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I posted about my struggles with HPV in the past, and it really upended my sex life. I had at least five outpatient procedures in the past four years with an Anal and Rectal Cancer Specialist. It made me wonder if I would ever "be the same". One specialist, a straight man in a monogamous relationship with his wife, told me that despite the fact he was considered low risk he took the three step injection process of Gardisal 9. Getting someone to write you that script, and having someone administered that injection, is not an easy thing to juggle, at least here in Florida. However, my infectious disease specialist wrote the script, and the nurse administered the first two injections, the third time it was actually done at the pharmacy. Granted I don't use a chain pharmacy, they quickly shot me down. But the place where I get my HIV meds decided to give me the last shot, I am fortunate enough to have Well Care, pay for the three shots in their entirety. My EOB's show that each shot is about $250, if you have difficulties with your insurance company I would challenge them. It is a vaccine and most plans should cover this. I guess what I am trying to say is continue to fight. As sexually active as I am, and my doctor at that time knew it, he never talked to me much about HPV. My life came to a screeching halt, HPV is no joke. Right now my symptoms have subsided, no itching or pain. My doctor said I could have had it for years, which means I could have exposed a lot of guys to it unknowingly. Talk to your doctors and get vaccinated. Don't let them give you any crap about your age, if you are over 45 Walgreens or CVS will say no, but if your doctor will write the script more than likely he will administer it.
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I had a lot of sex on the beach when I first moved to Florida, primarily Lido Beach, Fl. There was very little police presence at the time. Lido Beach was not that far from a gay bar in Sarasota. Often guys would go out there and fuck when they had no where else to go. I knew local officials got wind of the situation when they removed all of the lifeguard stands at the end of the beach. If you were climbing up with a trick someone would yell “occupied” and you had to find another location. Despite the lifeguard stands coming down, sex continued on Lido Beach. Though you wouldn’t call them dunes, there were areas that were more private. I often stumbled upon guys naked, just laying in the sun. Some gay beach goers would put up the pride flag when the put out their umbrella and chaise lounge. During the day much of the sex took place in the wooded area behind the beach. So many guys placed themselves strategically in that area to see who was walking back there and then the game of cat and mouse began. At the risk of running across a snake, many guys went back there to suck dick. Again, little law enforcement around or maybe I just never encountered any. I never saw guys arrested or lined up and photographed for a potential court date . So what ruined it? The development of million dollar homes built just beyond the area, and people with expensive telescopes who had nothing better to do than watch what was going on in and behind N. Lido Beach. Many of these people felt that area belonged to them, when in fact it did not. Things are less active sexually these days, but there is still a strong gay presence on N. Lido Beach.
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Wow, such different experiences regarding All Worlds. I found that place to be fantastic, I only went outside the gates one time after checking in. For me, it was not during CumUnion, but actually the month of March. Perfect weather, a very sexualized atmosphere, especially during the evening. I may have posted about this before, but my luggage was lost by my airline. The manager at that time offered to have one of his employees drive me to get some basics from a Walgreens or CVS. But I really had only the clothes on my back so to speak. It turned out, I didn't need anything to wear. A towel was all I needed to get to my chaise lounge by the pool. It was management that told me they had spoken to the airline and my luggage had gone to South America . I didn't get it back until the day I was scheduled to leave, and it didn't prevent me from having a great time. Many guys, who were locals or staying at other resorts, had guest passes for the day, so the variety of guys coming into that Resort changed almost daily. There were Europeans that were there for a week, I remember hooking up with a number of them. Granted, I am not going to be having sex, outside in front of everyone at 1 pm, but the evenings were very wild and I left a very satisfied customer. Nice room, great staff and an abundance of men. One of my more memorable "Sexcations". I am sorry to hear my fellow BZ members did not have the type of experience I did.....
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Is fucking with a married guy (married to a woman) that bad?
ellentonboy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
I don’t feel I am being selfish, it is the cheater that is. He has a wife that can do all the things I can do, plus give him children. But like I mentioned earlier, if I were to say no, another guy would jump at the chance to be with him. He was the one that disclosed he was married, I don’t ask personal questions like that. He has been coming over for at least four years, he now has a child, and I let him contact me, I don’t text him or do anything to jeopardize his marriage. Again, I don’t think I am being selfish, he’s the one that has to deal with that when he looks at his wife after being at my place. I put that out of my mind, it is his decision to play, I don’t force the issue. I am not putting a gun to his head, you know? -
HIV meds and erectile dysfunction
ellentonboy replied to smallcocksissyboi's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
The third item I added was CVS’s acetaminophenPM 500 mg. I get a $25 dollar a month benefit from my secondary insurance, so it doesn’t cost me anything. I know it is not great on my liver, but my gosh, I go to sleep almost immediately. There is a problem with being almost unconscious, so I have decided just to stick with the Xanax and lorezapam. I tried last night with just the two and it worked fine. There have just been some nights I felt I needed something “extra” but I realize I should not be doing it every night. A great nights sleep is a wonderful thing, but with all the medication running through my system I thought removing one from that 24 hour cycle might be a good thing… -
HIV meds and erectile dysfunction
ellentonboy replied to smallcocksissyboi's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I am well aware. I used both those drugs and my viral load has gone up. The pharmacy called me, to advise me, prior to filling the tamsulosin, that my viral load would go up since I used Prezcobix. I did not care, nor did my doctor. i have had a viral load of over 2 million and lived to tell the tale. I don’t give a damn I am too evil to die. With that being said, we found out the cause of my urinary incontinence. I take 3 mg of Xanax and two mg of lorazepam every day. I had added a third medication, an over the counter sleep aid that basically knocked me out within a few minutes. That caused my urinary issues. Once I stopped taking the third part of my “cocktail” I never once had an incontinence issue. From now on, I will be patient and wait for the other two drugs to knock me out. Thanks for your input. -
Is fucking with a married guy (married to a woman) that bad?
ellentonboy replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
I can't believe, with all the topics discussed on this Forum, that this subject has gotten so much attention and become so ugly and contentious. Some people need to get a life and stop being so judgmental. Married men have been having sex with gay men for years, in case you didn't know. My feeling are this, if they ask you, and you decline, then that is your business. But don't think there isn't another guy around the corner that will say yes.... Some people need to get off their "high horse". -
Don't let a certain south Florida bottom know, he might be jealous.......kidding.
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Years ago - but then DOT decided to expand I-275 in Tampa, and those trucks parked along there were suddenly gone (or maybe the expansion was whey they were there...hmmm?). I can't remember how I met the guy, but the cab of the truck was really nice, like a little studio apartment. We were high up off the ground, he said there were no worries about police bothering us, that he was parked there legally. It certainly beats having sex in my government issued car, or my Kia. It's tough when you're 6'3", you know.....
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
ellentonboy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Perhaps you should hire a U-Haul and move to a new town where No One knows you. Think of the possibilities, you could put a turnstile outside your hotel room door or have a TRUSTED FRIEND charge admission. -
My concern is daily usage would cause your body to become somewhat resistant. Besides I live in Florida and medications like this one have caused me to burn quickly.
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Being a side piece has its advantages. You can do what you want once you leave his house or bedroom. You get all the sexual advantages without having to deal with the consequences of cheating on a partner. i have been the “side piece” in the past, if you look at my BBRT profile, the dicks up my ass were provided by the guy who referred to me as his “side piece”. What do I say to him? THANK YOU FOR BEING SO PROTO FRIENDLY!
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New Leather/Bear/Levi bar
ellentonboy replied to tighthole64's topic in Tampa / St. Petersburg / Sarasota
Thanks for the information, I am in St Pete but I used to go to 2606 all the time. So sorry that place is gone, but I am willing to give Mr.D’Z a shot. ( Do you think the name of this place actually means Mr. Disease. 🦠?). Sounds kind of funny to me. -
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ellentonboy replied to silverlining's topic in The UK & Ireland
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I've laughed, at myself, for enjoying the sex just a bit too much. He knew it, and I knew it, and I am glad it was one on one. I went back a second and third time, but that first time I was almost embarrassed at the fact that I was REALLY enjoying myself. Isn't there a saying - "If you can't laugh at yourself, you can't laugh at anything"? Maybe I got that wrong, but to this day when I think about it - I still giggle.
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Grindr banned in the Olympic Village in Paris (2024)
ellentonboy replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
Nope, you are incorrect here. The US Olympic made a decision that no athletes could indulge in alcohol consumption. With Grindr, athletes can still use the app, they just can’t use the geo locator. Big difference. In one case you are being told 100 percentage you can not indulge (as in the alcohol ban). With Grindr, you can still hook up, you just can’t find where exactly your potential sex partner is located. Grindr is NOT saying you can’t have sex, but the US Olympic committee is saying you can’t drink alcohol. Sorry but that is an entirely different scenario. -
I sure wish Trump would sub Lindsey Graham . He's had more porn stars and male prostitutes coming in and out of his house, and there are reporters and journalists who have documented this. The problem, the one porn star who initially said he would make a "statement" has suddenly gone into hiding. He worked for Dark Alley videos and had a gmail account, I asked him repeatedly when he and his attorney were going to "the press". He suddenly went dark on the internet and though his gmail account remains active, he won't respond to me. But "Lady Graham" has some skeletons in his closet, I know Jan Pataki (sp?) (former WH Press Secretary) has referred to him under that name, I think he has too much baggage for Trump to pick him. If Trump did, it might open the flood gates.....
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Grindr banned in the Olympic Village in Paris (2024)
ellentonboy replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
From what I read, and of course that could me FALSE NEWS, but Grindr is not banned in the Olympic Village. What is banned in the geo locator to give athletes privacy. Many of these athletes come from nations where homosexuality is frowned on, or even outlawed. So no one wants to have their identify revealed by a geo locator. The way I look at it, hats off to Grindr (for once) making a decision that will actually benefit it's subscribers. I have been the recipient of individuals knocking on my door at 2 am when I forgot to turn the damn thing off, I can't imagine competing for an Olympic medal and having some random guy knock on my door looking for head. I think they did the right thing, at least in imho. -
Grindr banned in the Olympic Village in Paris (2024)
ellentonboy replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
I just think geo locators, on any site, are problematic. I have posted on this subject previously that people have identified where I lived and knocked on my door, or worse yet, my neighbor's door. I don't use geo locators for that reason. When it comes to the Olympics, I can see just how this could be an issue. What if an athlete is not out to his team mates, or does not want it to be known that he is looking for sex. I know they are giving out condoms and that sex is not banned in the Olympic village, yet athletes who are adults are not allowed to consume alcohol. I can't imagine a country or an individual, who just won a medal, would not want to have a celebratory beer, glass of win or champagne. I have read that Team USA is being held to a "dry" criteria through the length of the Olympics. So a 30 year old guy can't have a beer after he won a medal? That strikes me as a bit controlling. But when it comes to the geo locator for Grindr at the Olympics, I agree that it does protect athletes. They are not banning the app, just that one part of it. I think that is the right move. -
X (Twitter) video links here
ellentonboy replied to DenverBtmDude's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Same for me as well. But now that I got his screen name I can (Stalk) follow him on X. But yes, I got an ad site. -
Gotta love these AI photos you keep producing for your profile. I make sure I look at least once a week. To be honest, I was disappointed to find out that the various guys you had depicted at the top of the page were not you, but I sure enjoy the view😀
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Define picky. I would say there has to be something about the guy I find attractive beside his dick,,,,
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Who's that hot guy in the (vid, ad, etc) discussion
ellentonboy replied to viking8x6's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I wonder if the bottom even knew what his own name was at this particular moment. If it's from an OF account it should credit him. -
I used both Bradenton, Fl and Sarasota, FL newspapers to assist my dying father in 2018 to sell what may be called “collectibles” . We posted both photos and detailed descriptions, everything from a stain glassed parrot a roommate from Key West gave my Dad when he drove down to see me in the 90s to a giant, I mean huge Japanese sword my father managed to steal from the site of a train wreck where military members had died in 1945 (to this day I don’t know how he got away with it). My father, using “walkers” would allow total strangers into his house as he placed his home phone number in the adds. I actually walked in on several of these transactions and he had a bunch of “crap” to sell. At the age of 91, he wasn’t budging and many would say “thank you for your service” but it did them no good, he wasn’t going to budge on the prices he had posted. PRICE IS NON-NEGOTIABLE and he meant it. I took great pride in him when his 1960s bedroom set (the kind that was solid wood) did not get the price he wanted, so he up and donated it to Habitat for Humanity and they were thrilled to pick it up and take it away. He had a GM SUV that had maybe 50K miles on it, and when no one would pay what he was asking, he donated it to a Methodist Church that was close-by. My father was a lot of things (sticky fingers if you know what I mean) but he never would allow anyone to take advantage of him, even in his advanced age and illness. He would rather give it to a worthy cause than let someone try to barter and try to wear him down just to get some cash. I now have things I am considering selling off, and from what I have read in this thread I think I will adopt my Dad’s attitude, if I don’t get the price I want, I will donate it. To this day, I can’t believe people would try to take advantage of an elderly, dying man, but they did. In the end, he had the last laugh.
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