ellentonboy

I have to say I agree with this completely. I don't go on Barebackrt.com to find my future husband. I used to laugh at things people posted on Adam4adam.com or dare I say Manhunt, where people were actually looking for boyfriends or partners. It is ridiculous, apps and hook up sites should, even discreetly, mention this is for guys who are looking for sex, not someone to make a life long commitment with. When I first used a site online, it was Men4Sexnow.com. I don't know if people still use it but that site was about sex, and at the time, it was very popular in my geographic area. I would hit refresh, refresh and actually be so arrogant if there was not a new message for me. Boy have times changed. But still today, I will go on various sites and people will be looking for romance, "in all the wrong places" so to speak. I did have a couple who wanted to "meet for drinks" off of Barebackrt.com. I was like WTF - drinks? No I can buy my own alcohol, I am looking for sex. I know some people want to make sure before they commit to hooking up that it's a "match" but I am not going to some bar to meet a couple, almost as if it is an audition for sex. Move it along guys, as some guys point out clearly, "we are all here for the same reason". However there are still people out there that just don't get it!

Welcome! Someone who was born in the year 2000! Wow, if I could only remember who and what I did in the year 2000, I remember the guys and the cities where I met them at. but not their names. It was before smart phones, so I was working with my personal telephone book, and there were not all the hook up apps that we have today. Technology is both a gift and a curse.

I don't know where they find them, it's like they are grown in some secret laboratory where all the tops have huge dicks and 3 percent body fat. Congress should open an investigation because the men in Eric Videos are from another planet. I would love to be on the receiving end of a Nicolas Bardem fuck, but then again, there are not many tops from their list of men I would say no to.

The fuckjoints have basically disappeared. The "Flamingo Resort", which was about a mile from where I first moved here, abruptly closed and was replaced by overpriced tiny apartments. You could cruise there, people came from all parts of the US during the winter months and during Pride. I suppose they were offered a dollar amount they could not say no to. That entire area, which had some run down motels where guys stayed who could not afford the Flamingo, have been filled with people who either can't afford the costs of renting an apartment or seem to be one step away from homelessness. Those motels are also being purchased, and have new apartment complexes being built in their place. The most popular bathhouse in Tampa, which was there for about 15 to 20 years, did not survive Covid as well and is closed. The one bar that came even close to having the type of activities that Ramrod is known for, called 2606 in Tampa, also remodeled and closed off it's play area. I don't believe it's open any longer. I can't honestly think of any bar in Saint Pete or Tampa where some kind of minor sexual activity could occur. There is one adult book store that had a back room, interesting it was right across the street from the "Flamingo Resort" closed it's back area during Covid, anytime I drive by the parking lot it is empty now, ABS still exist in Tampa, but that really doesn't interest me. There is one remaining bath house, but again, I have seen postings that there are few patrons. There is a cruise type of park near where I live, and many guys on Sniffies often post they are "hosting in their car" there. However, I know of individuals who have been "ticketed" by undercover police for having sex in vehicles. Since I don't wish to end up on the Florida Sexual Offenders list, I have declined invitations to play there. I admit I get messages on NKP, and BBRT, but I have decided to stick with the guys I have played with previously, as all the parties know what to "expect" so to speak. The "thrill of the chase" has been overshadowed by my desire to stay out of jail. So as far as public sex and the few remaining cruising areas, I've decided are just not worth the risk. Tampa/St Pete is NOTHING like Lauderdale/Miami - boy do I miss my old job and having the opportunity to "patronize" some of those establishments.

A4A having members ask to "have drinks", or to "meet up", or looking for LTR???? Not here in Tampa/St Pete, there are alot of scammers/criminal element on A4A in my area. If you are over 40 you get alot of "can you be generous" or simply they put a "$" in the text of their message. I've reported these profiles to management for solicitation and they have been taken down. It's funny, why would you be on one of these sites and want to meet a week from next Friday, it's nuts. I think A4A has an area that highlights "Looking for sex now", and generally you get a more prompt response. But of all the apps in my area, A4A has some of the more questionable individuals, who seem to be either totally fake profiles (i.e. "I am looking for a soulmate") to others where they ask you to pay for an Uber or some other kind of "reimbursement", as if the site was a part time job for them. I generally tell them to take the bus........that usually gets them to shut up.

Yeah that video was made by Machofucker - that top has a huge dick, Not surprised coming from that studio

Exactly, since when does Andy Star standby on the sidelines. He is generally front and center, and on his back, or on all fours! LMAO

I would say as late as the early 2000s, if it was known that you had sex with POC, especially in a public forum like a bathhouse or dare I admit, on web cam, you were ostracized. I had people, as late as 2007 in San Francisco, warn me NOT to get on a popular web cam program (ICU at the time) and have sex with a black man. The first thing I did, I went to see a buddy, who happened to be black, and he had THREE ICU programs running at different angles in his apartment and there was no chance you could miss me. It paid off in dividends, guys who knew me as being someone from that web cam site, actually contacted me on different hook up sites and at least two came to my hotel room to fuck. No one seemed to care that I had sex with this black guy, but he told me at that time, he could not get a date in San Fran. Now he was nice looking, a very nice person. I can't understand what the reason was. He told me that is was just considered "inappropriate" for white guys to have sex with POC. I am originally from Philadelphia, the "City of Brotherly Love". I have no problems with it, but I have been turned down, even today, by guys online who claim to know that I was "Into black dudes". They actually had a term for it, so excuse me to all the POC, but they called me a "dinge queen", whatever that means.

Any kind of fake dialogue or plot, I get PTSD from 80s porn I watched in high school. As of today, I really have a problem with guys who wear socks, and the bottom of them are dirty. I"m like "where were you walking before you started filming"? I literally have screamed that at the television or computer. I don't get it, are you really that cold that you need a pair of socks on?

I think about the subject of condoms, and my lack of use, often. In the late 80s I was in a relationship, and the thought of using condoms never crossed our minds. My partner, who was a bilingual teacher, would go and pick up Latin street boys for me as a surprise. Interesting, he would never let them fuck me, he only fucked them and I could do anything I wanted with them orally. He also didn't want me learning Spanish for fear I would strike up a conversation with them. I think that relationship spared me, at least for about a decade from getting infected. I left him after five years, and moved to a rural area of Florida, where I would have to drive over and hour to not only work but also to go to clubs and hook up. Maybe I just wasn't into anal sex that much, I don't know. Move into the 90s, and suddenly I am working almost full time in the Fort Lauderdale/Miami/Key West area, though I was actually stationed (as a civilian) in Sarasota. I spent weeks in hotels in those areas, and went to clubs to socialize. But those bath houses "called my name" and so did the use of "enhancements", and I just remember testing negative in March of one year and in July of that same year I had HIV, plus few t-cells and an astronomical viral load. One that would continue to climb hire as I became resistant to medication, or rather, resistant to taking it. But getting back to condoms, I remember they used to place a condom on the towel (which didn't fit on any of the guys I played with) and I would see them scattered on the floors and in the hallways. No one used them, and I didn't either. I think it was all about timing, being in a relationship and just not having alot of anal sex that kept me healthy for that time period. Condoms are really a hot button issue, I've said this before and got a lot of flack from guys both on this site and in person, but I won't pass on using a condom with an incredibly hot guy and miss out on some fantastic sex. I have been in look term FWB relationships where the guy is married and has children, or insists on using them because I am honest about my status. I'll continue to use them, because I don't want to lose future opportunities if the guy is insistent and I really am attracted to him.

Brazil, Rio perhaps? I would love to know the details. Rio is tough on taking guys to your hotel room, so I had to use "alternative sites". Just curious as to when you went and how easy was the access to these guys?

I saw a report on that particular event, hey it's Florida, so it's not out of the realm of possibilities. I'm poz, so my question is, do they take Care Credit?

If you actually contemplate that what you are about to do with a total stranger will have any negative effect on someone you have never met, you have reached that threshold......an ethical slut. Bravo! But, frankly, how many of us do that?

I've done 18 in eight hours. I suppose that number ranks me somewhere at the "bottom" of the list but it was fun. Ah, if only I could go back to that day. Mid-afternoon, guys on their lunch breaks, guys just getting "off" from work at 5pm, plus the ever attentive staff at that bathhouse in Fort Lauderdale. One guy was actually sweeping the floor when he happened to see a rather "relaxed" Ellentonboy with his door open.......those were the days. He took his break early, just to spend some time with me. Funny the brush used to sweep the floors was propped up against the door after he shot his load.....almost a sign of true dedication from an employee, he never abandoned his equipment or duties.

I was always under the impression that most men who appeared in gay porn used their appearances to promote their escort work. I don't know if that was necessarily the case back in the days when studios dominated the porn industry. Now today, thanks to so much piracy, porn performers are almost "independent contractors" and seem to take work where they can get it. Though the amount of escort ads has been squashed to almost nothing, from what I am told guys use forms like Only Frans to promote themselves and their escorting business. I am NOT saying every guy who does porn is also an "escort". Not by a long shot, but many who appear on a routine basis in say Raw Fuck Club or several other well known studios do, in fact, escort. It is not difficult to track these guys down via X or Instagram. You need to read between the lines, but there are ways to reach them if you desire.

Yes, Flamingo has worked for me in the past. If you go off the Vegas strip, they are less likely to ask for a keycard. Now if you are looking for a hotel on the strip that is filled with gays, stay at the Luxor. I don't know if they still host it, but I stayed there twice and on Sunday afternoons they sectioned off an area of the pool specifically for gay men. I don't know who was sponsoring it, but there were a lot of phones in people's hands. They charged $10 at the time, if you wanted to you could grab a lounge chair if one was still available. THE PLACE WAS PACKED. The Luxor is very gay friendly, on the top floor I remember there being alot of fast food places that charged outrageous prices but all the seats were filled with gay men. Great for cruising, if someone is already staying there you didn't have very far to walk to a room. I loved that place for it's convenience and the fact they just didn't give a damn what you did.....within reason.

I think what is lost with many guys is that you are meeting TOTAL STRANGERS on most of these apps. Rarely is it someone you previously interacted with. I do give people a chance, if someone shows interests and then can't together for whatever reason, I accept that. What I look for is, did they give me ample notice? Or did they simply tell me, an hour after they were supposed to show up, that they couldn't make. I've given some guys "the benefit of the doubt" so to speak, and they've proven to be decent guys and when I did finally meet them. But I do keep in my mind if I have messaged with a guy in the past, and how they responded. Some people have legitimate excuses, it's the guys who don't show and don't message why that irritate the hell out of me. It takes like 30 seconds to get on your phone or online, and tell someone you are not coming. It's just the decent thing to do......

I wouldn’t put your house up on the market anytime soon. The advantage of living in my area is that it is right at the entrance to the beach area, so I get a lot of guys who are here for a week or so from the Midwest and the Northeast. It really is about location and the fact I can host. These guys are looking for someone close, usually is available during the day as well as early evenings, and can offer privacy. If i lived 15 miles north, or east, I might not be so fortunate. People like myself who live close to resort or beach areas generally have better luck because there are always horny “snow birds” or dare I admit “spring breakers” who are just unfamiliar with the area and don’t want to travel too far. I offer a place that is easy to find so I get a lot of guys off of Sniffies and other telephone apps. It’s that saying “location, location, location”.😀

This situation is more common than you might have thought. Guys often advertise themselves as tops as a chance to get more attention online, at least that has been my experience. I don’t know why they feel the need to be dishonest, there are plenty of tops to go around, in my opinion. The other reason that seems to produce this sort of “change in position” preference is partying. That has been talked about a lot on this Forum, and I am convinced it has played a major part in why some tops suddenly decide they are bottoms…….

I've been at group events where a guy will be on his stomach, getting fucked, while he's scrolling through his phone with no interest in the top fucking him. That's horrible. Unfortunately that is the world we live in. Dick on demand. If you live in a metro area, people have limited time or may have privacy issues, so if you are available and can host, you can grab them. But if you don't answer a message within 5 minutes or so, they are on to the next guy. I know I have met guys who had shown interest in me, say six months ago, I remember their screen names and pics. But for whatever reason we didn't connect because I wasn't quick enough to respond the first time around. I usually don't call them out on their impatience when I do meet them, generally it's been a good experience and I was happy to grab them for that hour. I don't take offense. Also many of these sites, you think you are logged off, but to other users you still show as being online and active. In fact you are not. This aggravates people. I know adam4adam has a LOOKING FOR NOW area, and those guys generally respond at a much faster rate. It' technology that doesn't always work, and when you go back and on certain sites you can see when you sent the message, and when they actually read it. I am of the opinion, and I think this is fair, that if you are actively looking to hook up, then keep your phone or laptop close by, and respond accordingly. But I know of many guys who sign on in the morning, and they don't check their devices for 6 or 8 hours, or even more. To me, that is wrong. I don't sign on to any hook up app unless I am actively looking and able to interact with guys. To me that is the right thing to do............

He has an interesting personal background, and outside interests. He had the one brief marriage, and then he was involved with another woman for about a year. It's odd, but I guess not that uncommon. He does have quite a bit of interest in rap music and even tries to blend it into his show, which I imagine must gets some "eye rolls" at MSNBC. But he is an interesting journalist, and with all this coverage on Trump this week he'e a bit of fresh air, as you don't know who he is going to have on a as a "special guest". Some of them have a very DISTANT if any relation to law, but I watch just to see him smile. I look at some of these journalists and reporters, that Jeremy Diamond is gorgeous, even though I have read he doesn't like all the speculation regarding his sexuality. I do watch a lot of news, most slanted to the left, but I guess you figured as much.

I've been told I am tight but everyone, no matter their size, manages to get in - especially if I lay on my back. The situation sometimes changes as guys say I feel tight inside, they find it either a turn on and many times it makes them cum, while others complain "come on - open up". Well, your dick is already all the way in, so what is the problem. In almost all situations I relax, they are "free to move about the cabin" and they can get off. I've never said to stop or take it out, or it hurts, A talented top knows that if they give the guy 15 seconds he'll relax, lay back and enjoy the ride.

Lawyers in suits who host daytime political shows. They lean to the left generally, but I always want to know WHAT'S UNDER THAT SUIT. Favorite past memory - having a Royal Canadian Mountie (is that right) mount me in my hotel room in Vancouver. He never had to take the uniform off, his dick big enough to reach out and touch.......so to speak.

Okay here's my updated fantasy list: I 'd like IGOR LUCIOS to fuck the hell out of me from Raw Fuck Club as he has fucked just about everyone and also MR BANANA one of the few tops to fuck Igor. On the bottom side I will take Mr Deep Voice (Thomas) who is vers in most movies but I know confidently that he likes to bottom Check out the three I mentioned, all worth a look.

Yes I heard the audio portion, he really is a beautiful guy, I just wonder if he regrets because so many have seen that video and he really is handsome. I just would love to know what happened after the slam. Obviously - no t dick for him! He was hard.....