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Well his history has been to go to two of those events a year and every time he gets an STD. It's like clockwork, he drives, he participates and in a week (or sooner) he realizes he has caught something. I can have eight different partners a month, approximately 100 different guys a year, and I don't end up with anything. Granted these guys were spread out over a twelve month period, were not in the same location, or even city and state. But I highly doubt my friend traded bodily fluids with as many men as I did over the calendar year. So what gives? Is it because all these guys attending the "cumdump events" are more likely to carry STDs, and I meet my sex partners under more conventional circumstances (i.e. online, telephone apps, the gym)? Or are guys who attend such parties just more inclined to be likely to have additional partners outside events making their number of sexual partners higher than mine? I could be on the low end of the spectrum when I say my number is approximately 100. It could be 120 with one or two smaller group events added in over the year. But I know for a fact my Canadian buddy, who has so few opportunities for group action, or action in general, has gotten sick at almost every one of these organized events he has attended. He can't leave Ottawa due to work reasons, he's auditioned for porn and actually appeared in one video, so he's got certain attributes guys would find attractive. But I SKYPE with him often and it's sad to hear him planning these upcoming events, knowing that upon his return he's going to be disappointed over the fact that he is back at his doctor's office, sick again. So to answer your question, yes I am surprised he gets an STD infection each time, because the math just doesn't add up. Or else he's the unluckiest guy I have ever met.....

I spent the majority of my federal career working in government buildings and can tell you they are usually run down, dirty, either too hot or too cold, and often make you feel like you are in a time warp. They are dank, dark, no chance anyone spent money decorating these places. The furniture and outdated filing equipment look like something that has been hanging around since the 1960s. I remember being given a new chair for my desk, you would have thought I had won the lottery when it was rolled up to me by my supervisor at the time. Oh goodie! Look, it's not broken. Because I never knew of another work environment, when I finally left the north and was put in a government leased office in Florida, imagine my surprise. They had windows - that you could see out of! Central air and not broken window units. Yippie!

Having been born and raised in Philly, I compare it to everywhere I go, and there is something to be said for "familiarity". I too have had the same experience with the no-nonsense attitude on Nastykinkpigs, but I have never used it in Philly, only here in Florida. You really hit the nail on the head regarding the "can you be generous" comments on A4A, it's everywhere here in Florida. I thought it was due to the economic situation in my area, with rents being outrageous and wages not keeping up with rising living costs. Here where I live in Florida if you are over 40, someone who is 28 or even 30, seems to have no problem asking if I "can be generous". I'll admit I have been a dick about that, reported them to management, and found that amazingly their profiles were taken down. However, they are just like cockroaches, they just seem to use a different email address, or hide behind a VPN, and create a new account. While in Philly, since I seem to be the "new guy of the week" I haven't been asked for cash, at least not yet. I am wondering if that will change the next time I visit. I'll look more into Nastykinkpigs when I do travel north this year. To answer your question in your post, I have not heard of the mobile app Taimi, but I suppose it's worth looking into. What frustrates (no amazes me) is that the same guys seem to be on the majority of the mobile apps (at least where I live). I suppose they can't be bothered to turn on a laptop, as if that is beneath them. I enjoyed your post - thanks!

I have been dealing, since 2021, with the situation described above and am having another outpatient procedure the second week of January. I take tamsulosin in the evenings, I've been doing that since July of 2023. The PSA test showed I was at 1.4 - so with the normal range being between 1 and 4 my doctor said I was fine, no fear (at least at this point) of having prostate cancer. I am having labs drawn again later this week in prep for my procedure. I use Quest for my labs, and the results go to my phone app usually in 48 hours. I agree with @Close2MyBro that it's best to be healed properly before dealing with any possible aggravation in that area. If you have a partner or FWB or knows you well, you can still bottom, but this certainly isn't the time to be looking for some XXL top to fuck your brains out. My doctor has assured me that, if I take some time off and then go back slowly, I can eventually be 100 percent. I am following his words and not biting off more than I can chew, so to speak.

Getting back to the OP's question about a triple penetration - I can only imagine the bottom having to wear diapers the rest of his life, or just the sheer pair. I really don't think I want to see that. The idea of two dicks and maybe a small dildo I suppose could work, but aren't two big dicks up your ass at one time enough? Cone on guys.......too much for me. I must be mellowing with age....

I am glad to know that someone else did see that clip, I thought it was a bad dream. I don't ever recall seeing or hearing some of things that guy wanted someone to do to him. You know it has to be bad when there is an an announcement prior to the video beginning "This movie might not be for everyone", or something to that effect. They was NOT kidding, for sure. It seemed to be on track to be one step away from a "snuff" flick, and I don't even want to think about something like that. That is not porn, but something entirely different that I don't care to see again.

I never thought of going to one of those events because I was already poz and I didn't feel like they would be any different from any other organized sex event. Most group events are bareback so why go to one of these, unless you may live in a rural area and really are not aware as to what is going on in your area. I have a Canadian friend who drove to two of these events, driving from Ottawa to Toronto, and each time he came back with an STD. I really felt bad for him. He's found it difficult to find the type of sex he desires, and when he travels to find it he ends up getting sick. I know I take it for granted that I live in an area where sex is widely available, I really don''t know how gay men today, who are sexually active, deal with that kind of isolation.

When I first start the use of "enhancements" I actually wrote out a bucket list of things I wanted to do sexually. DP was in the top 5. We had one very large dicked guy sitting with his back against the headboard, I sat on his dick facing him, and someone with a nice 7 inch came in from behind me to complete the DP. Happy to report I sustained no injury, the top guy was like 10 X 6 so he fulfilled his role, despite being someone of a prick. The average dicked guy was much more versatile and fun, to this day I still play with him and we look fondly back on that DP experience. I think it's all about the positioning of the guys., and not making them feel like they are some part of a circus act.....

I'll say this, I am not a huge fan of the management of BBRT or Adam4adam which have been my mainstream source here in this part of Florida for awhile. Now IF I were traveling, going to be out of town and having a bunch of free time (say in Philadelphia) those two sites worked well for me. I would change my profile completely in the sense that I tried to appeal to those who needed to be discreet, either due to the fact they were in relationships, or my favorite "I'm too well known here in this city". I nearly "hurled" every time I heard that comment. But to be honest if I posted something like "He'll never know, and, I'm here only till Monday morning". Following that up with, "Staying in a downtown, easy access location. I won't know your husband, partner, wife or friends". I even changed the first pic with a pic of me with my shirt off, holding my finger up to my mouth as if it "were a secret", and just cutting off the pic from my mouth on up so I wouldn't be easily identified. That works wonders for me. If they think you won't be around to dish the dirt, they'll respond. Now I agree, there is nothing better than promoting yourself in person. I was never really fond of bathhouses, not until I moved to Florida where I could get triple the action in a single eight hour session. But in places like Philly a good local watering hole worked well with the "after work crowd", followed by and 11 pm to 2 am "stand and model crowd". After that, there was an "after hours club" that had the horniest (and usually hottest) bunch of guys. It just killed me to pay for a guest pass at a bathhouse, and sometimes they would not even offer that, depending on the city I was in. So that' s my take on the current online sites, Sniffies is fine but I am not thrilled with the "hosting in my car" genre, when did that begin? Nastykinkpigs works as well, but call me vanilla I'm not into much of the kink offered on that site. A good gang bang? Sure - count me in. Being blindfolded and pissed on, ah, no thank you.

"Lady Graham" has he was referred to by former press secretary Jen Psaki at the White House, is no one to talk. Now I don't know how many posters are aware of this or maybe I saw it posted here, but Graham is no stranger to hiring male sex workers and those who do gay porn. I reached out to one of those individuals on gmail who worked for Dark Alley videos. He responded saying he was in the process of hiring an attorney, and that several paparazzi types had pics of young men leaving Graham's residence in the early morning hours. Now I have to go through my "sent mail" on gmail, but I did send a follow up email to that porn performer and didn't get a response. He told me he initially was ready to go to the press, that he just wanted some legal representation, and this information was going to be given to the press shortly. I just thought maybe the story had been "squashed" by threats or intimidation, possibly informing these sex workers they could possibly face prostitution charges. I noticed I hadn't seen the porn performers name as of late, don't know if he has left the industry or not. But according to him, Graham in no stranger to hiring these guys and that is was well known within the porn community that this senator could be a possible client. He claimed to have had sex for money with Graham on multiple occasions. I would not have been convinced by one article. But when I emailed the guy from Dark Alley, and he immediately wrote back and confirmed what I had read, I knew there was some truth to the story. I realize this is somewhat off-topic, but again it shows that hypocritical individuals are alive and well in the Senate, at least in regards to their sexuality. Anyone familiar with this story, or heard more about it as of late? Any updated information would be appreciated!

Treasure Island's new video "FRENZY" has an incredible cast, but I enjoyed the first scene the most with Logan Loads. He's being plowed by The Inked Pig and Excel Hung SF. Though they were kind enough to give Logan a bottle of poppers, he was still screaming and basically crying into the camera. Excel Hung SF and The Inked Pig were really fucking the hell out of him, and at one point Logan's eyes actually looked crossed. It was really something to see, no acting here that's for sure. I don't think sex should be painful, maybe Logan just "bit off more than he could chew" so to speak. It's a new flick, I strongly suggest you check it out. The scene I described is one I liked the most as I find Logan Loads to be very hot.

Thank you. Fortunately, I have a very competent infectious disease specialist who acted quickly and had the medication to me within a few days. Since my case was rather advanced, timing was really important. I had to get pre-authorization due to the cost. but after the drug test came back negative (and boy did Quest Diagnostics check for everything) my insurer called me and the specialty pharmacy delivered to my home. I could not be more thankful. Have a great holiday guy!

He can multi-task! Looked like the one photo he was about to take two cocks in his mouth. I am now following him on X (formerly twitter).

"monetize being the operative word"🤭.

I know we have not messaged each other before, but the group situations I merely happened to fall into (no pun intended) and I don't really know how to get back. Could you be so kind to add me to a few groups, please? My handle is "Ellentonboy"

The Philadelphia "Blue Ball" held in January was a circuit event I went to for years because A. I'm from Philly and could stay with my BFF. and B. It was one of the most economical circuit events to go to. The VIP, which included access to the "private lounge" included bathrooms with private stalls and doors that locked. This allowed you to play with people, without committing to leaving the event with them. Sort of a "test run" so to speak. That "uncharge" was next to nothing. I believe the three day event was $175 to $195, something like that. Or maybe that was because I was FWBs with some of the event personnel, I am not sure. Unfortunately, the organizers were arrested for embezzlement, all the proceeds were supposed to go to AIDS charities, not to decorate their condos. A bunch of them went to prison, both state and Federal. Fast forward, the "circuit boys" left (me) and the "do gooders" came in (those who did not, or would not, participate in sex in a public place or enhancements). The event is now nothing what is was like "back in the day", I still proudly have my "dog tags" that allowed me access to the "back rooms", oh excuse me, the VIP room.🤫 God I miss those days. wonton sex, no judgment zones, and non-stop flights from Tampa to Philly. My flight benefitss now make me change planes in Newark, it SUCKS!

@Ellentonboy - same as here.

Hey I did a UPS driver, who was in full uniform, in the parking lot across the street from the Ramrod in broad daylight. This was Lauderdale, like in the month of July. It was hot as hell, like having sex in a tin cup, but I enjoyed every minute of it. I should have asked him why he was drinking Corona's as opposed to making a delivery, but he made a delivery for sure. Just not the kind they leave in front of your door....

My doctor told me almost all sexually active gay men have or get Hep B, there wasn't much to be done about it. However, I got Hep C in 2018 and that scared the hell out of me, my urine was brown, and he had me on Mavyret for twelve weeks, not the normal eight. The medicine had no effects, when I saw the retail cost it blew my mind. Thank God I had no copay, and the way the medication is dispensed makes it easy to remember to take. Now every time I go to have my labs drawn he runs the Hep C numbers, so far it looks like I am undetectable. I am glad I mentioned it to my doctor. I initially thought my urine was that color because of "enhancements" leaving my body, but after awhile the pain was so great when I urinated I finally had to tell him. I am glad I did, Hep C had never crossed my mind. Using Mavyret was so convenient, easy, I'm thankful to be aline and not have to deal with it any longer.

I believe it is. I spent a summer hanging with a guy, around my age, whose number of sexual partners, per day, per week astounded me. In his home, he had a play room and sometimes he and his partner would have maybe 4 to 5 guys over at a time. I met him, randomly, though a mutual friend and he invited me back to his house to meet his partner. This new friend of mine, Johnnie taught me so much about sex being a "numbers game". and he proved it time and time again. Those participants who used to come to his house to play with Johnnie and his partner, would also come over within an hour of his partner going off to work. Johnnie was on unemployment that summer, and had me come over and meet some of these guys who he had sex with 4 to 5 times a week, many of whom were married with children and were unemployed. After finishing with them, we ate a small lunch, and got in his car. He would proceed to head to every book store in the Tampa area. He knew where to get the lunch crowd, he knew where to get the "just left work crowd" and there was one guy who he had a standing 6 pm fuck reservation with at a larger bookstore that had a huge booth in the back where they could get completely naked. There was also an upstairs area, where for a $10 fee, you could take all your clothes off and no one said a word. This upper floor was divided into different movie rooms, showing a variety of porn. I saw my friend going from video room to video room, stark naked with the exception of sneakers. We wore tank tops, shorts and a jock under our shorts so our clothes could come on and off easily. There was a downstairs area that was a maze, where there were dark corners, small areas where two to four guys could fit. In ONE day, he was fucked by 47 different guys. I valued his friendship, he and his partner even set up a room in their house so I could crash there, with a day bed and a private bathroom for me. I never got the impression that his partner resented me, but there were many mornings where I was already at the house and his partner was getting dressed for his ten or twelve hour shift at a hospital. He had to know we didn't sit around all day watching tv. I purchased the two of them a web cam program, and Johnnie got on that and showed me the video-private messages he had received from all the "elite" top guys in Tampa (in other words, those with 9 plus inches). Some would just send a pic of their dick, and that meant for him to head on over. I don't exaggerate the totals of men who went through that house, that play room had a camera set up in it. and they recorded EVERY session, just no sound. I mean I spotted the camera the minute I got there, they had merely put a piece of tape over the red light so people wouldn't notice it. Everything, at that time, was shot onto VHS. Oh, they didn't tape over those videos, not by a long shot. In the play room, behind a wall, were all the videos from over the years, with the dates on them, 100s of them. You could see some guys would actually look directly into the camera, but from the exterior it looked like it was non-functional. My favorite night had to be when I had lost my ignition key, and I was waiting for AAA to make me a copy. A French tourist drove up, looking for Johnnie's house. I just pointed, and said "That's Johnnie's house". While waiting for the AAA guy to finish making my key, we heard something like a crashing noise. Here. the French man had fucked Johnnie so hard his sling came out of the ceiling and the two feel forward. No penis was injured in this accident. They just finished on the floor. I asked him, after one 9 am to say 10 pm day, how many men he had sex with. He was unimpressed with his tally - he modestly said "47". 47 guys in one weekday, like a Tuesday or Wednesday. Johnnie got a job that fall, and I told him I thought we should slow down on the amount of time we spent together. I don't work, I wasn't working then, and I was a bad influence. I didn't want him to lose what was a very good job offer, and hanging out with me can be a distraction and will only deplete your sick leave balance (because you will be calling in and taking the day off, no doubt after listening to me rationalize why that is a good thing). So, do 47 partners in a day, (and that was an "average" day) prove that sexual addiction exists? I think it does. Sure I have read posts from individuals who say there is documentation from certain medical associations who claim "there is no such thing" or "no, it doesn't exist". But I am not here to go back and forth over who may be right. However Johnnie proved to me that sex can be a "numbers game". We are still friends to this day. He has mellowed some, he is still with his partner, but he does now work from home while his partner is still at the hospital. I don't ask personal questions because too much time has passed. He's having a Christmas party this year and I was invited, in the past, they have locked down the "play room" and I am sure that routine will continue. They're something creepy about getting fucked while Santa watches. They are big into Christmas, they have a huge home I don't know how long it must take to decorate but it must take days. Sorry, but I think sexual addiction does exist, some of us are better at controlling our addictions than others.....

I agree with what you are saying. It does depend on the individuals, I have had 40 year old men act like they were in middle school, and I also have enjoyed a recent high school graduate (over 18) who was mature, polite, and there for only one reason, because he wanted to have sex wit me. I do try to take it on a case by case basis, online I am not really the aggressive type, if I see someone in their 20s I don' normally message them. However, if they reach out to me first, and I even bring up the age difference, then I figure it's fair game and if they want to play that 's great. I know of one couple I played with who were 30 years different in age, and I have to say at first I found it a bit creepy. They seemed to be very fond of one another, but once the sex started I just let it happen and both times I have been with them it has been drama free and fairly good sex. So I am going to worry less about the numbers, again I don't hit on the twinkish 20 somethings but if one should be genuinely interested I might decide to go for it.

I have been to Maspalomas, I flew from JFK and changed planes in Barcelona. I was in my 20s and totally alone. Now Maspalomas had beautiful beaches, some top less, some totally nude. My air/hotel package included a breakfast buffet and dinner. What I found lacking was the night life. I ended up meeting a Lybian shop owner with a huge piece of meat who would continue to come to my hotel night after night, so I had my fair share of dick. Here is my question - is Grand Canaria the same as Maspalomas, the area with the beautiful sand dunes you walked across that eventually led to the beach? I am just a little confused if I go back again, where exactly do I decide to stay if I want to fuck around?

I would like someone to state what "old" exactly is? I do get somewhat "upset" when threads involving age pop up. I'll say this.....having sex with an 18 year old is not exactly my idea of a good time. Sure, it does wonders for my fading self-confidence, but in the end I am disgusted with myself. To me it feels rather gross. Now 28 is a different story, that does get my self confidence booming and I do feel like a new man after an encounter like that. I have had guys says "Oh, but fucking a guy your age is great because they have so much experience and they feel so....accommodating. Okay I used the word accommodating because I don't want to repeat what the man said to me. I would like to pose this question to BZ members - at what age is too old? Now I am smart enough to realize that this topic has already been discussed but I would like the 2024 versions. Should there be no more than a certain number of years between the two (or three) guys involved? If. you are in your 40s are guys in their 20s off-limits? If you are in your 50s, should the youngest you sleep with should be in their late 30s. It gets very dicey to me, when I meet someone who is obviously sexually interested. If he asks my age, do I tell him the real number (I mean the REAL number).???? I ask this because I run across guys from say 25 to 35 on a routine basis, and I hear "You look great for your age" or "Man I bet any guy would want to hook up with you". Well, not really. I just don't want to cross the line and sleep with someone who I could have fathered . I obviously am not holding a gun to anyone's head and telling them to get naked, but at some point I just would like to know what is "appropriate" rather than "inappropriate" Feedback, responses, slurs, have at it guys, Curious what BZ members think.....

As long as I don't mention"torrents'" correct? I am just giving you a hard time, our banter on this subject goes WAY back...For the record , between you and I, I have not told anyone how to go about getting a torrents account.