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Well I would privately, but I would not post it for all to see . I value my time here, so I don’t want to face the ire of the moderators who have been very understanding when I have screwed up royally in the past. we could chat privately, but now where everyone can see…

Yeah hit me up on a private message 🧒 I will be glad to share my experiences with certain HDK performers

Hot Dessert Knights? It was one of the first bareback video studios, even before Treasure Island Videos. I haven’t looked at your profile but you must be about, what, 20? it was one of the first all bareback studios, if you can find clips of it on various sites you should consider yourself lucky. Again, no disrespect meant. I have personally met some of the performers who worked for HDK’s, some were nice, some were not.

Agree! If they talk about all these different fetishes, but they don't talk about fucking or sucking, I am out of there. You can usually get a sense of their interests within the first few minutes of chatting with them or messages you receive. I have passed on some encounters with some very handsome guys because it wasn't really about sucking or fucking but some obscure fetish. As of late I have noticed a number of men wanting guys to wear female lingerie. I know this is nothing new but it just seems to become more main stream in recent years. If you want me to wear women's clothes then go fuck a woman, that's my response. I am just a guy who likes guys. Sure, leather and harnesses, jockstraps, arm bands, that works for me. But there is no way in God's green earth am I going to put on panty hose cause it gets some guy hard. Sorry, move along, just move along.

Thanks for the update. I just found it odd that he was everywhere in the early 2000s, I actually got sick of seeing him. The new blonde hair didn't help. Also, listening to him stumble through some sales pitch for an upcoming video or some type of sex toy was nauseating. I was not aware he was an AIDS denier, but by the time I really started looking online and paying attention to those who work in porn he seemed to disappear. It's a shame he felt that way about medication. I know the porn industry is known for using guys up and then spitting them out, but he was in a number of flicks and usually got "top" billing, though I never really found anything about him to be exceptional. I hope he's alive..

I have said it before and I will say it again - stay away from Jeff Allan. He liked me, I was one of the fortunate ones. But if he doesn't, or something pisses him off, watch out. The man needs to be medicated. He can be a great fuck, as was the case with me. But for those who happen to be around while he is there, watch out. Cause he can be a real SOB. There are plenty of other guys who do porn who are not jerks in real life. Jeff is a jerk, trust me.

Does anyone know what happened to him? Was he deported? I remember when he was a "big" star like in the early 2000s and then just disappeared. I remember him with both brown hear and then he went blonde (mistake). I even heard him speak while he was promoting either one of his tapes/dvds or some kind of merchandise. Not sure if he is of Mexican decent or where he was from. but I sincerely doubt he's from the US. Is he in jail? Anyone know?

A guy wearing a diaper under his "shit and tie" work attire was among the most horrific. I laughed and he walked out my door. The other one that really gets me is the "sweaty sock" scenario. The guy is cute, at least in the photos, but he wants me to wear sweaty socks for like three days before he'll have sex. Forget that, I am too hygienic and I don't want "athlete's foot". Then he tells me he can't host, he wants to pick me up, take me to a motel and have me wearing the socks along with sneakers. This request started over the warmer months (which is mostly the entire year where I live in Florida) and I finally told him no. "But I have a huge cock" is what he last stated to me. I had to block him, it just was not worth it.

Isn' there a joke "What do you get when you cross a six-pack with a straight guy"? Punch line - both of your pans down around your ankles. I have heard other versions of that joke, substituting different ethnic groups with "straight guy" but I won't post them because I don't want to be banned.🤐

NONE. The guys that are on the pay apps generally are on the free apps as well. I know with Sniffies it is advantageous to use the upgraded pay version, but I really see no difference. If you pay for BBRT that will give you unlimited messages in a 24 hour period, but I believe you get 35 a day with the free version. I figure if I can't get laid after 35 messages I have a problem. I usually ask guys to email me (using my whore email, not the one that has my legal name in it) or, if it looks like there is going to be a connection, I ask them to text me. I then sign off. Grindr is getting more and more expensive and it was difficult for me to cancel it, I had to go through apple to get it off my phone. Again, those same guys were on BBRT or NKP so I'll keep my debit card or credit card information to myself.

Bottoms, at times, can get a bad "rap" on certain apps and with gay men in general. Without a bottom, there is no place for the top to put his dick or have his dick serviced. Tow bottoms, I have always thought, gave the top or tops some variety - and some bottoms are better at certain things than others. Two bottoms, who like each other, play well with each, can really entertain another top and have a great time together. Once that tops cums, and then leaves, it's shower time and on to round #2. I have heard this saying "the only guy who dislikes a bottom is another bottom". I don't agree. Another bottom can be just as fun, you can compare info on other guys who you may know or WANT to know, and I have been given some great advice on who I should hook up with and who to avoid. Another bottom can be an endless source of very useful information and can become a close friend.

I know Jeff Allen personally, have spent time with him at his place and he has been at mine. He is no "peach" trust me. He happened to like me, but he was nasty to almost everyone else at my place , and his place. Not a nice guy, unless he happens to take an interest in you..

I know this is silly, but I often wonder what happens to guys who we see, maybe once, in a fantastic video, and then we never see them again. Did they go to grad school, are they working somewhere in retail or a waiter, are they now on OF or escorts. I have so many questions.....are they in prison. I know the custodian of records is responsible for keeping that kind of information, at least they did in the late 90s and early 2000s at some of the major studios, I knew the C.O.R for Raging Stallion and he had the 4-1-1 on all the "performers". But I don't know if that is the case at T.I.M. or some of these more "risqué" video companies. I wonder how many of these guys make one movie, get paid little or nothing, and if their escort career doesn't work out, they take a bus back to their home towns. Even Greyhound isn't what it once was.....

Generally, I have found slings to be incredibly comfortable, and in most instances you can adjust the height so that the top has direct aim at your hole. I had a friend who gave me just the leather portion of the sling, I guess you would call that the seat. It was really comfortable. We didn't have the remaining pieces so we went to Hope Depot, got the remaining parts, and attached it to the ceiling in his hallway, which lead from the living room back to his bedroom. There were four of us, two of those guys who I had never met before. The one total top was very hot, never would have thought he was gay. He asked if I wanted to be the first to try it out and he would fuck me. I happily agreed. Now, he's big, he's really going to town on my ass. Then suddenly, the metal rods we used to attach the sling (or rather the seat) to the sealing suddenly came off. He had to catch me underneath, with his dick STILL in MY HOLE, and lower me gently on the hardwood floor, where he finished fucking me till he shot his load. Now, I am not sure if I was embarrassed, or afraid that I would break some bones in my back or crack my dumb ass head, but he continued on, and did a great job. When he finally shot his load, the other two guys were laughing their heads off, as I laid there on the hardwood floor, with my ankles now wrapped around his shoulders. That 'drop ceiling" did me in", and for the rest of the weekend, we had to maneuver around the sling, now on the floor, to get to the bathroom and bedroom. The guy was not pissed off, he was big enough and strong enough to hold me and still manage to keep his dick inside me. Funny follow up, the guy who "gave me" the sling had gone to Federal prison. That same weekend, his MOTHER called me and said ">>>>>>, do you have >>>>>'s sling? I was polite and respectful and said he owed me money and he would not be getting the sling back once he served his four years. It was very funny, talking to some kindly woman about her son's sling. I did not tell her it came out the drop ceiling with some guys's dick up my ass. I love slings and to this day, I fondly recall the day one became dislodged with a random dudes dick up my ass. Fun times!

I have been there, but it was years back. Very active, even during the day. Many people who just happen to be driving by stop in. I am originally from Philadelphia, so for me to be in that area is not surprising. What did surprise me is that management didn't seem to care, they looked the other way. As long as you spent money in there they didn't care. List I said, it was busy during a week day. Some guys who may be traveling for work drive by and others who may live within 30 to 60 minutes stop in. It was worth the drive for me. To answer the one poster - I didn't see a dirty mattress, but I got off almost immediately the few times I have gone in there. I think it is worth the trip....

You have a beautiful cock man, thanks for the post!

I have been using Descovy along with Prezcobix for a number of years and now my viral load is almost undetectable. One thing I wanted to mention is that I have had a bunch of outpatient procedures and in each case a nurse from the hospital contacted me to go over my list of medications prior to showing up at the hospital. Granted they seem to have everything I am taking or have taken in the past few years. But one question I was asked the last time was this - are you taking Descovy for Prep or for Infection. I answered for infection and the nurse just moved on down the list. So I think the medical field, even those that don’t deal with patients with HIV or AIDS on a routine basis, are aware that the drug can be used for both purposes. i found Descovy to be easily used, i had little or no side effects to that medication.

Ironically, I received another one this morning. Stating all of the same demands and what he would do to me. You mentioned the Dark Web, Well I received a letter from my former employer that my personnel file and background check had been compromised. I was given a credit protection service called MyIDCare. I believe I have free protection for the next five years. But here is the downside, when I called and spoke with them, they did a search and found my social security number and all my identifying information on the Dark Web. I had to freeze all three credit reporting agencies and if I want to apply for credit, or even move, I would have to unlock them. I get these "threats" maybe every six months and I have taken the advice of both posters on here and the people at MyIDCare not to worry, that is is basically a fishing expedition and they probably don't have access to my phone or computers, they just have my email address which does contain my legal name. I use a gmail address for fun sites like this, but my apple email contains my name. When it comes to my credit, I will have to monitor and keep my credit reports frozen for years, if not my entire life. That is the downside. I have a VPN though I am not sure how that will protect me. Like you, I have the two email addresses, but the threats have come to my primary email and that really upset me. All I can say is be vigilant, and use common sense. When it comes to "fun" online forums like this, I use my secondary email to open the account. Welcome to BZ btw, I noticed you are from Philadelphia, I was born and raised there, went to college there. I live in Florida now, but I do miss Philadelphia....

It is a source of concern for me. I happen to been on a nonsexual "forum" regarding sports, actually tennis to be exact. It has over a million members, you can only post about men's professional tennis and it's members are mostly male. I know alot of people think that those men who follow tennis are gay, or at least that used to be the feeling I got. I can tell you this, the majority of the members on this forum are straight and the words gay (and worse) are pretty common, and have picked up in the past five years or so. There are members from all over the world, and with Novak Djokovic being one of the most popular players in the world, guys from the Balkan nations and Eastern Europe are very active. They are also extremely homophobic and up until recent times, had no problems expressing their views. Now the mens tennis forum is similar to here, you post an avatar and the nation you are from. If you share anything else that is up to you, but there is no "profile" area as we have here, so no other links or personal information can be shared. You can share with other members in a private message but that is at your own peril. I made the mistake that I watched women's tennis in just ONE thread, just like we are posting now. You would not believe the backlash. I was called "Nancy", "Soyboy", "Pedofile", and worse. It got so bad I had to go to the moderators. It literally took me several years to get the slurs to stop, and there were many guys that said "gays" were responsible for so many of the world's problems today. When Monkeypox was in the news, they had a thread in the non-tennis area, and the majority of guys were happy, hoping it would "eliminate" the gays. I had one German poster who would ask questions like "how often do you get "gang banged" and "did I feel I was responsible for spreading disease". I did get the thread taken down and that particular poster was eventually given a permanent ban, I wasn't the only person he harassed. But one thing he would say in his defense was that using the word "gay" or "faggot" was common at his work place, and this guy claimed to be a psychiatrist so I found that hard to believe. But I heard the word used by guys from many nations, many feeling that the Pride flag was an embarrassment and that "woke" culture was taking over, and they didn't like it. One Canadian said he was embarrassed his country flew that flag in common areas and that he felt it had a negative impact on children. I don't understand why a flag would have that reaction but, he said he was questioned by his children. Well, kids ask alot of questions. But it is disturbing, right now all I have up is my "handle", and a picture of a beach. I won't even say I am from the US, as that opens up another "can of worms" so to speak. Yes, there is an "ignore" feature, but when there are twenty guys hurling insults at you in gets to be a bit much. I finally messaged several moderators and even contacted VerticalScope, who claim to have over 800 forum communities, one of which was the tennis forum I posted on. An individual from VerticalScope wrote me stating they were going through the posts on the tennis forum and were making a list of "offenders" who they were going to email and inform that the gay bashing needed to stop. So even if you are not hearing it in your workplace, or in your daily life, it is becoming a real problem online and I have a feeling it is only going to get worse. My advice, for those of you who have experienced this on a non-sexual forum, is to complain to the mods, and if you get no relief contact the owners of the Forum. Sometimes just speaking up will help.

Well here is just a bit regarding partying at the ESC. I may have posted about this before but I will say it again. If you do GHB - be careful. I had a friend who "fell out" on GHB and had one of the worst experiences of his life. The management called 911 and he was taken to an emergency room. He lived in Philadelphia so it's not like he could just take the subway home once released from the ER. The East Side Club kept most of his belongings. I don't know how they justified this with the EMT's, I was not there. What I was there for is to apologize to the staff and to retrieve my friend's belongings. Granted he somehow had clothes with him, but he did not have his wallet, which of course meant no money to get home, or his keys. He is now on a permanently banned list for the rest of his life. I didn't mind the employees telling me what a hassle it was for them to get him medical attention, how it disrupted everything at that club and upset other patrons who thought their rooms or lockers might be searched. They work there and it was an added headache. It seemed the EMT's were only interested in getting him medical attention, it was not really something that law enforcement was concerned about. But the East Side Club has a zero tolerance for that kind of behavior and if you want to risk smoking or other means of doing enhancements make sure your understand the consequences. My friend was fortunate, that club could have thrown away everything of his but they probably thought there needed to be a policy about personal possessions and thought twice before they tossed his keys in the trash. My friend was lucky in the end, they gave me back his belongings but he can never return there again. It is just not worth the risk....

I don't know if my testosterone was destroyed by HIV, but my 12 T cells and a viral load over a million got my doctor to write me multiple cycles of testosterone. He felt being 175 lbs, being tall, and having those kind of numbers warranted him writing me the scripts. I can tell you this, testosterone supplements have pros and cons. I never got angry or violent, but I did have some sleep issues, always felt warm and would be somewhat "manic", is that the word? Example: I would get online and buy things I really didn't need nor could afford. I have a 12 week cycle sitting in front of me right now. I decided to put it off till after the end of the holiday season, all these Christmas sales would become very tempting after a few injections. People have tried to shame me about my use of testosterone and other similar items. My defense has always been that they were written by a doctor and filled by a reputable pharmacy. This was not some doctor who just wanted to make money off of me, he was my Infectious Disease Specialist and because of him I am alive today.

BEAUTIFUL ASS!

You are right regarding the IRS, and I hope more posters will understand that. I had worked for the Internal Revenue Service after I got out of college. One of the first things they taught us once employed was that, in almost any situation, they NEVER call individuals who owe taxes. They will continually send letters, then certified letters, and then they start garnishment procedures. Once that begins, taxpayers can open a telephone dialogue with an agent who is about to take their possessions from them (i.e. their cars, homes, big ticket items). But for someone who may not have filed, or know they owe back taxes, you won't get some random call from a polite individual who claims they work for the IRS, who offers to help you satisfy your back tax situation. It just doesn't work that way. I am glad you mentioned this because I do know of individuals who have been approached in this manner and these people are basically criminals.

I have seen him on BBRT, his location was listed as a suburb of Chicago. The green light was on, meaning he was at least signed into his account. I am sure he gets tons of messages a day. He is in no way trying to hide his identity if you look at his profile, the name "Dawson" is included in his screen name and I believe one of the photos looks like it came off the back of one of his TIM DVD's or old VHS tapes. I believe I know of two people (I think one on this site) that have met him , one actually lived in the same apartment building as he did. I've heard nothing but nice things about him (no attitude for one), and I believe I know at least his first name, I won't repeat it on here just out of concern for his privacy. The people who have met him didn't elaborate on what he is doing now with his life, I know porn is not part of the equation.