hntnhole Posted October 21 Report Posted October 21 I've occasionally wished I were versatile, but I'm just not. Can't help it - I'm just not. So, I remain happy with what I do best. 2 Quote
verbalBTTM Posted October 21 Report Posted October 21 14 hours ago, Trashyfagboi92 said: Omg thank you guys always get mad at me for being a total bttm but it’s like where im comfortable what I feel I’m best at . It’s in my nature idk If that's what you like, then that's what you like. Just be upfront and honest about it. I'm a vers-vers top, I clearly state my preferences in my profile, and won't apologize for my wants. 1 1 Quote
Hungryforbbc Posted October 22 Report Posted October 22 I feel so much more free now that I own my total bottom identity. I don’t like when guys try to involve my dick either so I just keep it under a jock or panties it pretty much stays soft and small regardless now which is just fine with me. I’ve found it easier to find total tops by openly identifying as a shameless total bottom upfront. 1 Quote
theplayerking Posted October 22 Report Posted October 22 Not only am I versatile, but I prefer to flip fuck. Sex for me is about validation and camaraderie, and the fullest expression of that is flip fucking. 1 1 Quote
chipygmalion80 Posted Monday at 08:16 PM Report Posted Monday at 08:16 PM On 10/22/2025 at 8:15 AM, theplayerking said: Not only am I versatile, but I prefer to flip fuck. Sex for me is about validation and camaraderie, and the fullest expression of that is flip fucking. 💯 My BEST fuck buds were all vers. We treated each other as equal sluts to use for our pleasure. Flipping back and forth. I'm total vers. That usually means btms ask if I really top, and tops ask if I really bottom; and neither are satisfied with my answer. At least the 100% btms ignore me, but the 100% tops keep trying LOL. Chat devolves into me proving that I would fuck them or really bend over for them. It's like asking me if I'm *really* OK that they're fat or Black or whatever. 🫠 Yes, I'm not just OK with it, I probably just want you to shut up and bend over right now, LOL! 1 Quote
BBBxCumDumpster Posted 23 hours ago Report Posted 23 hours ago On 8/6/2011 at 1:14 PM, eurotopnyc said: Curious about how others feel about this. I know that for many guys versatility is a turn-on, and it certainly makes for more variety of configurations. However, for whatever reason, versatility is a turn-off for me. I'm really turned on by total bottoms, and when I chat with someone online I always find myself making sure that both of us expect a situation with purely opposite roles. I don't even care if the bottom boy gets hard or cum, as long as he totally and unambiguously loves getting fucked and I see that in his face with every stroke. I'm not into pain or sadism or anything like that - I just want hungry slut bottoms who love cock and dare show it. Which brings me to my question: Am I atypical in feeling this way? Are you more turned on by versatility or by contrasts? Interested in hearing from both sides. Man, I wish I could find more tops like you. I have no problems with verse tops, but I am "a hungry slut bottom" who just loves dick stuffed up my hole. And there is nothing sexier to me than a man who loves nothing more than to pound out a willing and appreciative hole and to blow his loads in such . Quote
Nude Posted 13 hours ago Report Posted 13 hours ago Vers guys are hot! In my experience, they fuck better than a top because they get fucked by others, so they know how to share and perform as an awesome top. 1 Quote
Njn0mc Posted 6 hours ago Report Posted 6 hours ago Im mostly a bottom but sometimes with a vers and im extremely horny I will fuck a hole instead of a BJ 1 Quote
NYBBGUY58 Posted 4 hours ago Report Posted 4 hours ago On 8/6/2011 at 1:14 PM, eurotopnyc said: Curious about how others feel about this. I know that for many guys versatility is a turn-on, and it certainly makes for more variety of configurations. However, for whatever reason, versatility is a turn-off for me. I'm really turned on by total bottoms, and when I chat with someone online I always find myself making sure that both of us expect a situation with purely opposite roles. I don't even care if the bottom boy gets hard or cum, as long as he totally and unambiguously loves getting fucked and I see that in his face with every stroke. I'm not into pain or sadism or anything like that - I just want hungry slut bottoms who love cock and dare show it. Which brings me to my question: Am I atypical in feeling this way? Are you more turned on by versatility or by contrasts? Interested in hearing from both sides. I'm 67, have been sexually active since the age of 16, so I have a great deal of, uh, experience we can call it. I've met and had sex with different kinds of men over the years. I've primarily bottomed, but have also been somewhat versatile at times. Right now, I'm pretty much confined to bottoming due to treatment for prostate cancer that rendered me impotent (though not without arousal and orgasm). My experience has been that I enjoy the variety. One of my favorite FWBs (friend with benefits) is strictly a top, another is versatile. Both of them are happy to fuck me into oblivion after I worship their dicks, balls and asses (sometimes in tandem in a threesome) so for me, versatility isn't an issue either way. I will share that some of the total tops aren't as considerate in their approach, and I'm not interested in pain though I love being dominated. As to whether you're an outlier, I don't think so. There are as many variations on sexual tastes as there are people, and I support everyone pursuing what is enjoyable so long as all are consenting adults. AND....if you're ever in New York and want to try a hookup, let me know! 😁 Quote
PozBottomACNJ Posted 1 hour ago Report Posted 1 hour ago For me, it doesn't matter whether it's a Total Top, or a versatile bottom. I've been fucked by both, and enjoyed both! One thing I'm on the hunt for now though, is an effeminate, yet Dominant Top! Quote
partying.hard Posted 21 minutes ago Report Posted 21 minutes ago I’m totally 50/50 vers. I’ve got a nice dick and love to fuck. But my whole also loves to get stuffed. I love to flip fuck. No rolls. Just simply doing what feels good. I may be on top pounding someone when suddenly he flips me over and mounts me. But something that really sends shivers through my balls and up my spine is to flirt with a guy who looks like a total top. Muscular, masculine, hairy, bearish, thick thighs … and he flops on his back, throws up his legs, and wants to get pounded! 😈 1 Quote
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