My first time getting barebacked

[bbslutuk]

I've read around on this site for a little while now, wanted to join and share some of my own experiences and how I got into bareback sex. I'm a 32 year old male, I live in the North West UK and I've been with guys since around the age of 22. Had my fair share of sex, with regular fuck buddies and also anonymous 1 off meets, but I'd always been a safe only guy, always using condoms. 

 

Last August during the Bank Holiday, I'd decided to give myself a much earned break and booked a hotel in blackpool for 2 nights so I could have some 'me' time in one of the saunas for the weekend. I've been to the sauna in blackpool numerous times and I was hoping it would be nice and busy for the Bank Holiday and I could unwind and get used by some anonymous guys for a couple of days. 

 

I arrived on the Saturday and checked into my hotel and hit the sauna straight away and luckily enough I was able to get a weekend pass so I could go as often as I wanted. On the Saturday, I went there over 2 separate spells between 1pm - 3:30pm and then again between 6pm - 8pm and I was glad to see a fair few men there. 

 

Lots of variety and plenty of guys looking for fun, I spent my time on the Saturday in the gloryholes giving guys head and swallowing numerous loads, as well as letting a few guys fuck me if they used condoms. I went back to my hotel feeling fully satisfied and I was looking forward to the following day, hoping it would be just as busy! 

 

After walking down the sea front for a little while I went back to the sauna again about 12pm on the Sunday and it was a lot busier than the previous day and a fair few of the older daddy type tops were there too which is my absolute favourite. After giving a few guys blow jobs in the gloryholes, I got chatting to a guy whilst in the hot tub and he'd asked about going to one of the booths together so I happily accepted. 

 

He was in his mid - late 40's, grayish hair, dad body (oh my god I love proper daddy types lol) and was about 7 inches or so. We went to one of the booths and we kissed for a little bit before he started to eat my arse and finger me for a little while. He was very, very good with his tongue and I wanted to make sure he was enjoying himself so I made sure to sit on his face whilst I was giving him head. His dick wasn't massive, but his pre cum tasted so damn good and he had some very heavy and full balls that he needed to unload. 

 

I lay on my back and opened my legs and he started to position himself to enter me, I grabbed a condom and he told me 'I don't like using them, they are a dick killer for me'. I replied I only play safe and he took it quite well and allowed me to put the condom on him and he slid inside me, slowly fucking me whilst we kissed. As he started to fuck me deeper and I moaned louder, he started to get quite verbal himself telling me how good my arse felt, that he'd love to feel me raw and how I should be bred exactly as he intended. 

 

I just carried on kissing him and asking him to fuck me harder but hearing him be so verbal about wanting me raw for some reason was really turning me on. I decided to get on all fours and let him fuck me from behind and the booth we were in had a TV monitor on, with a guy also on all four's, but begging for the guy in the video to fill his arse with cum. 

 

In the heat of the moment I found myself also really wanting this random man to cum in me, he started to fuck me from behind and he told me again how good my arse felt and after remembering what he said about condoms, I asked him 'would you get even harder if you didn't have that dick killer on?'. He pulled out of me and said 'Too fucking right it would, raw is better and you know you want it', and he then leant down and playfully bit my arse cheek. 

 

I was all caught up in just being ridiculously horny and taking a little inspiration from the porn on the TV monitor, I reached between my legs to feel for his dick and I peeled off the condom for him and threw it to the side. I started to shake my arse for him and he let out a 'hmmmm you filthy little boy' and I guided his dick back inside me. 

 

In that moment, I was legitimately shocked at how different bareback felt, skin on skin felt so much better and as he pushed himself inside me, asking me if I wanted him to breed me. My inner whore came out and begged for him to fill my arse up with every last drop and he started to pick up the pace and I was throwing my arse back on his dick like my life depended on it. 

 

Whilst all this was happening, I was getting hit with thoughts of finally taking bareback dick, whilst also having no clue if he was clean or not and with him continuing to be verbal about breeding me, I found myself craving his cum and giving 0 fucks about the consequence. It didn't take long for him to bury his dick deep in my arse and he moaned so damn loud and I could feel his dick twitching and shooting his cum up my arse. Instinctively, I found myself saying 'breed me daddy, fill my arse with your cum, put it as deep inside of me as you can'.

 

Once he'd come, I wanted to clean his dick off (I'd never done arse to mouth, found out I really like it lol) and he gave me a kiss before leaving the room. 

 

I got back to my hotel later that afternoon to take a nap and that was when some of the worries started to settle in, but it didn't last long as I felt so excited about finally getting barebacked and it feels so fucking good.

 

Since then, I've been much more relaxed with condoms, I don't ask guys to use them and unless they bring it up, I take it raw and can honestly say it's been the best decision I've made! 

[rockhard801]

It’s a progression.  I went from only going bare with long term partners, then in 2013 to guys I new were neg or undetectable, then after a few years to bare only but with guys who answered the status question right and eventually a few years  ago to not asking status at all.  Raw feels way better and there is a sense of more intimacy with the top.

 

[bbslutuk]

23 hours ago, rockhard801 said:

It’s a progression.  I went from only going bare with long term partners, then in 2013 to guys I new were neg or undetectable, then after a few years to bare only but with guys who answered the status question right and eventually a few years  ago to not asking status at all.  Raw feels way better and there is a sense of more intimacy with the top.

 

Oh I agree totally! I took a lot of time to progress to bareback, but now that I've done it, i always prefer raw unless the top specifically wants to use condoms. You're so right about intimacy with the top as well! 

[ffWhole]

Yes it took me a while too...
Now I only want raw. Condoms feel terrible and I would rather not get fucked.
I never bring up the subject and most of the time I get what I want... a raw cock up my ass and a load deep inside.
I still use Prep, but I'm not very diligent in taking it. The fear is almost completely gone. Most tops, if they are HIV+ are undetectable.
I had my share of other STD and those are a real pain in the ass... pun intended.
Bareback it is, 100% 

[bbslutuk]

Yeah I know what you mean, condoms don't feel good at all once you've had it raw lol! If a guy is really insisting on using one I'll let him, but it's only if they specifically ask to use one. 

 

I've noticed that most tops don't ask about condoms and stuff, so I just do my job as a bottom and take it 🤪🤣

[twinkasianboi]

In this day of age, so many bottoms are on prep that they never experienced safe sex. I think it’s good that we can compare the sex and cherish the moment when we turned into cumdump piggies. The euphoria I felt when I first took cock raw will always be seared into my memory. 

[cman54]

I just love getting fucked bare. I have never had a guy fuck me yet with a condom on. Feeling that warm cum in my ass is the best. I`m not on prep either.

[sleazebugga]

Also took me ages to graduate to raw fucking like it is meant to be. Tried it once and was hooked 😁

[austin_submale]

3 hours ago, sleazebugga said:

Also took me ages to graduate to raw fucking like it is meant to be. Tried it once and was hooked 😁

Same here.  When I first started getting fucked I was afraid and always used condoms.  Then I tried bareback and now I never ask a guy to wear a condom or pull out.  And I refuse no dick or load.

 

[Rawrabbit]

going from condom to raw is so fucking hot, that moment of him sliding in bareback after all that condom usage must've been intoxicating dude 🥴 no wonder you caved, that's horny as fuck 🥵

[bbslutuk]

1 hour ago, Rawrabbit said:

going from condom to raw is so fucking hot, that moment of him sliding in bareback after all that condom usage must've been intoxicating dude 🥴 no wonder you caved, that's horny as fuck 🥵

When friends would make jokes at me about always playing safe etc they used to hype up bareback and part of me used to think 'yeah whatever I bet it's not all that different'. However, I was obviously incredibly wrong and I'm annoyed at how long it took me to switch to bareback lol! 

 

I'm just glad he was verbal and persistent about wanting to fuck me raw, I definitely won't forget the first time I had a guy cum inside me! 😁

Edited March 1, 2023 by bbslutuk

[Piggyybttmm]

Yeah same here, when I first went bare it just happened out of nowhere because the condom popped but I was so horny and into it I didn't even care. Ever since it's the only way I want it....raw sex is top tier. 

[bbslutuk]

1 hour ago, Gimmiethatload said:

Yeah same here, when I first went bare it just happened out of nowhere because the condom popped but I was so horny and into it I didn't even care. Ever since it's the only way I want it....raw sex is top tier. 

Oh wow that sounds amazing! I guess you could say in that moment, it was very much meant to be 🤪 completely agree though, bareback is top tier and once you've done it, it's so so hard to go back to using condoms lol! 

[Piggyybttmm]

2 minutes ago, bbslutuk said:

Oh wow that sounds amazing! I guess you could say in that moment, it was very much meant to be 🤪 completely agree though, bareback is top tier and once you've done it, it's so so hard to go back to using condoms lol! 

That's how I look at it. As much as I was born to be a bottom, I was born to be a bareback bottom. And I wouldn't have it any other way 

[Person]

I started barebacking with my first serious boy friend. We started dating and didnt even have sex with each other for weeks. Our first few time we just just sucked each other and gradually moved to fucking but always with condoms. AIDS was still deadly back then and condoms were ubiquitous. Soon we were spending every night together and every night we would fuck, albeit wrapped. Our sex was wonderful, passionate and we were in love, 

One night we were making out and had been sucking his dick for a while getting it really slick when I got up and sat down on his penis letting it slide in my hole. Once it was all the way in I bent down to kiss him and started riding. We were both moaning, telling each other how good it felt. Before long he tells me he is really close. I respnded with a "fuck yes" and he responded that he wasn't wearing a condom. I told him I didn't care and I wanted his cum. A few seconds later he starts moaning louder and I could feel his penis pulsating as he unloaded. That was the last night we ever used condoms. The next night I had him on his back, legs up, eating his incredible hairy hole, and slid in with out fumbling with a condom. It was so natural, felt so much better and intimate. The routine of pulling out, taking the condom off filled with your semen and tossing has become repugnant. 

Now I will not have sex with a man who insists on condoms