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I can't speak to the black top / white bottom dynamic. I'm white, but never a bottom. I can still say that one of my biggest influences sexually and probably one of my all-time favourite fuck buddies was a 20-year-older black man I met when I was around 19 or so. Naturally talented at sex and just all-around fun to fuck with. He always challenged me to explore, but at the same time made hardcore barebacking feel light-hearted and playful.

I'm not aware of any bath houses in Memphis, but I frequent an adult theater that has a big open theater, and in another section, booths. I prefer to be in the big theater because i guess I'm something of an exhibitionist. I also sometimes go to a monthly blackout party at a venue that has lots of spaces, slings, benches, anon fuck boxes, etc. My routine for both is the same. Get completely cleaned out, take a shower, and once there, strip down to a jock and lube my hole. Guys seem to have a sense of who wants to be mounted, so they never ask.

nice ass!

You are exactly correct. Guys do it because they love it. Most women do it reluctantly. Except for my wife, she is as good as any man but we haven't had sex in 8 months. I ran an ad and got a hotel room one time, but it was more of an anon face down ass up, pump and dump.

I rarely get a room, so I just walk around naked and see what I can get up to. On my very 1st visit to the bathhouse was to the now closed Denver Swim Club, I did rent a room that night, I wound up as the meat in a fuck sandwich in a group play area within 10 minutes of arrival. I didn't even get a chance to explore and get my bearings 1st, of course I have been a huge fan of active bathhouses ever since. My biggest issue, and I have no idea how to overcome it, is cities where the bathhouse scene isn't very sexually active, neither walking around or room cruising seem to work in those cities.

no really, I think it's more of a compliment, and I appreciate that

Stark naked!!!

My kind of guy! Does Denver have a bathhouse again or did you have to travel? I definitely fucked my way through Denver, pretty much every weekend, the decade I lived there, but we had 3 bathhouses at the time.

This happened to me without my knowing. I was melted into the bed and had the whole 3rd person view. I was fucked by 2 guys i didnt know and then a friend. I was too freaked out to enjoy any of it.

Great story, thanks for sharing. I think you're a saint for pulling out at the last second. Next time let him know ... if it goes in raw there's no pulling out. He'll be begging for your load, boyfriend's permission or not!

I'd love be used as a cumdump

A great story…. Looking forward to the next chapters…… although at this rate the party’s will have more young Pozzed up studs then old guys …. But nice to see that a new generation is being breed to continue the traditions

Wow what a story. Amazing cannot wait for more. Sure wish is was in that boys positon

Master of the obvious question. Who would understand someone's anatomy better than someone of the same biological gender? Women will tell you the same thing...men can't eat pussy like another female

Trying Hard - Aspiring Cumdump Did two ass up sessions at a favorite bathhouse Friday and Saturday. Friday: Fucked by at least a dozen guys, 5 loads in my hole and 2 swallowed Saturday: Lost count after 15 guys, 4 in my ass and swallowed 2. Highlights: Very much embraced the No Load Refused Cumdump method. Let guys of every age, size and race fuck me on sawhorse benches, slings and tables in the public play areas. Got four anal loads Friday in quick succession on a fuck bench. Then another guy fucked my sloppy hole and made me suck his slimy cock before giving me a facial. Spent time pleasing a verbal Dom man. He liked making me gag on this fat, 8 inch cock. Also exploited my nipples to make me so sensitive that I was squirming and moaning anytime they were touched. He ended by feeding me a huge load. Hooded myself in a public sling and waited. Not sure how many different guys fucked me but got two loads. One, a verbal top, had one of those cocks that even though I was well used, it still found a way to gape me even more. He fucked me for at least 15 minutes and made me cum hands free. When he unloaded, it was with a purpose!

I take a spin around the place to get the layout. I'll lube up my hole and walk around naked or in a jockstrap so a searching finger may find my hole ready. Then I either leave my door open (maybe blindfolded) and lay ass up waiting or I hit the dark room/gloryholes. I love anon loads.

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Sort of. A guy who was fucking me once said something like "I have girlfriends, they're pretty and I like fucking them, but they don't know to touch my ass the way you do." I was playing with his balls and stroking his asshole while he fucked me, and had rimmed him thoroughly before he mounted me...does that count? 🙃

Hi @AlwaysOpen, Your critique partially resonates with me inasmuch as I do not agree that non-US citizens don't have constitutional rights. I don't believe the Constitution GAVE anyone rights; I think the Creator gave all humans inalienable rights that the Founders simply piled onto. So, I am horrified that this Administration is gulaging non-citizen residents who speak out against zionist genocide. I think Trump's comments about Canada, Greenland, Gulf of America etc. are a bit strange but they feel like trial balloons more than actual annexations and thus need to be treated differently in analysis. But, there is a huge hole for me in your analysis. It's sort of like not being able to tell the difference between someone in your house because you invited them over for lunch versus someone in your house because they broke a window, snuck in, and started removing your valuables. I am making this stark comparison NOT because I believe all illegal immigrants are committing OTHER crimes, but more because so many dismiss the ORIGINAL illegal entry as a trivial thing. Once this is trivialized, critiques inevitably turn to racism as the only analytical tool in the toolbox. there is another piece missing, and that is that illegal immigration generates massive tax liabilities or debt liabilities for taxpayers, who are obligated by their leaders to fund welfare for illegal immigrants. Would you concede that illegal immigration is a huge enabler of the drug trade, of gangs, and of human trafficking? (I myself do not know that it is, but it seems highly likely that failure to police borders is logically an enabler of all of these things, even if the percentage of illegal immigrants involved in these crimes is relatively small.) I have been hard pressed to explain why people turn to racism as an explanation for "everything" (self-admitted hyperbole), but I recently came across an explanation that I think fits the pattern more effectively, namely territorialism. Many conservative people love all of god's children and all of the cultures they have created wherever they are on the planet, but they are aware that cohabitants of an area take hundreds of years to generate cultures, which help people make sense of everything from small hand gestures (thumbs up), to the way a phrase is understood (e.g., "Death to America"). If you measure in-group versus out-of-group preference, you'll find that a huge preponderance of people all over the world prefer their own group partly because it is REALLY HARD to understand another language, another culture's body-language, another culture's humor, etc. These misunderstandings generate a lot of friction. It doesn't necessarily mean that they hate other races or wish to go to war against people far away. BUT, they don't necessarily want cultures from another territory changing the nature of their society. Much of these frictions can be explained by territorialism rather than racism. I think people can be territorialists but not racists, and I think people can be both. I DEFINITELY believe in racism, but by one measure at least (intermarriage), Brazil and the US are by far the least racist countries in the world. This is already too long a post, but the whole piece about media seems incredibly partisan and fails to recognize the corruption of and loss of credibility of mainstream media, along with the active censorship by the Biden administration, which leaned heavily on social media to censor and shadow-ban (sorry, will label this an assertion since I don't have time to cite sources here, but anyone with any doubt about this can at least look up the Twitter files and Mark Zuckerberg's commentary. Great to see critiques of our government on the site, keep them coming. I'm surprised that after five months of the Trump administration Democrats aren't leaping right into the Libertarian bed to shrink the power of the government :-).

@TaKinGDeePanal, I like the thought and layout in your hypothesis. Much like @nanana's comment, you're showing a theorization that leads to a good potential explanation of events and I also wish more people would cite sources as you have. While I'm not 100% there yet, I haven't completely dismissed it as conspiracist either. It's good stuff. Now on the other side of that, @meetme's post sounds like a modern interpretation of "The Fox & The Grapes": e.g. Trump won, so regardless of reason, it must be fraud. It dismisses offhand the reality that the media gaslit the public, omitted details and news coverage that didn't place it's candidate (Biden) in a favorable light, and created narrative designed to sound like "Biden good, orange man bad". It's an oversimplification dismissive that anyone would feel that the country was not heading in the right direction, and that view was validated by numerous pre-election polls that should have been a harbinger to the Democrats. And that seems to be a theme. The left's view is "how dare they vote for the Republican", embodied in comments like "basket of deplorables" (Hillary Clinton) and others. The concept that there be a dissenting view is inconceivable to them, as if no one should be thinking of a view that they didn't espouse. And there's a crap ton of those that did not land with a large swath of the electorate. We could opine on this, but aren't the following explanations possible given the outcome: Biden's/Harris' message didn't resonate with the base or represent the direction they wanted to see, so they just stayed on the sidelines. They felt disenfranchised by the lack of a primary and the lack of a convention floor vote because of anointing Harris as the handpicked nominee. They didn't like the direction of the agenda and it leaned too far from the center to be supportable. They felt misled by the media, and after the debate performance, that feeling was reinforced. They weren't better off than they were 4 years ago. Where voters wanted to come back to the center, the party was leaning further left. Immigration was a HUGE issue and the Biden Administration was proven to be ineffective on that. If even one of those isn't a possibility, explain why?

I don't really do bathhouses anymore. It was never my scene, and when I went in my 30s, it was mostly for the purpose of the experience and not getting the loads (or dropping them). It just didn't happen. I had good luck a couple of times at the Chicago Steamworks, but that was it. Now in Seattle, my options are fewer. I'll go to the monthly fisting party and spend my night in the rumpus room. When I get bored or need something different to look at, I'll go on the prowl. See who all is around. Same routine, but fewer guys, and none of 'em interested in me unless they'll take just anyone's load. (I think they might be avoiding me. I keep wearing my biohazard pendant around my neck there, and it probably sends a false message because people are shit. No one's commented on it, so I can't verify that for certain.) And then it's back to the fisting party. My last trip there for such an event was my best visit so far, but that's a different story.

Fan-fucking-tastic! Keep 'em cumming!

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