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  2. I had one, for many years, until one day he fucked the living crap out of me. We are still friends, but I no longer consider him straight.
  3. i moved here 12 years ago. for the past 10 i've had this friend i now call "straight Steve" not to get him confused with "gay Steve" who've i've known for a year. straight steve and i have gotten much closer over the years and he's really someone i can confide in and turn to for help and vice versa. we literally talk about sex but not in much detail esp. since his GF is also a close friend. gay steve and i tell each other many more "and this one time at band camp" sexcapade stories but the friendship also seems a bit forced at times as once my exhusband left i was shocked to find i had 0 gay friends locally so have been working hard to make some. i don't know if others my age find this, but i meet very few guys like me who came out during the scary reagan era. most of guys my age i meet didn't come out till after their kids went away to college. it sometimes makes for awkward interactions.
  4. His view makes sense if you believe that "gay" is a self-identity. Like "Trans", it is the person that has to take on the identity. Most people don't know that the famous Dr. Alfred Kinsey was against using "homosexual" and "heterosexual" on people because these terms refer to the sexual act. According to Kinsey, a sexual act can be heterosexual or homosexual, but not the people involved. The Kinsey Scale has nothing to do with identities, gay or straight and it has been hijacked to mean a "spectrum" of sexual orientation. In the 1940's sex was supposed to happen between men and women but the results of the Kinsey's questionnaire for men showed a different picture. He categorized men by the proportion of types of sexual acts, heterosexual and homosexual, but never to mean an identity. Here is Kinsey's quote: Instead of focusing in identities, I prefer to focus on the "needs" that the identity may satisfy. First of all, identities are ambiguous and open to several interpretations. Needs are specific and to the point. For instance, instead of thinking that I may be gay because I like sucking cock in a gloryhole, I prefer to understand the origin of that need. Once I focused on the desire to suck cock I came to the conclusion that one reason I may wanna suck another guy's cock is because I can't suck my own! If I could suck my own I may be curious about doing it to another guy, but I may do myself a better BJ that someone else. But we have no option but to suck another guy's cock. The power of the experience of sucking a cock in a gloryhole is that because it's unattached to a body, I can imagine I'm sucking my own. And that's s turn on. What this guy is saying makes sense from the perspective of Kinsey.
  5. May I suggest, since you seem bound and determined to have an argument devoid of meaningful "content" and replete with "quotation marks" misused for no discernable purpose, that you try a different web site? Perhaps this one:
  6. I get tested every 3 months for STDs it's part of what you have to do if you take raw loads from strangers.
  7. Very true, and currently in the US we have "Christian" influencers not only pushing their extremist religious views, but advocating rounding up those that don't agree with them and placing us in camps or executing us. A few of these so called "Christian" influencers are Trump/MAGA supporters that are frequent guests of Trump at Mar a Lago. It is possible and necessary to staunchly oppose Muslims, Christians and any other religious groups that want to do this simultaneously. All theocratic governments are bad period.
  8. So that means we should pretend such "perpetrations" didn't happen (that's what both you and "Viking" really mean, but you're just about smart enough to realise how stupid that sounds so no-one ever adds it on).
  9. Personally I like to play in my big garden tub. I have a pad in the bottom that makes it easy to kneel and ride. With big toys I sit them on the edge and squat on them.
  10. Something is going on all the time with so many sex clubs. You also have the Ramble in Central Park as the weather is getting warmer.
  11. Two very good ones, a few pretty good ones.
  12. I call it "Christian Mingle" for gays for that vary reason, locally it is almost exclusively men looking for LTR, very few even bother to put their sexual interests on their profile and make sure they put some variation of "I don't fuck on the 1st date," prominently in the text on their profile. Doublelist is another one that has a lot of guys looking for relationships plus guys looking for buddies to get high with, but not fuck.
  13. @KERVORKIANjack perhaps you didn't read the OP and thus are clueless about this discussion. But the point is all perpetrators of bad behavior aren't Islamic.
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  15. When I'm at the sauna after a couple of loads, I sometimes push the loads out and then douche. I like the feeling of a clean hole being filled with cum. After a load or two I don't even know if a guy who fucks me ends up breeding me.
  16. I think the 2 bathhouses I had near me went out of business/closed up during the pandemic.
  17. i like the thanks, see ya, or smack on the ass as it means they enjoyed themselves and may likely be back for more. the ones who just quickly rush out, no words, make me suspect they're overcome w guilt and regret. closet case self-hatred or young gays who think they can do better but horniness made them sink low and fuck a dad
  18. I love it, one of my favorite things in the world is to breed a man then immediately flip over and have him breed me.
  19. If it is just a random cruising hookup or a fuck at a fuck club or orgy, it is pretty rare to get more than a slap on the ass and/or a thanks, and not at all unusual for them to just walk away. Personally it doesn't bother me in the least. When I'm the top I typically slap them on the ass and say thanks, if it isn't a gloryhole or darkroom where the protocol is usually just walk away. There have been quite a few times where I was bent over a fuck bench getting fucked by multiple guys without realizing I was bred until I stood up. It usually results in me wanting to find a bottom to do the same to.
  20. I'm fully versatile, and have always been one of those guys, the only time it isn't true for me is when I'm at a venue or orgy where the majority are there to do the blue ball no mating dance instead of fucking. I sort of understand that it doesn't help total bottoms, but the easiest way to get me hard to fuck again is to fuck me. If it is a good night or orgy, I will cum 4 times (used to be 7 when I was younger), and then sometimes stay and continue bottoming.
  21. Yeah, I had the same problem when I took my second fist. The fister was experienced, and even he admitted that he did feel a hemorrhoid.
  22. That seems to vary, my limited experience here in Portland is that do oral do not consider themselves "sides", but that apparently varies by location. A bigger problem are the guys that do toys, fingers or fists, but won't even consider touching a cock or letting you touch theirs, calling themselves top, bottom or versatile here in Portland, I would consider them "sides" as I understand the definition. The problem seems have died down a little bit, but a couple of years ago there were a lot of guys looking to hookup and just play with dildos, both online and at the bathhouses which was a major problem for me.
  23. Wait, aren;t you that one who's always cheering me being banned for saying the truth? And you're terrified of an unadulterated debate with some guy who lives 6,000 miles away from ya.... And you think other people should be strangled?
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