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Hmmmmm .... the state of "affairs" in your neck of the woods is definitely substantially different than where I lived before (Chgo) and where I live now (Lauderdale). Maybe it's always been that way; I don't know. That said, I'll keep my eyes peeled for places for sale around here. One of my buddies in the next block sent me a text of a map of this neighborhood, with blue dots where a sex-offender lived. There was more blue on that little map than white (the background). You belong here - with the rest if us pigs - when you're ready. Just now prices have skyrocketed in this neighborhood - and I can only surmise that even more guys are moving in around here.

Where is this image from? It looks like some of the purportedly "funny", but actually quite racist, social media commentary I got so tired of seeing. Stuff like this is used to suggest that quite privileged groups are being treated unfairly, and groups who suffer systemic discrimination are living far better lives than they are. It's false, and looks like fairly transparent white grievance style racism to me. Also, the guy on the left would be beating the bottoms off with sticks, so I call 100% b*llsh*t.

Gawd I hope this never ends. After barbie ends up like Kyle at the beginning, or worse, we can just meet the next boy.

Yup.

We were the last two after a larger friend party that ended up at his place. 2am and 3am rolled around and people ubered home. We chatted it up and poured more drinks. He went to piss at some point and I pretended that I didn't know he was in the restroom and pushed the door open to get a peek at his cock and said "wow nice" and he giggled and said "you can use it." I said "the cock or the toilet" and he giggled again. We poured another round and he started playing guitar and I just went for it and said "let me suck that nice cock I just saw" and he whipped it out and let me feed on that fat white dick I've been curious about for at least a decade.

I have the opposite effect, I think most people think I'm way more sexual than I actually am. I'm very confident sexually and love to play when I do, but I've really been low-key for most of my 30s. I want to change that in my 40's and be a slut this summer.

When I was 20 (circa 2005) or so I used to suck a high school friends dad off in booths at LAX Wild Cat in Lennox. In my mid 20's I worked at a web design assistant in WeHo and ran into some of our customers drunk or high in the Gloryhole booths at The Zone LA. I didn't drink at the time and I was pretty good at spotting people before I engaged, sometimes they knew, often times they didn't know the assistant was swallowing their loads. Miss the arcade and gloryhole scenes, even the public cruising spots are all drying up. Nothing but cumdumps and content creators now.

Yo, where's this room? 😛

Motion in the ocean plays a huge role. I've also found that a lot of really pretty and attractive men whom are probably used to being fawned over (regardless of dick size, top, bottom, whatever) do not put a lot of effort into anything sexual. There's nothing less attractive to me than a completely unengaged dead fish.

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How embarrassing 😄. I love how slutty I feel when that happens!

Based on the rock color and formations, he may be in Dream Canyon near Boulder, which is a nudist area and has gay hookup spots. I've done a lot of hooking up in Dream Canyon, so it is doubling my distraction. I need to watch the rest of the video before I make any comments on his analysis.

So whatever happened with this potential parTy furry?

i'll be the first to respond with some of my own thoughts and feelings. i'm convinced that there is no such thing as "just sex." i know, i may be wrong, but so far am not convinced we can totally fragment our emotional self from our sexual self. i do think we can parse that connection down though. i believe i have gotten some form or degree of emotional nurture from every sexual encounter i've had with Guys, even though it may not have been emotionally fulfilling. And that would be the distinction i would make, i think our emotional self (well, all of our self really) is made up of pieces that fit together to form our whole self. i think one of the reasons we seek out sex is to connect some of those pieces with another, and i am not convinced it's ever "just sex" (i.e just physical). i can only speak for myself, but if i am being completely honest with myself, i think there is always an emotional component that is indeed being nurtured. This is a complex topic, i don't presume fully grasp it or have any hard, absolute conclusions. The last 6 years i have had the experience of an ongoing FB (i frequently talk about Him in the "last load" thread). my experience with Him has shown me a lot about myself. We have sex 2-4x a week for about six years now. He's Bi, on the DL and we have very little in common. i'm really big on communication, He's very quiet and rarely shows His emotional self... except during the actual sex. He's very vocal during sex, but as soon as He has an orgasm (always, our sex always culminates with Him breeding me, probably about 1000 times by now), He withdraws and takes a shower. After He showers He always asks: "you good?" And i always reply honestly how incredible i feel. i've shared a lot with Him about my psychosexual make up, He has shared very little. So, most of my understanding of Him is reading between the lines, and the fact that He is and has always been the one to initiate (since He is on the DL, i always wait for Him to text). From the outside looking in, our relationship could easily be labeled "just sex." We do not socialize together, we don't have much in common to base that on, but we have a decided bond that i think is both physical and emotional... at least, it is for me. One big thing i have found is, as long as i get to connect with Him at least 2x a week (it's usually 3-4x), i do not feel the need to have sex with another Guy. i do still get horny, but for me, that is a big part of my 'bottom' wiring... i.e., being "horny" and maintaining that desire/need for a Guy Who has a reciprocating need/desire to penetrate and breed. As long as i am receiving His orgasm inside of me often enough, i do not feel the need to get that from someone else. If He skips a week or so for a variety of reasons, i feel my need coming back. i also continue to be on some apps and have a profile out there, so i know/believe that i still would like to have more emotional bond with Someone, but i am very grateful for what i have also, and would not be cavalier about giving it up. That is one thing we have both touched on. He told me a couple of years ago that if He found a woman, He'd no longer hook with me... but that has never happened. He used to have a GF, but has not had one for years. Yet, last year when He vacationed with friends in Mexico, they hooked up with women... and i think He has occasional hook up sex with women, He'll occasionally casually allude to. But i believe Him when He tells me i'm His only guy hook up (though it would not matter to me if i learned otherwise). None of this fits the traditional heteronormative mold most of us have been culturally conditioned by. Am interested to read others thoughts, feelings and experiences. ❤️

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