Thoughts on camming

[ellentonboy]

12 hours ago, onlyraw said:

For those of you who have recently crammed - I am curious as to what platform you have used… private one of your own. Or one of the public ones where guys pay to have a private view?

(and if one of the public ones - how much of the “tips” do you get to keep how much does the site keep 

have never done any serious watching- partly as just watching “some guy” do it doesn’t really do it for me…, but if I knew the backstory- if I knew you were a member on here …. That might add some excitement 

Wait - did I just hear the word "cam" -- music to my ears.  I have made many friends by allowing people to watch me have sex and vice versa.  It opened up (literally) a whole new avenue of potential fuck buds.  Some cam sites have come and gone but here is what I use now and some info to help.  Fell free to message me if you like, because frankly since 2003, I have got so much action off web cam sites when people told me "oh you'll never meet them".  Well guess what, I have flight benefits and not only did I do many locals, but flew to San Fran, Vancouver, Miami, Palm Springs, all because I was well known, and well seen, by many guys. I got to meet men who did porn, and well, you get the hint.  Sadly the sites I used ICU and ICU!! went out of business, I then used Google Plus rooms, but they too were shut down, But here is my current platform;

Go to: MeWe.com

At that point, create a profile, include a pic like you did on here and then look for various "groups to join:  Some of my favorites are "PNP Porn", or "Slamming Gay Guys", "White and Black Guys", "Spun Pnp Tweakers", etc.  You don't have to be into partying, just ask for an invitation and they will accept you.  Once you are accepted and you. sign on, you will receive invites to join various Zoom rooms.  Since MeWe has an international membership these rooms are available almost 24 hours.  The more groups you join, the more invites you get.  Now there may be some rules, such as - you must be seen, in other words no empty seats.  Or you must be naked or partially naked.  Things like that.  But Zoom is basically the platform that is used, sometimes up to 100 men are in a room.  If you are more of a one on one kind of guy - some members will send you a request to do a private Skype call.  I would download both Zoom and Skype after you look at MeWe and decide if you like what you see.  There are some  very attractive guys, all shapes, ages, colors, interests, you see where I am going with this?  You don't have to party, but you can watch or be watched having sex.  If you have any questions feel free to contact me.

I had a trick give me a computer as a gift, and he had the ICU web cam program on it.  This was in 2004 and I never looked back.  It opened up so many opportunities for me to meet guys, I even started buying memberships for friends and tricks who saw the program running at my house.  Sadly ICU was poorly managed and they went out of business.  But MeWe is great, it can lead to private one on ones with Skype and also another platform  called Telegraph.  I belong to maybe twenty clubs, someone is always having a room party. and I just click on a link, make sure I am naked and on my bed or sofa, and ready to go.  It's fun and you can meet alot of guys that way.

Hope I have helped you, message me if you need any additional information.

[Njn0mc]

26 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

I never thought much of it until :   I had a fb who would come over and set up all these little cameras in the slingroom and broadcast me fucking him to somewhere - some website, I assume - and shortly after that his phone would start to holler with other guys in the area wanting to come over and fuck him too, or take my Cock too.  It worked out great - more loads for him - more Hole for me - and more contacts in the 'hood for every guy.  

If the notion makes your Cock hard, do it - you might have a great time with it !!!  

Yes it does and yes had great time on it..  They used the windows environment and on a site MeWe there are a bunch of zoom calls on it

[ellentonboy]

On 8/21/2022 at 6:20 PM, on2thenxt87 said:

Lately, I've been so horny and needed an outlet, so I have been experimenting with camming. I was so nervous the first time I turned my camera on, but as soon as I saw the number of guys who were clicking on my camera and watching me stroke my dick, I got so fucking hard. I love the interaction and engagement that I get with other guys while we encourage each other and bond while stroking our hard cocks. There is also a thrill to camming as well that makes it fun for me. It is definitely something I want to continue to explore.

Anyone else into camming or have thoughts on it?

Camming changed by sex life in the most positive of ways.  First it validates you, please see exactly what you look like.  It's allowed me to hook up and meet guys I never would have normally come across either on line or in my day to day life.   Some cam sites often divide up into "sexual interests" - like the "big dick room", "the muscle room", "Orgy room".  Showing off is great, but getting to meet guys from different geographical areas has been the best part about it.  When you show up, there are no surprises, because each of you has already seen the other.

I strongly urge guys to cam.  Yes some people take it to extreme, they want certain positions and sometimes guys find that tiring.  But when I see "webcams" as an interest in a profile, I immediately  am interested.  

[tallslenderguy]

For me, a big part of my 'bottom nature' is being the receiver for a Tops lust, need.  Doing something to myself on cam feels like me trying to top myself, even if there's a guy on the other end watching and wanting it, it just doesn't work for me.

On the other hand, i can be turned on by a voyeur and by an exhibitionist.  As i am, i perceive both of those as "Top" attributes and am attracted to Men who want that in interaction with me. E.g., a Top who gets off on breeding me in front of others, or gets off on seeing me bred by others are both turn ons for me.  i think some guys are able to get this desire me just through cam, but i need the physical presence as well. If a Top want's to cam these things in person, I'm game, but that's different to me than being in a room alone performing. 

[Luxbrit]

I cammed for while when I was like 18/19. 
 

Quickly grew out of it as sexually it just wasn’t satisfying enough for me.

[BigDirtyBear]

Interactive live camming?  No.  

I do like having sex that happens to be filmed and will publish later.

The internet should be used to hookup in person, not a replacement for in person sex.

[leatherpunk16]

When I started my porn career, I got my start with camming on Randy Blue. I had my own private room, and the guests of the website would pop in and see if their favourite model was on. A lot of times they were just there to watch, but many people bought private shows from me, and sometimes others would peek in on these shows. All of this made me some money. I set my own prices, and a lot of the time on my shows, I would either sit and wait for something to happen, or we'd just end up talking. I didn't get paid for that - it was only the private shows that made the money. 

Of course, on a private show, I was expected to perform. Put a quarter in the box, and watch me go. Jerk off with me if you like. I had only one client who came in toward the end who didn't want any sex show, but just to talk. Really a kind man, and he helped me through a very difficult summer with his generosity and talking out issues. I even lowered my rates for this guy just so we could keep talking. 

But by August, they all stopped coming, and so had I. Too often I'd sit in front of my labtop for three hours late into the night, and not one person would come by. Really boring, and wasteful. I value my sleep, so one can see how frustrating this was for me. And I stopped checking in. Partly because I found something that made me way more money for a lot less investment. I'm not allowed to say WHAT because it violates the rules of BZ, but let's just say that lately I can't even GIVE it away! LOL 

My cam time ended in September. I checked in only once or twice that month before abandoning it. 

Camming was good for me. It got me comfortable with the camera, helped me build some reputation, and I met some interesting people. One of them was actually local to me, and he became a long-term supporter of my opera company. Go figure. The money wasn't much, but remember it was 2014, and a dollar went farther then (just not on petrol). I made a laughable amount camming, less than 1k over eight months, but I didn't care. It helped me start a new journey, and I have no regerts. 

[justsexnowatl]

I've gone through phases camming and loved it.  I'm a big exhibitionist and voyeur and love camming in a room full of guys - I'm focusing on one or two or three hotties, but the more people watching me (no idea who they are) gets me totally turned on!  Used to do it a LOT on dudesnude website (several years ago).  One on one isn't as much of a turn on to me - I love the exhibitionist part of it and not even knowing who's watching me.  I'm into different kinds of sex, and this is just one type - it doesn't take the place of fucking or getting my cock drained, but still turns me on and makes me cum hard!!

[JamesL100]

Yeh love cam shows, even more than watching porn. Can be a quickie before work or bed. Or longer. Do like cam groups on Squirt or Skype.

[Njn0mc]

Love watching cam and seeing guys fucking each other. Its so much better than porn! You can see some wild live stuff. The best is talking to them!

[NWUSHorny]

For the most part it is too much work for me. I don't enjoy watching or have any interest in doing masterbation camming, and to do it while you are actually having sex requires too much effort to stay in the shot or a cameraman. I have masked up and gone to a couple of orgies that were livestreamed.

 

[hntnhole]

7 hours ago, Njn0mc said:

MeWe

That's a website for guys the Breed on cam, broadcast it to somewhere, so other guys can watch?

 

7 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

 It's fun and you can meet alot of guys that way.

What do you mean by "meet"?  As in, they come over to your place, or invite you to theirs? 

 

5 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

E.g., a Top who gets off on breeding me in front of others, or gets off on seeing me bred by others are both turn ons for me

I kinda get what you mean there, young man ..... but in the context of this thread, all of this takes place virtually, right?  Via some computer doo-dad, right? 

This one is nuts-making ... 

[FunCheerSlut]

I have always flirted with the idea of camming, but...

1. I have no idea where to begin. I don't know if I would be comfortable doing it. I am too shy to go to a bath house...but 1x1 camming sounds possible (with effort).

2. What boundaries I would want to set.

3. Which platform to use to achieve my fetish desires

4. Do I want to interact?

5. Do I just want to perform?

6. What would get me the most quality dick?

It sounds like camming implies that one must engage or interact with others and that that interaction is one very big benefit of camming. Otherwise, it's not camming and it becomes some form of record and release content. I tend to favour the POV concept of having a top record himself fucking me from behind...I don't think that needs to be "live" and so here I find myself still on the side lines (no pun intended).

Thanks for the discussion, this is very helpful in educating myself on the nuance of the pros and cons and to realize that camming is possibly something to consider.

[shinelover]

I went through a few years when I loved camming and really got off on it. These days it holds little appeal. I'm definitely more in the mindset for in-person meeting rather than on a screen.

[sleazebot]

I’m hosting a cumdump gangbang in London next Friday and got over 50 guys up for dumping their load.  Was going to have lot filmed / posted but would be even hornier to live stream it.  Any recommendations on a website to use for this that’s not too much faff to setup and use? 
 

Think anyone would be up for watching a cumdump get destroyed by 50 horny BB fuckers?