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Oh agreed - I meant tops for the most part.

I love being on a bench, feeling a guy walk up, massage my ass then slowly slide inside me as I'm surrounded by guys waiting for their turn on my hole

Would love to be the room cleaning guy at a bathhouse for a weekend! Collecting all those used condoms from the rooms and play spaces!

Is there a way to stop this? I’ve changed my mind and want to stay. Please help.

If you're taking raw cock, you take the load(s), End of story!

I've seen the You tube videos doing a walk around. While they seem to have a sling now, it looks like a lot of hard benches, no proper rooms or lockers, a very basic place from what I can see

This is largely being run by the same scammers who do this for prostitution rings. The other format it can take is: TARGET is engaging in elicit / illegal behavior - straight people get hit with hiring prostitutes, they are target gays will to engaging with those of questionable age. SCAMMER may purport to be 18+ (or legal age in locality) - laws resoundingly state that even if the SCAMMER lied to the TARGET about their age, the TARGET is responsible for validating the age. TARGET is still prosecutable for sexual assault + statutory rape even if the SCAMMER provides a fake ID, has a profile that states they are of age, tells them directly verbally or in writing. [IF YOU HAVE DOUBT, shut it down.] In the online cases, it gets a little bit more malicious. SCAMMERS in these cases are likely well over legal age and would never engage you for sexual activities. What they do have is your email communications back and forth, and if you've exchanged emails or phone number, they now have the ablity to back-trace you and get all you, your family, your workplace info. SCAMMER is blackmailing you to avoid your exposure for engaging in communication with someone underage. Often the scammer will then send messages with your personal information, your family names and phone numbers, etc. They are looking for a payoff to keep quiet and are unlikely to ever expose you - they aren't that sophisticated. For straight males, this happened a lot with female prostitutes. The next day, guys would get text messages with pictures of chopped off heads, addresses of family members, etc. telling them that not only did they want money, but ALSO, that they would personally go after their family and friends and kill or cause harm to them. In the Gay male case, it's more about exposure, embarrassment, etc. For me, I avoid certain topics entirely when online for this reason. We all know how anything taken out of context doesn't get its full explanation. Be safe out there.

aounds like a scam and you were smart not to talk to him. Ive had guys try to scam and blackmail me.

Thoroughly enjoyed! If anyone knows of any other gear\heroin-featuring stories, please share them. For obvious reasons it's rare, but gets me hard af. Speedballs for a 19 Year Old Preppie on here is also excellent!

If you haven't read Chap 13 yet, you'll see that I get exposure to my first round of "combo" toys. I would have died if those two things had been combined.

I think this is really well said @ridedenver (hi, also in Denver) - glad you topping turned out to be as good as you expected. I'm happy to continue showing you how good it can be! 🙂 @submwmhole - I'll simply say this - I've recently written a blog series about an experience I had at the age of 31 which had me playing a very Submissive role for 3 Doms for an extended period of time (6 days). This wasn't the first experience Sub'ing but definitely the most significant ever and since. And I was 16+ years into my gay sexual experience as a person who was significantly above average in terms of sex. As Ride says, you're making a big jump just going straight into a full experience, but that is one way some people break the ice. You can also dip your toe in a little more gradually, like Ride suggests but it might be better just to rip the Band-Aid. Whichever way you do this, I think you need to find someone who will have an honest conversation with you about your limits. BDSM, even in its most aggressive forms, still has tenets of limits, communication, trust, and safety. So you may not have a limit around barebacking - but your dom needs to know that. And you need to push yourself and recognize the impact of using your safeword to tap out. I'd suggest started making your limit list. I use this format to help my thinking: LIKES / PREFERENCES (not in priority order) DISLIKES / DON’T PREFER (willing if you really want it) NON-NEGOTIABLE NO’S (absolutely unwilling to do, no discussion) I'm happy to share mine with you via DM if you're interested. Even in a situation where you give up full control, there can still be limits. Knowing your Dom understands those, is committed to your physical safety, you having food drink and water and bathroom, etc. will allow you to relinquish control without worrying things will get out of hand. You face additional challenges which could become limits - if you need to hide this from your wife - then you'll need to make sure that your Dom knows that you can't be gone for X days or whatever. And also at the end of the day, you have to be okay with having this hidden from your wife. I think it's great you're exploring this and I think many more "straight" men should allow themselves the latitude to explore things they are interested but considered not okay for them to explore.

We have yet another shooting here in Portland this afternoon.

It sounds like most married guys, you have urges but the social repercussions keep you out of that realm (so conflicted is a good way to put it). What helped me is finding someone that seemed like they wanted to help me, then having a few drinks to finally get me going enough to get into M on M. I'm more of a top, so it was getting a little tipsy and then having them start by sucking me. Which eventually led to me loving fucking guys (when I finally realized it was as good as I thought it would be). Part of the turn on was also the [banned word] of it (being married). So full on submission may be tough to start with, unless you drink and take poppers, but finding someone that you know is bi/gay and hanging out, drinking or smoking or poppers (what ever you choice) to loosen yourself up, then just kneel in front of him. Just a thought