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My Barebacking Journey: An Article for Positive Lite
cam1972 replied to JoshLandaleXXX's topic in General Discussion
I have to say that I was deeply impressed with your well written, well thought out article. Yours is a voice that needs to be heard. You have a clear balance to your thinking. Being responsible in telling others that you are HIV + is not an easy thing to do, but the right thing to do. But put that aside, to go on a public forum and share that to people who don't agree with you and will more than happily tell you so is courageous. And it's working. The first response to your article was from someone who is now re-thinking the way she views those who choose to bareback. I am very impressed. Great article. Kudos to you. -
I'm with the last two posters. I'd be happy that I had incredible sex. Don't lose site of the forest because of the trees.
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Not so. There are many who point out how wrong and illegal it is to stealth breed. Call it sanctimonious finger-wagging if you want, but as one that has been cheated on, I hate it. It's demeaning, hurtful and all that other gooey crap you probably don't give a damn about. But just as you deserve to feel hot in doing what you are doing, we deserve to feel hot in knowing that we are loved and respected by the one we are in a relationship with. And please don't tell me that you "love" the guy you are cheating on. If you want to have sex with a bunch of men, either be in an open relationship or be single. But betraying one's trust.... Makes me sad. Yes, I know I could have clicked on the next thread and skipped this one, but it's a discussion forum and not everyone is going to agree. That's part of being humans. We disagree. I just feel sorry for those who have put their trust in someone who doesn't really give a damn about the relationship. They should have a voice as well.
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Doesn't matter to me. I can cum and still be ready for more. All depends on the day, I guess.
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Tops and Bottoms, how do you feel if a top cums fast?
cam1972 replied to colletonguy's topic in General Discussion
I love how some on here say that the sex is only about the top and that it is not for the bottom's pleasure, then in the next sentence they say that they are pleased to know that he came so quickly... That the "reward of the cum in my ass said I was a great fuck".... That means you got something out of it, which.. I thought you weren't there for that. lol That said, I prefer a loner session. I want the physical and emotional connection to last longer than "two minutes".. I'd much rather the top and I BOTH experience a longer period of pleasure than just a couple of minutes. 'Course, if there's a second, longer lasting session with him, then that is more than fine. -
The reason can be talked about until the cows come home and you would be no further down the road. I just know that it's different with each person, each situation. My ex was an ass. Haven't seen him in six years, but I still have feelings for him. I'm not sure there is a cut and dried way to get over some one. Some have said to get another man in your bed as soon as possible, but I think that works only if the feelings you had for him were only sexual. Sounds to me as though you had more than sexual feelings for him, so I don't think that's the route to take to get over him. I would try to keep myself busy. Try to keep your idol time limited since that's probably when you think of him the most. But don't expect it to magically disappear. Just take things one day at a time. One hour at a time. Try and focus on things that make you happy. And don't give up hope. Above all else, don't give up hope.
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Sometimes I feel so fucking sorry for straights....
cam1972 replied to PhoenixGeoff's topic in General Discussion
This line seriously made me laugh out loud. We have guys posting on here how they cheat on their boyfriends or lie about being poz to other men, yet women are the ones who can't be trusted! LOL Oh My god!! Too funny.... Gotta say, there are a lot of days I wish I were straight. -
small dick tops should turn into bottoms!
cam1972 replied to Cigar btm's topic in General Discussion
I have to say I agree again. A guy's personality and the way he treats me will turn me on faster than a look at his cock. Not that I don't love cock. I do. But as you said, there is so much more to a man than what hangs between his legs. I derive pleasure from all things combined, not just the cock. -
small dick tops should turn into bottoms!
cam1972 replied to Cigar btm's topic in General Discussion
It's not just you. I agree totally. What the OP regards as tiny... I've found those that have that size to be the best fucks. 'Course, I'm a smaller framed man, so maybe that's why. But I don't think either side of the argument can make a blanket statement that all should be big or all should be small. As fuckboy20 said, Variety is indeed the spice of life. -
Don't Slam into a guys ass on the first stroke.
cam1972 replied to Pig Bottom's topic in General Discussion
I'm with the OP. That will turn me off instantly. 'Course, I'm not into dominance. My pleasure is just as important as the top's. While I derive pleasure from making him feel good, I also deserve to feel good. So don't plan on ramming it in on the first try. Anyone that tries that will be left with no pleasure from me at all. -
The real pity is that he doesn't know that you are fucking him over. By cheating on him and potentially exposing him to diseases that he doesn't want.
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I have to admit that I don't understand this comment. I can't say whether there is a god, but no goodness or badness? Tell that to the families of those who are murdered. That's most definitely not good. It's bad. That said, I have to believe that there is more to life than fucking mindlessly. I LOVE sex. But I also enjoy spending time with family, friends and other activities. And I want to remember these times. I want to live the good life.
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You aren't the only one, Germanfucker. I'm in total agreement with you. Could not have said it better.
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I agree with Fickloch. You don't want to pass the virus to her. It is never right to put an innocent at risk. Honesty is the best thing. Won't be easy, I'm certain. But to put her at risk is wrong. Also, if you want to have children, Jay2564, then this sounds like a decision you need to really, really think about. Don't make a snap judgement. This is only a decision YOU can make for yourself. No one can do it for you.
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Would you still keep your status if there was a cure?
cam1972 replied to bacchi1486's topic in General Discussion
Ok.... Never mind. I hate arguments. If you think you are an animal, that's fine. I choose to believe I'm not. We are all different. We believe different things. That's what makes us all unique. And I am most definitely unique. And damn proud of it. -
Would you still keep your status if there was a cure?
cam1972 replied to bacchi1486's topic in General Discussion
But being "sentient" is what sets us apart from animals. We do not behave as animals do. Do you live in a barn? A dog house? Do you eat hay? Do you bed down in straw? Do you shit in an open field? You may like to act like an animal in bed, but that does not make you an animal. Geez, dude. Quit thinking with your dick and think with your brain for a minute. Some guys on here think about one thing and let that one thing rule their entire existence, totally missing out on what other great things life has to offer them. I love sex just as much as the next guy, but I'll be damned if I'm going to let it shorten my life. So many talk about getting full blown AIDS and dying with it and how great that would be. I stared death in the face with cancer and let me tell you, it isn't fun. Talk brave now, but get to that point? You'll wish you had thought differently. -
Would you still keep your status if there was a cure?
cam1972 replied to bacchi1486's topic in General Discussion
I agree. I don't get this whole mind concept that we are animals, so we behave like them. We are NOT animals. We are HUMAN BEINGS. And as you stated, it is not an extreme sport! It's about the pleasure, not a race to see how fast I can kill myself. I would take the the treatment. Hell, I've been through chemo and radiation to save my life. Why not do this as well? -
To each his own.
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Then get antiperspirants if you feel deodorants fall in the perfume category. You can get unscented ones. I'm with you, loadme68. We may throw the term pigs around, but we don't go wallow in the mud or walk on all fours the entire time. There's something to be said for personal hygiene. There's a difference between a clean man's natural scent and an un-bathed, unclean scent. Unless you are homeless, you have no reason to reek. I don't want to have to hold my nose or my breath while having sex with a man. I want it to be enjoyable for both of us. End rant....
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Damn! I agree! I'm a man, not a fucking animal. Nothing will turn me off faster than a guy that practices no hygiene. I love to get down and dirty, but I want to be clean to do it.
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That's weird.. I go soft with Maximum Imppact. Lol Strange how it affects people differently.
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I've had sinus problems for years as well. Have had surgery. But I've never had a problem with poppers causing nose bleeds. Some guys experience headaches, but I've never had that problem either. I guess you would just have to try and see. Each person's experience is different from another person's.
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The First Time You Got Fucked Was It Safe Or Raw?
cam1972 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
It was safe. That was a long time ago....... -
Ok. I hadn't seen that discussion. Guess I need to check that out.
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