Becoming Sluttier With Age

[faggotsub]

Thye older i get the more i'm willing to do to prove to a MAN what i will do for him to get his cum in me

[hntnhole]

I think it's true that gay men deepen and refine their Lusts as they age.  What used to be fantastic sex 20 years ago is still ok, but more like a transmission stuck in 1st gear.  Once hiv became treatable, i.e. guys could survive it, I noticed a more finely-honed sense of abandon in the fuckjoints.  Sort of like 'we made it through, we're still alive, so let's fuck like there's no tomorrow' kind of mindset.  Prior to that, there weren't anywhere near as many men acting out truly wanton behavior on such a broad scale as before hiv.  

Add to that the inclination to seek ever-deeper depravities to bring the same thrill we used to achieve through less demonstrative acts, and those of us of a certain age find ourselves drawn more and more to bluntly, overtly, sexual practices.  Thirty years ago, if I ran into myself today in some fuckjoint, I'd think "what a dirrrrrty Pig that guy is", and move on.  Sucking off a couple of Cocks in the steamroom just doesn't carry the same thrill it did years ago.  Fucking one guy, or maybe two just doesn't ring the bell like it used to.  But I'm happy with who and what I've become.  I don't mind if some guy sees me in action, and thinks to himself, geez - what a filthy dirty perverted pig that guy is.  I kinda like it.  It only encourages guys that share my Lusts, and discourages the more vanilla guys I don't want to waste time with anyway.  

This hasn't happened, but if some more vanilla guy (particularly a little younger) actually asked me why I do what I do, I'd be happy to buy him some lunch somewhere and explain it in every sodden detail.  I like who and what I've matured into. 

[BlindRawFucker1]

My thoughts have certainly gotten a lot more slutty.

 

Unfortunately, the opportunities haven’t really arisen to act a great many of them out.

 

The last time, I did get fucked with the door open at a bathhouse.  For me, that was an enormous step.  I’d absolutely do that again.

[ffWhole]

Oh yeah....

I think for most of us it is a transition that most of us have to go through. I wish I was as slutty with a lot of past [possible] opportunities, but regrets are useless, so now I try to make up to it what I didn't do in the past.
And I am still learning and transitioning to even more kinky and sluttier and pig sex everytime I get the opportunity.
Keeps the bucket list and fantasy alive too...

[mblad99]

Ok, so I thought it was just me.  About 3 years ago I told myself I am getting older so I should go out on a grande finale.   At 54, I have had more action in the last 18 months than all fours of college ( even if you doubled the college action).  I am also surprised how many younger guys are willing to meet with an older guy.  I asked one 35 year old on Grindr why he wanted my older cock, he said older guys dont get much action so they are easy.to hook up with and appreciate that you hook up with them.  I thought, you realize  a good number of those faces next to yours on Grindr are all thinking the same thing.   But, yea, there's plenty of good action for older guys.

[Guest]

When I was young I was less slutty, but definitely was cumming 2-3 a day as I was so horny then. I was always getting fucked or fucking guys, was mostly masterbating.  As I matured into my late 20’s then I got my stride of slutting around. Definitely scaled up the volume of men I was meeting and fooling around with. My balls were often drained daily.  Now I’m my later years, I’m building up my loads for several days, enjoying being edged, fucked and bred, cumming hands free.  I feel I’m enjoying more sexual freedom now, choosing quality fucks over quantity. 

[Nude]

When I was younger I feared BB, Now I'm all for being a slut, taking a good seeding from many, want their DNA living in me

[Guest]

Like everyone I DEFINITELY never thought 8 years ago I’d be a load-taking barebacking sperm receptacle 3-4 times a week for at least 12+ tops each session. Hell, 3 years ago or just a year ago this time I never thought I’d reach a bigger, all-out slut level that I’ve reached today! Now I’m excited to see what a bigger fucking slut I am this time next year!

The more practice, the more cock traffic I have breeding my cunt, the more experience I end up getting, ends up feeding a real hunger and need to have more men breeding my hole day by day, week to week, month to month.

The endless lust cycle just repeats and builds and I don’t stop because I truly LOVE letting guys hear just how proud I am to add more sex partners to the already hundreds of men (well, a lot more than that now) I’ve been seeded by already. There’s promiscuity and extreme promiscuity levels, and I desire to drive up my number to what would be considered as extreme promiscuity (some research suggests different levels/numbers that appear a little subjective; so range approximates would be about all I’ve been able to figure out when it comes to comparing promiscuous vs. extreme promiscuous slut levels).

Not sure why I felt like I needed to insert that part about extreme promiscuity vs. promiscuity (LOL!) but it has been a curiosity I’ve been having more and more as a slut and I wasn’t arbitrarily just making something up.  The higher level of promiscuity does drive up part of my cycle to be a bigger, nastier load-taking slut the more experienced and refined I get.
 

BTW…I think refined sounds A LOT better than OLDER, too. Just say’n… 😈

[Guest]

On 7/22/2022 at 8:55 PM, nude-trekker said:

When I was younger I feared BB, Now I'm all for being a slut, taking a good seeding from many, want their DNA living in me

Hi nudehtrekker, totally relate to your comment, never thought I'd want to stop my HIV treatment, never thought I'd love to help neg guys like yourself to become infected with HIV: so yes surely more slutty with age🙏

[alexxxfun]

Yeah, I have definitely noticed myself getting gradually kinkier and more shameless over the years. Things that were aclear no-no, are now part of my most common sex practices.

 

But I feel it is not just me but an overal thing, that the whole gay scene is getting way sleazier. Maybe it is due to the storm of superkinky porn available these days or the easiness of getting Prep, I dont know. But for example, the amount of people looking for chem sex these days compared to before the pandemy has grown incredibly. 

[theplayerking]

I think it’s PrEP. 

[hntnhole]

To me, the key phrase in this thread is "with age".  That implies being old enough to remember the terror as hiv carved it's hellish path through our community.  For a while, it seemed to be everywhere.  Guys we'd fucked were dying in droves.  It was simply crushing. The joyful practice of everybody fucking everybody suddenly became - quite literally - a death sentence.  And no one knew anything about avoiding it other than to simply stop any/all sexual activity with our brothers.  

Then:  Finally, along came azt, which at least offered some hope for living through the crises.  Now, we have PReP, and the terrors we lived through decades ago can finally be shoved into the back of our memories.  

So why have some of us become sluttier with age?  Because we can, and with a reasonable expectation we can live to do it all over and over and over again, and die of something other than our completely natural, inborn, wonderful, beautiful, thrilling  Lusts. 

I don't think guys that weren't born, or at least of age in those dark days will ever understand, and that's miraculous.  Maybe they won't have to live through what we "mature" pigs had to. 

[atlfukbud]

Most of my regular top fuck pals are at least a decade younger than me —- they often say things like “I prefer to fuck Daddies because they are better at sex” — which I read into as “more comfortable with their bodies, more engaged in sex, willing to explore, know what we want, willing to be more slutty, open, etc.” This has definitely increased my sexual horizons beyond 50 and excitement about getting out there more as I finalized this next round of vaccines (pox2, covid variants booster, meningitis) — I know my grandparents were having frequent sex in their 80s, so I hope to be as well — just with multiple partners 🎉  

[tallslenderguy]

i'm not sure if i've gotten any sluttier?  When i was religious and trying not to be gay, i still spent hours a day at cruising places receiving anonymous cock. i watched my older gay brother die of AID's back in the 80's, it was awful for him, but it didn't put a damper on me taking raw cock.  i was afraid, but still driven to receive a Mans cock and seed. 

The thing that has changed as i have gotten older is i'm not inhibited by my or other guys kinks.  i've also gotten more holistic adding the whole Man/man to the experience.i think there are infinite ways a Top can express His need/desire to put Himself in a bottom, and vice versa. i connect a lot more with the energy and intent that goes with the physical act. i'm a lot more self aware, and aware of the person inside of me. 

i don't know if that is "sluttier," but sex is a lot better, deeper, more fulfilling. 

[blackrobe]

I think there's a simple formula that shows as age increases, less fucks are given about what anyone might think.

Ergo, slut.