Versatility: a turn-on or a turn-off?

[hntnhole]

I've occasionally wished I were versatile, but I'm just not.  Can't help it - I'm just not. 

So, I remain happy with what I do best.  

[verbalBTTM]

14 hours ago, Trashyfagboi92 said:

Omg thank you guys always get mad at me for being a total bttm but it’s like where im

comfortable what I feel I’m best at . It’s in my nature idk 

If that's what you like, then that's what you like. Just be upfront and honest about it. I'm a vers-vers top, I clearly state my preferences in my profile, and won't apologize for my wants. 

[Hungryforbbc]

I feel so much more free now that I own my total bottom identity. I don’t like when guys try to involve my dick either so I just keep it under a jock or panties it pretty much stays soft and small regardless now which is just fine with me.  I’ve found it easier to find total tops by openly identifying as a shameless total bottom upfront.

[theplayerking]

Not only am I versatile, but I prefer to flip fuck. Sex for me is about validation and camaraderie, and the fullest expression of that is flip fucking.

[chipygmalion80]

On 10/22/2025 at 8:15 AM, theplayerking said:

Not only am I versatile, but I prefer to flip fuck. Sex for me is about validation and camaraderie, and the fullest expression of that is flip fucking.

💯

My BEST fuck buds were all vers.  We treated each other as equal sluts to use for our pleasure.  Flipping back and forth.

 

I'm total vers.  That usually means btms ask if I really top, and tops ask if I really bottom; and neither are satisfied with my answer.  At least the 100% btms ignore me, but the 100% tops keep trying LOL. 

Chat devolves into me proving that I would fuck them or really bend over for them. It's like asking me if I'm *really* OK that they're fat or Black or whatever. 🫠  Yes, I'm not just OK with it, I probably just want you to shut up and bend over right now, LOL!

[BBBxCumDumpster]

On 8/6/2011 at 1:14 PM, eurotopnyc said:

Curious about how others feel about this. I know that for many guys versatility is a turn-on, and it certainly makes for more variety of configurations. However, for whatever reason, versatility is a turn-off for me. I'm really turned on by total bottoms, and when I chat with someone online I always find myself making sure that both of us expect a situation with purely opposite roles. I don't even care if the bottom boy gets hard or cum, as long as he totally and unambiguously loves getting fucked and I see that in his face with every stroke. I'm not into pain or sadism or anything like that - I just want hungry slut bottoms who love cock and dare show it.

Which brings me to my question: Am I atypical in feeling this way? Are you more turned on by versatility or by contrasts? Interested in hearing from both sides.

Man, I wish I could find more tops like you.  I have no problems with verse tops, but I am "a hungry slut bottom" who just loves dick stuffed up my hole. And there is nothing sexier to me than a man who loves nothing more than to pound out a willing and appreciative hole and to blow his loads in such .

[Nude]

Vers guys are hot!  In my experience, they fuck better than a top because they get fucked by others, so they know how to share and perform as an awesome top.