move the fuck on. What business is it of theirs what I do with my body if they're not going to use it? 4 1 Quote
Bttm2go Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 I have had the condom police come after me too. They are like a lot of others who condemn anyone who don’t follow their path. There is no point arguing with someone with a narrow point of view. Just block them. 1 1 Quote
Sarif98 Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 Just like the rest of you I too have faced this. Everyone feels a need to lecture based on their own beliefs and not accept that others enjoy other things. 1 Quote
Cumfilledbottomboi Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 On 6/23/2020 at 7:50 PM, bbfuckstik said: I echo that Grindr statistic; same in my area. When I hit up a guy I want to meet or he hits me up, I let everyone know upfront I only bareback and its non-negotiable. Sometimes I get a no, most times there is no problem and only occasionally I get a block. So be it. Same. I’ve lost plenty of fucks from tops on Grindr because I say I only BB. If the load doesn’t actually go in my hole, I WILL refuse it! All RUBBERS REFUSED! I’m a cumdump, not a rubberdump. 1 2 Quote
Read1 Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 The haters really don’t know what they’re missing in the joy of bb sex. Or they’re closet fans of bareback, with bb vid clips on their phones and computers. More on to guys who share your love and desire for bb sex! 🐷 1 2 Quote
FelchingPisser Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 I haven't had this happen for at least 10 years now...but I am not on Grindr Quote
ftmbristolukfun Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 I had someone call me a slut because I bareback. I told him not to get nasty on me. 1 Quote
nakedpublicpig Posted June 25, 2020 Report Posted June 25, 2020 Occasionally at one sex club, foreign cab-driver types will yell, with attitude, "Why won't you let me use a condom?" I respond, "It's my ass. If you don't like it, go to another room." Fortunately, it happens less and less. 1 Quote
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