Versatility: a turn-on or a turn-off?

[hntnhole]

I've occasionally wished I were versatile, but I'm just not.  Can't help it - I'm just not. 

So, I remain happy with what I do best.  

[verbalBTTM]

14 hours ago, Trashyfagboi92 said:

Omg thank you guys always get mad at me for being a total bttm but it’s like where im

comfortable what I feel I’m best at . It’s in my nature idk 

If that's what you like, then that's what you like. Just be upfront and honest about it. I'm a vers-vers top, I clearly state my preferences in my profile, and won't apologize for my wants. 

[Hungryforbbc]

I feel so much more free now that I own my total bottom identity. I don’t like when guys try to involve my dick either so I just keep it under a jock or panties it pretty much stays soft and small regardless now which is just fine with me.  I’ve found it easier to find total tops by openly identifying as a shameless total bottom upfront.

[theplayerking]

Not only am I versatile, but I prefer to flip fuck. Sex for me is about validation and camaraderie, and the fullest expression of that is flip fucking.

[chipygmalion80]

On 10/22/2025 at 8:15 AM, theplayerking said:

Not only am I versatile, but I prefer to flip fuck. Sex for me is about validation and camaraderie, and the fullest expression of that is flip fucking.

💯

My BEST fuck buds were all vers.  We treated each other as equal sluts to use for our pleasure.  Flipping back and forth.

 

I'm total vers.  That usually means btms ask if I really top, and tops ask if I really bottom; and neither are satisfied with my answer.  At least the 100% btms ignore me, but the 100% tops keep trying LOL. 

Chat devolves into me proving that I would fuck them or really bend over for them. It's like asking me if I'm *really* OK that they're fat or Black or whatever. 🫠  Yes, I'm not just OK with it, I probably just want you to shut up and bend over right now, LOL!