I think I’m over this site.

[JamesL100]

13 hours ago, beefyinkedguy said:

THIS!  100%

 

14 hours ago, evilcoyote said:

Another improvement would be splitting the Chemsex into its own forum so it can be hidden if you aren't interested. 

Yes please

[LoadHunter612]

6 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

It is in its own forum

true, however there are still a LOT of chem references outside of that forum.  like a LOT 

[evilcoyote]

7 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

It is in its own forum, "Sex With Enhancements" and the corresponding fiction forum, "Chem Sex Fiction". If you find chems posts outside those areas, please report them!

Again, I'm not sure whether this can be done with the Gallery, but I agree that would be preferable. The long-awaited new site is (I believe) being built from the ground up to handle these things better.

I'm talking move it into its own area like the Fetish Forum is its own section. 

[Openmouthpolicy]

I agree, I accept the risk of being. Cum dump and accepting anon loads, however I take prep and test often and don’t like getting stds. I accept the risk but I don’t chase bugs because having an std/sti is NOT fun. Prep protects me from hiv and I don’t do drugs. I do find a lot of people on here talk about being a “pozzed whore” and it’s cool if that’s they’re jam but it’s not mine. I bottomed for several strangers in LA at a bath house a while back and a two fellow bottoms asked me to do drugs With them or if I had any on me. Like I said I don’t do drugs js don’t like them, these two “bottoms” tried to fuck me later but I turned them down. If I KNOW they are shooting up in their rooms I’m not trying to mess with that or mess around with them, it really turns me off. 

[wood]

On 5/20/2022 at 8:44 AM, ellentonboy said:

I am not going to pick the original poster apart on this subject, but after reading his reasons for leaving I wonder why it took him so long to make this decision.  After all he is a senior member, and clearly states he is employed in public health.  Now the forum name itself, "Breeding Zone" would be an indication as to what the contents were or what interests the participants shared.  So why now?  Why the judgment?  He states he is not into bug chasing, agreed.  He appears to be anti-enhancement, and I understand his feelings on that matter.  But to say that his stories shared are in "the top 5%" of everything posted, how did he come to that conclusion?  I haven't posted anything false that has happened to me.  I have not exaggerated numbers of sex partners or who I have hooked up with.  If anything, I was cautious not to "name names" when it came to porn participants only because they too have a right to privacy.

What really gets me is this "top 5%" business, I mean he says he is in public health, is he now a book or newspaper editor?  Come on, talk about "tooting your own horn".  I wonder what the true reason is that he decided to go?  Anyone feel the same as I do?  I think there is more to this story.

I have always loved raw gay sex, I’m 38, first BF 20 years ago was poz undetectable, I didn’t want to become poz so our rule was I can nut in you but you have to wear a condom. That sucks. 
 

thats why I got involved in public health and still always fucked raw. Oh and he finally bred me years later. 
 

As for the 5% comment. Yeah it was a silly brag but honestly its true, even considering some of the somewhat “depraved” stories on here…. I’ve done a lot. 
 

I stand by what I said initially. I have accused exactly one person on here of being fake, and he left soon after. I never accused you or anyone else of anything anything false.
 

with that said I know shit when I see it, and it’s all over here. However again, I haven’t referenced your posts and it’s nothing against you.  

[wood]

Oh and here’s two porn star friends fucking in my Airbnb during IML. They decided to fuck each other after the DP’d me. 
 

nap turned into fucking. 🤷🏻‍♂️
 

they monetize their context so I won’t post more. It’s not my property. 
 

I have tons of stories like this and my content is fully searchable but I don’t talk about my sexploits. With that said I have zero issues with the people that do and love the REAL content here, as well as the fiction section. Hell I celebrate it!
 

I really just wish the fakes and liars stayed in their lane. 

Edited June 7, 2022 by wood

[ErosWired]

On 5/23/2022 at 10:34 PM, BlackDude said:

I also think it’s a generational thing. I would guess most of the people who use the side of generation X. We were not raised with the pigginess of the 70s or with prep. We were raised to be afraid of sex so a lot of things we wanted to do we can only fantasize about. So we got into the habit of going on the Internet and talking without ever actually having to deliver. These are the same guys who would sit on A4A way back when, and invent new reasons as to why they could never meet. Eventually guys just got tired and it killed the site. Also, Gen X were the main ones pushing to ingratiate themselves with straight society in hopes of gaining acceptance. So a lot of the topics that come up alot really have no experienced, have no interest or have never done it. They are just on here looking for their particular niece or a fetish in there out.

Well, I’m very much Gen-X and I don’t recognize that characterization. It sure as hell doesn’t describe me, nor people I know of my age. Feel free to speak for yourself, but kindly avoid painting us all with the same broad brush.

[ftmbristolukfun]

When I came out as transmasculine this site supported me.

My only criticism of this site is the trans forums seem to be for the trans women and not much for the trans masculine or non binary people. #othertransidentitiesexistdonteraseus

Edited June 7, 2022 by ftmbristolukfun

[BlackDude]

On 6/6/2022 at 9:35 PM, ErosWired said:

Well, I’m very much Gen-X and I don’t recognize that characterization. It sure as hell doesn’t describe me, nor people I know of my age. Feel free to speak for yourself, but kindly avoid painting us all with the same broad brush.

I think everyone in here understands we mostly speak in Generalities and based on personal experience. 

And I’m Gen-X as well. As from my experience, we are the most flakiest. So I guess we have different experiences. 

[BootmanLA]

On 6/6/2022 at 6:33 PM, evilcoyote said:

I'm talking move it into its own area like the Fetish Forum is its own section. 

 Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds to me like you're suggesting the current "Backroom" be split - one section for Bugchasing (discussion forum, fiction/story forum) and one section for Druggies (discussion forum, fiction/story forum) - so that members can opt to block one or the other without blocking both.

If so: I heartily endorse this.

It's not my reasoning, but: I could easily see where someone in recovery would want to completely avoid the ChemSex sections but be open to the Bugchasing portion. While I recognize that a certain percentage of people interested in poz play are drug (ab)users, I think there's enough of a separation between the two to support dividing the section into two.

[hntnhole]

As always, ^ is perfectly reasoned, and would be a welcome alteration to the site.  Thanks, BootmanLA.

[pervinmt]

This has been one of my main go to sites since I discovered it 8 years ago. I enjoy being able to post fantasy stories about stuff other sites won't allow you to. I also enjoy posting some of my own experiences. Its great to have somewhere to relive some of my crazy past. Not everything is to everyone's tastes, but that's what makes it great, freedom. Everyone can express what they like. And it's almost always treated respectfully. Sure there are people who write fake stuff on here, as they do anywhere. I can think of one in particular who I know is fake. But who cares? It's still hot fantasy material. And for me this site is more for jerking off than anything. So I just want to say, I love ALL you guys!

[viking8x6]

On 6/10/2022 at 5:24 PM, BootmanLA said:

one section for Bugchasing (discussion forum, fiction/story forum) and one section for Druggies (discussion forum, fiction/story forum) - so that members can opt to block one or the other without blocking both.

I believe this is the way the subforums within the Backroom already work. You can ask @rawTOP to block your access to Bugchasing content, or Chems content, or both. I would have to ask him to be sure, as I have not requested the blocks myself.

In the longer term, the new site (hopefully) will allow us to sort these things automatically by tags, which would make the organization of content and the blocking of specific subjects far easier and more elegant.