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  1. bluedragon
    I think it's also important to remember that the correct comparison for the effectiveness of prep is not with abstinence: it's with the effectiveness of condoms. All the data indicates that in 'real world' (as opposed to laboratory) conditions, condoms are less effective than PreP at preventing HIV: they can slip off, break, tops can take them off deliberately, etc. The paper posted by @fuckholedc confirms that poor adherence is responsible for most cases of Prep 'Failure' with only 7 of the 52 participants infected while on PreP (out of 1030 total) reporting excellent adherence (and they might have been lying about their adherence). As someone who has mostly used event-based dosing the past couple of years, and who has sometimes had logistical issues in acquiring PreP, I can confirm that it's easy to miss a dose or to be unsure if you missed one if you don't have a regular routine of taking it every day. The only way to guarantee you will not be infected by HIV is to abstain from sex. However, it's fair to say that combining PreP AND Condom use would probably reduce your risk to infinitesimally low. Study on condom effectiveness: [think before following links] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25469526/ and a summary of that study: [think before following links] https://www.sfaf.org/collections/beta/how-well-do-condoms-protect-gay-men-from-hiv/
  2. bluedragon
    That's fine, and I'm glad your sex life suits you just fine, mine does too. But here we are on a thread about a global shortage of tops. If you're a total bottom and you can't find tops around, then you don't have a good sex life. If on the other hand you are overrun with tops wanting to fuck you, then clearly this thread does not apply to you, and I'm sure a lot of guys will want your secret. Personally, I think the premise of the thread is a bit exaggerated, but there does seem to be an imbalance there, which works to my advantage as a vers top so I don't let it stress me 🙂
  3. bluedragon
    OK, well I did say 'any mental fixations you might have', I phrased it to leave open the possibility that there are some total bottoms without mental fixations. I don't mean to offend you or suggest there is something wrong with you, as an individual. However, believe me, I have met some total bottoms who really do have a kind of fixation. Here's a story. I once had a fuckbuddy I met fairly regularly who only wanted to bottom with me. As I was mostly a top, that's what we did. One day we decided to look for a third and I invited over this other guy I had played with a few times. The other guy preferred to top, so I had bottomed for him. When he arrived the two of them played together for a bit, but sparks didn't seem to be flying, so I invited the new arrival to top me. I get on hands and knees on the bed and he moves into position and my regular fuckbuddy starts to get agitated and announces that he has to go. He almost hurries into his clothes and out the door. This was all very odd to me but later I realised (and confirmed it by talking with him) that he had built me up in his head into the image of the perfect top guy for him (looks, mannerisms, how I fucked him) and I had inadvertently ruined it by showing a willingness to take dick, since for him, taking dick and being his perfect top guy didn't go together, and was so difficult to watch he had to abandon a hotel room he had paid for. OK, not my problem, right? But there are more than a few guys like that out there who get very invested in particular ideas and very upset when their partners fail to live up to them. THAT is what I mean by 'mental fixation'. For what it's worth drugs often seem to make it worse.
  4. bluedragon
    Erectile dysfunction is often caused by social anxiety or performance anxiety, I've had that problem myself. In the gay world where hookups are often with strangers and people can be judgemental, perhaps many of us with no major medical issues might sometimes find getting and staying hard challenging, so might start to bottom more.
  5. bluedragon
    I'm vers top: i used to be 80-90% top (back in the condom era) but am trying to get it down to about 60%. I'm happy that there's a demand for tops, but I find there are plenty of guys out there who enjoy being vers, and my best sessions are flip flops. If you are a strict bottom only, ask yourself why? Personally I couldn't understand someone who never uses his dick. Time to get past any mental fixations you might have on topping and bottoming and what kind of person each one makes you. Rigid fixations do not lead to a good sex life.
  6. bluedragon
    Hi mate check out [think before following links] https://jamiehp.co.uk
  7. bluedragon
    Hoping to be there tomorrow to load some hot cumdumps, msg me if you're going, 18-45ish preferred.
  8. bluedragon
    hehe odd because I lived in London in 2018 and I don't remember there being any parties at this hotel, maybe it has just been discovered....
  9. bluedragon
    hahaha I was once deluded enough to think so.....
  10. bluedragon
    yeah i increasingly love being verbal, one of the cumdumps i had last night was really into it 😉
  11. bluedragon
    I was 80 to 90% top, I'm trying to get that down to about 60% or so. Much easier when it's raw 😉
  12. bluedragon
    just realised OP is from months ago, doh.....
  13. bluedragon
    you look good man but if you're wanting to use those condoms you might be on the wrong site...
  14. bluedragon
    ok, 2 different cumdumps in 2 rooms fucked tonight so i think im getting the hang of it...
  15. bluedragon
    10 in one afternoon was my record 😉
  16. bluedragon
    Coming to London end of month and well up for long hard use of that tight hole.
  17. bluedragon
    BTW seems like every third young guy on Grindr or BBRT is indicating an interest in 'daddies' on his profile. 'Daddies', was it like this back in your day, and people are just being more open? Or is intergenerational sex genuinely more popular now?
  18. bluedragon
    Yeah, I only fucked a woman once. It was quite nice but nowhere near as good as with a man. Still, I might be interested in trying it again but only with a girl who knew i was mostly into men, just so her expectations aren't set for the best fuck of her life 😉 Some women - though usually not more confident ones like your friend - seem to like using gay men as comfort blankets: a source of male attention, but not threatening like many women find straight men to be, because the sexual interest isn't there.
  19. bluedragon
    So are you bi or gay? She might well be looking for security now that she has a kid, or else a father figure for him/her. Or you've misread her and she was into you all along. Who knows? Let her down gently/start distancing yourself now.
  20. bluedragon
    Slightly facetious title but I'm looking forward to spending a few months in London this summer and I'm intrigued with all the BBRT meets listed at St Giles. I'll definitely be up for attending a few and loading some hot bottoms but are the staff cool? I assume they realise what is going on and I don't want to have awkward conversations as I make my way past the front desk a couple times a week to the next cumdump 😉
  21. bluedragon
    Am a top, can I help load some of these guys??? 😉
  22. bluedragon
    Lol keeping the focus on what matters eh?
  23. bluedragon
    OK, it might sounds a bit odd but there's actually nothing wrong with that. The primary teaching language of his degree is English, so the 'foreign language requirement' would be to demonstrate capacity in another language than that: presumably in order to be admitted to the college he had already demonstrated his ability in English.
  24. bluedragon
    Are there different standards for entry for mares and stallions?
  25. bluedragon
    Just in case you didn't believe me

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