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My experience with Inn Leather was totally different from the ones described above. I was brought there by a local who would best be described as "pushy". He just kept pushing buttons and eventually somehow got us in. He had no room, no reservation. The place was completely sold out. There were guys with their window blinds open either broadcasting their play or showing off for those walking by. The guy I was with was hot, but incredibly rude and oblivious to things called "rules". It was actually cool that night, he had me walk over to the manager to see if I could offer some kind of sexual service in order to allow us to hang out. I refused to do that, but I did apologize to the manager who seemed to get a kick out of the whole situation. I wasn't asked to leave, the guy I was with decided it was best we go back to the guest house I was staying at and continue fucking there. What amazed me is after he shot his load, he left my room with the door wide open, banging on other doors and trying to wake guys up to have sex. I was mortified. Like the polite guy I sometimes pretend to be, I apologized to the owner in the morning. He told me not to worry about it, he said he slept through the entire fiasco. I know thousands of guys come through there every year but I'm reluctant to go back, I wonder if they have a "banned" list somewhere with my name on it.

This guy produces some of the hottest Onlyfans content out there. He uses a camera man which allow him and his fellow models full range and not have to worry about holding a damn iPhone or camera. He's now doing vers roles which has surprised me but his fellow performers are always incredibly hot.

Just to follow up with what BootmanLA mentions regarding Big Pharma and the cost of medication, I looked at my E.O.B from Wellcare and my two medications total over $5,300 a month. I am fortunate that I have no out of pocket expense for any of my scripts, but my situation is unique. Not everyone has the kind of financial assistance I have been afforded and I would not want BZ posters to feel that becoming POZ automatically qualifies you for free medication and health care, because it doesn't. It's been a long journey to get to where I am today, but I wonder about those who follow me, and will they be as fortunate. Becareful what you wish for.......or chase.

I don't know if I would call it a "fetish" of mine, but I had a guy come to my apartment in the middle of the day, around lunch time, and fuck me without removing his clothes, just unzipping his pants. Since I live in Florida I assumed he worked for a bank because I could not imagine any other business where I see guys in suits and ties, except a courthouse. His English was limited, he just unzipped his pants, I blew him for a while till he got hard and he just shoved it in me and blew his load. He was very careful when pulling out, asked if he could use my bathroom and I noticed later he has used a washcloth and towel. He was polite and thanked me in English. I was happy that a week or two later I got a message from him, this time there was only a photo of his dick, and he asked if he could come by again. I quickly agreed and we did the same thing as I just described. He said something to the effect "you are not from around here, are you", and I told him I had just moved to the area. Damn I miss Craigslist because I have not been able to find him again. He was hot, he looked like that baseball player Jennifer Lopez used to date and when I mentioned that to him he smiled. Apparently other people had told him the same thing....

I thought xxx was something my Grandmother or spinster Aunt Joan put in my birthday or Christmas cards along with their checks. Guys actually do this on apps or hook up sites?????? I have been online a long time and never had anyone do that to me, I guess I don't come across as "affectionate" - lol.

Once they reach a budget for the upcoming fiscal year, I hope some nut job like Matt Gaetz or Marjorie Taylor Green get pissed off and try to remove him because frankly, he is as about as dangerous as they come. I don't think he will last to be honest but I know little about politics, or government for that matter. That is sad because they either employed me or supported me my entire life, I'm not bragging here just being honest. It's amazing to realize that considering the amount of money they have deposited into my checking account over the years.......

I am sorry to hear you had to leave your home. I can't imagine having to give up my place for the reasons you mentioned. I've read California has the highest number of homeless people. I hope Las Vegas treats you better...

I had problems with homeless individuals who would actually block the entrance to shops and places to eat. I was ordering dinner at a very nice place, when suddenly the waiter excused himself to chase a homeless man out of the restaurant. That's incredibly sad. But here is my gripe. I rented a very nice hotel room that was gay friendly. If I had guys over during the day there was no problem. but after 10 pm they locked the doors and I would have to go down to the lobby and let them in. I don't give a damn if the front desk clerk knows I am a ho, funny one trick actually knew the guy behind the front desk. What is aggravating is that many locals won't come out to a hotel or motel because they know they will have to deal with the homeless. My heart breaks for these individuals but I can't give everyone of them a dollar. So I spent a good bit of money on Lyft because many guys wanted to host, they didn't want to come out at night because they felt it was dangerous. Did they care if I was mugged? No. But I was looking to get laid. What is sad is I first started going to San Fran for sexvacations in the late 90s, I would see the homeless sleeping in the entry of some shops. Move ahead to 2007 and they were visible, but they did not cramp my style. 2018 it became obvious there was a problem. I always stay at the same motel, it's a few blocks from the Castro and I get alot of action, especially during the day. I'll continue to go there until the situation prevents me from actually having guests in my room. I love San Fran. The men are more direct, there is not a "back and forth" like in Los Angeles (nothing against guys from L.A. but it is tough to get around and I find them indecisive). I'll continue to go to San Fran until I either am robbed, or can no longer hook up without jumping through hoops. I want the old San Fran back where I can hop online and play with multiple guys in one day and not have to worry about a homeless guy badgering my potential trick!

I believe that tops care, just as bottoms care, if they know other people are aware as to who they are playing with. But when you get behind closed doors, no one is watching or aware, it's a much different story. A bathhouse is as bad as sorority house. People watching who goes in and out of your room. But running into these guys going in or out of a bar, bookstore or even a bathhouse can be a much different story. A chance encounter resulting in you hooking up, without others knowing, can lead to long term FWBs, and incredible sex. Like other posters have mentioned, they may have initially been rejected, or even told "they could never be friends". Well that's fine, because in the end that same guy is continuing to text or call you for a piece of ass. In the end, that's what matters.

I have often wondered if there is a cap on how much coverage Medicare will give to an individual. What about someone who went on disability at the age of 30? They could live another 40 to 50, even 60 years. Can recipients be cut off at a certain dollar figure? I ask because I know of individuals who surpassed $1 million dollars in benefits from United Health Care and were told that they no longer had benefits after reaching that dollar amount. I understand this is probably not the right thread but this thought often goes through my mind, I also worry about the 20 percent that Medicaid picks up in my state. At some point, can an individual be cut off? Can the Federal government or a state say "Enough is enough, no more assistance for you?". I just know if I ever hit the lottery I need to find a trusted friend to cash in my ticket because after they finish running my social security number I would get zilch, nada, nothing.

I just recall being asked to bring homework to my best friend in 6th grade by a nun at my Catholic school. His parents were at work, we were sitting at the dining room table. He got under the table, crawled over on his knees and unzipped my pants. I honestly was not expecting this. He started to blow me and suddenly I shot my load in his mouth. Neither one of us knew what had happened, he thought I had pissed in his mouth and he went running into the kitchen and spit it out in the sink. I swear I didn't know what had happened, but I was never asked to bring homework to Kevin again.🤫

I have visited Asheville as well. It has a fair amount of openly gay men living there, I haven't heard any rumblings of them experiencing anti-gay rhetoric from the four I know who have moved there. From what I understand, it's been an accepting place for gays for a number of years. Will that change, I am not sure. I got a "hippy" feeling from my stay, no one really staring or noticing four or six gay men having dinner together. Everything seemed fine. My time in Buford was very nice. There is the beach area, as well as a downtown area that is very nice as well. Much pricier than Asheville, but you have to factor in it's proximity to the ocean. One interesting note, I had made one inquiry into maybe renting a place for a year, rent not buy. Since that time, I have received multiple texts, voicemails and emails from Realtors trying to sell me $650,000 homes. Not happening with me, lol, but it's quickly growing. I just hope "word" doesn't spread to the point it is overrun with wealthy people who buy up everything and ruin the place. I understand what you are saying about starting over somewhere new, I am looking maybe five years from now. However, it's been nice to have other locations to consider.

Just don't decide on Florida. I have lived here long enough to know that it's not the state is was even ten years ago. Home owners insurance (if you can get it) has skyrocketed. If you are an American and want to stay in the states, why not consider the Buford, South Carolina area? Mild winters, beautiful beaches, resort style living. Sure, you'll have some cold nights in the summer, and there is a strong Republican presence in the state and local government. However, if you check out the physical beauty and small town charm that area of South Carolina might be to your liking. No, your choice of Doublelist playmates might not be up to the standards of some other areas, but there will be enough, more subdued gay life to enjoy. I may make a change if things continue to decline in the Sunshine state as they say....

How did I know that YOU would know his name.......very impressive sir!

I am so sorry I missed this when it was first posted. I loved the "Used Sex to Get Something (upgrade, etc.......)". Who else flies Delta 🤫?

Okay, so what constitutes "older"? 40? 50? 60? I find these kinds of threads incredibly entertaining because at one point in my life 30 was considered "over the hill". You were done, the party was over. Boy was I wrong. I don't get irritated, I laugh, when I read some posts or overhear guys saying "oh, I would never hook up with him, he's in his 40s". It's not as prevalent here on BZ, but other hook up sites and apps guys make up these kind of remarks all the time. I just sit back and say to myself "Just you wait......". Because time marches on and before you know it there is a face staring you back in the mirror that isn't 25 anymore, and that person still wants to have sex, for MANY years to come. Time marches on gentleman, never say never!

My Infectious Disease Specialist is going to be my next stop. Even though he did not make the suggestion to get the vaccine, it was the specialist who did my last procedure, he has been good at pointing me in the right direction in the past for other issues I have had. I am going to ask him first. If not I will head back to the specialist and find out where they think I can get it. You would think they would know about the rule restricting those over age 45, considering they made the recommendation, and colo-rectal is their speciality. Thank you for your input....

I will repost this question so it's not lost in the thread, I do appreciate what fellow posters have mentioned it has helped. Thanks again to @rawfuckr So - is anyone aware of a retail pharmacy that will give you the HPV vaccine if you are over 45. Walgreens has said no, which I explained above. With that in mind, I am willing to pay out of pocket, does anyone know where I might be able to get it? The doctor dealing with my situation only mentioned getting vaccinated last week, and my problem has been reoccurring since 2021, and frankly, I am over it. She didn't bother to tell me where to go, she might not have been aware of the corporate policy of Walgreens. Anyone have information? Thanks again......

That did help, and thank you. For the record, I was at Walgreens this weekend and was denied access to the vaccine. The pharmacist was very nice, but he said Walgreens had a corporate policy that would not allow him to give it to me because I was past 45. I thanked him, and then yesterday I spoke with a representative from Walgreens corporate office, again being denied. I did mention paying for it "out of pocket" and I was still told "no". I have excellent insurance, so I am going back to the Infectious Disease Specialist to see who else might be willing to administer the vaccine. I don't mind paying for it, and I live in an area where there are many types of health providers. Is there anyone who may have been fortunate enough to find a retail outlet that would give the vaccine to someone who is 45 plus? Thanks for your post - it has given me some hope.

Okay, I spent a week in Maspalomas. I flew from JFK Airport, stopped in Barcelona. and finally ended up in Maspalomas. I had an awesome time. Being the only DUMB American, all the locals were more then willing to translate and had no problem doing DICKtation. So I digress, the hotel was considered the best, as the King of Spain often stayed there. I don't know about fellow posters, but I am 6'3" and my legs literally hanged over the end of the bed the first night. The hotel rate included both breakfast and dinner and the fact that I wanted to eat at 5 pm made the waiters giggle. That's okay, because I think I hooked up with at least three of them and they were not "giggling" when I told them I wanted then to put their big uncut dicks up my ass, and NO, I did not have any condoms. Sorry, if you show up unprepared then you don't get a piece of ass, right? I was not positive at that time so they had nothing to worry about but I doubt they left my hotel room with a feeling like "oh sure, that dumb American blonde told the truth". Well I did, because, like I said I was negative at that time. My best part about going to Maspalomas was I met a shop owner from Lybia. He did not understand what the word "Highlights" meant and thought my hair was naturally blond. It's okay, he still fucked me, over and over. I asked him if he disliked Americans and he said "absolutely not", I often asked him when his dick was in me. He told me "I made him laugh".........I wasn't sure if it was the fact I only spoke English or the fact I believed he was not involved in the 9/11 attack, but I did ask him that. For all you tops out there, can you imagine fucking some bottom and he asks "did you bring down skyscrapers in New York"? I did ask him that, and he continued to come back to my hotel to find me, much to the delight of the women working the front desk. I could tell they found it amusing, at best. Maspalomas has incredible beaches, nude beaches, and plenty of dick to go around. I did a group charter out of NYC that included my airfare, hotel and breakfast/dinner. If you are an American the only place you might feel more secure is the UK, but Maspalomas is very safe and I had no issues. Trust me, it is very obvious I am an American or a Westerner and no one gave me any shit. If you have the opportunity, GO!

Anywhere, but not in my eyes I hate to tell the sales associate at Lenscrafters that I need a new pair of reading glasses because some dude missed the desired spot by quite a long distance. I am 6'3", if you can't aim for my hole it is a very LONG way to my face. I value my eyes, people tell me they like them. They are Hazel, at least according to the Florida Department of Motor Vehicles. I'll take Hazel or Green, but they are not Blue or Brown. Please don't short your load in them, I value them, They are one of my best attributes....

Does anyone know the current status of former TIM performer Austin Shadows? I have read he moved to both Atlanta and Lauderdale, no longer does porn nor escort, but enjoys the company of his grandchildren. Can anyone give me a recent update as I have read through the threads and I am not sure what to think 🤔..

I don't know him but I think his dick weighs more than the rest of his entire body. If I had crossed paths with him his name would still be in my contacts list on my iPhone. Unfortunately it's not but if I do come across him I'll take a pic and forward it to you....😜

I look at it from this view. Would I be here, having sex with a particular person, if I was not being paid? If I say no, then that is sex work. The guy could be very nice, attractive, but if cash is being put into my hand after we got dressed, then I am escorting. If I put myself in the situation where I have placed an ad, or worked for an agency, and then showed up and received cash in exchange for my time - that's sex work. I may have a career outside of that, which is my primary source of income. It doesn't matter if I enjoyed the experience, if we did just a little more than "talk", or if I would see him for "free" in the future, if I am compensated financially for agreeing to meet with him the first time, that is escorting. I have to laugh when guys say. "Oh, I wasn't being paid for sex, I was being paid for my time". Really, $150 or $350 depending on where you live. Are you a licensed mental health counselor? Do you accept Medicare of health insurance. NO YOU DON'T! You want cash. Or you want the agency you work for to compensate you the minute you go back to them and ask for your percentage from what the client was charged on his credit card. Guys can "spin" this anyway they want. You can deny the term "sex worker" or "escort" because you feel you are being stigmatized or marginalized. But in the end buddy, you are still accepting cash in exchange for sexual favors and that is........... Okay, I think I made my point.

I am originally from Philadelphia. It was great to have options in which one to go to, it will be sad to see one of them close. It was always nice to know I had a place to crash after getting off a plane from Florida. That news makes me sad.