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I take it you haven't been in a long-term relationship. Let's say the term "long-term monogamous" is a contradiction in terms for all but a very small group of people. There are a whopping 2 gay couples that I know who are long-term who I believe are monogamous. The vast majority have open relationships. In fact when you talk to gay couples the vast majority agree that if they had stuck to monogamy their relationships would be long over. Do not think of monogamy as a way to stay neg. There are plenty of stories of guys who's partners played around on the side, got infected, and then infected the monogamous partner.
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Florida Hottie With A Body Needs Master & Home!
rawTOP replied to the.sexiest.super.slut's topic in New York Metro Area
I'm in NYC and have been wanting a boy... Tell me more about the type of scene you're looking for? Do you have prior experience being owned by a dom? -
Sounds like it could be an STD, but probably not HIV. Whatever it is, you need to get tested and treated.
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Taking PrEP has been completely uneventful. No side effects. It's nice knowing I've got the protection. I can be an even bigger pig and not worry about the risks I'm taking.
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I go to Callen-Lorde. There's a lot of turn over in their doctors/NPs. Some are better than others. I recently started seeing Victor - he seems pretty good, and he's definitely OK with PrEP since he's prescribing it for me.
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A couple weeks ago I went to Hunter College and participated in a study about PrEP (taking HIV meds while you're neg in order to stay neg). It just takes a couple hours and all they want is to understand is people's attitudes towards PrEP and what types of marketing messages communicate the facts most clearly and are the most compelling. Much of the study is done via quantitative, computer-based surveys, but at the end you talk 1-on-1 with a researcher about what you know about PrEP and how you feel about it. To be completely honest, I didn't love the study - it wasn't bad - it just wasn't great. So I won't say it's for everyone. But if you've got questions about PrEP I think it's a good use of your time. The study has flaws (IMHO), but it is good at explaining the fundamental facts and you can talk 1-on-1 with someone who understands PrEP really well. If you're interested, contact the researchers... PrEPARE NYC 212-396-6084 preparenyc@hunter.cuny.edu http://www.cunyhart.org When you talk to them tell them you were referred by someone and give one of the following referral numbers: 72261, 72262, 72263. Oh yeah... They'll pay you $60 to be in the study...
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Meet Other Breeding Zone Members @ CumUnion
rawTOP replied to fuckboy20's topic in General Discussion
I've ordered the wrist bands. Here's the digital proof... So it's light gray text on a dark gray band. It'll be debossed and color filled. The text is the same font as the Breeding Zone logo - though it doesn't look as good when it's all out in a row. I moved away from doing glow-in-the-dark and went with a color palette that's more in line with this site. For $10 more I could have put a second message on the band. I thought about repeating the logo, but decided against it. I was holding off ordering - trying to figure out a phrase. Then this morning in the shower (a day after ordering the bands) it came to me... "BAREBACK ONLY". The idea being they'd be in a box or bowl as people checked in and that way the safe sex guys would know that person doesn't want to use condoms. But the purpose of that band is very different it would be to identify Breeding Zone members it would be for marketing purposes so guys who are only into bareback would know about the site. So for now we'll just run with the original idea - a band to identify members. In the future I may do a more marketing oriented band. So if you get one of the membership bands hang on to it.
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That's one of the weaknesses of the site - finding people close to you. You can do an advanced user search and search for particular phrase in the City field. NY will also bring back NYC (since it's a contains search), but you'll also have to search for New York (which will include New York City).
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Let me fuck you. I'm neg and on PrEP...
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Meet Other Breeding Zone Members @ CumUnion
rawTOP replied to fuckboy20's topic in General Discussion
Censoring, no. Discretion, yes - but that was in the works before I got the offer to sponsor CumUnion and has nothing to do with them. Basically I'm going to make it more difficult for people casually browsing the Internet to see people discussing things like chem sex and bug chasing. But once you have access to those areas the discussion will be the same as it is now. -
They were underage. The stories have been edited to make them legal AFAIK.
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I don't think this story is the reason why the OP is banned. HungLatinDom gave the infraction - I'm not sure what exactly triggered it. Also sometimes we just modify the story to change the age - so you never know there was a problem. But people have gone to jail for fictional stories about minors, so we have to be strict about it.
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Well, at least not for very long. HotLoad84 is the moderator who specifically reads all the stories (it's sort of his thing). But HungLatinDom and I are on the lookout for that stuff as well. If any of you see it, please click the little triangle under the post just to the left and report the post.
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Imagine a neg guy who's unjustly paranoid of all poz guys - even undetectable ones. (There are lots of guys out there like that). In that case the undetectable top could stealth the bottom and not really cause any harm. Not saying it's good or right - just saying there's a big difference between that and an unmedicated poz top stealthing a bottom.
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New Here and New to Barebacking
rawTOP replied to POZCuriousBoy's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
You're a perfect candidate for PrEP (I'm on it). Talk to your doctor about it. If you're doctor doesn't deal with a lot of gay guys you'll probably have to educate him on it. There's a link to a document that explains PrEP to doctors on my website - print it out and give it to him/her if you think there may be an issue. If you have decent insurance the insurance will cover the cost. Basically you'll take Truvada - an HIV med with very few side effects and it will be about as effective as a condom in preventing you from getting HIV (possibly more effective - but that study isn't complete yet). The only thing is it's really important that you take it every day - they'll probably do more studies to see if less-than-daily dosing is possible - but again those are studies that probably haven't even started yet. Once you're on PrEP you can explore your desire to be a cumdump for poz guys. You can live out the fantasy with minimal risk. Realize the risk isn't zero - but nothing in life that's worth doing is zero risk. Now, the one caveat is that you're taking pretty powerful drugs and not having a lot of sex. So if I were you I'd probably wait until you really want to make your fantasy a reality and will actually go through with getting your ass out there to take anonymous loads on a regular basis. -
On a bareback site it's not necessary - there are no condoms involved, hence no opportunity to stealth. And on mainstream hookup sites the question is inappropriate for completely different reasons.
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I gotta agree with the others. Just because it's a dark room doesn't mean the guy can't reasonably ask for a condom. Better if tops just walked away making it clear he's not getting much dick unless he's takes it raw. The only thing that makes some types of stealthing a bit more acceptable is when the top is completely confident they're neg (or undetectable) and hence unable to infect the bottom. I'm not saying those situations are right, but they're less wrong IMHO.
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What your talking about is streaming (where you can jump from point to point) vs. progressive download (where you have to wait for the video to load from start to that point). Most tube sties do streaming, but I'll make sure not to use ones that do progressive download.
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could you be versatile, or are you committed to your role?
rawTOP replied to Fickloch's topic in General Discussion
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Find an "urgent care" facility near you. They're where you go when you need to see someone now, but aren't so sick you need an ER. Insurance companies love them since they're way cheaper than going to the ER. But even after going you should still go to see your regular doctor.
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Meet Other Breeding Zone Members @ CumUnion
rawTOP replied to fuckboy20's topic in General Discussion
I can put you in touch with the CumUnion organizers, but they tend to look for people who run and promote sex parties as a full-time business. I asked whether the parties I have at events like MAL or IML could be branded CumUnion parties and the answer was 'no' - not because they didn't like me, but because I wouldn't be working out of an established sex venue. There's often a tricky balance that has to be struck with local health departments and the like, and when the party organizers aren't well known to the local cops and health department things can go horribly wrong. Case and point is what happened to Robby Mendez recently when he was thrown in jail for a party in North Hollywood (erroneously reported initially as being in Palm Springs). CumUnion has a brand they have to make sure doesn't get tarnished. If a health department in one city hears about problems in another city, then it could create all sorts of complications. -
Breeding Zone is now a proud sponsor of CumUnion, so we want to encourage you guys to go to the parties and tell others what you liked, what to expect, etc. (Even what you didn't like). CumUnion isn't officially a bareback party (condoms are provided), but given who promotes it, there's typically a lot of barebacking going on. So tell the other guys about your experience specifically with CumUnion Tampa ... Is it mostly bareback, or do a lot of guys use condoms, or is there a lot of oral and not much fucking? Were you able to give or take loads? How many? Would you say it's easy for a bottom to get loads or a top to find willing cumholes? What sort of guys attend? How piggy and uninhibited were they? And bottom line - would you recommend other guys go? CumUnion Tampa is held at Ybor RYS Resort and Spa, 1512 East 8th Ave. The next party is on Saturday, May 18th starting at 9:00pm. If you go and they ask where you heard about the party make sure you mention Breeding Zone - even if you also saw it mentioned elsewhere. We want the organizers to know that Breeding Zone members are going to the parties. Click here for more details about the party.
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Breeding Zone is now a proud sponsor of CumUnion, so we want to encourage you guys to go to the parties and tell others what you liked, what to expect, etc. (Even what you didn't like). CumUnion isn't officially a bareback party (condoms are provided), but given who promotes it, there's typically a lot of barebacking going on. So tell the other guys about your experience specifically with CumUnion Ft. Lauderdale... Is it mostly bareback, or do a lot of guys use condoms, or is there a lot of oral and not much fucking? Were you able to give or take loads? How many? Would you say it's easy for a bottom to get loads or a top to find willing cumholes? What sort of guys attend? How piggy and uninhibited were they? And bottom line - would you recommend other guys go? CumUnion Fort Lauderdale is held at Club Ft Lauderdale, 110 NW 5th Ave (just off Broward). The next party is on Saturday, May 4th starting at 10:00pm. If you go and they ask where you heard about the party make sure you mention Breeding Zone - even if you also saw it mentioned elsewhere. We want the organizers to know that Breeding Zone members are going to the parties. Click here for more details about the party.
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Breeding Zone is now a proud sponsor of CumUnion, so we want to encourage you guys to go to the parties and tell others what you liked, what to expect, etc. (Even what you didn't like). CumUnion isn't officially a bareback party (condoms are provided), but given who promotes it, there's typically a lot of barebacking going on. So tell the other guys about your experience specifically with CumUnion Palm Springs... Is it mostly bareback, or do a lot of guys use condoms, or is there a lot of oral and not much fucking? Were you able to give or take loads? How many? Would you say it's easy for a bottom to get loads or a top to find willing cumholes? What sort of guys attend? How piggy and uninhibited were they? And bottom line - would you recommend other guys go? CumUnion Palm Springs is held at CCBC,. The next party is on Saturday, May 11th starting at 10:00pm. If you go and they ask where you heard about the party make sure you mention Breeding Zone - even if you also saw it mentioned elsewhere. We want the organizers to know that Breeding Zone members are going to the parties. Click here for more details about the party.
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Breeding Zone is now a proud sponsor of CumUnion, so we want to encourage you guys to go to the parties and tell others what you liked, what to expect, etc. (Even what you didn't like). CumUnion isn't officially a bareback party (condoms are provided), but given who promotes it, there's typically a lot of barebacking going on. So tell the other guys about your experience specifically with CumUnion Las Vegas... Is it mostly bareback, or do a lot of guys use condoms, or is there a lot of oral and not much fucking? Were you able to give or take loads? How many? Would you say it's easy for a bottom to get loads or a top to find willing cumholes? What sort of guys attend? How piggy and uninhibited were they? And bottom line - would you recommend other guys go? CumUnion Las Vegas is held at Hawk’s Gym, 953 E Sahara Ave, #358. The next party is on Saturday, May 18th starting at 10:00pm. If you go and they ask where you heard about the party make sure you mention Breeding Zone - even if you also saw it mentioned elsewhere. We want the organizers to know that Breeding Zone members are going to the parties. Click here for more details about the party.
