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I contracted MRSA in my right big toe. Initially, I never knew I had it. I had tripped over a desk chair in the dark and thought I had just cracked the toe nail. But the toe nail never healed. I went to my infectious disease specialist and he had me in a podiatrist office the next day. Apparently had I waited longer the result would have been a nightmare. The podiatrist was incredible, he threatened the company that provides my meds (WellCare is their name) with a lawsuit if they did not give me the medication in pill form. He told them I was within days of losing my foot. If he had not, I would have had to do an intravenous drip for I don't know how long to get better, and there was no guarantee the drip would work in time. I remember riding home with a friend from Walgreens and I looked at the cost for a month of the medication (and I am sorry I can't remember the name) was something like $3,300, and this was back around 2010. But this is the important part of my post. The podiatrist told me MRSE was everywhere, in a gym shower, on pool surfaces, even "jungle gym" surfaces. He asked me had I traveled out of the country, and how often, did I walk around the resort without shoes, all of which I answered yes. MRSA seems to like wet, warm areas, at least he thought that was how I came into contact with it. He told me he had two kids, like in the 8 to 12 age range, and that their pediatrician informed him that even gym equipment in expensive private schools, their locker rooms, can have MRSA. I wouldn't even have mentioned it to my primary care physician but I was planning to travel again, be around a pool, and I didn't want people to see my horrible toe. Glad I am a vain individual, I can't imagine losing a foot. So for those of you who have read @highcountrybb post he is not kidding, the smallest cut can become gruesome, and if you think you have been exposed to MRSA call your doctor ASAP.
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I don't care what others think, I go with science. I am not going to die, or be disfigured, or harmed in any way. The same go with Hepatitis A, though it may be somewhat different. If you guys want to get infected, go ahead! Be my guest! But WATCH THE POLITICAL LANDSCAPE, because many of those elected may not give a DAMN about you and you may die a slow and agonizing death, because they will brainwash their followers to deny you medical benefits that, in the past, you would have assumed you would have received. THINK ABOUT IT GUYS! I am not trying to deny ANYONE their right to sexual freedom, but PLEASE think about it, because I would not want to be in a situation because, baby, it is not going to be pretty.
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I have to admit, in all honesty, I am scared. When I first arrived here I did not think much about politics, yet I was a Federal employee. I have been a Federal employee all my working life. I never thought about Republicans and Democrats, I NEVER THOUGHT PERIOD. See, that is the problem, someone in their 20a who does not care much, does not understand how their lack of involvement can shape the results of what might come for all gay people in the future. I am not preaching, I know some posters may think I am not speaking for the majority. But am I am scared? HELL YES, and do I know what will happen in 2024, I don't know. I am willing to be screamed at by veteran posters, I am educated yet stupid. But DeSantis and the rest of them scare the hell out of me and I am willing to admit to that..... So, with that being said, anyone have any suggestions regarding my lack of involvement? Frankly, I am damn embarrassed. I should know better....
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What do you do when tops want to fuck with condoms?
ellentonboy replied to Bttml00king's topic in General Discussion
I don’t often say no because I would not have agreed to hook up if i did not think he was hot. Why pass up a sure thing from a guy you find attractive just because of some condom you probably won’t feel. I am sure I am in the minority on this subject but that’s just the way I feel. -
Let's just say we are looking to move to a "blue" state but neither my partner nor myself are old enough to retire and I am at a loss as to where to move to. Any suggestions>?
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JustForFans or OnlyFriends? Favorite Guys?
ellentonboy replied to Prairiefire's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Hey I live in south saint Pete on Pinellas Park Drive, not far from the beach. I should check out your pics! -
JustForFans or OnlyFriends? Favorite Guys?
ellentonboy replied to Prairiefire's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
1. Sir Peter - top 2. Andy Starr - bottom -
Sorry guys about the location I posted of Mr. S. Leather, it's been awhile since I have been in San Francisco, so my location was off. But that store is huge, you can find them online, and they do have great customer service. Either by mail or in person. I could spend hours in their store just looking at the different and usual items they have for sale. And yes, the sales associates are very hot
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Try Mr. S Leather. You can find them online, and they have their own store in the Castro Area of San Fran. I bought as much gear as I could afford during the pandemic, they even sold masks before they were readily available, but that store has all kinds of masks, leather included. I wish had a link (or knew how to do that) but I get about two emails a week from them and they are always selling leather items, masks included. So it's Mr. S. Leather, out of San Fran
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I have been wearing jockstraps constantly since 2001. I was given one at a sex party and never looked back. I wish I had all my money back from some of these online stores that sell them, but I agree with the other poster about washing. If you put it in with your regular clothes, eventually they will soften up, begin to stretch and the texture will soften. Depending on how well they are made, some will come apart and I have few that actually say "hand wash only". But that's me, when it comes to jock straps, they go along with sex (or me, as is the case). I have become so obsessive with my "favorite jocks" that I actually wash them all in cold water and then hang them up to dry in my bathroom, or better yet, lay them on a towel on a piece of old furniture to dry naturally. This way they don't stretch and keep their shape, yet age nicely. Now they may take several days to dry, and if you have the cable guy, the insecticide guy or anyone else "not sexually involved" you may want to put them out of sight, but I value my jocks and they often bring back great memories. You should see me in the laundry room where I live, they don't offer washer/dryer hookups so there are another 250 apartments sharing about 24 machines. I wrap them in a special laundry bag and stand guard as I wash them in their own machine, all together, like a sex party. Then I take them out of the machine and run back to the apartment. Okay, that is probably more than the OP wanted or needed to know but when it comes to jocks, to me, they are an extension of my body and I have actually given them as gifts to some of my hottest tricks (thus, already worn) and even ordered one for a friend's birthday (he wanted mine, but I was not giving that one up). Anyway, I hope my "care" of jocks helped you.
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I agree with another poster who said they should pay you for keeping their customers happy, and spending money. The longer you are in that bookstore, the more money they make. I hope you aren't banned, sometimes these managers have a very short memory, or you go in at a time when he's not working. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I got kicked out of several bars for A. Taking my shirt off or B. Using "enhancements" in the bathroom. Both times I had to apologize to the owners. It's ironic because I have seen them both do the exact same thing. I am sure eventually they will let you back in. I hope you texted your bf from the car to let him know you were sitting there - that sucks to be alone while he's having fun.
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Future of porn (and this site) is really uncertain right now…
ellentonboy replied to rawTOP's topic in LGBT Politics
I knew this was coming but I wanted to ask since I noticed one poster has a LA location - does a VPN prevent this from happening? Correction: I didn't read the entire thread, I see VPN's can help should this nightmare continue. Sorry for being both lazy and stupid. -
It's just a job, so why not? Who's to say that a non-porn performer would make a better partner? Here's one thought: You know what he's doing at work, think of it that way! If he's having sex for a living on film, he's probably escorting as well though I don't have proof of that. I have seen guys do interviews who do porn, escort on the side, and have mentioned how much they appreciate their partners for bringing normalcy to their lives (this was a Lucas Entertainment "audition" interview, not everyone's favorite porn producer these days but the models (?) seemed sincere). But this is the way I look at it. If he's nailing guys, and I sincerely doubt it is 9 to 5, Monday through Friday, he'll be happy to go out to dinner with someone who cares about more that what is between his legs (though I am sure we all do) and actually TALK. Wouldn't it be nice to come home to someone who wants to have dinner and sit on the couch and watch Netflix, or HBO, or sports! I think having someone "outside the business" probably would help keep them grounded and in the end, appreciate you more. Now of course every individual is different, but I see no problem with it.
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Is the author of that post still active on this Forum? I see someone mentioned it was written five years ago so,,,,,,you never know.
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I didn't invalidate anything you said nor am I clueless as to what black men experience. Don't flatter yourself.....you have no clue as to the life I have lead and the people I have had relationships with. I am not clueless, so forget it. Btw, if you look back at the beginning of the thread, I am the original poster. I was the one who posted the question to the Forum. But I am finished going back and forth with you, you are entitled to your opinion as I am. Have a happy life....
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Well, I am sorry you feel that way. I find it interesting that if you read through this entire thread, I would say the majority of forum members do not have issues with race. I understand your experiences have been different.....that is a shame.
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I really take issue with a lot that is said with this posting. Sure, many white men are not interested in having sex with black men. No question about that. But I think this post takes it a bit far with "they won't hire black people, support their businesses or agenda, follow them in stores" etc. Where, exactly, is the data on that, or what caused you to form that opinion? It has been a very long time since I have seen the words "no blacks" in an online profile, I wouldn't be surprised if complaints might force that profile to be removed or edited. Personally I don't waste anyone's time, just like I would expect them to show me the same respect. Your final sentence "it's an ingrained white supremacist belief system" is just that, it's the belief system of white supremacists, not the majority of white gay men.
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Am I the only one who likes Grandpa Porn?
ellentonboy replied to a topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I always associated Silver Daddies as a a site where guys interested in meeting either younger or more mature men hooked up. It wasn't till I looked again did I see they had an area where you could purchase videos. The guy I met in San Fran made it sound as if it were a studio he worked for, he was huge but certainly no more than 40ish. I wish I had still had his info because I would ask for more details..... -
Great photos, thanks for the share. Looks like you had a great time, good for you....
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When one of your favourite studs passes, How do you react
ellentonboy replied to a topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
No, not normally. However, I can't remember how far back there was a photo of a guy who has done porn here in the US and I believe he died as the result of a home invasion in Baltimore. I could have the city wrong but was here in the US, which is why I mentioned it. It seemed rather unusual to me, but I guess it depends on where you live. -
Am I the only one who likes Grandpa Porn?
ellentonboy replied to a topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I know a few years ago, there was a site specifically targeted or meant for guys who like older men. I am talking 60 plus. I happen to hook up, in San Francisco, with the top who fucked alot of these old men. I would say the top was probably mid to late 40s, but the bottoms (from what he showed me) definitely qualified as older. If you search, it's out there..... -
yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss. When I hear what sounds like an s at the end of a word or sentence it is time to move on......
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A quick "How you doing" works for me. Generally they don't have too much to say. Favorite hook ups - when they don't speak English. Has happened to me in South Florida and Spain a number of times and it went fine.
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What Is Your Current Hiv Status? (Poll)
ellentonboy replied to a topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I would love getting fucked by grad school before I begin getting fucked on a reliable basis for law school
