How long do you stay at a sex club when there is very little sex happening?

[NWUSHorny]

My hats off to the dedication the dedication to being a slut that staying 12 or more hours takes. I don't think I've ever gone beyond 8 hours and always feel guilty about neglecting other parts of my life when I did. Even when I take a sexcation, while I do expect to get laid multiple times a day, every day, I still typically spend the majority of my time doing normal tourist things. For me there are simply too many things to experience in life to dedicate that much of time to finding sex. I'm much happier when I'm in an area where I can find quick hookups every day.

Edited October 17, 2022 by NWUSHorny

[hntnhole]

12 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

Maybe I need to put Chicagoland higher on my list of places to relocate

There are a thousand wonderful things about Chicago.  The cultural life is world-class:  CSO, dance, theatre (Chgo has better theatre troupes out in the neighborhoods than Ft. L. ever dreamed of), Art Institute, on and on and on.  Yes, it's flat.  In winter, the freezing cold wind starts in Canada, and winds up blowing right up your ass.  And we do get Nor'east'r's off the lake.  Politically, it's a safe haven for Progressives.  I happen to be on the slim side, and while FL gets these hurricanes once in a while*, Old Man Winter arrives in Chicago every year, and lasts for 4 months - every single year.  Since you're in the NW, maybe that's ok with you.  For me, the long, cold, dark days always got to be a bit much, and I was planning to move South for years before it happened (enabled by a number of other issues being resolved).  

There's every reason to try Chicago for a year or two, and then decide.  It's about a 1200 mile drive, easily done in two days to get to Ft.L..  Lots of guys do it in one, when there are multiple drivers.  Or, an easy flight, and the Ft. L. airport is just south of downtown, not way out west like O'Hare. Maybe rent a place up in the 49th or 48th Ward for a couple of years; quiet neighborhoods, close to the gay nightlife, but not right in the middle of it.  Or, the 44th if you like being right in the middle.  

*The last one to impact Ft. L. was Irma in 2017, with a glancing blow to Ft.L. as it moved up the peninsula.  

(I know what this must read like - so - no, I'm not being paid to push Chicago - I just loved living there).  btw - lots of people think the wind off the lake is why Chgo is called the Windy City: False !!!  In the early days of the city, it was a "wild-west" boomtown kind of place, and so many entrepreneurs were bragging up the opportunities in Chicago, all the bragging was considered "being windy".  And thus, it's the braggadocio of earlier generations, not Lake Michigan, that gave Chicago it's nickname.  

[ellentonboy]

It's all about timing, and the city you are in.   In certain cities the bath houses (or sex clubs) are only busy on the weekends during the evening.  Now think of Lauderdale, and I remember a time I could stay eight hours at one place, drive to a second location and then drive back again once I completed my eight hours to the original spot.  You have guys on their lunch time, some who work evenings and not during the day, some from out of town on vacation, and of course - the staff!

I don't give up after thirty minutes, because the tide will change  in the blink of an eye and an entire new group can arrive.  It's about timing, not blowing your load with the first guy, more importantly - pacing yourself!

[hntnhole]

16 minutes ago, ellentonboy said:

more importantly - pacing yourself!

Listen to ellentonboy, all you other guys.  He knows whereof he types ...... 

[NWUSHorny]

2 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

because the tide will change  in the blink of an eye and an entire new group can arrive.  It's about timing, not blowing your load with the first guy, more importantly - pacing yourself!

Having to pace yourself is a much lesser problem than being bored and frustrated for the entire rental. I can deal with that kind of problem.

[gangbangsuperstar]

On 10/16/2022 at 6:35 PM, Webster9 said:

If I'm just going for a maximum number of cocks fucking my ass, a dark room never disappoints.  But, I really prefer to kick back in a sling where I can watch the tops fucking me.  Plus, for some reason, it usually draws a large group of men who either want to watch me getting fucked, or they want to take their turn on my ass.  I get off on watching AND being watched.  Either way, I think that it's important to look hot (I think that my bare ass leather chaps do the trick), and to show that I'm available to be fucked (kicking back in the sling).  Plus, I have a certain amount of patience because I know that some times I seem to be a cock magnet, and other times I might as well be invisible.

yes! darkrooms and public slings are the best for cumdumps like us that just wanna be fucked and bred by as many men as possible. love being watched while I get used like a community cumdumpster plus putting on a show like that makes other guys so hornt they need a round in a sluts hole. I even get off on thinking about the guys watching who think I’m way too trashy to fuck raw and overhearing guys talk about what a dirty whore I am. but I like the sling for not seeing who is fucking me. I have been getting blindfolded in public slings since high school, partly to show guys I’m willing to take anyones load and partly to remind myself of how when it comes to taking loads I have no standards, no pride, no shame and no self respect. love knowing after I take 20, 30, 40 loads that I have no idea who blew their load in me or even what they look like. but all the guys watching me get trashed know who I am and what I look like and if they know me and will recognize me in the street, or in the club, or the mall, or at school, even the ones who think I’m disgusting and see me laying there with my gaped out hole dripping cum all over the floor between men. plus even when im not wearing the blindfold, with the dark room and the red light right above the top fucking me I can’t really see what any of my breeders look like anyhow. no idea who or how many men I begged to breed me.  also, thanks to some help and trickery, thats how I got my father to see me in action, doing what I do best, getting gangbanged.

[Pozguyinchi]

Tonight I stopped off at my local video store. It has booths in the back for play. When I arrived there were old guys that I was not attracted to at all. I spent about an hour walking around with no luck. I was just about to leave when a tall older daddy came in and made eye contact. He went into a booth and motioned for me to cum in as well. I instantly rubbed his cock through his pants and I could tell he was packing. He gave me a big kiss with tongue and put his hand down the back of my pants so I knew what he wanted. He pulled out his cock and it was huge. The fattest I have ever had in my mouth. I sucked him and then he turned me around and bred me. I had to use lube. I have not had to do that in a very long time. My point is that if I would have left I would have missed out on a beer can cock and massive load in me. I think a good rule is to not leave until you have a load in you or you have deposited a load. 

Edited October 18, 2022 by Pozguyinchi

[ErosWired]

22 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

My hats off to the dedication the dedication to being a slut that staying 12 or more hours takes.

I have to drive 3 hours to get to the nearest decent bathhouse. You bet I’m staying for the duration of my time, and I’m not only taking a 12-hour room, I’m adding on the extra five hours for CumUnion when that expires.

Yes, there are going to be swaths of that time when I’m lying ass-up in a room when the rest of the facility is uncrowded and I get to listen to the same tired old music over the speakers over and over again, but I never know when I’m suddenly going to feel fingers testing my cunt, and when they do, it resets the timer, every time.

 I have also always held out the duration of my planned stay when hotel hosting, because I don’t have money to burn and I have to wring the most opportunity out of every dollar I invest in a chance to sexually serve. Always, that is, until my last trip to Louisville, when I realized the new hotel I tried was in a hopelessly bad place and the chances that I would be utterly wasting the next seven hours waiting for men who were never going to come was very high. I cut my losses and bailed at 2am and went home.

An ABS is a different matter. When the ABS at Horse Cave was still open, almost every time I went there I mound myself asking myself if it was worth spending anymore time at it. I would usually give myself another 15 minutes; wait until the end of the currently playing porn scene; or wait for the next man to pass through; and if nothing happened by then, I would leave. I usually did.

[pigbro]

I’ve been to clubs on quiet nights when there were barely anyone there. If anything I feel a bit horny wandering around in my rubber, it feels freeing. Obviously some sex would be nice but I enjoy being in my true form

[Spunkinmyarse]

I don’t have a set time, it’ll vary depending on my mood and the situation. Sometimes (if I’m very lucky) it’ll be because I literally cannot take any more cock- even though my brain wants to stay, my sore arse is telling me it’s time to go home and get some rest.

More often than not, though, it’s because I just seem to hit a wall, and want to get out of there as fast as possible. It’s like a switch, usually triggered by something quite trivial, like the ‘hot’ guy walking past and not giving me a second glance. Or someone promising suddenly pulling a condom out of nowhere. But once that switch is flicked, there’s no going back, and God’s gift himself could offer me his dick on a plate and I still wouldn’t be interested. At that point, literally anything seems preferable- and anything usually comes in the form of the first fast food joint I come across once I’m on the outside- hopefully a McDonald’s.

[chipygmalion80]

I stay until the loads are all swallowed or bred in deep.  LOL.  jk 😈

Last night I stayed at SteamWorks until midnight.  Midnight on a weekday is about it.

This Monday was busier than usual IMO.  

 

I fucked 3 guys, 1 cute otter in a sling, 2 raw but 1 with rubber.  I couldn't finish fucking the skinny big cock twink because his ass had an accident.  Shit happens.

I swallowed 1 yng bro load. Sucked 2 more sexy Daddies but I didn't finish them off because ... trolls.  Those trolls do get in the way.  And 2 guys tried to fuck me, both bare.  1 was a very sexy Paki/Indian slim guy.  But I wasn't cleaned up for that. 

 

A hot n happy couple of hours!!  🍆🎉I wouldn't stay past midnight unless it's a weekend.

Edited October 18, 2022 by chipygmalion80
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[BBSMKR]

Depends on my mood, sometimes it’s short because either I can’t be bothered and not getting the vibe or even shooting my load too early! Overall I’ve been quite lucky and get enough cock in  2 to 3 hrs to satisfy me. I’m not overly picky, but when hooking up I like to fuck in public to attract others, I shouldn’t complain as a fuck is a fuck, but don’t like it so much when a guy wants to take me away to a booth to fuck me. Thing is if it’s quiet and I leave with no action I know I’ll just go and popper up and fuck myself with toys at home he he

[gwmxyz]

I once got my money back from a sauna in Hong Kong.  I was there for 45 minutes and there was literally no-one else there.

I'd only just moved from London - where a weekday lunchtime would be no problem.

[NWUSHorny]

22 minutes ago, gwmxyz said:

I once got my money back from a sauna in Hong Kong.  I was there for 45 minutes and there was literally no-one else there.

I'd only just moved from London - where a weekday lunchtime would be no problem.

I don't think I've ever been the only guy in a sex club. There however have been many times, in the area I live now, that I have spent several hours in clubs where no one would even touch each other, I would have appreciated my money and time back on those occasions.

[Guest]

On 10/18/2022 at 9:36 AM, pigbro said:

I’ve been to clubs on quiet nights when there were barely anyone there. If anything I feel a bit horny wandering around in my rubber, it feels freeing. Obviously some sex would be nice but I enjoy being in my true form

I agree, sometimes just great to put some rubber on and be out. I feel the same.