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I happened to place an ad when Craigslist was still offering personal ads. I had great success with that site, and met guys who became repeats and were not from my regular sources like adam4adam, or barebackrt. I received a notice that a guy was interested and when I communicated with him he told me he was 18. Young guys are not my thing, but he said he was really hoping I would give him a chance when I met him and that he had documentation of his age. When he arrived he was at least 6 foot 5 and was a senior at a Catholic High school in Pinellas county where I live. He had his Florida Driver's license and said he was looking for oral and he seemed determined to get it. So I agreed, he was really handsome and polite. I explained to him that I was old enough to be his father and he just laughed. He told me the girls he dated would not blow him, and he said he was so horny and wanted to experience having sex with a guy. He gave me his phone number, actually put it in my phone for me, and told me to stay in touch. He came over in the middle of the school day and had to get back to class. I wanted to die when he made that remark. He stayed in my mind unlike alot of guys I have met, he was great looking, a great body and very nice to deal with. He texted me again, and asked if I would consider letting him fuck me. I said yes, I didn't talk about condoms, but when he arrived he was well prepared with his Magnum Condom and I didn't say no. The experience was nice, he was very nice about everything and I have to say I had a good time. A few weeks went by, and I received a follow up text. This time he had requests. He knew where I lived, he literally could walk through the front door and neighbors could not see what was going on in the living room. He wanted a situation where I was on all fours, and blowing someone. I asked a guy I played with in my apartment complex if he would participate, this guy was I believe 29 at the time and he agreed. Again, this was going to be in the middle of the school day. The 18 year old came over, we were on the couch in the living room, I heard the friend I was blowing say "hey, how you doing" to the kid and I felt him stick his dick in me. NO CONDOM. Now we have never had a conversation about that, and since our first anal encounter, I assumed he would be wearing a Magnum. This time, he wasn't. After he shot his load, he asked to use the bathroom to wash his hands or whatever, I said yes and my regular buddy was looking at me with a funny expression. He said, "he does know your poz correct?" He came back into the living room, said goodbye to my friend still naked on the couch, and hugged me goodbye. I felt so guilty, I didn't know to text him and tell him or just leave it be. This time period, I believe it was 2017, was when Craigslist pulled the plug on their personal ads. I got a new phone, and to be honest I really could not track him down. I am sure he has fucked plenty of guys since me. However, to this day I feel guilty not communicating better, I assumed he would wear a condom but he didn't. I do feel guilty, and today, I always make it clear as to my status. Had he been in his 40s I wouldn't feel as bad, I could justify it in my mind that someone in my age range would know better. But someone who was a senior in high school? I still feel bad.

Agreed! In Orlando I always feel they are looking over their shoulders for a better piece of ass before they blow their load. In Lauderdale, they cum in you, go back to their rooms and just wait to get hard again. If you have a room, you have eight hours, so you can rack up the numbers (loads), so to speak. Most tops spend their entire eight hours in Lauderdale hunting for ass. In Orlando, I get the impression they are more of a "blow and go".

Thank you for asking. I am undetectable and I am compliant to what my doctor tells me to do. That wasn't always the case, but I grew up and decided to take my health seriously.. Just a side note - I was born and raised in Philadelphia, I went to Cardinal Dougherty High School and eventually the University of Pennsylvania. So I am very familiar with West Philly! Feel free to say hello, always nice to talk to someone from my home city.

In 2001 it was between 1 and 2 million, I remember I initially was told I had 52 T cells. When my doctor filled out the disability paperwork my T cells were at 12 on the last lab he submitted to social security. My Dad took me into the Social Security office I believe the last Friday in June of that year, and I had my first full check on August 3 with partial payments for June and July (For the life of me I can't figure out how why they would give me partial payments but I took them). To be honest, I felt fine. But the KS lesions is what helped me qualify so quickly, I was referred to an oncologist immediately and that was the beginning of the journey.

Club Orlando is probably the best (and almost only) quality bathhouse in central and even western Florida. To find anything even close to that place in quality and the various types of guys to hook up with, you would have to travel to Lauderdale. Club Orlando for now, in my opinion, is the best option.

I did that at a place, on more than one occasion, called "Love Shack" in Tampa, Fl. It's in the Drew Park section of town, and the entire second floor had multiple high back movie theaters where you could roam around and decide where you wanted to sit and which videos to watch. It was $10 to get up to the second floor but you could take all your clothes off (Or I least I did), I generally just wore a tank top, shorts, and a jock underneath, as well as boots. You will want to keep your shoes on in this place, trust me' But management never bothered me, or anyone, you could go back downstairs and just flash the stamp on your wrist when you wanted to go back up. This was pre-covid, and no one looked twice if you were naked or sucking dick or whatever, so yeah I liked the variety of videos and different rooms. The parking lot itself was jumping, there was a very hung guy who parked his minivan by the entrance. When you came in or left, he was right there with a big smirk on his face. Obviously everything was BIG on this guy. I hope it is still open and I can get over there again soon.

Try "Doublelist". It's very similar, though now the people that respond to your add will see the email address you use. You might want to create a hotmail account or something that doesn't identify your name to use on this account. I have had sucesss with it...

Philadelphia - it's warmer now, plenty of guys Fort Lauderdale - no explanation needed Palm Springs - it wasn't on the list but worth the flight

When I kissed a girl I didn't get a hard on, in 7th grade I kissed a boy and got an immediate hard on. I tried kidding other girls and it didn't work, by the end of 7th grade I was blowing other 7th grade boys and I got a hard on and I could shoot my load. For me, it was an easy decision....... Never had a doubt,, high school, college and grad scuoll were easy, knew what I wanted.

I am well aware of which video companies prosecute individuals and which do not (Corbin Fisher, Lucas Entertainment are notorious for going after torrents downloaders). A certified, dependable VPN prevents my IP address from being shared, so no, my IP address is not being shared. I don't turn on the VPN unless I use torrents, I use one specific computer and I have had that torrents account since 2005, not about to give it up.

Control others? If there were no moderators this place would be a nightmare. There has to be someone to go to in certains scenarios.

Wow, I Ike it when Mr. Viking 8 X 6, doesn't find me inches across from his verbal corrections. I have been here for a year now and made some major, if bot embarrassing mistakes. Though I may not be his favorite poster Mr. Viking 8X6 has showed me the errors of my ways without making me feel like a dumb ass. Have I been stupid, Sure!! Let's allow the mods to do their jobs because frankly, it is tough for them and they get little compensation (none) for having to keep all of us in line!

This reads to me like a "bottom bashing" thread but I'll take the bait. It's been my experience, and I have been having sex with men for ah, quite a long time, that the size of a guy's dick does not indicate if he WANTS to be a top or a bottom. They make that decision for themselves, and the reasons for their decision are varied. Now, do other gay men make comments to the point that a guy needs to pick a "team"? "Team top" or "Team bottom"? You bet they do! People listen to comments when they are taking their clothes off, and if a guy roles his eyes at a top who isn't big enough, or chuckles, that hits close to home. The same can be said when a guy who identifies as a bottom gets naked and is told his dick is big, and he's questioned. Why isn't he a top? Well, because he doesn't want to. The pressure is felt on guys to conform to a certain criteria or standard and it makes sex less enjoyable. To say that bottoms generally have small or average dicks is incorrect, it's just not true.

@brnbk - quick question. Have you reached out to management of Grindr and asked them why only certain countries are being offered these free kits? I am just curious as to their response, and if they are willing to offer these kits to all their subscribers. I think it's a valid question. You might get them to expand the option to everyone.

For me, it has been a situation where my name and even home phone number was given to the health department, and based on timing, I had an idea as to who it was that said they passed it along to me. But I understand what you are saying, I wouldn't know people's names and phone numbers from a large majority of the guys I hooked up with. I may know their first name, their screen name and what app or site I met them on. Funny, the few times I was called by the health department they never asked me questions about contact. All they wanted my doctor to contact them and let them know he was treating me so that I wouldn't spread any further. For me, I never felt interrogated, the person contacting me almost seemed relieved I was willing to cooperate and that was the end of our interaction. My doctor's office did the rest.

I don't know when you live but I can say in Pinellas and Manatee county, Florida, if your name is given as a sexual contact for someone testing positive for syphilis, you will get a phone call from the health department. I know in Hillsborough county they will put notes under your door and call the house and threaten to come and pick you up if you don't get treatment. I have found that, at least it's been my experience, that the majority of these calls are "false alarms". Since I see a private infectious disease specialist I contact him, make an appointment and his office staff deals with the health department. It's only been once or twice but they are very persistent in this area, and generally nice about it once you tell them you have a private doctor and he'll handle the treatment.

Actually this same video company has filmed a number of flicks in what looks like the basement of an apartment or a place for residents use for storage. No mattress, no bed, no nothing - just the floor. So I guess we are not far off from the laundromat.........(for those who don't have hookups in their apartments-lol).

I mean I always have it agreed upon that I am going to bottom. It's true, I think there are some tops (especially those who identify as being straight, or bi, or whatever) don't realize the time and effort that goes into douching and preparing to bottom. It's like they are oblivious to the whole situation..... So yes, I discuss it, and if the guy is ah, "on the fence", or "I am not sure" then usually it's a no go. I had a situation where it was late on a weekend I was really horny, the guy was not from the US, but I really wanted to meet him and he said he just wanted head. I agreed. Funny, we started doing that and suddenly he changed his mind and wanted to fuck me. Well, I figured he was leaving Florida in a few days and this was going to be my one opportunity to hook up with him. So even though I wasn't expecting it. I agreed to let him fuck me bb. Everything was fine in the end, no issues, but the entire time he was fucking me I was worried, like, what if I am not perfectly clean? I normally don't go online without being prepared anyway, so the basics were done, but still he did change his mind and I was caught off guard. In the end it turned out fine, he got off and I was happy that he was happy. But I shy away from guys who say "Oral Only" in their profile, that's the reason the word "bottom" is clearly stated in my profiles.

I have, in the past, taken the contents of that condom and used it for lube for the next top - so you are right, it has a duel purpose. I also had a very hot guy jack off into a cup (as a birthday present for me) and mail it to me and I then used it for lube, It smelled bad but personally he was so hot, I used ever bit of his cum for lube. I let him watch on the ICU webcam program.

Sir Peter, no doubt.

@BootmanLA - glad to hear you are healing and this didn't manifest into something terrible. I know some people are not fans of antibiotics, but as you said you are almost back to normal and that's what is most important. Take care!

Like you said, we're all different and have various views , especially when it comes to condoms. I respect your opinion, I just know myself and I think of all the hot men I would have missed out on sleeping with because I refused to allow them to wear condoms. For me, I made the right choice to allow them to use one.....

I started in 7th grade at an all boys Catholic school, nothing too serious at first. Senior year of high school I played high school and would hang out in the locker room, which was shared by guys who played all sports. Again, just giving head when no one was around. After graduating the summer before I started college I took some courses at the University I attended and that gave me access to guys who had dorm rooms that were upper classman that were taking summer courses. It was a great way to have privacy, get to bottom and by the time classes started for me officially in the fall I had a number of guys I could count on who would want some head or a piece of ass. High school and college were a blast for me.

@NudistBBBLK - I'll back you up on educating married or straight guys regarding BB sex. It's been my experience that they are well aware of the dangers involved, even if you are undetectable. Depending on what site I met them on, most expect you to have condoms or bring them with them. One of my favorite repeats initially started out with me blowing him, but once he became comfortable he wanted to fuck. I actually had to put the condom on his dick, he had never used one in his married life. Again, I agree with you on Barebackrt, it is useless in some rural areas. Many married guys have never heard of that site, yet everyone knows Grindr. I have made the decision if the guy is hot, and I really want to have sex with him, that little piece of plastic he wants to wear is not going to deter me. Why pass up an opportunity to have sex with an incredibly attractive man who is equally as eager to get naked with you? I have had some of the best sex with these guys and that condom didn't matter. I stopped trying to educate them because frankly, I respect the fact they want to be as safe as possible and I don't want to have them walk out the door.