Who taught you to jack off?

[Loveitraw]

Plenty of interesting origin stories here. I remember vividly how I got started, essentially I was a very horny young man even though I didn't know it at the time. I basically used to rub myself up against things to create very pleasurable sensations, more or less like a horny puppy. It genuinely never occurred to me to take things in hand, so to speak.

Long story short; I was caught one day by one of my older brother's friends who found it deeply amusing but was kind enough to explain a better way that would let me be more discrete.

I never looked back.

[Guygonebad]

This is the most interesting thread! Thanks guys for all these great memories! If only we all could have read this thread when we were young and trying to figure things out.

My story is that I was a late bloomer and naive, not just puberty, but all things sex and to my journey today as a total CumDump. I had two older brothers that I saw had big dicks and had grown hair everywhere, and I’d like to look at them whenever I could, but not me. My brothers and me each had our own bedrooms, so I knew nothing from them. My best little friend who was gay (and we’re still best friends today) was late bloomer too and we were both totally naïve; had zero interest that I can remember. 

I have a wonderful older gay uncle (my Dad’s youngest brother) that’s been an amazing mentor for me. He was a big body builder with a full weight lifting gym in his double garage. He lived ten blocks from my house. So when I was about 11 or 12, I was always over there to shovel snow or mow his lawn and I loved watching him in his tight shorts and tank top lifting weights. I would join him and he would teach me to lift and use the exercise machines. On one summer Saturday the garage door was open, we were both working out; well he was working out and I was likely more playing around with the equipment. I was on my stomach on the weight bench doing leg curls. All of a sudden it felt so good and I kept squirming on the bench, then an incredible good feeling, then warm, then wet. When I finally sat up I was wet on the front of my gym shorts, it was soaking through the material. I looked and my underwear was wet and gooey. I really didn’t understand what was happening. I thought I may have peed in my pants...naïve. I tried not to let my uncle see as I tried to leave the garage. 
 

He then told me to come over by him and sit on the bench. I sat down. He sat on the bench opposite me. He then asked me if I knew what had just happened as he pointed to my shorts. I didn’t speak, I just nodded no. He reminded me to think about the “sex” talk my dad had with me. I did, though I couldn’t put two and two together...naïve.

My uncle then explained to me what had happened and what the fluid on my pants was and that it was normal. He told me that I could make that feeling and the fluid whenever I wanted. And I do not lie when I say, I responded to him saying, “...so I just lay on something and move around and it will happen again?” Exasperated, he says no, you have to use your hands by pulling on your penis. I’m sure I looked very confused and very innocently I asked him to show me. He just stared at me. Then in his gruff manner he said he would, but swore me to secrecy and that I could never tell anyone or the police would take him to jail. It was so serious and I agreed.

He shut the garage door, told me to take off my shorts. He did the same. Frankly it’s hard to believe that I focused on a single word he said to me as I was just staring at how big his dick was and how long and hairy. I had no hair and while I had some dick length, I was no where near his size. We each sat on weight benches side by side. He then showed me how to hold your penis and move your hand. He told me it would feel good and that my penis would grow. I was enthralled watching his dick get hard. He kept spitting into his hand, jerking his hard cock. I was only half heartedly pulling on my penis. I remember him saying sometimes it takes awhile. Then after who knows how long, his cum shot out all over his chest in several ropy spurts.
 

Then he told me to do it for myself. I did, he gave me advice not to squeeze too tight. He kept telling me to focus. Soon my dick was hard and in seconds more cum bubbled out of the top of my penis. He told me it will get like his as I got older. I asked to touch his penis, he let me. Then he told me to wipe myself off and not to leave the sticky towels for my mother. 
 

The very next day I was with my best friend in the woods, our pants off, showing him what I learned (never saying who told me). We both came that day in the woods and from then on we were jerking off!!!

[ronnie4u]

I forgotten to mentioned my divorced Mother was standing there - watching her son getting excited and displaying a boner .

She was somewhat Happy seeing her son becoming of age - a young man !

[littleK]

No porn, no one taught me, I just started rubbing my cock one night, it felt good, natural instinct I guess. I did not get access to the internet for years after that and then discovered porn

[tj87]

My first dorm at boarding school (Age 13). The four of us had a game where one of us would try to catch the rest of us jerking off with a torch, which always descended into us jerking off in front of each other.

I just copied the other guys... I don't remember my first orgasm, but I vividly remember the first time a little bit of cum came out.

[Rancor4]

About age 8 or 9, I was taught by an older cousin and his friend.  They were around 14, best I remember.  It was quite a discovery!  I didn't do it regularly until I was 11 and hair began sprouting.

[408curious]

Nature.

[BigDirtyBear]

When i was 16 hung out with a guy that was 22.. eventually we got to sucking then fucking,  popped my cherry and was bleeding a bit and sore for a couple days

[bihairy]

On 8/7/2020 at 1:46 AM, Pumpinmyhole said:

Wow, I thought I was the only guy out there who learned by accident. 
I was babysitting, 13 or 14 years old. The father had a few Penthouse and Hustler magazines in the attic (I was nosy, don’t judge). I took a Hustler home with me, one that had a couple of pics of guys in it.  In the privacy of my bedroom, I’d look at the pics of the guy, and have an instant raging hard on. I think I was just adjusting my dick with my hand, but touching it felt great.  Then I rubbed it a bit...that felt even better!  So I kept rubbing it while staring at the naked guy in the magazine. As you can guess, it wasn’t long before I came. And I had no idea what had just happened. What’s that white stuff? Did I injure myself? Am I going to die?  I didn’t know what happened, but it felt so good that I risked death doing it 2 more times that day LOL. 
No, I was never caught

Guess I was 12 or 13 and was in the bathtub.  When I rubbed my cock it felt really good.  So, I did it more and more.  All of a sudden I shot this white stuff out.  It felt amazing and I loved it.  It scared me too because I didn't know what that stuff was.  But it felt amazing and I wanted to do it again!!

[BlackDude]

No one, learned by accident and from my dads porn stash. Interestingly I never had the “talk.”

Everything I learned about sex was from cruising the campus restrooms at college. For about five years, those were my only sexual experiences after puberty 

[ErosWired]

The sum total of the sex education I received from my father’s ‘talk’ was “muttermuttermuttermutter keep it in your pants.” (All my sister git from mom was “Don’t sit in men’s laps.” It’s a miracle we were ever conceived to begin with.) Sex was simply not spoken of in our family. I don’t know why my folks were that way, but I had zero guidance headed into puberty. Everything I learned about male anatomy I taught myself from a Time/Life Atlas of the Human Body. I guess I must have started self-exploring somewhere around 12 or 13, because at 11 I was still blissfully in latency and unaffected by sex in any way. I don’t have a strong recollection of a eureka! Moment when I discovered my cock, or when I first ejaculated, probably because I didn’t even have enough awareness of what was happening to me to realize that something significant had happened.

 I do sometimes wonder what my life would have been like had there been someone - anyone - with a sexual male nature in my environment. In retrospect, I guess I’ve always been this way ever since the beginning, feeling my way forward alone in the dark because there simply isn’t anybody else to help me.

My ‘talk’ I gave my own son was somewhat more substantial than the one I got, frank, open, and factual. But I didn’t teach him how to jack off - this is the Internet Age. A young man these days has no need of the Time/Life Atlas of the Human Body. He can find all the visual aids he could possibly want online, in explicit detail.

[Anonversecuck]

Probably 12ish. Had a cousin a few years older. We beat our dicks anytime we were alone. Then we moved to sucking each other off. Never did fuck. Didn’t really cross my mind then. 
 

I wish he was still around though. I got the chance to see him for a few mins alone a couple of years back. I got his cock in my mouth and holy shit he has a huge dick. I’d definitely let he try to spread me open. 

[Bokkierob]

I was about 12. My best friend told me how rubbing your cock felt amazing. One day in my bedroom we both got our cocks out and he showed me how to masturbate. Yeah it felt good but I wasn't prepared for my first orgasm. Then I was hooked. I was rubbing out 2 or 3 loads a day. He told me his dad showed him. Eventually his dad introduced me to a whole load more fun.

[ncbareback]

My cousin when I was 12. He also taught me to suck him off and ride his cock. We fucked on and off through high school.

He's married now of course but I'd take his fat uncut cock any time!

[BBSMKR]

Mine was unusual as I had no clue what was happening to me. I’ve got a smoke fetish which I think explains it. I had my first cigarette at 13 and during that first attempt my balls started thumping uncontrollably. I was scared at what was happening to me, but at the same time it felt good. When ever I got the chance to do it again when my parents went out, I would lie naked, smoke and cum without touching my cock, I didn’t know you were meant to rub it! It wasn’t until I started hearing playground chat that I realised I was doing it wrong. That said I could cum hands free throughout my teens just smoking. Changed days ha ha.