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Some bottoms really like the taste of cum. I find those guys will do ATM not so much to clean off my dick, but to try to suck out the last few drops of cum.

I've actually been looking into this and have been thinking of getting tested to see if I'm immune. 23andMe.com seems to be the leading place to get tested - both Google and Genentech have invested in the company. HIV resistance/immunity is one of many things they test and report back to you. They have a big sale on at the moment - it costs just $99 plus $5/month for a year (total is $159).

I've added your blog to the ones I pull into the site. That'll get your blog exposure... BTW, great blog... You sound like a really good bottom...

The Leatherman on Christopher is a great place and you can definitely talk candidly with the staff. However, for leather clothing I strongly recommend David Menkes. He can do custom leather for about the same price as the Leatherman and it looks way better than off-the-rack.

If you cut the tip they can make a decent cockring... Great if you left your cockring at home...

I agree with you. The metal hits your teeth and HURTS. It's the reason why I usually take mine out pretty quickly unless I know the bottom wants me to leave it in.

I've looked deeper into what's allowed and what's not. What it's going to come down to are the rules set by whoever I use for payment processing. The software I planned on using supports CCBill, so I started there, but they're far too restrictive. They don't even allow you to piss on someone else (which is pretty mainstream these days and 'safe sex'). I'm in the process of moving my servers to the same company that hosts Dick Wadd Fetish and it'll take more time to set up, but I'm going to try to get them to process credit cards for me. So if you see it in a Dick Wadd movie, it will be allowed... Which is pretty lenient. However, scat (shit) is out. Rape is out. Basically anything non-consensual is out. Extreme violence is out. Of course everyone has to be at least 18, and so on... But there's still a lot of pigginess that will be allowed. That said, what you do in the privacy of a private chat room is your own business (for the most part). And moderators just can't see everything all the time in the pubic chat rooms. Still, if we see you consistently breaking the rules that will be grounds for banning you from the site. The tube site that will be launched after the cam site will have similar rules but because the videos are persistent the rules will be applied more rigorously (every video will be moderated before it goes up). There will also be certain terms which won't be allowed in descriptions... You can't even imply underage sex (even if the guys are over 18), you can't imply force/rape or non-consensual sex, etc. As far as PNP... There was someone who got 10 years in jail and part of the evidence against them was a video they posted of themselves doing drugs. You've got to be pretty stupid to post videos of illegal activity. That said, I'm not trying to police the sexual activity in your bedroom. Perhaps you're smoking a cigarette you rolled yourself. Or perhaps you're a diabetic injecting insulin... In other words, if you're clearly doing illegal drugs, the video won't get up on the tube site. If I think you're doing something else, then it might get up...

Question for you... I went to 0 gauge a few months ago. (Not going to go to 00 'cause it completely fills my urethra and I don't want to stretch my urethra.) Anyway, I'm having a bit of a problem with 0 'cause precum dries on it and then irritates the piercing. It's actually pretty painful and pretty frequent. Dried precum wasn't nearly as big a problem with smaller gauges... So I'm wondering whether you've experienced the same thing and what you do about it?

I've got a guy pushing me to work with him on a bareback hookup site. If we did it, it would be a lot like Water Boys which is a watersports-oriented hookup site the guy put up for Dick Wadd Fetish. Dick Wadd didn't promote Water Boys enough so it never took off and it's pretty much dead. Water Boys does have some interesting features - like separate lists for "favorites" and "contacts" and the ability to add "guides" which are a bit like the cruising listings on Squirt.org - listings of sex parties, bathhouses, cruisy parks/bathrooms, etc. If anyone wants to take a look at Water Boys and tell me what they think of it, I'd appreciate it. Remember that the look and feel can and will change. At this point it's more about how useable it is and the features it offers... If that's a good place to start then I'll pursue the idea further... Oh, and if I did a hookup site I'd want to model it on Adam4Adam - so a completely functional free option that's ad supported and then a paid enhanced membership for heavy users who need really big contact lists, etc.

I can't think of any family members I'd want to have sex with.

How slutty are you guys? Are you in a big enough city that you can get lots of loads? Are both of you versatile?

I'll be moving this site to a new server in a week or two. At that point I'll be able to do 2 things I can't do on my current server... First, you guys will get chat capabilities... Text chat will be unlimited and free, there will also be video chat sorta like Cam4 - you'll get a bit of that free each day, but given the cost to run it, heavy use will be a paid upgrade. The other thing I'll implement is a map of where online users are located. The map won't tell you who is near you (too many privacy issues for that), but it will tell you that someone is near you. I'll look into refining it...

I've got an open relationship too - 13+ years now, but neither of us is a slut... I only average about 1 fuck a week. Just wondering whether it can work if one or both of them are CONSTANTLY hunting dick and getting fucked?

First, a few definitions... By "SLUT" I mean someone who's averaging at least 5 loads a week from lots of different guys including a lot of complete strangers. By "SUCCESSUL RELATIONSHIP" I mean a relationship I mean a solid, meaningful relationship that lasts for at least 2 years where the boyfriends live together and rely on each other. It seems a lot of sluts are single. I'm not sure if they're sluts because they're single or if they're single because they're sluts, but I sorta get the sense that people think that sluts can't have successful relationships and still be sluts. I don't see why it can't work. If I were single I'd probably look for a slut for my next relationship. I'd love someone who came home with a cummy ass or someone who'd disappear at a bar and I'd find bent over taking dick when I went looking for him. Honestly, it would be a blast to pimp out a boyfriend... But I'm guessing a lot of gay guys just want to settle down and be "normal" (by heterosexual norms). They might be OK with a somewhat open relationship, but the idea that you're boyfriend's life is largely dedicated to getting fucked and taking loads from other guys might not work for some tops. And vice versa - bottoms might not like sharing their man's dick with other bottoms. I'm guessing so many sluts are single 'cause it's just hard to find compatible boyfriends. OR, there's the possibility of a partners-in-crime relationship where both guys are sluts - either they're versatile or they're both (vers) bottoms. In a relationship like that their recreational activity would be hunting for cock and loads. They could advertise on hookup sites together, etc. I've seen a few couples like this online, but they're pretty rare and I don't know how long the relationship lasts... So what's your experience? Have you ever been in a long-term relationship where one or both guys were sluts? How did it work out?

I did a little investigation and it seems cam sites are pretty lenient, probably because the video isn't persistent. So basically if you can do it on Cam4 you can do it on my cam/chat site... Technically there will be certain things I have to moderate - scat is out. Pissing IN someone is out (pissing ON someone is fine)... But what I don't see I can't penalize you for... So it's pretty much a free-for-all if you're in a private chat room. Public chat rooms will have more scrutiny - those will need to conform to the standards laid down by my credit card billing company. When I launch a tube site (January?) I'll need to be stricter on that because the video is persistent... In other words, I'll be as liberal as my credit card biller allows me to be. But if I catch you crossing the line, expect to get your hand slapped...

That's so not cool. What comes around goes around - literally. He may not care if you get something but he should care that bottoms like you will pass it onto tops like him.

Good question... I know for commercial porn it's not allowed 'cause someone who's high can't legally consent, but I need to find out about amateur stuff...

Later this month I'll be installing a video chat feature for this site. I'm in the middle of migrating to a new host. They've got my server racked and and are configuring it now. As soon as the server is ready I'll install the chat software. I'm looking for beta testers who spend a lot of time on cam sites like Cam4 - especially guys who like to have sex on cam. Cam sites are expensive to run because of the bandwidth they use. While everyone will get free unlimited text chat and probably 20 minutes of video chat each day, unlimited video chat will be a paid feature once the site is up, running and established (not initially). HOWEVER, I'm thinking of comping memberships for guys who regularly fuck on cam just because other people will want to buy memberships to watch them. If you want to be a beta tester, let me know. And the reward might be a free cam membership if you're a big enough exhibitionist. [i'll also comp porn stars who've done multiple videos for well-known studios - contact me if you fall into that category too...]

The little Latin muscle boy stopped by this morning and took my load. LOVE fucking him... Hope he becomes a regular...

I've added a profile field for porn experience. If you've been in porn fill out the field and let everyone know who you are.

It depends on which state (or city) you live in. Here in NYC meds are covered even for illegal immigrants.

http://www.efukt.com/2339_The_Worst_Sex_Accident_Of_All_Time.html I don't know how the guy isn't screaming in pain... Don't ever put anything glass up your ass!

Depends on the party... Some are better than others and the crowds vary from party to party and night to night. I'm guessing you'll have the most fun at one that's pretty inclusive and uninhibited. The "jock only" type of parties can be intimidating and the guys can be more standoffish... Wear a jockstrap, clean out your hole really well before you go, and then lube it up a bit when you get there and you should do fine. It doesn't hurt to be a bit assertive. If you find a top you like just line up his dick with your hole and push back gently and he'll get the hint... In other words, just have fun being a slut...

My last load was last Friday. It was a guy I've fucked before. This time he also drank my piss (quite a bit of it) and it lasted a lot longer than before. Turned out to be a good hookup.